PETER YARROW TRIBUTES
Oh dear Peter -
The last time we saw you was in June of this year and your parting words to me were “Please keep in touch, I want to be there for you in this challenging time”. I reached out to share the news that Mike and I are both employed now and when I didn’t hear back from you, I knew something was not as it should be. I learned that you were home from the hospital but very weak. Today, Bethany’s email offering an opportunity to send a living tribute hit me hard as there is no way to sum up the impact you’ve had on my life but I will try to bring some highlights here.
Last week, I was showing Noah, now almost 14, a photo of himself at age 2 with Pete Seeger at my alma matter when Pete came to do a talk with song shortly after Toshi passed away. Noah has no recollection of this meeting. I am grateful to say that Noah has many memories of you, dear Peter, and he is at an age where those memories will stay with him.
When you invited me to come and work with Operation Respect, I went and spoke with the principal of the school I was teaching in and explained that I needed to leave my position as working with the DLAM program was a once in a lifetime opportunity. She understood and jokingly said “but he has to come sing for the kids first”. I relayed that message and within a couple of days, you were in a taxi on your way up to the Bronx to sing for/with a handful of the classes that I had already started introducing the DLAM curriculum to. This was a classic Peter. Someone, somewhere has a need and you do what you can to help. Over the years, the work of Operation Respect has remained dear to my heart but dearer is the truly remarkable man I got to know. Seeing you over the years has kept some part of my inner need to know things were really going to be okay, alive. The hope was ignited each time. Not only personal hope but hope for our communities, our country and the world. Each time, a reminder that there are people like you, the very best humanity has to offer, who live being lead by their heart and making the connections that need to be made to make change happen!
Fast forward to March of 2020 and the world came to “the great pause”. We didn’t know which end was up or where we were going. Your zoom calls, where we all talked and sang together, had more of an impact on my family than you could ever know. My mom joined in from Massachusetts and we joined in from Connecticut as we were not gathering together in person in those early days because we didn’t want to risk doing anything that could risk my octogenarian mother’s life. Those zooms kept our spirits up and gave us hope that despite all else, we would all be okay and carry on as the sweet survivors we are!
Just last week, Noah’s music teacher reached out to say that the class is going to transition from orchestra to guitar classes as "the 8th grade class curriculum delves into the rich heritage of The American Civil Rights Era. This shift in musical focus will allow students to study, play and sing songs that embody the spirit of this pivotal time in our history, fostering both musical growth and cultural understanding.” She went on to say that what they have planned is “historically significant and thought provoking music of Pete Seeger, Wood Guthrie and more”. Noah and I talked about your role in The Civil Rights Movement. Noah grew up with your presence in his life and understands how remarkable you are in the bigger picture, far more than just the man who called himself “Uncle Peter” when Noah was a younger boy. The first thing I thought of when I got the email from Noah’s teacher was - I know that if Peter was well and I asked, he would hop in a car and share with Noah’s class his first hand experiences with what they are studying and sing with them, just like he hopped in that taxi to sing in the Bronx.
My mother wrote a “Letter to The Editor” last month, they accepted it and held it until after the election. In the letter, she talked about how we need to come together and heal and not live in the divide. She introduced people to Braver Angels and provided a link to their site. This was another part of our lives that came thru you; my mom is involved with Braver Angels as a result of your sharing about the work you were doing with them and introducing us to them.
With that, I want to thank you for being the shining star that you have been in my life and my family’s life! We are grateful for you and all the better for the connection to you!
With much love and admiration,
Tahri (Gang)
Peter - it’s jaimee king, Linda Carroll Barraud’s daughter.
I just want to thank you for all you’ve been to our family - to this world.
I don’t know if you recall the story, but long before we met you personally, I took my little boy to your concert at a park in San Francisco. You had all the kids come to the stage, and just as you started to play, the most horrible screeching of static occurred. To my horror, I loved and saw my 2year old holding both ends to the amp cord that he’d yanked out with delight making that awful noise. I was mortified and ran up to grab him, and you just smiled, plugged the amp back in, and went back to it. In inconsequential event, but a core memory.
And now, we have more. You playing music with your lovely children at the ranch and at mom’s house - you playing for mom at her birthday party this year by zoom. You show up so completely. You’re a gift to our world, a gift to my family - thank you for everything.
Much love,
Jaimee King
We have all been so very blessed to have Peter in all of our lives for so many years. We have unforgettable happy memories of love, music, laughter, joy, shared meals, and deeply meaningful shared passions and hopefulness, even during challenging times. We saw the deep fatherly love and pride he felt for Bethany & Christopher during visits and performances at Rancho La Puerta. His deep love and compassion extended to all of us who were so honored to be included in his circle of friends, that became an integral part of his extended family. Peter & Puff have a shared magical dragon spirit that can never be extinguished, and will always have a warmly embraced presence in our hearts, that we will cherish and pass on to future generations. Godspeed our beloved dragons, Peter & Puff, our love will always be with you, accompanying you on your heavenly journeys.
- Joseph, Nancy, Danielle, Jeremy, Lizzy, Courie, Indy, Ridley, & Ayla Weiss
I saw the photo of you singing to my brother in his hospital bed with a circle of family and friends around you. I was devastated that I had not been there been there.
And Lo And Behold a year after my brother’s death, I was singing Puff the Magic Dragon with you, at Alex’s gravesite in 2003 for my brother’s yartzeit.
This memory added to so many others shines with your love and generosity. Your remarkable way of engaging moments of sorrow and turning them towards strength, towards unity, celebration and tenderness, in the spirit of we shall overcome. You walk into the grieving Spaces after a school shooting and create healing magic You dare to bring that twinkle in your eyes and face down monstrosities.
Of all the times that I have sung your songs through the years and all the ways your songs have carried me since I learned to play the guitar when I was 12 years old, my favorite memory is singing all the songs in Peter, Paul, and Mommy over and over again with Emily when she was four or five years old and we were driving back-and-forth to the ranch from our cabin in the mountains. The time would fly by. In these last days and hours I pray that your soul travels well, knowing that you will be remembered with great love and that your songs will continue to flow through us in sorrow and in joy. Dearest Peter, thank you for being in my life.
- Sarah Brightwood
Peter
I am tiny, maybe 4, twirling around singing along with you, Paul and Mary. I love you.
I learn so much through the songs that you sing. You hold my tiny hand, and shape my voice, values and heart— even as we had not yet met.
My high school and college years at University of Oregon: I sing your songs to myself through moments of my life. Scary, hard, beautiful, resolved. Your voice and mine are merged.
I sing your songs to my babies. They learn about beauty and pain and their job as healthy citizens of this planet and stewards of the earth. Your voice still finds me, I am a young adult. Your words still teach me and help me become more courageous and stay kind.
I am sitting with you at the ranch. We sing together. My heart is home and filled with joy. We are in the same room. We are at the same table. We share food and words. You have become a dear, dear family friend. You are every bit as magical as my tiny self imagined— and more— and I love you— more.
I am at Sundance film festival with you. You bring me places with you. I talk about bullying prevention. You teach me even more. You feed me. You teach me new things. We see other artists and You show impeccable respect. You take me to my first Jewish experience. You are generous and kind and consistently humane. You are also very funny and fun.
You show up. You sing. You get the room laughing. After such an event at our la jolla home, people write me thank you’s for weeks. It is all you. You bring people to the center of our hearts, remind us of our souls, and flood the spaces that you are in with love. People write me, “it was a spiritual experience to be with you and Peter and everyone in that room.” People remember that they are each sacred around you— that we are each sacred.
You are my hero, my heartbeat and my beloved friend. I hold hands with you at the edge of a field of wildflowers, and I breathe us both. You are held as you have held. Your footsteps continue. I hear you around corners, in guitars, in record players, streaming, and in bubbling creeks in the mountain towns.
I love you forever and I am more me because I have had the privilege of being here with you.
I hear you in the children in the yard next door, they sing, “five, ten, fifteen, twenty…”
I love you, Peter Yarrow, my Uncle Peter. I am hugging and kissing you right now, feeling your goodness lift this world. We are better beings because you've been one of us. You have done so very well. So very, very well by all of us. A champion of humanity indeed.
Forever yours,
Nicole Jon Sievers
You were kind, generous, and professional when we first met at your guest artist spot at The Flagpole Radio Cafe show in Newtown, CT.
Two years later, when our lives and hearts were torn apart and we were so deep underwater in grief and sadness, you were selfless in your love and care for us. You came to our home and cried with us, held us, and sang with us. You kept us in your mind and heart in the years that followed and we are honored and so grateful to have had that time with you and your many healing gifts and those of your family. Your dedication to those who need help and a voice lifted in song is unparalleled and one of the greatest gifts the universe has given us is to have had you by our side when we could not stand. Thank you for everything, Peter, we love you very much.
—David and Francine Wheeler
Peter, you are my treasured partner in crime in all things Nantucket – whether at Harris Wofford's wedding on the beach where you played so magnificently, or at our home in Sconset where you graced us for several years as our most accomplished and fun and musically gifted chef and house guest. The concerts there which you always welcomed enthusiastically transported so many lucky Nantucket friends who talk about them all the time and wonder when are we doing another with the fabulous Peter Yarrow. Best of all among so many memories is the time you sang for our supper literally – on the docks with the astounded and thrilled fisherman family, which talks about you to this day– you sang the whole of Puff and we were given about 15 huge freshly caught bluefish fillets and you kindly sat for hours in our kitchen and made them into a gigantic bowl of fabulous bluefish salad which we shared widely! I play your music all the time and you are with me so often therefore. Love you love love love love love you, my dearest dragon friend for so many decades. Thank you for the incredible joy you've brought to me and to so many lucky people on this planet. Your music always has the ability to make me float and laugh and smile and it always will. Love you to bits and pieces, dearest friend Peter,
Elizabeth Vale
Peter you are a deeply dear and beloved friend to me and my family. I’ll never forget the first time I met you. I was around 20 years old, and I was a bit nervous. You had become friends with my parents who spoke adoringly of time spent together, but still I knew you from having grown up with your music, and I knew you as a famous and brilliant musician and activist. I’ll never forget how you immediately disarmed me with an abundant and playful generosity of spirit. You extended to me the most welcoming open-heartedness, and you took my hand and spun me around while singing my name in an intentionally goofy voice. My nerves disappeared and to me, you were family.
Over the years, I’ve come to understand that this moment was essentially you. You have an absolutely extraordinary capacity for loving kindness, and you bring this out in other people. Your inner child greets the inner child of another. We often go through the world distancing ourselves from others, and both expecting and creating exclusion. To know you is to experience the gift and the power of inclusion, and to be inspired to share that with others.
I’ve been in awe of how your intent and practice are to expand your circle of love. As I think back on the amazing times spent with you, and with Bethany and Valentina, and with my parents and brothers and my niece and nephew… talking, listening, singing, laughing, supporting each other, being together … and the many wonderful concerts, and your touching work to prevent bullying and the countless impactful events you performed at to support good causes and good friends and to stand up for those who need it…. I can see it all framed this way. We have been so incredibly lucky to gather together in a circle of love, in your circle of love. I am so deeply grateful to you.
The circle of love is ever expanding. It has become a transformative force of its own. You are forever the source of its profound radiance.
Peter- thank you for your presence, your heart, your friendship, your music, your love, and for showing all of us the way to each other.
-Jordanna Polis Schutz
Peter, You have touched and influenced my life since I was 11 years old. I could play guitar back then (1964) and I tried to emulate all of your wonderful finger-picking guitar passages. In that same year I had my first paying gig, playing; Blowing in the Wind, If I had a Hammer, etc. I was paid five bucks which felt like a fortune. Fast forward to a year ago when you called me to invite me to accompany you & Noel on mandolin and guitar. During that initial call, I relayed the above story to you and without missing a beat, you said:"So where's my commission?"....your sharp-witted, gentle, humor had me in an instant. I already knew that I loved your musicality, and you were one of the guiding beacons of social justice that has helped to illuminate a path for me...and for all of us, really, so I knew that working with you was going to be really special, but I didn't yet know how truly special it would be. You welcomed me in like a long lost brother. I treasure the times we sat in your apartment, playing guitars, eating Chinese food, discussing the world. You were a "hero' when I was 10, and now at age 71, you remain a hero to, but more importantly, a friend that I love. Weave me the Sunshine, dear Brother Peter, you're forever in my heart. -Gordon
Dear Peter, you are a dear friend to so many people and I am honored to be one. After loving Peter, Paul and Mary for decades, I had the honor of volunteering at the National Association of Elementary School Principals convention in San Francisco when Peter, Paul and Mary introduced the anti-bullying program, Operation Respect, based on the Steve Seskin and Allen Shamblin song "Don't Laugh At Me" . Shortly after, you presented it to the California State PTA (Parent Teacher Association) Convention. As the San Francisco PTA president, I turned to the friend next to me and said I want to get Peter to our Founder's Day dinner and forgetting that magic happens, I added, "yeah, right!" Of course it did happen and you presented the program to the San Francisco Unified School District back to school rally for all of the teachers. Peter, you fill my heart with joy and love. You are the best hugger! I love you for all that you are including your strong commitment to social justice. One of your projects that moves me deeply, because it helps immigrant families in multiple ways, is One Story At a Time. My talks and meals with you are important moments in my life. My son Coleman, has known and loved you since he was in 5th grade and I love how you connected with Coleman from the start. A bonus of being your friend has been getting to know some of your family, friends, and fans, including Bethany, Valentina, and Tony Arancio. I love Brenda Goldman and her family. The most recent time we saw one another was in March, 2024 in Monterey, California where you and Noel performed. After the concert you greeted us at the front of the stage and you said to me, Sherrie, come here. You have to meet these amazing musicians who live near you, Judi Jaeger and Bob Reid. You are going to love them. Of course, you are right. I've been to two of their concerts virtually already and hope to see them in person soon. I love you deeply, Peter, and am eternally grateful that you are in the world making it a better place and in my life bringing me joy and so much more.
- Sherrie Rosenberg
So many stories to share!!!
We grew up on Peter, Paul and Mary. From the day their first album was out their music filled our home. My late mother taught elementary school music and although she studied opera and concert piano she loved folk music.
Peter has said she was a product of her times…a “closet Commie”…remember??? as she taught us the entire Pete Seeger canon as well. But Peter, Paul and Mary was her go to and ours….we learned and still them all…every last one and since I also know his latest.
As I grew older their songs took on more and more meaning for me and by the time I was a teenager and involved in Anti-War activities their songs and singing were my prayers and still are. I seriously wore out the grooves in my LPs.
I got married and moved to Israel. In June of 1983 they gave a concert in the Sultan’s Pools under the wall of the Old City. We were there…with a big crowd and a bottle of wine. It was magic. And then, as I recalled, it, Peter took a piece of paper and taped it to the mike. He explained that he had written a new verse and wanted to make sure he got it right. He then said…I have denied my heritage for many years….under the walls of the Old City, in the Holy City of Jerusalem I declare that I am back. And then they sang “Light One Candle” which has become our Chanukah theme song and we have been blessed by Peter singing it for/with us, in “modern times” at our home on Chanukah as well.
Bottom line….so I remembered the story. I might also add that my wife’s, Debbie, late father was a well-known Israeli government official of the time. He met them before the concert and brought us home a signed LP…
We continued our love for their music. Taught our children every song. Never met them. always from a distance.
Then, Peter…this is where the real story starts…..David Broza….Peter’s dear friend and fellow musician…called me and asked if I’d like to meet Peter…knowing my obsession with the music.
After I hyperventilated I said…hell yes and a new chapter in our lives was written.
When we met, I asked Peter..if I remembered the story correctly….he teared up and gave me the whole amazing back story and we have been together ever since and Peter will be forever!!!
That day began the most amazing Friday Night Shabbat Dinners at our place with your holy singing….great stories for another post…I could write a book…..meetings in diners….Italian restaurants….your apartment on the UWS.
You brought me into powerful projects like Better Angels….fighting Anti-Semitism…..political activism – where you would begin, on zoom, with a song of course, I’d speak about the power of voting and getting the vote out and of course you’d end with a song….If I had a Hammer and Blowing In The Wind always….Debbie used to listen and said it was like watching a movie about the 6o’s it was so powerful.
And so much more!!!! not to mention my Birthday Parties!!!! LOL……blew everyone’s mind that Peter Yarrow sang and ended by leading the crowd already singing with you in Happy Birthday.
Peter, you bless us….make our life’s better…..increase our conscience……changed us……you are the Holy Dragon and “Dragons live forever”!!!!!
We love you!!!!! Dear Pessach….we love you!!!!!!
- David Sable
It's with a heavy/loving heart I look back at my beautiful memories of my precious friend Peter. When I was 13 (1963) attended my first P, P & M concert. Exiting down a back stairwell, Peter appeared, spoke with me, offering a memorable moment. In later years we became friends seeing him a few times a year. He and his kids were my Thanksgiving guests in Vail, CO. Friendship allowed invitations on a few Human Rights Project congressional delegations. One to the middle east leading him to start his own 501c3, "Operation Respect" after witnessing the separation of young people due to religious differences. He knew more joined than separated them. God bless Peter! Can't imagine the world without him and all his love for humanity. Love and endless blessings my dearest, precious friend. When you leave for your new dimension I pray to feel your presence every day!! XOXO
- Michelle Jourdak
My friendship with my very dear friend Peter has been an important part of my life for the past 20 years. He represents so much that is good and needed in the world, and I admire him as much as anyone I have ever known.
Intelligence. Humor. Veracity, Integrity. Action. Bravery. These all describe Peter. But the word I most associate with him is passion. Make that Passion, with a capital P.
Not long after we met, Peter asked me to be on his Operation Respect Board. "But do not join unless you have passion for it," he said. "I want people with a passion for what we do."
I was honored to be asked, and happy to accept. However, on the day I was to first go to Peter's house to meet the rest of the board, my marriage exploded. In shock and dismay, I called Peter and told him I was unable to go. Not only did he offer words of solace and wisdom, but continued to do so in the months ahead, helping me through a very difficult time.
And that is Peter. Known for his musical and humanitarian work on a global scale, he is also able to relate on an intimate, personal one, showing that he hears you and he cares. He is truly one of a kind.
There are many individuals who speak of the concerns of the world; Peter acts upon them. He has been tireless in his work with the downtrodden, the underserved, the oppressed. And it is always with a song, a song that he shares with us all, and in doing so, he gives us hope.
He is also my phone buddy, with whom I can discuss politics and other shared interests for long periods of time.
I love Peter. I hope he knows it, because I truly do.
- Dolores Eyler
While Pater and I had a long overlapping history (for example, we were both at the Washington DC Vietnam War protest in 1971), we did not actually meet until 2010 when he was invited to Ukraine by Peace Corps Volunteers when I was their country director. At his first concert for the Volunteers, I ended up on stage joining him on “If I Had a Hammer.” I uploaded a photo of that memorable occasion! Peter inspired the Volunteers with his Operation Respect messages and came back many times over the next few years.
Peter and I reconnected in 2019 when he did a benefit concert with Noel Paul Stookey at the Lebanon (NH) Opera House. He greeted me with a warm hug and told me about Braver Angels (then called Better Angels), the national citizens movement that brings Americans together to bridge the partisan divide. Embracing values of respect, humility, honesty, and responsible citizenship, the goal is not to change people’s views of issues, but to change their views of each other. I have been involved ever since!
Thank you, Peter!
- Doulgass Teschner
Dearest Peter,
You are a special person for so many reasons. You are an important part of our lives and always will be so. When Burt was ill, you came to our home and performed your magic for him to relieve him from his pain and suffering. You and Puff the Magic Dragon lifted all our spirits. You generously have given to the entire world a heart filled with love and the joy of living. Your legendary music inspired us whenever we heard you, Paul and Mary sing, in Brooklyn and at Tanglewood. You made us feel special when Burt and I walked down the aisle at Carnegie Hall when you would yell out and, of course, at the top of your voice, “Here Come the Fendelman’s”. Your social activism was and is still an inspiration to me and to so many others! Know that you are beloved by so many! Sending you love and peace!
- Helaine
My Dear Brother Peter,
I am so sorry to hear that your battle with cancer has not been going well. The note I received from Christopher and Bethany has led me to do a lot of reflecting on our great friendship of the last almost 10 years. When we first met at a Carter Center event in California I was excited to tell you that Peter Paul and Mary's first record album was the first one I bought with my own money as a high school student in back in1963 and that I remember listening to it whenever I possibly could. Our friendship developed from
there and it would take a few typewritten pages to describe all of the wonderful interactions I have had with you since then. Even though we have lived far apart I have been so very grateful that we have been able to stay in close touch through subsequent Carter Center events, your concert dates in Minnesota (during one of which you introduced me to Noel Paul Stookey!), regular
texts and occasional phone calls. You have had a tremendous positive influence on my son Curt and his family and I can't thank you enough for that-Curt will never forget the glowing critique you provided after I shared a video of his version of "Don't Laugh at Me". I am aware of many of your humanitarian efforts over the years but am certain that I am not aware of many others. It is mind
boggling to me when I try to contemplate all of the lives you have had such a positive effect on throughout your life. I can truthfully say that there is no other human being that I admire more than you and I am eternally grateful that you have honored me with your friendship. I love you Peter Yarrow! Your Forever Brother Bob XXXXXXOOOOOO
I have so many fond memories with Peter. It is hard to put them all in writing, but I will tell you a few which have always stuck with me.
When I was in the 4th grade, Peter was preforming a singalong with a school. While he was singing with the students of the school I got up to go see Mary. Peter, in the middle of his song, says where is my sweetheart Sarah going. No matter if it was that moment or the many concerts/events I spent time with him, he would always look out for me and make sure I was around. Sometimes Peter would even enlist me to help with sound checks. Peter has such a kind heart and was a very close friend to my mom and me. My mom was sick for many years and he would always check in and call her to see how she was. He truly cares for others and shows his love for everyone.
Peter is an amazing, caring, loving and most of all an inspiring friend. I have been fortunate to have such an amazing friend in my life and I know many others feel the same.
- Sarah Burch
My brother Peter: My heart is full with numerous warm memories of our times together and your plentiful kindnesses to me. Three stand out.
First--years ago you came to my synagogue in D.C. to do a concert. We did a sound check together. We were having so much fun, it turned into a ten-song soundcheck. Which then turned into the entire second set of the concert. At the end of the first set, you told the crowd I'd be joining you for the second set. You said "I enjoy singing with Doug so much, I'm thinking of leaving the group." You paused, then said "Just kidding." After we sang "Such Is Love" to open the second set, I said: "Peter, I'm glad you told the audience that your line about leaving the group was just a joke. For a moment, I had an image that I would go down in folk music history: "Doug Mishkin, the Yoko Ono of Peter Paul & Mary."
2. From the first time I heard "Sweet Survivor," I knew I'd be singing it for the rest of my life. And I have. Your joining me to record it on an album of mine in 2008 is a never-ending thrill of mine.
3. At the URJ Biennial in 1997, you ended the evening's concert by singing "Day Is Done." I was on your left. Bethany and Debbie Friedman were on your right. You gave me the second verse, Debbie the third. Behind us were Saperstein and Vorspan.
It was a moment of sheer joy. I couldn't have been more proud. Recently one of my daughters found the video on YouTube and asked if I'd ever seen it. I told her: "Only a few hundred times." I look at the young people in the audience and am moved to tears by their sheer joy in singing along. You did that for them, and have done it for me my entire life. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1icsAdG1t44. Sending all my love, knowing all will indeed be well when the day is done.
Doug
While the world knows you as a legendary musician, for the past 30 years we've been blessed to know you as a devoted friend, tireless activist, and constant inspiration. Your loyalty and dedication to both personal friendships and the larger fight for humanity have shown us what it means to live one's values fully.
Some battles may have seemed like tilting at windmills, but you've shown us time and again that persistent dedication to justice yields real change. Your work with Operation Respect has transformed countless young lives. Your unwavering commitment to civil rights protests helped bend the arc of history toward justice. And through Better Angels, you've helped bridge divides that many thought impossible to cross.
You've taught us that being on the side of the angels isn't just about fighting the good fight - it's about achieving tangible progress through unwavering dedication and moral courage. Your friendship has enriched our lives immeasurably, not because of your fame or your music, but because of your fundamental decency, your fierce loyalty, and your proven ability to make the world better.
With deep love and gratitude,
Irene and Lee
My Pietro--your generosity that shows up in the endless outpouring of your music is something I have experienced in everything from meals to carpets or paintings or introductions to such as Seiji Ozawa or some obscure wrist watch you decided I simply must have. And what taste you always showed in the gifting! I have said thanks to you more often (almost) than to Mother Tao and routinely we both enjoyed whatever it might be. But our main gifts to each other may have been those combination walks in Central Park with talks about whatever....just for the pleasure of exercising our minds. We'd even find ourselves learning something sometimes. The true pleasure though was in expressing mutual love for each other. I am most pleased to have pointed out and shared unusual bird songs, trees, and all manner of natural fascinations with you over the years. But you yourself are the greatest natural fascination to me. YOU the being...expressing and sharing in this
world which sometimes seems to be trying to teach humans to be mean, selfish and cold-hearted. You have been, nose in the wind, always insisting on beauty and thoughtfulness. You, our Ambassador of the songs and singers, puppets and dancers of EMBRACING THE ROOT, will always be with us wherever the wisdom of the trees, lakes and stars will lead. So as always, my beloved Pietro, keep a'rockin' and keep our love in mind wherever that may take you.
- Carman Moore
Peter
Our love
Our Dragon
Your sweetness
and endless loving being
I love you
forever
Your name and spirit lives on
making us remember
what it means to be human.
Thank you for all you give
To Carman
To Embracing the Root
To me
We created a new theatre form
Together
with you.
We love you
Forever.
Lotte
Peter, I think we must have met in 1952, in our second year of high school, but I'm not sure! I have such vivid memories of you, especially lugging that guitar up and down the many staircases in the park facing Music & Art. I especially remember when you and I, in a premature example of resistance, wore JEANS to the Easter Parade! Remember? The last time I saw you was at dinner when you took me to your special Chinese restaurant in midtown, before the pandemic started. Though time and distance often separated us, our relationship never wavered over lo these many decades. YOU'VE DONE GOOD.
With much love,
Dottie Zellner
Dearest Peter,
As Linda Carroll’s husband, I was blessed to know you when you came into our lives and home as the co-creator of One Story at a Time. Like so many others, to know you is to love you.
I remember such sweet, short episodes of life with you, and warmth fills my heart as I write this.
I send you great love and gratitude for all you have given, supported, made happen, and loved in life. Thank you for your great heart and everywhere it has taken you.
Your goodness is not just for humans, I remember how much you tolerated our dogs when you sat with them in the back of the car and let them roll all over you with your usual humor and patience.
Go gently into the great night, Peter. You have given so much, and the returns will continue always.
Great love to you,
Tim
Dear Peter, my friend, my brother,
I'm not sure I've ever told you that before we met and became friends, you were one of my heroes. On the steps of the High School of Music and Art, my first foray into music and any notion of doing it for a living was born out of my love for Peter, Paul and Mary. It wasn't just about the sound, it was about using music for social change, awareness and peace building. That was 1969! Fast forward 30 years when we met (thanks to Bethany) at the Kerrville Folk Festival. You paid me the ultimate compliment when you said "Don't Laugh At Me" is a song the whole world needs to hear. I was overwhelmed with joy when the trio decided to perform the song but the true icing on the cake was the birth of Operation Respect and my inclusion in a project that to this day is doing incredible work in teaching children about kindness, respect, friendship and being of service. You gave me the gift of seeing first hand how my work could and did make a difference. With all my heart, thank you for that.
Getting to know you over the last 25 years has been such a blessing. Your faith in me has given me the courage to try all kinds of things. I will never forget working with you in Parkland FL after the shooting there, writing a song after the Pittsburgh synagogue massacre, our work with Braver Angels trying to help people find common ground and countless more opportunities I had, to walk the walk that you have always walked! There's a quote I love that says " maybe happiness is not about us, as individuals. Maybe it is not something that arrives into us. Maybe happiness is felt heading out, not in. maybe it's all about what we can give. " Giving - That's something you know a lot about my friend. You have devoted your whole life to it. So many have tried to follow in your footsteps including me.
I treasure the memories of our time at concerts, singing at conferences, schools and just for the fun of it. I still can remember how nervous I was at Town Hall when Mary couldn't make the show because of illness and you nonchalantly asked me if I would sing her part on "Don't Laugh At Me" with you and Noel. Of course I said yes but in case you didn't know, I was shaking in my shoes.
I can still taste the late night food we consumed in 100s of Chinese restaurants, Italian trattorias and Jewish Delis. Recently we shared a salad together in our token attempt to eat healthy. In 30 years, you never let me pick up a check damnit. You said it brought you joy to treat people to a good meal. More giving...
On a funny note, remember when we tried writing a sequel to Puff? I knew we were good friends when I had the chutzpah to insist that you give me your phone before we started working on it because I didn't want us to be interrupted by the 25 calls you'd probably get in the three hours we had scheduled. You stood your ground saying " I will not give you my phone but I will agree to only take calls from very important people". I thought to myself : How many important people can one guy know who would call in the next three hours? You only took four calls - John Kerry, Gloria Steinem, John Garamendi and Norman Lear. Still cracks me up...
Recently, I got to see you twice. The first time was in Monterey at a wonderful show you and Noel did together where once again you so graciously asked me to sing a song. The last time was in NY where we spent a wonderful time eating that salad followed by a Lincoln Center coffee shop visit where I had you all to myself for two and a half hours. Heaven on earth! We talked politics, Israel, music and life. At one point you told me that when it was time for you to go, you were ready. At peace with your life and what you had done with it. I remember thinking that it was understandable given you had done more than any ten people I know.
The gift of knowing you, loving you and truly "getting you" in a way that rubbed off on me and how I live my life has been such a blessing Peter. I will carry your smile, your love and the torch you lit long ago as long as I walk this earth. You have my word on that.
May your journey wherever you're heading from here bring you much peace. I'm uploading a song I wrote with Allen Shamblin called "Good To Go" which I truly believe when it's time, you will be. Change the word Daddy to Buddy and every word fits you to a T. I love you my brother.
- Steve Seskin
Hi Peter,
Chris Chandler here There are so many ways that you have touched and impacted my life, not the least of which is the admirable way in which you put your activism so squarely in the middle of your art.
I have always seen you as a role model kind of tried to emulate the importance of the message in the art that I create
I am also deeply appreciative of the way in which you went to bat for me at the Kerrville folk festival, even agreeing to let me release a live recording of one of our performances. Performing with you has been one of the highlights of my life. Also recording Our mutual, dear friend Anne Feeney‘s important song. Have you been to jail for justice? Is something for which she was most pleased. The visibility that you gave her helped the two of us find more rewarding work and helped get our message out to larger audiences.
My life is much richer and Fuller because you are in it. Thank you for helping me to become the person that I am.
I love you
Chris Chandler
There are so many stories since I first met you (Peter) when I was a New Folk at Kerrville in 1974. You music and activism had inspired me from my early teens on. During my time in the Texas Legislature, I always tried to keep your mantra of finding the humanity in everyone, even those you disagree with, in my mind and practice. I appreciated your coming out and singing to my campaign volunteers after the concert when we brought them to see P, P & M in 1980. I have enjoyed the many opportunities to sing with you (and with Christopher) at Kerrville and especially when I sang for you at your 50th birthday party in Austin in 1988. My favorite story, though, is my 15 seconds of fame. We were in NYC visiting Sharon's recently retired rabbinic partner from her Buffalo congregation when we learned about the Pete Seeger tribute concert that you and Bethany had helped organize. We tried to see you before and then after the concert but security wouldn't let us through. We then walked a few blocks away with the Rabbi and his wife to find food and saw you standing outside a restaurant that opened up onto tables on the sidewalk, talking to someone there. We went up to you and you hugged Sharon with your usual "My Cantor" and then me with a loud "Paul". We introduced you to the Rabbi and hi wife and chatted for a few minutes but they wanted to continue on to find a less busy place to eat. I stayed and we talked for a few more minutes, but as I left, I heard someone at one of the tables inside say, "Do you know who that is? That's Peter Yarrow." And then one of his tablemates chimed in, "And that one is Paul!" I guess I looked a foot taller. Peter, I hear your voice in my head all the time. Your example and your friendship have been repeated highlights in my life (I've also appreciated the many chocolate birthday cakes at Kerrville.) You have worked ceaselessly to repair the world and have made a difference in the lives of so many.
May your days be peaceful and surrounded by love.
Paul (and Sharon and Nathan) Colbert
Peter,
How long has it been? I counted and am surprised that it’s been 57 years since I first met you in 1967. I was just a teenager then. You were a big star, a member of one of the most popular groups in the US, and also in Japan. Yet, when I met you for the first time in the lobby of Hotel Okura, you spoke to me in a very polite and friendly manner, not blaming me for my ignorance about your songs or anything. At the time, I didn’t have any of your records (singles) let alone albums.
Since then, we spoke a lot, most of the time you were asking questions about me, my school life, Japanese lifestyle, and so on. I really enjoyed and appreciated each of those moments. In 1970, you brought Mary Beth with you and proudly announced that she was three months pregnant.
Then there was a twenty-year hiatus. When I saw you again in 1990, we had gone through a lot in life, and we both had a wonderful time sharing each other’s stories. Remember when you flew into Japan from Hong Kong, and hurried to the venue where the PP&M fan club was holding a Festa? How the audience got excited when you walked onto the stage to finish Puff sing out! Remember when Kenzo Tomotoshi took us to the fish market? Kenzo treated us to an exquisite sushi lunch.
So many memories and memories. I always admired your activism, and though on a much smaller scale, I will continue to act for peace, equality, justice, and conserving the environment. I strongly believe that I had such a good luck in having you as my mentor. You have inspired me to be strong and honest as well as humble. Thank you, Peter, for leading me. I promise I will keep on living my life to the fullest.
XXOO
Andi Ogawa
Japan
Dear Dear Peter,
I saw you first in Denver CO around 1965 at a performance and I, along with everyone else was drawn to an undefined powerful energy field.
Next, thanks to JK I met you on the Upper Wharf and your first for me a sing at Pony Pasture. Your visits to Shore House are in my heart with music, many jokes passed back and forth and when you cooked, delicious dining. You are a treasure in my heart.
And then you gave up your wonderful home to fund raise for Arnie Arnesen For her run for GOV in NH. you also performed in Portsmouth NH where you stayed to sing after the main event sang and met with all the volunteers from her campaign. Sterling College was another time at your place with your singing and Jed playing the spoons! Thank you again. Your warm and kind generosity extended to our children as well. You are one of a kind and made the world a better place and certainly a wonderful friend.
A big hug and lots of love always,
Perry
Peter, my bro… My first memory of you was at a P.P.M concert in Salt Lake City 1965! Shortly after, Perry saw you in Denver. We were comparing or memories of that this morning. She’ll provide hers. Mine was joy, awe, and appreciation. Didn’t see you again until summer of 1972 on Naushon, where you, John Kerry, and George Butler had landed for a short break from your efforts with Vietnam Veterans Against the War. Your presence resulted in a good gathering for singing with family, and fun visits on walks and at Shore House, among other things. I even got to play spoons with you at the sing. So going forward, I could say, “Sure, I played in concert with him…”
Memorable events together include more Naushon visits, the Arneson for Governor of NH campaign (Perry will fill in here), your hosting a fundraising event for us at our apartment when we were at Sterling College. The occasion was the opening of the iMax Endurance and Caroline Alexander holding forth at the Museum of Natural History, where Shackleton’s lifeboat “James Caird” was on display. You sang for our invited guests – and inspired some contributions!
We will never forget the surprise you gave us by coming to Sterling College in 2006 to sing for the graduating class, their families, our board, and us in this, our retirement year. A total selfless surprise! And I got to be in concert with you again – playing spoons!
Our last breaking of bread together was after a performance you and Paul did in Lebanon, NH in 2019… Sad that we did not have a chance to meet in person again, but grateful for being able to stay in touch.
Your contributions to bringing different cultures and thereby steps forward toward world peace will live on – as will our remembrances of you and our many times together. Love always, Jed…
I’ve known Peter for 71 - perhaps 72 years. At Music and Art High School he was a pretty annoying kid - But then he morphed into a brilliant songwriter and passionate fighter for the ideals we treasure. Peter is the most empathetic iconoclast who ever graced Planet Earth!
When I was at home with my three year-old daughter on August 28, 1963, I watched Peter, Paul and Mary sing their hearts out at the March on Washington. For civil rights, for anti-bullying, for Jewish causes (e.g. “Light One Candle”), Peter fought the good fight. What a life! We love you, Peter Yarrow.
- Isabelle Ganz
Peter,
Your friendship has meant so much to me, from our first meeting at the Carter weekend eight years ago to our dinner at the Leopard this year on your birthday. Your wise perspective in our discussions on how to reduce political polarization have really helped shape my thinking. Thanks for introducing me to Braver Angels – I continue to support their important work.
The opportunity to play music with you and Bethany at the Habitat benefit concerts in Beaver Creek will always be a high point for me – and for everyone involved. What I’ve enjoyed most is that you’re just a cool guy who’s a blast to spend time with. Janet and I are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Jim Stanard
Peter,
For more than 40 years we have been friends. My family grew up with “Uncle Peter” and now my grandson listens to your music in Israel. There will be many who will eloquently discuss the impact your music has made on generations of listeners and activists.
I just want to praise and thank you, my friend.
Together, we’ve been on a journey blending Judaism and activism. The Torah commands us to be pursuers of justice. No one I know has embodied this principle in every aspect of life. You are an example for me and millions of others who seek justice in a very painful world.
You’ve been there… Been there for so many people and causes. And… You’ve always been there for me and my family. Long before my move east, I knew I always had a place to stay in NYC. You (and Penny) were kind and welcoming hosts. Most of those visits included time with Vera, z”l (of blessed memory) and dinner at some new restaurant.
When Shira and Avi were born you were there for both to celebrate and rejoice with us. Somehow you found time to be there for each of them as they became bat and bar mitzvah. As the kids got older, you developed a relationship with each of them independent of their father. Our lives are deeply intertwined. So much so, that you sang at my wedding to Eve. We would occasionally join you for Thanksgiving in Manhattan and you are a frequent guest at our seder table (this year joined by MaryBeth!).
We had some crazy moments together. I still recall a call late at night to have me hear a new song that led to the Don’t Laugh at Me Foundation and years of important work and blessing. We merged our activist lists for any number of good causes. You have always surrounded yourself with so many wonderful people including friends like Al Vorspan, z”l, David Broza, and so many others.
For me and my family, you are always Peter, not the singer, recording artist, activist, etc.… just Peter. A steadfast and loyal friend with whom we share laughs, challenges, good times and bad and always, always… you are there.
Love you my friend.
Elliott
From Jerusalem to New York, I have had the deep privilege to witness and participate in many of your peace-willing performances. To stand beside you and sing your songs along the pantheon of social justice melodies that you keep, fulfilled me in ways that my younger self only dreamed. Palestinians, Israelis and others believed in a shared future because of your efforts and music. Though the times of peace look bleak, I still believe and sing their truth. I have you to thank for this. You once called me a "child of Woody Guthrie" and can I hope to live up an ounce of this blessing.
May the words of Rumi comfort you,
"Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing, there is a field. I'll meet you there. When the soul lies down in that grass, The world is too full to talk about ideas, language, even the phrase each other doesn't make any sense."
- Amy Yares
I have so many memories of Peter which start of course like many as a child and fan of PPM but as an adult as an activist I was fortunate enough to get to know Peter and then as SONiAs wife and manager I got to be friends with Peter thru Sonia. I was with her at kerrville folk festival when Peter walked her around the campfires to introduce her. He has always been so generous in his time to encourage young talent and even after performing that night he made sure everyone knew he thought they should hear Sonia. It’s something that we try to make sure we take the time to do ourselves and hope we make Peter proud. But one of my favorite memories is a personal day we spent hanging out in NY and as we sat at lunch at a little deli Peter gave us the new illustrated pop up Puff the Magic dragon which he had signed for us. He then proceeded to read the entire book to us right there in the deli. I truly wish I had video because I must have looked like my 5 year old self staring at this legend reading Puff the Magic Dragon to me. I love you Peter and if I were able to travel myself right now I would give anything to have one more hug. You have worked so hard for so long to make things better for all of us and I promise we will keep on working when you finally rest. You will live on forever in your legacy of love, activism and the community you built. So grateful to call you my friend.
- Terry Irons
Dear Peter,
For more than half of my life I have watched you on stage annually at the Kerrville Folk Festival. You are an inspiration musically as well as fatherly as my relationship has been more with your son Chris than it has been with you personally. But in your son, I have seen the potential for being a great Dad to my own sons. My youngest son Marlon is a lot like Chris. A shining light always on the search for his greatest contribution in the moment. Your music has been a inspiration to so many, but I believe that our real legacy is in how we raise and nurture our children and how they as beacons of light lead others to their own greatest good. You have done great work and shared the Love so that it can continue to grow. For that you have my greatest thanks and respect and I pray that when you decide to cross the road, there will be nothing but light and love in your path.
- Joseph Nipper
Dear Peter,
I met you only a few times, but the deep impression you left on me will last my lifetime.
You were planning a concert for Native Americans in the midwest and wanted my assistance. My help was nothing compared to the work that you put into it. To me, your commitment to justice for all people was admirable not only in the words you spoke, but the actions you took. And that is of course on top of your artistry, for which you will have enduring fame.
Indeed you are an immortal now. You have joined the ranks of those who time will not forget, and if anything, as technology advances, you will grow larger than life. In the years that come your music, your commitment to justice, will become all the more important. A steady keel to hold an unsteady ship the world has become.
I am honoured to have met you. I am saddened to hear your time is near, but glad to know you will go with a glorious celebration, the celebration of a life well and justly lived, a glory that no riches can buy, and no power can take.
May I see you again in the world that comes, so that you may inspire me more to do what is good and do what is right.
Your friend,
Alex Ewen
I was a little kid probably 5. And it was Sunday morning and the sun rays were poring through my parents bedroom window across the hallway into my eyes waking me to the day and I turned around and in the morning sun beaming was the Peter Paul and Mary album in full color Movin’ with Puff and all his glorious friends. It was my very second album in my two album collection-The first was Herman’s Hermits.
My uncle Kevin Gilles was Mary’s guitar player when PPM took a break in the early 70s. I met Mary and Mary her tour manager back stage at the then Capitol Center Arena when she was on tour with Seals and Crofts. Meeting them again at Kerrville Folk Frstival was wonderful. Being around Peter and Noel and Mary always feels like part real part dream because they made the path for me to walk in. Which I do every breath of everyday of my life. That music is a way out of misery and defeat and a way fortified possibility in equality love and peace. And that a guitar and a voice were all you need to walk on through the reign.
I was just getting the love at Kerrville when Peter took me around the campfires where no logs are necessary and introduced me as the next PPM - never in my ever did I see that coming although - the magic of their spirits is quite aligned with the almighty and it doesn’t get better than that.
Watching thousands sing out on their songs fills my heart with joy. Later a gathering in March 2001 to stop a military invasion of Iraq we sang together in the night with a misty light rain on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial with PPM at the center and Bethany and myself and others praying and singing that no violence - no war- no more. The media was scared and barely covered this peaceful action. Even though there are 4000 protesters the news minimized this action and skinned us down to 400. I was there and that was simply not true. But fear prevailed. It was backstage that we heard the news that Rachel Cory had been mowed down and died in an occupation protest in Israel.
I remember sitting next to Peter at the Threadgill theater and we heard Nic and Ellen’s song By My Silence. I turned to Peter and said you guys should record this song to which he said - “Sonia, You should record this song”. And so I did.
My love for Peter and PPM is full of gratitude and gratitude and gratitude. I have learned so much and yet hardly begun.
Love you always Peter.
- Love Sonia
I first got to know Peter when we worked on an event together in 2020 for Georgia’s senate seat. He was as charming as could be from day one. He put so much thought, care, and intention into what he put out into the world. What started as helping Peter with best utilizing technology for his video, quickly became beautiful calls & voicemails just checking in on me and my family. When I was going through some health issues he connected me with a healer and even paid for our first session. He sent us artwork created by his family when we moved into our new home. He took me under his wing for a little while and showed me what it means to not stand up for a cause when it is convenient or timely, but how to engage on a daily level, never taking your foot off the gas, fighting for what is right.
- Kunj & Sara Shah
My dear Peter, for twenty years we traveled the world with so many wonderful people on a special mission, Operation Respect. I'm so grateful that Bethany and the family and Tony have brought us together to share this feeling of gratitude for being in Peter's universe. I think it has given every one of us a deeper sense of purpose, love and joy.
You showed me early on that the way that Peter, Paul and Mary brought their love and joy to the stage seemed to ignite the audience and so it was for the work of Operation Respect. It was magic. And I believed it. "It's Magic" is a less well-known song that truly inspired me.
I am so grateful to have traveled this journey with you and with all who are writing and honoring you and who love you. We hope we can ease the burden and we will carry it on knowing that you will always be with us. We love you.
- Mark and Janie Weiss
Dearest Peter,
You came into my life when I was a college student at UC Berkeley in the late 60’s. Of course, it was at a distance then, as your music was the background for my budding passion for social justice. Through your music and social activism, you represented the hope and possibility we could help make a better world.
Years later, as I began work on bullying prevention in the school district of our small township of Bexley, Ohio, I was introduced to you personally by Irene and Lee Hess and Rich Stoff at a small breakfast in Columbus where you shared your work with Operation Respect and the “Don’t Laugh at Me” program. I was star struck. But you looked at me and said “Let me know if I can help. I will come.” I doubted how that might be possible given the breadth of your musical and political activity. But I didn’t know you yet.
My team worked for months organizing the students and school staff to create art, conversations about kindness, learning to sing “Puff,” and planning. A community-wide evening program about respect, caring and kindness was the launch of “Bexley Operation Respect.” While it turned out you could not personally attend, you asked Bethany to stand in for you. Bethany came (nursing her three-month old Valentina) and worked with our students and staff with all the magnificent passion and creativity of her father.
But Peter, you felt so badly for me and my disappointment in not having you lead our program, you came several days later just to visit and sing with Larry and me in our living room. That’s when I knew firsthand your empathy and concern for others were boundless. From that moment on, I have been blessed with your friendship and presence in my life and the life of my family. The memories of our times together bring me great joy. Thank you for this gift.
I love you,
Susan Steinman
Peter,
Words can barely describe the impact you have had on my life. From the moment I met you - some 30 years ago when you called me in Columbus, OH. I came home one night from synagogue, and I asked if anyone called. William, then maybe 5, said someone called. When I asked who, he said he didn’t know. When I started to chastise him for not getting a name, he said, “but he told me to tell you that “Puff” called.” Without context, I didn’t know who it was. And then the phone rang. It was you and after an hour conversation, you invited me to bring our children to hear you present “Don’t Laugh At Me” to Columbus school teachers. And when I told you, “but it’s a school day,” you asked how many days do they go to school? I replied every day. And you asked, “And how many times do they get to sing with Puff?”
Well, of course, we came. And when we walked in, though we had never met in person, you saw our kids - and welcomed Elana and William up to join you to sing Puff the Magic Dragon. When I saw the 3 of you up there, my heart melted. You were stuck with us as friends. Whether the times you stayed in our home, you played on the Shabbat before Elana became a Bat Mitzvah, when Elana worked for you, when Elana and I met you in Jerusalem, or when you played on the night before she and Noah were married, when you took time to meet my Confirmation class at a NY restaurant and serenaded them for an hour…my heart was filled with love and joy.
Each time we spoke, you called me your brother (I know you had LOTS of brothers and sisters). But as I witnessed on so many occasions with others, when you were with me…you were with me 100%. And I felt embraced. I will be forever grateful that you came into my life…years after you made an impact with your music on Leslie and me.
Our children grew up on your music before they met you. Then, they - too - came to know you and came to know your passion. Just three months ago, while spending time with our granddaughter and grandson, we sang Puff and told them about you. To have them learn your music brought unbridled happiness to us all.
Peter, as the the poet Hannah Sennech wrote, “There are stars up above, so far away we only see their light long long after the star itself is gone.” Your light has shone on my family for all my 7 decades. And your light will continue to shine long into the future…for me…for my family…and for so many others.
P.S. Elana just (day before Thanksgiving) gave birth to her first child, a beautiful baby girl. She - we - will sing her your songs. We will tell her our stories of you. And she, too, will believe in the magic of Puff.
Here are three pictures that I cherish - you and me; and you and Elana at her wedding; and you serenading my mother-in-law the night before Elana and Noah’s wedding.
All our love,
Art, Leslie, Elana, Noah, William, and Ali (and our 3 grandchildren representing the next generation).
Dear Peter,
I don’t know how to say goodbye. I don’t want to. You have been such a loving, motivating and inspirational part of my life. You gave the best advice and moved me to action, to lead when needed, to follow when needed, and to give the world the best of me. I will carry your love to my own dying day.
Some memories:
The first time I met you, I was volunteering for Allard Lowenstein’s congressional campaign. You came in to sing to the volunteers. I was annoyed because we were so busy – and now we had to stop to have a sing-along. Al found it funny and introduced the cranky teenager to you. You were very sweet and I said, “I thought being a folk singer meant you were dead.” Lovely, right? It’s amazing we ended up being friends after that.
I got to know you though after Al had died. Working on a memorial out of I think Muffy Huffington’s apartment. I think. That was followed by your PS 6 concert, the only one I attended as part of the audience. I went with Mike Klesh. We loved it. When you announced that this would become an annual concert, I thought I could be helpful to make the day run better – and volunteered. You allowed me the honor of working with you on what seemed a bazillion of those – until the school’s Principal assured me, and then you, that they no longer required the supplemental funding. Over time, we introduced that audience to members of the NY Choral Society, Ed McCurdy, Tom Chapin, David Buskin, Doug Katsaros, Peter Cofield, Joe D’Urso, Chris Brown, David Roth and Cantor Bruce Benson. I have already sent you photos of some of those performances – shot by Evyonne Baker. There was a formatted invitation ostensibly written by you to the parents’ body, inviting them to be sponsors at various levels and every year the names of the sponsorships were tweaked to match that year’s concert theme. I wrote the 1st draft and faxed it to you for editing. One year, after hearing you call people mufkie puffkie and other adorable names just once too often, I renamed the sponsors to something like Mufkie Puffkie Sponsor, Doophie Dumpher Sponor, etc. You swore revenge. Thank G-d you never really exacted a price!
After the PS 6 run ended, I told you I would help on any project if the money was needed. You called me with Barry Nisman of On Our Way. You don’t know this ... Barry and his wife Barb have become among my and Marsha’s dearest friends. (They have just become grandparents by the way of a beautiful girl – Riley).
In July 1985, I was volunteering with World Hunger Year (now WhyHunger) and it was the time of the then annual Harry Chapin Memorial Concert at The Bottom Line. The lineup of performers was supposed to be Tom and Steve Chapin, Harry’s band, and Tom Paxton. A week before the show, Paxton had to cancel his appearance. They had sold a lot of tickets because of Paxton. Allan Pepper suggested the charity replace Paxton with someone at least on his celebrity level. I called you ... and YOU SAID YES. You were always saying ‘YES” when I needed help. I joined the staff in August 1985. I was charged with producing fundraising concerts at Town Hall – with a budget of $0.00. I was telling you about the challenge of communicating that a concert was to take place with no budget. “Sweetheart, you need to place ads in the NY Times, Village Voice, and get mentions in newspaper calendars.” Of course. I knew that. But I had literally $0.00 to work with. You paid for the ads as a donation. OMG – you really saved the charity’s butt.
When I asked a few performing artists to help design holiday cards to be sold by the charity, you and Noel painted beautiful art. And Mary painted the back end of a horse with its tail in defecating position. That was memorable.
I remember helping Penny to study for her American Citizenship exam. I was quizzing her. When I asked her where the White House was located, you, just passing through from the kitchen to your living room, adlibbed “at the end of the march”. That derailed us all for a few minutes.
For a few years I drove a Pontiac Aster – a terrible car. One year, both of us were invited to Thanksgiving at Dotty and Sonny DiCintio’s house. It was cold outside. And then there was an awful smell inside the car – as the exhaust started coming into the car. We drove with the windows open. When we got to Dotty’s, you walked in – pointed at me and informed her that I had tried to kill you. Nice! I considered making you walk back to Manhattan, but ... nah.
You welcomed my friends into your loving circle. You showed such compassion when Judy Zdziera needed a brain tumor surgery. Oh, how you loved on her and made her feel so safe. When David Buskin and Robin Batteau parted ways for a few years, you made David feel wanted and welcome when he needed it the most.
When it was time for me to finally leave WhyHunger, they gave me a goodbye party – and you came to sing for me. I will always treasure that sweetness. You sang “The Great Mandala”; “Bob Dylan’s Dream” and “Sweet Survivor”. Those lyrics are haunting me now.
Carry on my sweet survivor, carry on my lonely friend
Don't give up on the dream, and don't you let it end.
Carry on my sweet survivor,
Though you know that something's gone
For everything that matters carry on.
Peter, I promise you that all of us you leave behind, will carry on for everything and everyone that matters. It’s the very least we owe you.
I love you dear Peter, my dear, dear friend.
Love,
Sue
Peter Yarrow has lived his life defying earth’s gravitational force beyond human boundaries and limitations. SpaceX’s recent advanced rockets and space travel - have nothing on Peter.
“We are not human beings on a spiritual journey,
we are spiritual beings on a human journey.”
Teilhard de Chardin
Peter - an unattached vessel through which the world seems to filter. He is a universal collective human archetype embodying the universe.
“There is only one river
There is only one sea
And it flows through you
And it flows through me”
Peter IS the quintessential manifestation of “flow” - a state of consciousness of optimal experience transcending time and space
without need of material possessions. A gregarious mystic.
During Covid, Peter left Manhattan and stayed for many months at his assistant Tony’s house in upstate NY in a small sparse room with one window. He loved it. “This is all I need.”
In 1979, I first met Peter in Rochester, MN when he was performing at a fundraiser for the Wilmar 8. He arrived with no idea where he would sleep but always knew a bed would surface - like a wandering monk. One of my fellow organizers asked if Peter could stay at my apt. We had recently moved to Rochester - only had a coat as a blanket and a sofa to sleep on. Peter could not have been more grateful - arriving late and leaving at the crack of dawn - quintessential Peter. To Peter, it’s only sleep - his focus is always on the cause.
Thirty five+ years later, Peter stayed at my house in DC and once again slept on a pull-out sofa in the library - gratitude from Peter to have a place to lay his head - off we went in the morning to another cause.
When you get near Peter or involved in any of his cause-driven projects, you are pulled in by a centrifugal force that whirls into a turbocharger animating anyone in its wake to respond immediately to whatever. is needed.
For many events with Peter in Washington, DC (and there were many),
I assisted in whatever way I could - also inviting everyone I knew and everyone I didn’t know - to get involved.
Peter treated DC like his nearby neighborhood - location and time were irrelevant, and he miraculously always FINDS time in his busy schedule
for everyone and every cause.
Peter’s quintessential assistant Elizabeth Kolodny always kept Peter on track, and Peter’s schedule went smoothly with Tony Arancio, Peter’s steadfast logistician.
Peter always found the time to say “yes”. I have never heard Peter say “no”, and if Peter is tired, he simply ignores it.
In 1991, when I asked Peter to sing at the Washington Monument for the Peace Corps’s 30th anniversary for 7,000 RPCVs (Returned Peace Corps Volunteers), he accepted immediately reliving a cherished memory of PP&M’s March on Washington in the ‘60s. It was the highlight of the celebration.
Peter is indefatigable - flying directly from the Middle East to DC just to perform at an Alliance for Peace benefit that Chic Dambach and I organized hosted by longtime friends Sally Epstein and Don Collins, Peter arrived directly from the DC airport with his suitcase - transcending jet lag and fatigue and gave a moving performance on peace and justice continuing to mix for hours with the eclectic group.
Peter also sang his song “The Children are Listening” for the first time to Sally and Don at their home before we went to Capitol Hill to advocate for Operation Respect.
A memorable event we all organized was at the home of Peter’s friend Ambassador Elizabeth Bagley: grand success - over capacity - with a lot of schmoozing and connecting with potential supporters and faithful ones. Senator John Kerry, Senator Harris Wofford and Elizabeth Bagley gave glowing tributes to Peter and the important work of Operation Respect.
For decades, Peter volunteered and sang at Returned Peace Corps Volunteer/RPCV events. Peter and RPCVs fit like hand and glove, and he has been a beloved ally and advocate for decades performing at events organized by RPCVS, i.e. Kae and Don Dakin; Phi Lilienthal, Global Camps Africa and many more.
Peter also lugged his guitar on his back throughout the Halls of Congress while participating in the RPCV’s annual Advocacy Day on Capitol Hill - ending with a song fest in the office of RPCV CA Congressman John Garamendi.
For many years, Peter sang at RPCVs Congressman John and Patti Garamendis’ ranch in CA for John’s annual barbecues. Flying from NY to CA in the early morning and singing to hundreds that same afternoon was Peter’s way of life. Peter’s performance was always a highlight, and the Garamendi family is always so welcoming and generous.
For World Learning/The Experiment in International Living/SIT,
Peter once again happily agreed to perform for two Global Citizen Award events for Senator Patrick Leahy and also for Senator Harris Wofford in DC - both events attracted hundreds with monumental appreciation especially from Leahy and Wofford.
In 2016, when Senator Harris Wofford married at the age of 90, Harris was interested in Peter singing, and Peter was delighted to be asked and flew to Nantucket for a celebration. His songs melted all hearts - especially the “Wedding Song: There is Love” composed by Noel Stookey’s for Peter’s wedding. Afterwards was a rejuvenating weekend at the ocean and sand dunes. Elizabeth Vale was our generous host.
In 2019, for Harris Wofford’s memorial, the Wofford family was full of gratitude that Peter was going to sing. Peter pulled together a remarkable tribute on Zoom to 1000 attendees.
In 2008, Peter agreed wholeheartedly to sing at an Obama campaign benefit. In record time, Peter recruited John Lawrence (Rep Nancy Pelosi’s Chief of Staff) and John Kerry (with whom Peter had been involved in the ‘60s anti-Vietnam movement). Sen Harris Wofford also spoke. It raised more funds than we anticipated - standing room only. Peter was the magnet with his rousing political activism songs.
And then there were the back stage passes for “Peter, Paul and Mary” concerts at Wolftrap for the Performing Arts. For many years, we all truly enjoyed these concerts. Peter wanted to meet my son Otis and left extra tickets at the box office for Otis and friends. Otis loved the concert and meeting Peter backstage.
In 1998, Peter met my daughter Hiliary at one of his performances in DC. With his advice, she and her friend Elizabeth Schroth created “People for Peace” at Stone Ridge school and raised funds for Albanian refugees, Later Peter sang for the receptive students and staff at a school assembly. When they received an award from Youth Service America, Peter once again came down from Manhattan to perform at the Kennedy Center’s Millennium Stage to support their volunteer efforts with a message read from Sargent Shriver. Attending were many old friends and colleagues. Peter also so generously wrote Hiliary’s college recommendations,
On a phone call a few months ago, Peter asked if I would put my three year old grandson Thomas on, and Peter sang, “Puff the Magic Dragon”
which Thomas continued to sing every night at bedtime - with no prompting. Thomas had been listening and singing Peter’s songs which were sung with daughter Bethany from Peter Yarrow’s Songbook, Favorite Folk Songs every morning on a CD in the car.
Another loving gesture: Many years ago when my niece Kiera in Chicago attended a PP&M concert, Peter insisted on meeting her back stage.
Peter is always the connector. The more the better. How could one person pack so much love and music into one lifetime?
“The day will come when,
after harnessing the winds,
the tides and gravity,
we shall harness the energies of love.
And, on that day, for the second time
in the history of the world,
man will have discovered fire.”
Pierre Teilhard de Chardin
And Peter’s fire of love will continue to light the world ad infinitum.
I love you, Peter, and your spirit will always be with me.
With overflowing love, appreciation & gratitude,
Geri Critchley
One word describes Peter Yarrow. And that one word is what embodies him. It exudes from
him. The moment he enters the room it is felt. And it is so genuine. The moment we first met he gave me what seemed to be a 10 minute brotherly embrace. He whispered into my ear that he love me and my beautiful youth orchestra. He treated me like we had known each other for a lifetime. He sat with my young musicians, singing to them, hugging them, encouraging them, praising them for their performance. He was unaware of the pain and suffering many of those young musicians endure growing up in marginalized Tijuana, Mexico. Yet there he was treating them all with dignity and respect. He was unaware that he played a role in healing wounds in some of those young hearts. It’s that one word that describes Peter Yarrow that, when presented in its purest form, conquers all. That is why Peter and his music conquered a restless world. And of course that one word that describes Peter Yarrow is LOVE. Pure LOVE. Thank you for loving the world, Peter Yarrow. Thank you for loving Orquesta Guadalupana Baja California. We all love you!
- Ron Wakefield
To All, I am writing to express appreciation for Peter Yarrow's great legacy of movement-building through music, and other means through which he has created and carried a lineage of ways to imagine and organize together for the greater good. I met him at gatherings hosted by his daughter Bethany at her home in upstate New York that were full of activists, artists, local community members, folks from far and wide, plenty of good people just looking to live their lives to help others, in offbeat and/or on-beat ways. It was fun, and actually there were important eco-justice initiatives organized there too! Peter shared songs and stories and deep words of hard-won wisdom and encouragement. We should not forget the courage it took to be fighting Jim Crow and racial terror in the deep South of the 1960s or to oppose the Vietnam War when so many powerful forces wanted to suppress the truth. Also, when he talks about contemporary social problems, he brings an intelligence about the need for healing and repair that is rare in today's polarized, and combative world. I also heard him share like this in New York City and in the Black Hills. Peter reminds us that creativity, humor and kindness nurture courage. He reminds us that adversity can strengthen character. And that we can grow our imagination in community. Through his beloved Mary Beth, Christopher and Bethany, he has radiated out a culture of loving family that is happy to enfold and include others from all walks of life. I am among the many who are grateful to Peter for his life's work.
Sincerely, Karenna Gore
I first met Peter at a young and impressionable age. Once a year he would have a youth group of kids on the Circle Line and sing to us. There wasn’t one of us that didn’t know Puff the magic dragon. Peter loved kids. Later in life I had the privilege of working with Noel Stookey and got to know Mary as well. But it was Peter who always made me feel loved and appreciated. Last year we tried to collaborate on a project for the Children of Ukraine but his cancer kept him from working on it. We enjoyed dinner in his neighborhood, his concerts which I loved going to and hour calls and texts. One of his last texts to me in September said: I would’ve loved to have gotten together with you, my brother, but Cancer is like a chronic disease, one that is a race between the technology being developed to impede its progress and the ability of the disease in its own Darwinian struggle. Big hugs, my brother and thank you for checking in XO.
Peter.
- John Battiloro
Peter doesn't know me, but his music, both with Peter, Paul & Mary and with his solo performances, has been the soundtrack of my life. My parents were both big fans, and we had all of the albums (and, yes, I mean actual albums) playing on our RCA stereo all of the time. My sister and I grew up knowing all of the words of...and singing along with...all of Peter's iconic songs. It was a great thrill to see Peter, Paul & Mary performing live in NYC, along with my dad, not too long before Mary's passing. There are moments you remember all your life...and that performance was one of them for me. And, then, of course, I appreciated so many of Peter's appearances on PBS, both his performances and during the fundraising drives. His music, his passion, his dedication to good causes have been a source of true inspiration and admiration and respect for me. When I read about his work with Operation Respect, I saw how very closely it aligns with the some of the work we are doing at Temple Beth Tikvah (Wayne, NJ) with our Shine a Light program. Thank you, Peter, for all you have meant to me and my family...without ever knowing us. Thank you for modeling your good works for your son and daughter, who, no doubt, will carry on your legacy with honor. I shall continue to keep you in my mishabeirach prayers. Wishing you strength and, most importantly, comfort and peace.
Best,
Janice Paul
Wow, Peter Yarrow, the happy dragon of Peter, Paul, and Mary was knocking on our door, waiting to carpool the neighborhood kids to Malibu Montessori school.
We’d never met before, but; we felt connected. While Peter was organizing, leading and singing in anti-Vietnam War protests, we were marching in those protests.
Over the next 50 years, our relationship grew in love and respect as we worked together against the nuclear power plant in Morro Bay, problems in the Philippines, and most recently against Gun Violence in Schools.
After Peter organized singer-songwriters to travel to Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School to help surviving students manage their grief, he asked us to document some students with their results.
And there’s also Peter's zany sense of humor. We’ll always remember Peter, dressed as the Easter Bunny, romping down the beach, delivering eggs to kids on Easter morning! Peter is family.
Peter is LOVE, LOVE, LOVE
Beth & George Gage
Dear Peter,
When I first met you, we were both 30 years younger and I was a real estate executive with Toys “R” Us and as a sideline serve this president and chairman of the Toys “R” Us foundation.
We both grew older together and have suffered some of the same illnesses. I will never forget when you presented Toys “R” Us myself and Mike Goldstein a certificate on stage and you were proud of our sponsorship and we were proud to sponsor you.
You will conquer this illness and go on to continue your charitable endeavors.
I will never forget you, Paul and beloved Mary.
With all my love and Susan‘s love,
Michael
As I surveyed the devastation of November 5th this year, I wondered whether I could retreat from the battlefield of social justice and turn my attention exclusively to private pleasures: family, music, photography, travel. I realized I couldn't and then started to survey the origin of my passion for achieving a just society. It certainly didn't come from my parents who, my G-d, voted for Richard Nixon in 1960. I then realized that it came from the soft and insistent music and lyrics of the folk music which I imbibed throughout the 1960's and, of course, Peter, Paul & Mary was the first among the folk artists to whom I listened: "Where Have All the Flowers Gone?" and "Blowin' in the Wind?". These songs and others by P, P &M (as well, of course, the recordings, of Joan, Judy and Phil) imbedded themselves into my very being and made me the person who I am today and have been my entire life.
Without your music, Peter, I may well have become that big law attorney that my father wished me to be.
I want to thank you, Peter, for that and for the personal relationship we developed while I was at Warner Bros Records and afterwards. It was the thrill of a lifetime to become friends with one of the icons of my adolescence. Not just friends, but also colleagues, as you engaged me in your activities on behalf of, anti-bullying and gun control and safety. Also, thank you for your beautiful tribute to me on the occasion of my receiving The Spirit of Liberty award from People for the American Way.
Thank you, Peter, for turning my life toward the work of peace and justice. You are in substantial part responsible for the life I have led and the person I became.
Peace, Brother.... David Altschul
I first met Peter in the early 1970's when Alex Hassilev, with whom I was living, took me to McCabe's to see Peter do a solo gig. Alex thought we would appreciate each other politically and was he ever right! We went on to produce three Survival Sunday's at the Hollywood Bowel, anti-nuclear programs that featured a wonderful assortment of performers. Then we did a big rally up at Diablo Canyon, again with a star-studded cast of progressive performers. I learned so much about producing live events from Peter and we went on to do films together as well. I remember with great joy a fundraiser we did at 27 West 67th for our film about Allard Lowenstein. Peter went up and started singing and pitching at the same time, and when we got off stage, we had raised $60,000. Peter was also in the Lowenstein film and did a wonderful interview about Al, his dear friend. To cap it off, we used "Sweet Survivor" at the end of film and it was wonderfully emblematic of the whole project. So many memories, so many shows back stage, so many fundraisers. When Peter did a concert in Malibu by himself, he stopped midway and said "Everybody under 12 years of age, Julie and Carl (Rogers) please join me on stage. Carl and I got to sing Puff with the dragon himself. Flash forward to ONE STORY AT A TIME, the film we made with him and Linda Carroll during the pandemic. Having wonderful work at that time because of Peter, was such a gift. I love you Peter and have loved you for fifty years. Travel on, your songs will be sung forever!
- Julie Thompson
Peter,
What can I say?
You (along with Mary and Noel) were the very first inspiration for my life of commitment to peace. I heard If I Had a Hammer while driving a truck on the TO a cattle ranch in Raton, MN before my freshman year in college, and it transformed me into an activist. Decades later, John Garamendi introduced us, and we a have been partners ever since. Knowing you, traveling with you, and working with you has been a tremendous privilege and a personal joy. Operation Respect, your creation, has been among the most valuable new initiatives to build peace and promote cooperation in our lifetime, and the impact will be realized in the lives of tens of thousands of young people as they mature and throughout their lives.
Your legacy will be revered and it will endure for generations. Few people in any walk of life has made a greater impact for good.
We love you, and we are with you every step of the way. Be sure Bethany, Christopher, and Mary Beth know we are ready to help in any way we can. We will come to NYC to visit if you are up to it, but we don't want to intrude.
Take good care of yourself, and know you are loved and honored for all that you have done and for the amazing human you are. You and your spirit live on and on in all of us.
XOXOXO, Chic
Peter Yarrow raised me from a child (although he would not have been aware of that until I was nearly 60, when I met him in person for the first time.) Like Peter, Paul and Mary, I was “formed” in 1961. Luckily for me, my brother Dale Jones was 13 at that time, and it was he who introduced me to so many of the most important things in my life, including the magical music of PPM. I cannot recall a time in my life when the music of PPM was not playing somewhere in our home or our car - if not ringing out on our record player (and later on other formats!) then through my brother’s guitar and voice. Many of my earliest lessons in justice and humanity came as my brother explained PPM’s powerful lyrics to me starting in the 60s. When our daughters were born in the 1990s, I paid this forward by playing Peter, Paul and Mommy and then Peter, Paul and Mommy Too. I finally got to meet Peter in 2019 at Harvard Business School, of all places. I found myself sitting at a conference with mostly other “business people”, who shared a desire to leave the world a better place than we found it. Many participants had invited guests who shared that goal. To my overwhelming surprise, I saw Peter Yarrow (THE Peter Yarrow!!) sitting several rows in front of me. As a New Yorker, I at first played it cool and resisted the urge I felt to run up and fanboy him, but when he rose to walk at a break, I shamelessly threw myself at him, explaining to him how he had raised me. Peter, being Peter, hugged me and could not have been more engaging. Picking up on the theme of the conference, I asked what he was working on, and - as always - he was engaged in many wonderful causes, but he raised with me the work he was doing with “the Parkland Kids”, the survivors of the Marjorie Stoneman Douglas High School tragedy. Less than a week later, he had enlisted me to help in my small way. In the ensuing years, Peter has made my family and me feel part of his family, even completing the circle during COVID by singing to my brother over Zoom on his birthday and giving him a guitar with a loving inscription and marvelously whimsical self portrait! Dragons live forever, and this dragon, Peter, will live forever through the love that he showered on so many people. We love you, Peter!
Peter, you changed the trajectory of my life. The Trio came to San Antonio and performed at the Hemisfair Area in 1969. I attended with my college girlfriend. The next year you came back. I bought tickets and thought she would be my date. There was a death in her family so I invited my brother (Christopher) to come with me on the prepurchased ticket. I learned somewhere that you and Noel and Mary would come out and talk to folks after the show if we waited until the crowd cleared out. About 45 minutes later, the three of you came out and went to different places on the arena floor. I went to you because I was a wantabe guitarist and I loved some of the songs you had written. You talked about your recent trip to India and gradually even the hangers-on began to drift away. I thing there were three or four others besides Chris and myself still there when a security guard appeared and told us that we couldn't be there. You said, "I'm Peter Yarrow and we performed tonight." He said, "You can go to the dressing room. These people have to leave. At that time, you invited us to meet your for breakfast before you had to fly out. Chris and I went home. I set an alarm, but my mother (knowing that we didn't get in until close to 4 am) turned the alarm off.
Two years later, you came back to San Antonio with a group called Lazarus. Rod Kennedy promoted the tour. We reconnected briefly and you said to me, "You have to be in Kerrville on Memorial Day Weekend. We are starting a festival up there and you would love it." I started making plans. I went to the festival for Saturday night. You and Charlie Sumners invited everyone to come to the "Folk Mass" on the Schreiner Campus the next morning. I was by myself. I slept in my car and was there.
I had just graduated from college. I was running a construction company. I did not have fond feelings for the church-- not hostile, just irrelevant. You and Allen Damron and Charlie brought a whole new perspective to worship, and I returned to the church as a youth director trying to help the kids in the church understand the relevancy. (There were other things happening in my life but a whole lot of it came together at Charlie's service.) I continued to come to the Kerrville Festival. Three years later, my commitments to the church and to my business collided and I had to make some hard choices. I shut my company and went to seminary. In that decade, I missed two festivals. In those days, KFF was only one weekend.
To make a long story shorter, I went to seminary in 1975. I was ordained in 1979. That year, Rod Kennedy invited me to join "the staff" and I was deeply involved with construction and maintenance on the festival grounds. When the festival was expanded to 11 days in 1981, I was invited to lead worship on the second weekend. I have a picture on my wall of you singing over my shoulder in 1983. For almost a decade, you were a major part of our worship services.
Kerrville became a significant part of my life. When Rod and Nancylee Kennedy sold Quiet Valley Ranch and the Folk Festival to a group of patrons, I was one of the original investors. That was in 1997 and 1998. Within five years, the new Executive Director had burned through the half million dollars we (collectively) paid, but had saddled the two corporations with an additional half million dollar debt. Skipping the details, you, Stuart Vexler, Vern Crawford, Lenore Langdorf and myself worked for three months to find a way to save the festival. We talked several times a week. In the end, it all worked out. We formed the Quiet Valley Stewardship Group and raised enough money to escape foreclosure on the land. It was in those days of 2002 that I think we became more than friendly acquaintances and became friends.
In 2011, I received a call from my brother Christopher who was a dean at the University of WIsconsin in Madison. He said to me, "We were sitting in the dean's lounge bemoaning how Scott Walker was working to break the public sector unions in Wisconsin. There are tens of thousands of people wandering the streets, not knowing what to do. One of the other deans said, we need to find a way to bring them together. If we could get Bono here, he could do it." Another said, "U2 is on tour in Africa. That won't work." Someone said, "Peter, Paul and Mary could bring them together but Mary's gone." Chris said, "All of a sudden, every eye in the room was on me. Someone said, "you've told us that your brother is a friend of Peter Yarrow. Can he get him to come?" There was silence on the phone and brother Chris broke it saying, "Well, can you?"
My heart sank. I had a sinking feeling and I didn't want to cash in all the chips that I may or may not have had. I said, "Send me some information and I'll look at it tonight." I was in the choir room at the church when I got my brother's call. I walked back to my office, and thought, there is nothing my brother can send me that will make any difference. My brother has asked me to do something and I either can or I can't. It was about four o'clock on a Monday after noon. I called your cell phone and you answered on the third ring. I said, "Peter, this is Walter Lee." He almost shouted at me, "What are you doing in Lybia. Don't you know it's dangerous there." I said, "Peter, I'm in Texas." You said, "Oh, goodness that's good. I thought you were Skyping from Lybia. What can I do for you?" I said, "Are you aware of what's going on in Madison Wisconsin.? You said, "Yes, we're following it very closely." I related my conversation with my brother and then asked the question, "Is there any chance that you might be able to go?" There was dead silence on the phone. I don't know how long it lasted. Then you spoke. "Walter, I don't think I can leave today." You turned to your staff and said, "When can you get me in and out of Madison this week." You came back within a minute and said, "I can be there Wednesday. I'll stay over night. Tell your brother that I'm staying with him and I'll need to fly out Thursday morning. Or I can fly in and out on Friday." I'll never forget calling my brother back within 20 minutes of his call and telling him that he could have you Wednesday evening or mid-day Friday. You went on Friday and sang to a crowd estimated to be 100,000 people in frigid temperatures. Your songs and your message are still up on youtube.com. It's a shame that the people did not prevail.
Peter, you have done so much for so many. I will be eternally grateful for our friendship. Thank you, my friend, my brother. You will live ever in my heart.
- Walter Lee
To my dear friend, Peter. I know people around the world will be sharing stories about how much your iconic songs have meant to them. Having grown up in the 60s, your powerful lyrics and anthems have meant so much to me too. As I have grown older, however, it’s been your unyielding activism and fight for civil rights that have meant even more. Few people have dedicated their lives -- their ever-waking hours -- to continue to fight for peace and social reform.
But having the rare opportunity to have gotten to know you through The Carter Center has meant even more. I treasure our conversations that were filled with love and laughter. I will forever value our shared work to promote respect and tolerance in schools. I think of you every day as I admire the painting you did for me. It proudly has a place in my home.
So, among the countless contributions to your legacy, your music is uniquely positioned at the center of American culture and your life’s work in social justice will continue to inspire generations. But it’s your friendship and generosity, Peter, that have touched me the most.
Peace and love,
Gail Shore
Balsam Lake, WI
Peter provided so much of the sound track of my life--not only in his music and voice, but with his indomitable spirit and values driven commitment.
Of course, If I Had a Hammer--I'd hammer out justice!, for the civil rights movement.
For Peace in Vietnam with The Great Mandala
For health care, for people with disabilities, for immigration reform, for every good cause for freedom and decency--Peter's music was there.
And PETER was there.
He often came at my request. And he most often came at his generous suggestion.
He was there to offer humor, whimsy and joy (Puff the Magic Dragon) and hope (Stewball)
He was there to call us to our better angels (Don't Laugh At Me)
and he was there to build the movement.
His children's books now populate my own grandchildren's shelves.
His voice in in my mind, his spirit in my heart. And I hope to carry on his commitments to making this a more just and caring world in all I can do.
Love you, Peter
--from Heather Booth
Peter has been on my musical radar since the early days of Peter, Paul and Mary. My parents had several of their albums, and I listened to them regularly. Their music is still in my rotation, in fact. My fondest memory, however, is a fundraiser he attended for Senator Tammy Baldwin in 2012. Thanks to weather issues (at least I was thankful for them) he was not able to travel to his next destination after his first scheduled fundraiser. He then agreed to add a second fundraiser for Tammy in Green Bay, WI. I was fortunate to attend, and I, along with everyone else in attendance, were awed and inspired my his music, his performance, and his emotional exhortations to get out and work Tammy and President Obama. Exactly one week later, his inspiration (and the work he inspired) led to both of them emerging victorious. Despite the sorrow of the most recent presidential election, Senator Baldwin was re-elected. To me, this year's success still owes a debt to Peter from 12 years ago. Thank you, and God bless, Peter!
- Jim Morgenstern
Dear Peter, precious friend and brother,
There are so many ways in which you have touched Trina and me and our children and grandchildren through your music, art, storytelling, and heartful sharing. You have done the same for millions of people across the world. We have seen you leverage the opportunity and responsibility that your talent, celebrity, and social capital give you to be a positive force and role model for people and groups. We have seen you give people hope, enabling them to embrace their common humanity and their connectedness to and with people whom they have never met. We have seen you uplift and unite many disparate people and groups-- even when people have been in places of grief, frustration, and despair. And we have seen you touch the hearts of leaders so that they could connect to their values and be more motivated them to do good.
Peter, you had a profound and humanizing impact on others, both directly and through others, including Trina and me. Let us share one such occasion. The setting was Dakar, Bangladesh in 2012, during a general strike. The context was work that Trina and I were doing with a wonderful NGO, BRAC. The specific occasion was a weeklong co--constructive collaboration between two Jewish Americans and 20 Islamic Bangladeshi BRAC staff. Our goal was incorporate culturally responsive social emotional learning into the 64,000 primary schools that BRAC ran for first-generation students in rural Bangladesh. The last session included a summative closing. The closing started with participants sharing what they had learned, how they felt about what they had learned it, and what they would do with what they learned. We concluded the intentionally evocative closing by listening to Palestinian and Israeli singers, Amal Murkus and David Bozer join you in singing “Don’t Bully Me” and “We Shall Overcome,” recordings that came out of your peace building work in Palestine and Israel, that you had often shared with us and others. We shared that historical context with our Bangladeshi colleagues as it was resonant with group conflict in Bangladesh. They spontaneously joined in the final song, singing We Shall Overcome in Bangla while you, Trina and I were singing in English, and Amal and David sang in Arabic and Hebrew. That 2012 memory has remained a vivid memory of an experience that reflected your biculturalism, multiculturalism, internationalism, and peacebuilding. Although we did not tape that memorable moment, we found a version of “We Shall Overcome” being sung in English, Bangla, Hindi, and Urdu, which was recorded to uplift people during Covid. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q9EOKKyKy54 We share with you in recognition of your bountiful love and great work.
Peace and love,
David and Trina Osher
My dearest friend and “Uncle” of 43 years. Where to begin? I write this to you through tears because of the love that I have for you and our friendship. You have been such an important part of my life, and for that I will always be grateful. I so admire the warm, generous, compassionate, genuine person that you are. Your humor is one of a kind, we have shared so many laughs throughout the years, we really do “get” each other. My life will forever be better because you’ve been a part of it. I wish we could have more time together, but I wanted you to know that I will always cherish the times we’ve had and the time we still have. Thank you for being you and for being a blessing in everyone’s life, especially mine and my family. I have loved our back and forth texts that are more like novels with our silly pics/emojis that you and I appreciate even if we don’t always know what they are or what they mean, lol.
You’ve done so many incredible things in your life—for your family, in your career, and for all of us who care about you. What a difference you’ve made. A person like you doesn’t come along very often. You made so many tough times easier and the best times even better. I will hold every memory we’ve made together close to my heart forever. Thank you for everything. I love you with all my heart. ~Lisa
Peter-
I have been fortunate to know you for over 20 years now, ever since we met through the Guggenheim's "Learning to Read Through the Arts" program. From the moment we crossed paths, your warmth, openness, and kindness drew me to you, and we immediately became friends.
You are, without question, a one-of-a-kind man. There's a quote that comes to mind when I think of you: “A person who dares to waste one hour of time has not discovered the value of life.” Your life has been anything but wasted, Peter. You’ve spent it pouring your energy into causes that matter, into people who need your kindness, and into creating beautiful moments of music and joy for all who are lucky enough to be around you.
Your humanitarian work, especially the creation of the Operation Respect platform, which helped Israel-Arab children connect with one another, is a testament to your belief in unity, understanding, and the power of empathy. The way you've dedicated yourself to breaking down barriers and building bridges between cultures is something that will leave an indelible mark on the world. You have made a difference—truly—a difference that echoes far beyond what most of us will ever know.
The memory of the many musical gatherings at your home, with friends and loved ones, will forever remain in my heart. You were always the most gracious, caring host, and those evenings were filled with music, laughter, and a sense of community that only you could foster. And who could forget those countless Rosh Hashanah holidays, spent with you, Valentina, Bethany, and so many others, when you would get up and sing "Puff the Magic Dragon" with such joy and spirit. Those moments, Peter, will always be with me and my family.
You will forever be remembered as “Peter,” the voice of Peter, Paul, and Mary, but to me, you are so much more. You are a true friend, a man whose kindness and generosity knew no bounds. I never had the honor of meeting Christopher in person, but I felt as though I knew him through your stories—your love for him was always so palpable, and I’m sure he is just as proud of you as we all are.
As you’ve touched the lives of so many, I want you to know that your legacy will live on in the countless people whose lives you’ve changed, the children you helped, the music you shared, and the friendships you forged.
Thank you, Peter, for being the light that you are, for showing us all what it means to live with purpose, compassion, and authenticity.
Xoxo,
Vivian Serota
On this Thanksgiving Eve, I want you to know how deeply grateful I am for the opportunity to work alongside you in your publishing endeavors. It has been both a pleasure and an honor to witness your music come alive through your books and to play a small part in your mission to make the world a better place.
As I reflect on the incredible adventures we’ve shared while building your publishing business, one memory shines brightly: having dinner with you and Kaylee in Los Angeles after a bookstore signing event. We laughed so hard—so freely and unabashedly—that I genuinely thought we might get kicked out of the restaurant! Thankfully, we didn’t, but that moment remains etched in my heart as a reminder of how work never feels like work when you’re surrounded by people you love and respect.
We’ve shared so many wonderful experiences together—traveling to Bologna, singing with children during book tours, having dinners with Sterling, Charlie, Marcus, Kaylee and Frances and so on. It was a very fun ride for us all.
Your music and books have left an indelible mark on the world, resonating in the hearts of both children and adults. I have no doubt that your passion, creativity, and advocacy have made—and will continue to make—a meaningful difference in countless lives, inspiring others to strive for something greater.
Peter, I will miss you deeply, but your spirit will live on in my heart forever.
Thank you for sharing your light, your vision, and your spirit with me. Much Much Love, Paula
I had the honor of seeing PP& M each Easter, when they would come to the SF Bay Area. As a budding guitarist, I studied the guitar parts and the stunning harmonies. Recently my partner Judi and I spent a week at a resort in Mexico with Peter, as he was healing. He attended our concert and proclaimed us ”Folksingers!” And invited us to perform with him at his concert. We sang “Stewball” and “Blowin’ In the WInd” and he set us up like PP&M. It was truly an out of body experience for me. I couldn’t believe it was me singing those songs. We had lunch with him in New York last year and visited him at his home. He told story afternoon story , filling in the history of the music of my life. I will never forget being at a demonstration protesting Diablo Canyon’s nuclear power plant and hearin his voice as he led us all in “Blowin’ In the Wind’. It showed me the power of music to lift the spirit and nurture hope. Thank you, Peter!
- Bob Reid
I have been extraordinarily fortunate to spend time with Peter in a variety of settings over the years including at his beautiful home in New York, sitting around the living room singing all of the beautiful songs that he and Noel Paul and Mary gifted the universe with. He has met and supported our son who is on the spectrum and his pals at the Tarrytown Music Hall several times when they were offering their handmade candles and bracelets. I had been working with Elizabeth on a potential Operation Respect program for my upstate New York hometown after young people were prevented from inflicting terrible harm on their classmates. Covid unfortunately prevented further planning.
I was overwhelmed with happy tears when Peter walked into my surprise 65th birthday party at our friends the Clarfeld's. I never in my wildest dreams could have imagined sitting before this beautiful, loving man as he sang Happy Birthday to me and then led the entire room of friends and family in several hours of the songs that we all loved and knew so well.
My office is adorned with several of Peter's beautiful art pieces all respectfully framed, a daily reminder of the bounty of his artistic talent and gifts. There are many pictures around our home of our evenings at his home in New York and the concerts we attended and of course I have an entire photo album of the birthday party which I so treasure.
As anyone in my circle of friends and family will attest I have always and will always say of Peter that he is simply the dearest man on the planet.
Thank you Peter for all that you have given the world with your loving kindness and extraordinary talent and humanity.
Bless you and your family always. love and hugs, xox, Melanie
My dearest Peter, one of the joys of my life has been meeting you as a result of having worked for Susan Polis Schutz for 20 years. All our time together was special, seeing that beautiful face of yours and talking with you so many times and sharing music and poetry -- it's meant the world to me. I always admired the way you believed in the goodness of people and their hope to get along together. I admired the way you brought music into the lives of young people from Israel and Pakistan, connecting them with the power of music. I admired your trips around the world and your wonderful music. I adore you, I love you, you are one of the most extraordinary human beings I've ever known.
- Kareñ Bidgood
Along with a few friends from Rancho La Puerta, she accompanied him to a concert for migrants at a shelter. People were arriving en masse on caravans, and both she and Peter had presented at “the Ranch” just the week before. He had attended all her talks, asking profound, educated questions about love and communication. It wasn’t until a few classes in that she realized he was part of the legendary trio she had gone to hear in 1962 at the College of Marin. (she knew him then as “Peter, Paul and Mary”)
That concert in 1962 had been transformative. It was the first time she understood how music could speak to her soul. She went home, replaced her Paul Newman poster with one of Peter, Paul, and Mary, and played their records on repeat, feeling as if they were speaking directly to her. That connection to their music stayed with her—and she passed it on to her friends and family. When she heard Light One Candle in 1986, she knew she’d found a guiding song for her life.
Now, decades later, she sat beside him, ready to sing for the migrants—to support and uplift fellow humans who had suffered unspeakable hardships. During the concert, she noticed a girl sitting beside her, wearing tattered clothes and flip-flops. Despite her circumstances, the girls’ gaze was clear, her smile pure. She seemed to shine with a quiet resilience.
After the concert, she turned to Peter. “That was a great concert, but we need to talk about something else,” she said. “This girl—she just got off the caravan from El Salvador. We have to keep her safe.”
“Who is she?” he asked.
“Judith,” she replied.
“How can we keep her safe?”
“I don’t know, Peter,” she admitted. “But we have to.”
She was speaking from a place deep inside her, not logical or reasonable but intuitive. Peter understood instantly. “Let’s start a non-profit,” he said. “We’ll raise money for the migrants—and keeping her safe will be central part to our work.”
Neither of them doubted they could do it. The next day, they founded One Story at a Time, arranged the first concert in her hometown of Corvallis, Oregon, and helped Judith’s family find shelter, safety and a new life.
From that first connection, One Story grew, offering safety, education, and hope to countless people in need. Orquesta Guadalupe was born under the dedicated care of Ron Wakefield, several kids were encouraged and then sponsored to finish school and go on to college , medical needs were cared for, eyeglasses purchased and a badly burned child was supported to go to Shriners in the USA. Along the way, the two of them forged a friendship so profound that they became part of each other’s families.
Their bond was unshakeable, filled with trust and honesty. In their darkest moments, they called each other. In brighter times, they shared bad jokes that were always funny.
When she turned 80, Peter promised he would be there. True to his word, even as the cancer moved swiftly, he set up a Zoom call from NYC to Portland. He filled the room with his magic, exuberance, and unwavering belief in peace and kindness. He made everyone laugh and weep at the same time—it was his special gift.
My darling Peter, because of the work you have done all your life, and despite those who have tried to extinguish it, your light has never gone out. And it won’t now. Even as you leave us, it will continue to shine through the millions of lives you’ve touched and cared for. One of the deepest blessings of my life is our friendship—knowing your beautiful family, making mischief, and creating magic together for so many years.
- Linda Carroll
My Brother, word has reached us that your challenges are great and that your spirit is indomitable. I am glad and honored to be among the cohort of your loved ones, collaborators, and allies, and to contribute something for you at this time. The message is simple: I love you; and in this declaration I speak for Liam and Katrina who know of what I speak and do likewise. I have been invited to remenisce with you about our times together now measured in decades: from our firsrt collaboration with Rod Kennedy (who would be here had he not gone before) over the Napa Folk Festival. Do you remember the night our dear Odetta was having so much fun that she wouldn’t leave the stage? or the day you married me and Katrina in the park; don’t forget the wedding ring you found for me and the hilarious way you carried away my ring size with a trinket-ring purchased at a seedy deli near the bus stop where we were awaiting the airporter; to the extraordinary trips to El Salvador, Guatemala, and Viet Nam; to the seranade (Day Is Done) we gave to Alex in his cell over the telephone the night before his paarole hearing; to the dress rehearsals before Carneigie Christmas programs; to the gifts you were always finding for Liam; through love affairs and painful breakups; the incubabtion of Don’t Laugh At Me. It is hard to stop. Where does the list end? It doesn’t. Remembering that memories are inherently retrospective, and that there is also the future, I remind myself that over the decades we have been absent from one another far more days than not. But I have not felt apart from you during those absences. I have always been able to find you in the light dancing in the trees, and grass, and flowers, and - of course - in the music. This togetherness I do not expect to leave you and me - ever. With all our heart, Bro Gene, Katrina, and Liam
I’m 72 and you’ve been a huge part of my life for as long as I can remember. As a teenager, you made me think about war on a very personal level, “Cruel War,” “Where Have All the Flowers Gone”. Then my next door neighbor in the small town where I grew up and everyone felt like extended family, was killed in Vietnam. “Blowing in the Wind”
In college I sold my viola to buy a guitar so I could play and sing. I bought all your cassettes and later, CDs. I got my first teaching credential when schools were cutting music from the curriculum. For the next 21 years, my students, from 6th grade through high school, would sit on the floor learning many of your songs from stapled copies of a mimeographed song book.
I especially want to thank you for one particular song, “Weave Me the Sunshine.” It has been my musical mantra through many hard times and I am so grateful!
A few years ago, I saw you and Paul at Freight and Salvage in Berkeley, California. The entire concert filled my heart to overflowing, but when you sang, “Weave Me the Sunshine,” I felt like you were telling me for a lifetime to keep faith and hope, to carry on in goodness and love! Thank you, Peter Yarrow, for your profound influence in guiding and strengthening me to help the light of this world to grow.
In love and gratitude,
Cathy Lair
I used to see Peter at the Kerrville Folk Festival when I lived in Texas in the 80s and up to 1992. One year at the festival I was playing banjo with my friend, John Bogard playing guitar. Peter was walking on the road and was about to pass our camping spot where we were playing a song. Peter stopped and listened to us while played until we finished the song. Then he started clapping his hands. It was quite an honor to be appreciated by one of our heroes when we usually would be the ones clapping in appreciation of him. I never forgot that moment as it gave me great confidence to continue playing music and practicing to become a better musician! Peter, you continue to be an inspiration and I am honored to have met you and to have had the opportunity to play and sing for you!!!
- Gary Cobus
Dear Peter,
“Thank you” just doesn’t seem to cut it when talking about someone who has been there for someone without having any idea. I was just a kid and I needed something; something that would help me put our crazy world into some sort of perspective. And then I realized that the “answer is blowing in the wind.”
Thank you for your heart, your love, for singing “bring back the baby, she’s part of the song” as I was walking my crying 9 month old out of your concert in 2001, thank you for your hugs throughout the years and for letting me indulge in sharing pictures of my grandson, Levi on text. Thank you for agreeing to sing with Caitie last year. It meant so much to her family and to me.
Thank you for being the catalyst for Rich and me to meet Sherrie Rosenberg. Your influence, music, and acts of love and kindness will carry on through everybody you’ve touched.
You are such a beautiful soul and I thank God we have been blessed to come in contact with it. It is now intertwined with mine. Love you so much.
Brenda and Rich Goldman
Hello Peter,
It's been a long while since we last spoke. I'm very sorry to hear that you've been ill. You have definitely been in my thoughts lately. I want to thank Bethany and Christopher for their thoughtfulness in reaching out to your extended family and friends across the land, around the world via this social media connection to be able to reconnect and show how much you are loved by so many.
Throughout the decades of your life and ours, with your tireless dedication, thank you for unselfishly standing up and giving a voice for others through your voice and music...you are truly a gift. Behind your gentle kindness, soft spoken calming voice and sparking smiling eyes is a powerful tsunami of awareness and overflowing passion for your fellow man, woman and the Earth. I'm so glad that one of those waves passed my way back in 1990.
Seeing you at the festival over the years was always a sweet blessing and I'm glad that my daughter and I could call you "family."
Much love to you and your family.
~Shirlynn~
One of my fondest memories was meeting Peter and Noel Stookey with you during your visit to Los Angeles when we went to the Writers’ Guild Theater. The songs they sang that night, some of which I had not remembered hearing, deeply touched my heart. I have never forgotten the feelings I experienced listening to them sing and speak, along with Theodore Bikel. Later, receiving the correspondence you and Peter shared made me realize the depth of his commitment to humanity, in addition to his musical gifts. Such a rare, loving and giving man. A true mensch, with a beautiful neshoma, whose life has enriched mine forever. I hope and pray that in Peter’s remaining time here he will be surrounded by love and comfort, knowing that he has truly made a difference in this world.
Love and prayers,
Aimee
My dear brother Peter,
We first met 18 years ago, the Hebrew numeric for ‘chai’ or ‘life’. You breathe life into us all. Somehow, you walk into a room and whether there is 1 person, 100 people, or a crowd of 1,000 - each person feels personally embraced by you, personally affirmed by you.
As for me, as we became close friends and brothers over these years, you taught me how to feel new levels of compassion for others, to tilt the scales toward mercy while fighting for justice. To notice the unnoticed. To lift the unlifted. You model the virtue of humility, and how it opens us to love.
We have also unraveled between us the uniquely Jewish side of life, and its ever-unresolved challenges - you delving deeply into your generational family story, and feeling closer to that story as the years unfolded. And me, confiding in you the challenges of being the son of a survivor of Auschwitz, and my personal struggle against darkness and toward faith.
Of you dear brother, I always asked myself how could one human being be such a masterful artist, teacher, activist, friend and so much more, all at the same time? How could one human being touch so many lives so deeply? Your life has answered those questions for me. I have never met anyone remotely like you. While most people know you through your enormous musical gifts, those of us who have been fortunate to have you in our lives are also inspired by your activism, and how you have woven the values of your music into acts of justice and lovingkindness, day in and day out.
I love you, my brother. You are my model and mentor. What a gift you are to me and to so many others. Your love and friendship have changed my life. With unending gratitude and love, as ever…
Larry
Peter -
I have been blessed to know and work with you for about fifteen years, although I have been a fan for my whole life. Your steadfast commitment to making the world a better place through song and activism is truly inspiring and it comes from the kindest of hearts.
I’ve always loved the “sound” of the early PPM records, so I suppose I have you to partly thank for my becoming a sound engineer. And since 2003, my work at WFUV has enabled me to collaborate with many of my musical heroes. It has been my highest honor to mix sound for you not only in the studios of WFUV, but also at concert venues and special events in the New York area. Each and every time was a joy.
I cannot thank you enough for your unwavering friendship, support, and encouragement over the years. You are a giant among men, and you truly mean the world to me.
With gratitude,
Jeremy Rainer
Peter, our most magnificent and loving dragon,
You have done more that any artist/activist we have ever known, to tirelessly use music and love to make the world a better place and to help all of us aspire to be the best we can be. We are awed by how you have done this with unlimited generosity on a global scale for decades. Whether it was singing in Birmingham, organizing a march in Washington or a concert at Shea stadium, getting arrested in front of the South African embassy, filming in Central America, hopping on countless planes to prop up democracy or sing for sick friends, quell bullying in schools around the world including hot spots like the Ukraine and Palestine, and unite a divided country… not to mention support PBS and enrich it’s programming…no one has done it so well and with such talent and a loving, joyful spirit as you! PETER YOU ARE UNIQUE!!!You helped change the world and influenced important social and political movements in hugely important and measurable ways.
Our friendship and work together has been one of the greatest gifts in our lives. Countless and memorable collaborations including after midnight edits and mix sessions, concerts and dinners fueled by oysters, Chinese food, wine, milkshakes, jokes, jamming, skiing up at Prospect Bowl, operas and, lots of hugs and laughter. We did well as a team…but you made it all possible, your vision, your impeccable ears, and world class talent. A thousand thank-you’s for letting us into your world. For us it was a privilege and an incredible ride.
We were amazed how you also found so much special time for your wonderful family and hundreds of friends, …and the Trio, Operation Respect, Newtown, Parkland, Braver Angels and so much more. To accomplish this you frequently worked all night and did it all again the next day. Just to get it “Peterized” and perfect. What a big and important load you carried. Most people don’t know how much magic the dragon toiled at because he was always a menche and worked just as hard spreading his love and making us laugh and sing in public.
(Just a side note from Jim: )I stood in line to get to get your autograph at County Center when I was 12. I think PP&M were my only autographs. You have been in my life since 1960. SO I was comforted to see your whiskered face peering at me from a few inches away at like 6 in the morning in a recovery room a few years ago… coming to after a piece of my lung was removed. It is an indelible image. You helped me select just the right surgeon and everything turned out fine. We were shooting together at a Braver Angels convention a week later. Brothers… Seeger’s Raiders…oyster eaters!!!
We will always be there for you and carry your love, mission, and music in our hearts and in everything we do. WE ARE FOREVER GRATEFUL FOR OUR DEAREST FRIEND! Hugs and sloppy wet kisses forever.
XOXOXOXO
Lots of Love,
Jim and Heather
In November 2014, my home burned to the ground and I lost everything. A day or two later, standing in front of the smoldering ruins, my phone rang (I had escaped the fire with it) and I was amazed to hear Peter’s voice. We were well acquainted from numerous backstage visits and I’d had the pleasure of attending one of the benefit concerts he hosted periodically in his New York apartment. But I was amazed, stunned even, that this man, so busy and involved, with thousands upon thousands of fans and friends, would take the time to call me and offer his help if needed. A few years prior, just weeks after I’d suffered a heart attack, I went to the Mariposa Festival in Orillia Ontario where he was headlining, and maintaining his usual frenetic schedule. Peter took the time to sit and chat a while, enquiring about my health, and I have a treasured photo of us sitting together that day (thanks Mike Giovinazzo!). Peter was always so, so generous with his time and friendship, and gave everyone his attention. I once asked him how he managed to keep up the pace and he replied that he was blessed with the ability to get sleep anywhere, anytime – on a train, in a limousine or on a plane – and it kept him going. Peter has been one of my (very few) musical heroes, and has been a hero in every respect – speaking for those who do not have a voice, teaching, entertaining, and so much more. Unknowingly, he’s been a mentor, a role model and teacher to me and I’m sure countless others. The trio’s music was the music of my youth and helped shape my life, my ideals and my passions. I’m so fortunate to have had Peter Yarrow as a part of my life.
- John Lodge
November 21, 2015 Peter and Christopher (and Mustard's Retreat) came to Kitchener Ontario to play for the 10th anniversary of our concert series. It was a wonderful night, as our singing audience raised the roof with Peter's direction. Peter had declined to eat before the concert, preferring to get Chinese food after the show. Well, by the time we got out, there was an Ontario blizzard happening and a foot or two of snow blowing around. We slip-slided our way to the restaurant by midnight, only to find they had closed early due to the storm. (Kitchener is not New York!) Peter was still needing dinner, so we slid our way back to our house, and Lori pulled together a "Chinese-ish" bunch of appetizers that suited him just fine. We also gifted him a 10th anniversary mug made by Lori (shown in the last picture). We hope he remembers our adventurous night whenever he uses it. A mighty fine night it was.
- Jack Cole
My dear Peter,
61 years since you expressed interest in contact lenses to cousin Leon! My Dad subsequently fitted you. We were given concert tickets and an after-party invitation to celebrate "Peter Paul & Mary", the trio's first album. THAT was OUR beginning.
You've worn many hats for many people, but above all else, for me it was your "friend & confidante" hat.
I have very few unsaid words for you, Peter. Over the past 5 years (since Pat's passing), I've shared old pictures and anecdotes that attest to our long friendship. You have often been my rock and voice of reason.You've been part of my life longer than anyone else.
The thought of never again speaking with you or hearing your laughter, brings a sorrow I've only known as a widow. How blessed I have been to have had your friendship for most of my life. To me, you have always been my friend, first and foremost. I know you've touched thousands of lives personally, but because of your selflessness, when we shared time, you always made me feel as if I were YOUR only friend.
I hope your grace and courage throughout this battle will always serve as guidance for me, as I continue my own journey.
You are SO loved. I know you KNOW that, yet I still need to say it just one more time. The void your absence will leave can never be filled.
Thank you for being such a constant in my life and for extending that to Joanna as well.
I will not say goodbye, for not one of us knows what lies ahead. Go gently, my dear Peter, and be truly free. I will always hold to seeing you in the golden sun of eternity. No pain, no suffering... only love and peace.
I love you forever and always.
Your friend,
Joanie
Where do I begin, I do not remember a time in my life that didn’t have the trio in it. Dad worked for them all through the 60’s as their pilot and travel manager. I met Peter in 1978 at a concert in Santa Barbara. Little did I know the next time I saw him Dad would be dead (81) and I would be back stage in the Sydney Opera House (86) turning 16 being surrounded by the trio and Dick with all of them crying about his loss. It was from the stories Mary and “Uncle” Peter told of dad that I learned so much about him and about myself that night and on every additional visit.
Working at folk festivals, Peter would always take time when he was there to catch up and tell me more stories about dad.
Peter, I love you and am sending love and light your way and to Bethany, Christopher, and the rest of your family. Thank you for being a part of mine and my history.
Your memories will always be for a blessing to me. XOXO Doc Shannon
Oh, so many stories, so many memories. The Christmas/Chanukah concerts, the dinners, Fire Island, a special event honoring Peter at LaGuardia High School (aka the High School of Music and Art), West 67th Street encounters and impromptu sidewalk chats. Of all of the memories, the one that stands out most vividly goes back years, and involves our oldest granddaughter Julia. Julia was about ten years old at the time, and already an aspiring performer with an angelic voice. We were all at the Kovners for dinner when Peter joined us, as he so often did, carrying his guitar. Sarah introduced him to Julia and her parents, who were visiting New York from LA. Julia's eyes widened. "Peter Yarrow?" she intoned. "Peter of 'Peter, Paul and Mary?' " She was gobsmacked, totally stunned. Peter smiled, and asked her a few questions about herself and her aspirations to put her at ease, then asked if she wanted to hear a song. Did she ever! She was so excited at the prospect of hearing Peter sing that she could only nod -- vigorously. He sang "Puff the Magic Dragon," of course, and Julia was in heaven. With Peter's encouragement, she sang the chorus with him, and soon we all joined in, enjoying an old-fashioned sing-along. Julia, now 25 and making her way as an actress and singer in New York, was thrilled, and remembers the evening to this day. We do, too, not only because it was a magical (pun intended) moment, but because of Peter's kindness. He is not only a brilliant musician, but a warm, generous person who understood Julia's excitement and made an indelible and happy memory for a starstruck child. He will always live in Julia's heart and in ours.
- Max Frankel & Joyce Purnick
It’s appropriate that I write this tribute to Peter on Thanksgiving Day because his friendship for some 50 years is one of the things that I’m most grateful for. I met him through our friends Carl and Debbie in California and when Peter, Mary Beth, Bethany and Christopher moved to New York CIty our friendship deepened. I often stayed at their apartment when they were out of town as a “homework helper” LOL. Besides his natural family, like so many, I felt a part of his extended one. There are so many memories of joining him at demonstrations at which he often performed with Petter, Paul and Mary or alone and celebrations, singing along at his concerts, laughing at our foibles and those of others, rejoicing when our favored politicians won and commiserating when they lost vowing to continue the good fight for those who work for social justice. I’m reminded of this quote from John Ruskin, "What we think, or what we know, or what we believe is, in the end, of little consequence. The only consequence is what we do" because it’s what Peter taught me through his example. His life and his impact on so many lives will always be with us. Siempre adelante!
Margot Jones
If I had never met you, Peter, I would still love you for the music you gave to the world. Throughout my 20’s I was angry and sad, a lot; I would soak in PP&M’s music like medicine. Emotionally numb, I remember times clutching a boom box against my body, wishing the shear vibration of Mon Vrai Destin or 500 Miles or the Unicorn Song or Weave Me the Sunshine could--like a defibrillator--jolt me back to life. If you only gave this world your beautiful, hopeful, healing music, it would have been enough!
But you wanted to know my story. Why didn’t my sadness drive you away? I came to realize it wasn’t entirely unusual for someone touched by a song to come pour out their heart to you. Peter, if you had offered kind words and encouragement to me one time, it would have been enough.
But like Puff the Magic Dragon, who in the animated series would drop out of the sky to help a troubled child find perspective and courage, out of the blue you would call me to check on me.
With you, I could laugh at absurdity. You gave me dignity. It took years, but I reached a place of peace.
I knew on one level that you were a man who sang for John F. Kennedy, for Martin Luther King, for Cory Aquino and the Dalai Lama. You were flying around the United States helping raise money for good political candidates, making regular appearances to sing to hospice patients and other patients, then later flying around the world with Operation Respect. And yet you made time for me.
I sometimes worried you were too giving and too generous and too trusting with strangers. I knew the fate of your friend Allard Lowenstein. But how could I tell you to dial it back when it was that very kindness that lifted me? I knew you were thoughtfully living the words of your songs:
The longer I live the more I find that people seldom take the time
To really get to know a stranger and make him a friend.
Thank you a million times for taking that time with me, Peter, and so many others: backstage crowds, coffeehouse friends, activist friends et al.
May those ripples of love and peace that you sent to all of us come flowing back to you, now; may you know they will forever swirl through this world, stirred by the wings of the thousands of little dragons you helped fly.
Love, always.
Dolores de Vera
writer, teacher, union activist
Dear, sweet Peter. I am flooded with so many memories of the past 50 years. Late night Japanese dinners with you and Mary Beth and a multitude of friends after concerts in Manhattan; visits with Vera; lunches with Penny; a summer night in Willmar with Mary Beth’s dad using his fogger to attempt to control the mosquitoes; Bethany and Christopher covered in sand at Broadbeach Road and many wonderful PP&M concerts. How fortunate I was to meet you through my budding relationship with your brother by choice Carl Rogers. A decade and a half later, in1984, you sat in our Venice, bungalow, cradling and singing to our newborn son. Fast forward to 2016, two weeks after Carl died you wrapped me in a warm blue shawl and a comforting hug before sharing a lovely meal at the Santa Monica Pier. Five months later, you once again flew across the country to sing Carl’s requests at his memorial. For us and so many others, you not only filled our hearts and heads with song, but somehow found time to be present for us as individuals. All the while, you were busy creating and nurturing
innumerable organizations to give us direction and hope.
I can’t imagine the world without you. We will have to somehow carry on… To walk in your footsteps to honor you and all you’ve worked for, for the world, we are leaving to our children and grandchildren… and all the children of the world. We will certainly get cues from your daughter and granddaughter.
I send you and the family abundant love. I hope you are comfortable and that you are able to take in all of the love that you were surrounded by, both in person and digitally.
I love you, dear Peter.
Debrah Wiley
Dear Friend Peter:
“We are the boat. We are the sea. I sail in you, you sail in me.” As we were together with people from many countries, teachers from many places, many fields studying our environment at Land Between the Lakes in Tennessee, we sang together. Our hearts were joined there as we broke bread before we sang. Yet the words rang out that when we work together, when we feel together, we are the boat and the sea. We sailed together and we felt a kinship with one another.
It mattered that our voices and hearts felt the need to be one to make our world a better place. The “magic dragon” spiriting us on to believe in the value of joining together in song. Because as you have reminded us, music does “speak louder than words”
Going back to the workshop Mark and you did for 500 people in Operation Respect and the KY School Safety program at Murray State University; you Stewball to a group of those assembled. In the moment you asked someone to join you on stage, that person connected to their life and that song as you encouraged her to interpret the song in the context of her heart and mind. Instantly, without hesitation, she shared a very piquant moment in her life, something that was deeply seated. She shared how that song really connected to her life’s learnings, and it mattered. It was so seamless and an important moment that I recall it as though your song rang out and beckoned her to think, to feel, to see how the music and lyrics had a deeper and resonant meaning.
I had asked if you would sing at the opening of the North American Association for Environmental Education. You led 1000 people in the audience with Bethany to believe in themselves to make a difference by working together, as they sang together. You beckoned us to join you on stage and sing. This Land Was Made for You and Me, as the chorus of dissonant voices joined one another in feeling the oneness of that moment. Never had I seen a moment where environmental educators and our association persons felt the need to have a common voice, the feeling that we can, when we take the time to feel our sisterhood and brotherhood.
Your selflessness has made me think of the importance of the difference you have made in our lives. We have sailed on the sea of lives together. Each time I have asked for you help you have transcended any shortage you have had of time because there has never been a time when you have not found a way to spirit us together with thought and song. I hope you know how much I have valued your friendship and your willingness to help us to think with song how important it is to “work together”.
It is interesting I was about to ask you if you had thought about a time when a group of people from across the globe could sing like “We Are the World,” the song, “Blowing in the Wind.” The need to encourage “oneness” in these times made me think of you as the “Magic Dragon” spiriting us into a global effort to sing and think and feel “together.” Uncanny that this came to me the other day as I thought of you and what you have done to help me and many others in environmental education. Surely I would be happy to help in any way in something along these lines. But this is not to ask you do anything, it is my attempt to be grateful on this Thanksgiving for your manifold gifts to me and many others.
What is most important to me is to let you know how your kindness has mattered in my life and to those you have touched in my small sphere. Gail and I are sending our love because we have found that love and music are essentials to our lives and we know this also from the way you have spirited us on to believe in the value of love.
I see more clearly now, “we are the boat, we are the sea, I sail in you, you sail in me.
Sending to you from Gail and me our gratitude and love,
Joe (Baust)
It was so hard to hear re how Peter is doing... I've been feeling kind of glazed this week, thinking of Peters' uniqueness of spirit and integrity and really standing up for so many important issues, (the Civil Rights Movement March on Washington being a pivotal moment for him), in a way that also inspires others to do so, as well and his fun spirit and wonderful little pictures he draws spontaneously and the multitude of wonderful inspirational songs and impact over the years. I first got to know him, a friendship that started in the 80's, through talking with him about one of his songs that I wanted to share with others (at a future work event) after a concert (Light One Candle). He gave me a card to contact him about getting the lyrics, I left a message, thinking it was an office number, one day I get back, my roommate says, You'll never guess who called! It was Peter, they got into a conversation about her work as a special ed teacher, I called back, we spoke on the phone for an hour and also got together that night and by a couple hours later, spoke about many aspects of our lives. (I spoke of my work as a social worker at Fountain House, a revolutionary mental health program, which spurred an international clubhouse movement, effectively integrating people with major mental health challenges into work, education, and life in the outside community by valuing what each persons' unique talents and spirit were) very similar to the way Peter relates to people. He recalled that he was at college, considering psychology and doing music on the side and when he saw how much he was reaching people with music, switched gears to do music as his main thing.
Peter has a unique quality of being an always friend. It didn't matter if we had last connected days, weeks, months or years ago, each time we talked, emailed, texted, it was as though we had just been speaking. It has a warmth, integrity and steadfastness to it and will always be treasured. Many years ago when I was volunteering overnight at a shelter, I heard and was upset about Iran having fired scud missiles into Israel, I called Peter and he helped me to feel less stressed about it, and after that call, the homeless guys staying at the shelter helped with that also. When his mother Vera was alive, I would sometimes visit her and true to her teaching background, would always learn something interesting from her. At one point, Peter passed on to me a piece of art given to him that he thought I would appreciate and as I knew my mother would love it, it ended up adorning my mothers' apartment, so that covers the mothers connection!
Children-Peter, is like a pied piper in the way he relates to children at various events, especially at the PS 6 annual concerts (you would see drawings of dragons in the hallways). He so integrated kids into the process, so that at a young age, they felt appreciated and that they had a right to be there in their uniqueness.
I was involved in connecting the Walkabout Clearwater Chorus to perform with him at a Clearwater Festival and we were in a PBS special program that he organized and that was done at Ethical Culture on the UWS and he made sure that I was included in that program. Over the years, I have raised some money from free will donations I asked people to give, at some of my events, to Operation Respect, an organization he has strong leadership in, creating harmony in the classroom and against bullying. (I also explored connecting for a while with Braver Angels, an organization that he was committed to, in relation to Walkabout and our connecting with a chorus that thinks differently from us, but that didn't end up being a direction the chorus wanted to go in at the time)
While I have written a number of songs, as they are nowhere near the caliber of his songs, I did not feel comfortable sharing them with him... I did get to sing a couple of them (including one about gun violence) at Peoples' Voice Cafe this season and, as President of the Board of Peoples' Voice Cafe, I had also talked with him about his doing a benefit concert for Peoples Voice Cafe, which he had generously agreed to do.
The one song of his that beats right in the center of my spirit is and always will be Sweet Survivor; with his determination to be a gentle and strong, clarion call for carrying it on, no matter what...cannot think of a message more important in these extraordinarily challenging times. At a Thanksgiving gathering with friends last night, without saying who it was for, after sharing the song Sweet Survivor, in relation to these times, I asked people, in relation to a friend who worked constantly to make the world a better place and was facing extraordinary challenges, to take a minute to close their eyes and hold him in light and love. The breadth of his spirit will always stay with me. Like the song Light One Candle, Peter continues to light candles in peoples' souls.
I feel blessed to know him and have him as a friend.
With love,
Bracha
I grew up with music, especially folk music. So it was luck that I went to college with Christopher, and grew a friendship with him over the last 30 plus years. Peter was at our graduation, from Oberlin, of course, and my mom and grandmother was so excited to meet him. I've been lucky to listen to music with Christopher of both Bethany and Rufus, and of course Papa Yarrow, on stage at least twice in the last 20 years. The last time in the Seattle area, with Christopher on washtub bass, I joined on stage to sing Puff the Magic Dragon.
Papa Yarrow, you are in inspiration for hope, light, and love. I love your music, your message, and your son Christopher as a dear friend. May you continue to sing for a long long time.
Jessica Levine
Dearest Brother Peter,
I have been reflecting a lot about all the times I have been honored to be on the journey with you of sacred activism. Each day as I do my walking meditation, I have been bringing your presence along and will continue to do that for a while dear brother. We are a decade apart in age and you have been my guide of what the next decade of my life might look that if one faithfully commits to answering the call of what it is I am to do to continue heal the world. You embody such compassion and love Peter that you have been able to know from the deepest parts of your being, when, where and with whom you need to be with to do the soul work of the world. So many moments that have come to mind that I have been in your presence have to do with your deep love and commitment to the children of the world. Here are a few I remember:
You choosing to spend your 50th Birthday singing to over thousand children in Prospect Park who were part of then Model Peace Education Program singing with them "I am going to lay down my sword and shield down by the riverside, ain't goin to study war no more."
Do you remember the time you beckoned me to come to a café in Greenwich Village as you took out your guitar and sang "Don't Laugh at Me" to me. You were holding a big vision of what could happen with this song and by the time we were leaving I was convinced it would happen and I needed to also answer the call in how I was to be used. That day Operation Respect started to become a living reality and as a result millions of children have been deeply affected by that work in the world and feel more loved, seen and heard as a result.
Do you remember being in the Philippines singing to over two million people because you and Paul and Mary were invited to the anniversary of the nonviolent revolution and because those who were nonviolently marching before tanks were singing Peter, Paul, and Mary songs? And then to be able to gift President Aquino the 100 top essays from American children of what the nonviolent Philippine Revolution means to them. And finally visiting several other sites with you where children were waiting patiently to catch a glimpse of the three of you - and especially you because you used this opportunity to bring the message of nonviolence to thousands of American children first in doing that essay contest.
As you approach this next threshold in the journey we call life dear one, may you take some moments to look back and see, really see, the thousands of children who are more loved, seen and heard because you chose to live a life of action and service in the way that you did. I love you dearly and know that you will continue to be a living inspiration to me and so many others that your work will continue to affect so many more children and adults forever. "Some day we will all have perfect wings" - you dear one are ready for that. May you feel deeply the depth of the love and compassion and renewed purpose people feel just by touching into your soul right now.
- Linda Lantieri
Dear Peter:
I was too young for the New York folk revival, and on the wrong side of the Atlantic. But I remember hearing Peter, Paul & Mary as a very young child and loving your songs, all so beautifully harmonised. Your music, and that of your great contemporaries, spoke to me even when I was too young to understand all that you were saying. I saw you live in London in 1982, on a PP&M reunion tour, the Royal Albert Hall. I was with my old friend and mentor Bob Shelton, and we all hung out a bit during sound check. The concert was wonderful. Fast forward to 2015, and the launch of FOLK CITY at the MCNY - a wonderful show and a moving performance. We spoke briefly and I told you about my idea for a festival celebrating Greenwich Village. You said we should talk and you called a couple of days later and offered lots of encouragement and advice. You said the festival must include activism. Fast forward again, to 2022, the fourth VILLAGE TRIP, and you came to the Bitter End for our celebration of Phil Ochs. And then, in September 2023, you asked if you might come and sing at LET FREEDOM RING, our evening of words and music honouring 60 years since the March on Washington and the continuing fight for justice for all. And you did come and sing, many songs, and everyone joined you on stage with Bethany at the Great Hall in Cooper Union. Cliff Pearson and I were so moved and teary-eyed. To have you with us meant so much - so too the wonderful email you sent a few days later. And then in April this year, I saw you and Noel in Boston, for the inaugural FOLK AMERICANA ROOTS HALL OF FAME AWARDS, when you were among the honorees and spoke so lovingly of Mary and your time together. And then you and Noel joined Joan Baez for 'Blowin' in the Wind'. Such an amazing conclusion to a weekend I will never forget. You have been a loving inspiration to so many, a light in the darkness, a voice in the wilderness. Because of you, the festival I crazily dreamed up is now titled THE VILLAGE TRIP - A CELEBRATION OF ARTS & ACTIVISM IN GREENWICH VILLAGE & THE EAST VILLAGE. Next year and always, we will honour your music and your memory. Your day will never been done, Peter.
With love and deep respect, Liz and Cliff xxxx
My dearest friend and brother, Peter,
Well, I can't begin to pretend there's anything ordinary about this missive, and the raw bittersweet emotion that accompanies it. It is, in fact, the most difficult I've ever written to you. In composing this, I find myself steeped in great sorrow and anticipated grief, yet with a heart full of joy and nothing short of the gratitude and love I feel for you. Ours has always been a friendship rooted in honesty, forthrightness, and completeness - words left unsaid were never our nature.
And, here we are, and here I am. Yet another opportunity to express the deep love, admiration and gratitude I have for you, and to tell you what a profound, once in a lifetime difference you’ve made in my life, in particular. I’m forever indebted to you, for the love, compassion, kindness and acceptance you graced upon us all over these past forty-three years.
This message I post now will deviate somewhat from the text I sent earlier, which I hope was read aloud to you. You know me - I have to share some of my prized memories of being together in your good company... the best company, really. But, where to begin! That was January in 1980, when I attended my first concert at the Front Row Theatre here in Cleveland. When I saw that the group would be performing, yet being only a little familiar to me—I still knew I wanted to go. It was just three days after my grandfather - my mom's father - passed away. My dad and I had planned to attend together, but he opted to stay home for shiva, so a neighbor accompanied me instead. After the show, when I mentioned playing guitar, you wrote down your address and phone number, telling me to send you a cassette to critique. That critique would finally occur when you invited our whole family to a show in Toledo in April 1981. I'll never forget playing those songs for you and Noel backstage on a borrowed guitar. That’s when our friendship really began.
Then life took that hard turn in November 1981, when my father passed away suddenly. You stepped in exactly when I needed it most, becoming what you later described in those college recommendation letters you’d write on my behalf, as "a combination of uncle, mentor, teacher and friend." Once I asked why you'd taken such interest in a fourteen-year-old kid, and you said you saw both a need in me and yourself as a young man. That was so you - always seeing straight to the heart of things.
And the memories just flood in! Remember surprising me at the Metropolitan Museum of Art in '82? Well, I do. There I was, a camper attending Kutz Camp in Warwick that summer. And during our day visit to the City, it was planned that I’d meet your assistant Kathleen, already a familiar voice to me, for lunch, in your absence. But, unbeknownst to me, you rearranged your schedule, and to my great delight and surprise— it was YOU who greeted me on the steps! Jennifer Alden was visiting at the time, and the three of us just cavorted through the museum, arm in arm. You had to show us your favorite—the armor room, no doubt! Then you sent us back to the apartment by cab, where Penny made us lunch of macaroni and cheese, watermelon, and milk. Such simple things become sacred memories.
You've been there for all our simchas and sorrows, haven't you? Even when you couldn't make Lisa and Jay's wedding, you flew in for that crazy post-wedding celebration dinner with all the bells and whistles, and then after we all sat in a circle at the house, serenading the new couple for hours. During our Mom's illnesses, your visits lifted her spirits like nothing and no one else could. Even stuck in that Colorado winter storm, you tried for hours to solidify plans to attend the funeral. The fact that you'd even consider leaving your once-a-year retreat still moves me deeply. But the inclement weather halted that plan. At your suggestion, a few months later, just after Madison's birth, we threw that celebration of life party for our dear mom Marsha-just like you'd done for Vera. It was exactly what we needed, and pure you to know that.
I treasure all our drives together - those magical conversations to and from airports, hotels, shows. How many times did I get us lost in those pre-GPS days? Like that infamous time I dropped you at the wrong hotel! You insisted it looked familiar, so you went in and I left. I didn’t realize my mistake until your morning call, when you alerted me as to the correct hotel. I felt horrible about that, but it still makes for a great story! "It's OK” you said, “everyone f**** up occasionally”. That was you - always showing such humanity, such patience, even when I tried it more than a few times over the years!
And then there's the music. OY, the music - don't EVEN get me started! Your sweet, angelic voice that touches the highest clouds, and brighten even the darkest days - I'll never know another like you. You've shown me how to be strong yet gentle, brave yet sensitive, thoughtful yet free-spirited. "You always have a choice," you'd say, and that's guided me more than you know.
The other day, I saw this touching film of Einstein in his later years, standing with friends in his yard in 1946. A young girl there - now elderly – was interviewed, and said something that made me think of you instantly. She recounted him having "tremendously twinkling eyes, like Santa Claus,” and, at other times, “he had extremely sad eyes—a very sad look, that held all the pain in his life. But they say the eyes are the window to the soul, and he had a very deep soul”. And that's you, my friend, with those sparkling and piercing eyes of yours—eyes that have seen so much and touched so many souls. I've watched them a million times - intense and hopeful, well-worn and tired, yet always with that spark of playfulness and joy that makes you purely you. And that’s how I’ll always remember you.
I was just thinking back to the catharsis of being with you in New York, at the time of Mary’s memorial concert. It was, as you know, one of those occasions to remember and acknowledge her many gifts, and to reaffirm life. I remember us eating together at (your favorite) Chinese restaurant down the street on W.67th. I’m reminded of how you were clearly going through your own grief and pain, and the permission you gave yourself to just be with it all. I anticipate allowing myself the same permission in grieving your loss, even as I’ll struggle, and fight back the tears and learn to embrace and incorporate your strong spirit into my life, however differently.
I'm not always sure where I am, but I'm always grounded in the love and gratitude I feel for you. You took that wide-eyed 13-year-old kid under your generous wing and taught him to fly. These last four decades have been an UNBELIEVABLE ride and gift, my friend. I’ll always cherish beyond measure, the gift of the friend that you’ve been to me. Here I am, quoting your own lyrics back to you. Words that I, and countless others, have long taken solace and comfort in… and you should, too. Thank you for all the joy and love and compassion you've given to me, and to the world. To say I'm better for having known you would be an understatement.
Your beautiful spirit will continue to guide me and live within me, forever and always, and your sweet voice will continue to soothe and resonate through me, as long as I live.
Go easy, my beloved and beautiful friend.
With all the love in my heart,
Chuck
My dear Peter,
You have been such an inspiration in my life, and in so many ways.
I first heard you singing. Those sounds stirred my heart. They were like a calling which made me dance.
One of my first choreographies as Founder and Artistic Director of Australian Dance Theatre, which celebrates its 60th anniversary next year, was called ‘This Train’ and set to seven songs of Peter, Paul and Mary. This dance work became an iconic work for the company during its first ten years from 1965 - 1975. Over this period ‘This Train’ was performed nationally here in Australia and internationally to Europe and South East Asia. It was later remounted on several occasions with different groups of dancers around the world.
I shall never forget our first meeting after one of your 1965 concerts in Adelaide, South Australia. The following night the three of you came, after your show, to see us dance ‘This Train’ especially for you all. It was an unforgettable night for us.
You had also inspired me with your activism and fight for compassion, justice and peace in the world. In 1967 I made another work called ‘Sundown’ which was my expression as a call for peace in Vietnam during the time of that horrendous War. This was also set to songs of Peter, Paul and Mary.
I met you later several times in Australia and in New York, often with my dancers who were also immensely inspired by you. During your visits to Adelaide my husband, Jan Dalman, took some wonderful photographs of all three of you, photographs which are still prominent in my collection.
In the 1980s, I think it was, during the Peter, Paul and Mary 25th Anniversary tour, you sent me tickets for your concert in the Adelaide Festival Theatre. In that huge theatre you dedicated one of your songs about Stew Ball, the racehorse, to me. Oh, how that made me blush, but it also stirred me on in my activism for peace and justice through the vehicle of my art form, the Dance. I also visited you in New York and I constantly followed your career over the years.
The last time we met was in 2019 when I was in New York with Michael Keegan-Dolan’s company Teaċ Daṁsa performing in Loch na hEala/Swan Lake. You came to see the show and then took me out to dinner. That was such a beautiful reunion with a sharing of our experiences over the past years.
Peter, I feel so blessed to have met you, to have known you for almost sixty years and to have danced to your beautiful voice.
Thank you for being in my life, and thank you for your wonderful work and artistry that you have shared around the world.
Please know that I and my personal and dance families are thinking of you and sending you all our love.
Elizabeth
Elizabeth Cameron Dalman OAM, CdOAL, PhD
Founder: Australian Dance Theatre
Director: Mirramu Creative Arts Centre
Artistic Director: Mirramu Dance Company
Peter, my friend and brother. We have known each other for only about 18 years, and in that time, it seems like a lifetime. We have had wonderful times together and created some very special books. And more importantly, a bond that is so important to me. Before we met, Peter, Paul and Mary were my musical heroes, with songs that meant something to the world, and spoke to your commitment to that world and all of us who live in it. You led, for my generation, in making sure that the world knew what was right and that something must be done.
But for me, the absolute highlight was meeting you for the first time as we discussed publishing Puff the Magic Dragon. We had to compete with the giant publishers. You sat on the conference table and sang Puff, and almost every person at the company managed to walk by just to hear it. That was magical. You and I saw similar visions for the book, although I knew that it would be a battle to get you to agree to some of the thoughts. But you did and we had a tremendous bestseller, and I am prouder of that book than any other I have published over 50 years.
But the best part was becoming your friend and brother, a designation that taught me the power of the human spirit, and the good things you can do if you go forward, not backward, to make the world a better place. Walking down the street with you was a unique experience. If you saw somebody that was homeless, you stopped to talk and to give them money to buy some food. If you saw somebody who needed a shoulder to cry on, you were there. If we were at a restaurant, you talked to anybody that came by because they recognized you. It got to the point that I tried to make you sit with your back to the rest of the room. Not surprisingly, you managed to meet and greet anybody who came by.
Our publicity tour for Puff was extraordinary. Sellout crowds everywhere, and people waiting on line to see you. And you saw every one of them. We missed a few flights because you would not leave if there was one more person to see. What an acknowledgement that was and you made sure to give them words of kindness.
One of my memorable moments was your coming to the wedding of my son and singing. David didn’t think anybody would know you except the old people, but his husband told him to stop complaining and just let it happen. There were quite a number of gay couples there, and every camera was out and pictures taken. It was an unbelievable sight, and I even got a “sorry Dad, I was wrong” comment.
At my 75th you sang a version of Puff that you made up to suit the occasion. It was so very special and meant a great deal to me. So much so that I forgot to thank Barbara for making the party.
I’ll miss hours of talks and visits about the world and the climate of partisanship that has come to be. You have fought against that for your entire life, and that is testament to your deep commitment to the people of the world to make them aware of that and to overcome it. One can only hope somebody will pick up the torch that burned so brightly while you were here, but nobody will do it as well.
Rest assured my friend, that those of us who were in your orbit will not forget and collectively we will keep the dedication alive.
Rest in peace, my brother. Your work is done. Say hi to Puff for me.
Charlie
I will always remember a gathering that Peter hosted to benefit Operation Respect, the organization that he founded to combat bullying in school. Not only did he sing the song 'Don’t Laugh at Me,' which inspired him to start the organization, but he also taught us to sing it a few times, till we could all sing it together well.
Peter’s work and life are a powerful lesson about the value of song and music as inspirations to all who seek social justice and a better world. Not just the written and the spoken word, but songs themselves can be powerful ways of creating solidarity and motivation. At so many of Peter’s gatherings, I think of the event at the Metropolitan Museum this year honoring him for donating a guitar, he closed with ‘If I had a Hammer’ the social justice anthem of generations, which never fails to move and inspire.
- Laurence Hui
My dear brother, as you always called me: You are such special homosapien, some would say, “such a mench”, you have been such an influence in my life, and the life of my family. There is the family you inherit, and the family we choose; you, the Yarrows are the family we choose. I feel so close and connected to you, since our paths crossed during unique circumstances, we meet at a very sensitive period of your life, when you found out that your beloved daughter head a “brain” problem, it is such shocking, shaking news that confronts you; all types of questions, fears, run through your mind. I will never forget the intense conversation we had as we left the hospital. We talked about life, how we are, whom and how we love, how we care, being scared on behalf of your loved one, and it went on and on. We found out how many similarities we have, how compulsive, persistent, curious, intuitive we both are. You and Marybeth impressed me with how much you wanted to know, to understand what the problem was, and you did! In all my years as a doctor dealing with very complex, rare, life threating medical problems, I’ve interacted with all type of people of all type of backgrounds, but when you find a family like yours, so involved, wanting to learn, understand, it creates a special bond between the physician and the patient.And in this case, with this family, with this father, a homo sapiens like you…... it bonds your life for eternity.
Thanks for so much you have done for all of us in this complex conflicting world, if we would have more people like you in this world, there would be an end to all the hate, violence and inequality, and it would be a better world. I love YOU BROTHER for eternity…….
AlexBerenstein
There are so many things I could say about Peter’s impact, passion or generosity over the years. But the things that comes to mind is his thoughtfulness just after my liver transplant. We hadn’t spoken or seen each other for at least a year. I was recuperating at home, mired in worries about returning to work and life, unsure of my ability to come back. One day the mail came including package from Washington state. The box was plainly wrapped with very little identification other than my address and Yarrow on the return.
Upon opening I found a beautiful vase, obviously one of a kind from an artist with a note: “ From your buddy Puff!”
The love out of the blue was just what I needed in that moment. A shot of love and remembrance in a time of doubt.
Peter came through in a personal and heartfelt way caressing me as a friend. I’ll always remember! . Reggie Harris
Peter you are such an important part of our family.
When our mom, Harriet, passed away 30+ years ago, she was beyond touched by your incredible generosity, empathy and the extreme kindness you showed in composing "Harriet's Song",which meant the world to Harriet and to our family.
We cannot thank you enough for your friendship and the selfless love you have shown our family.
We love you, dear Peter, and will forever be eternally grateful to you. You are in our hearts and prayers.
With much love always,
Brent Nestor and the entire Nestor family
Peter, my dear friend and brother. We have known each other for only about 18 years, and in that time, it seems like a lifetime. We have had wonderful times together and created some very special books. And more importantly, a bond that is so important to me. Before we met, Peter, Paul and Mary were my musical heroes, with songs that meant something to the world, and spoke to your commitment to that world and all of us who live in it. You led, for my generation, in making sure that the world knew what was right and that something must be done.
But for me, the absolute highlight was meeting you for the first time as we discussed publishing Puff the Magic Dragon. We had to compete with the giant publishers. You sat on the conference table and sang Puff, and almost every person at the company managed to walk by just to hear it. That was magical. You and I saw similar visions for the book, although I knew that it would be a battle to get you to agree to some of the thoughts. But you did and we had a tremendous bestseller, and I am prouder of that book than any other I have published over 50 years.
But the best part was becoming your friend and brother, a designation that taught me the power of the human spirit, and the good things you can do if you go forward, not backward, to make the world a better place. Walking down the street with you was a unique experience. If you saw somebody that was homeless, you stopped to talk and to give them money to buy some food. If you saw somebody who needed a shoulder to cry on, you were there. If we were at a restaurant, you talked to anybody that came by because they recognized you. It got to the point that I tried to make you sit with your back to the rest of the room. Not surprisingly, you managed to meet and greet anybody who came by.
Our publicity tour for Puff was extraordinary. Sellout crowds everywhere, and people waiting on line to see you. And you saw every one of them. We missed a few flights because you would not leave if there was one more person to see. What an acknowledgement that was and you made sure to give them words of kindness.
One of my memorable moments was your coming to the wedding of my son and singing. David didn’t think anybody would know you except the old people, but his husband told him to stop complaining and just let it happen. There were quite a number of gay couples there, and every camera was out and pictures taken. It was an unbelievable sight, and I even got a “sorry Dad, I was wrong” comment.
At my 75th you sang a version of Puff that you made up to suit the occasion. It was so very special and meant a great deal to me. So much so that I forgot to thank Barbara for making the party.
I’ll miss hours of talks and visits about the world and the climate of partisanship that has come to be. You have fought against that for your entire life, and that is testament to your deep commitment to the people of the world to make them aware of that and to overcome it. One can only hope somebody will pick up the torch that burned so brightly while you were here, but nobody will do it as well.
Rest assured my friend, that those of us who were in your orbit will not forget and collectively we will keep the dedication alive.
Rest in peace, my brother. Your work is done. Say hi to Puff for me.
Barbara & Charlie Nurnberg
“My brother” - how I loved those two words you said when we would meet, your gentle eyes carrying that magic gleam the sages know well, a balance of youthful wonderment filtered in matured wisdom, a charismatic combo possessed by the few in this world that live this life fully. Most of us fall woefully short. Thank you for the generous windows into how it can be done. There is one night and morn in Mississippi I shall never forget … We are in Philadelphia - no not that one - but the small one much farther south. It is not 1964 but just a few years ago. Ever the genuine troubadour, you had just brought the sleepy town of Meridian to its feet with your two-hour, one-man command of song and story. I convince you to meet a philanthropist who sits on the arts board, a fan of yours and one of the state’s most wealthy, who could help support the Operation Respect mission (which he would soon do). He and his wife invite us to their elegant home. As the evening crosses midnight you two men are deep in discussion while I take a stroll in the dark into town where I locate the old police station, an historic marker indicating this was where the three Civil Rights workers, Goodman, Schwerner and Chaney, were held under arrest before their savage murders, an event that shook the nation and ushered in a seismic shift in American reckoning. When I return, you two men
of similar age, but raised on completely opposite sides of the American fence, are deep in examination, recollection and reflection on the Mississippi and country you knew over a half-century ago. If a camera had been rolling it would have made for a sensational PBS special all its own. As the man’s wife and I stand in the wings we listen as you two open up to each other. It is confessional and revealing, redeeming and healing. At one moment the elder Mississippian admits, “Peter, I grew up here. I came into my own around that event. I knew some of the ones behind those killings.” You lock your solemn and compassionate eyes on him and reply, “I played at some of their funerals.” But the healing has only begun. The next morning we are called to join a Southern brunch feast the likes I had never seen before. It is a scene out of The Help, a half-dozen or so African-American housekeepers and cooks serving twenty guests with a spread fit for royalty. The attendees are in their Southern Sunday’s best, you are in jeans and tennis shoes as you retreat to the living room to harness the peace weapon of choice, your guitar … and the spiritual makeover commences. As you calmly and diplomatically break the morn’s formality we take positions on seats and the floor. To the temple of folk music we are welcomed. Then, with the help at the rear, swaying to your sweet songs and sermons, you shatter archaic protocol, calling the help to the front who, after an awkward second of hesitation, accept your kind gesture as proper permission, for it is. They sit at your feet as you declare, “I have been at this too long to see any of us divided between the living room and the kitchen.” Then you lead us in chorus with “ We Shall Overcome.” Yes, millions were moved by the moment on the Washington Mall with Martin Luther King, Jr. featuring PPM. However, a few of us were fortunate to see its meaning and purpose in real time some five decades later - one unforgettable moment in Philadelphia, Mississippi. My brother, thank you for revealing the true power of movements. They may be remembered in monumental moments, but they are shaped in fundamental kindness.
- John McKenna
From those magical days at Café Wha in the Village when we became instant friends to the years of career building, no matter the miles and events between us, we remained brothers. Our love of the music we sang and the joy in sharing it has kept you in the warm part of my spirit.
I remember teaching you those Hebrew songs so you could join that Israeli music group and make a few bucks when you first hit the Village scene. Then, more than fifty years later, we sang one of those songs on stage in Phoenix together. You remembered every word and chord, and the years between us melted away.
I remember the day in 1961 when you offered your precious song “Puff…” to me and my partner Paul so we could sing it on stage long before you recorded it.
But mostly, the long night-after-night times in Greenwich Village when we were so young. We sang and played our music and watched the world come alive around us. We've lived blessed lives my brother...
- Art Podell
Peter and I have been friends for over 45 years, through my job as a Kerrville Folk Festival Staff Photographer, I've taken hundreds of photos of him during that time, including one he told me was his Mother's favorite image of him!
I got to document Bethany and Cristopher over the years as they began to perform with him, and watched them become wonderful musicians in their own right!
Once, about this time of year, a relative who was visiting brought in the mail and handed me a letter. Looking at the return address, 'Peter, Paul and Mary', he asked, "You get personal mail from Peter Yarrow?" I opened the envelope and read out loud, "Dear Merri Lu, This year It's time for a new ornament on the tree...this one's for you!" I was so touched!!!
Another year, while I was photographing the Festival, my sweet husband, Rick, stayed home in British Columbia, on a job. Normally, he and Peter shared birthdays during the fest. Staff had presented Peter with a cake on stage and afterward he'd wandered all over the 60 acres visiting with people, and listening to them sing,
About 1AM, he turned to me and said, "Let's walk to the office together. I want to call Rick and wish him a Happy Birthday." We did and he even sang to Rick!
He's one of the most thoughtful, passionate and compassionate people I've ever known. I'm certain everyone feels they are extra special to him, because he shares himself so fully and open heartedly with them, too.
All blessings on your upcoming journey, Peter. I love you dearly and you're a treasure in my life!
Merri Lu Park
Dearest Peter,
I love you with my heart and soul!
You have had a profound effect on me.
Sharing so many deep, personal and political moments together over many years makes It difficult to express all that you mean to me.
A few words:
Best buddy, confidant , plus one, soul mate, political comrade, brother in arms, teacher, supporter, partner, companion and so many deep dimensions of the word “ friend”.
The efforts and events we collaborated on are some I am proudest of.
Our shared struggles:
You introduced me to Caesar Chavez and together we did an event with him in DC.
Together, along with other celebrities that you recruited, we travelled to Vista sites around the country culminating in a Kennedy Center event that put light on Vista’s value as the dark winds of Reagan seemed likely.
Writing the score for the Vista Anniversary film and giving it emotional depth with your song “ Sweet Survivor “
Creating events at over 50 tour dates, to raise needed funds for progressive organizations and political candidates.
Taking my input and sharing credit with me on “ No Easy Walk To Freedom” a song about events in South Africa.
Along with Noel and Mary, getting arrested at the South African embassy as we protested Apartheid.
Celebrating with song and speech, a star studded event at the Kennedy Center celebrating the work of the Free South Africa Movement.
Traveling together throughout El Salvador and Nicaragua to witness the despair and upheaval being suffered by the people and calling out the damaging role played by U.S foreign policy.
Making the film” Heartstrings” to take what we experienced to a wider public on PBS.
Teaching me over so many years and issues that “ Music Speaks Louder Than Words”, an understanding that became such an important tool in my work for social change.
While we worked so hard on these struggles, of equal importance are the many personal moments and memories we shared.
From the very beginning you opened your home, family and dear friends to me and I did the same.
We celebrated the wonder of several weddings together. Smith and Elizabeth’s, your Bethany’s, my Laurie’s and then your singing at my wedding to Earl.
Sharing many wonderful holiday moments, vacations and visits in DC, Georgia, Nantucket, Telluride, Idaho and Mexico.
Celebrating President Clinton’s inauguration together in DC.
You were my best buddy, cheerleader and dear and constant friend during the years that I experienced a serious and very debilitating health situation.
Seared in my memory forever are the many joyful moments we shared, along with some struggles and sadness.
Now, my friend, it is time to for you to rest, and when the next journey begins you will be flying with the Angels. Where else would you possibly be?
Margie
“A dragon lives forever. . . not so little boys.” I wore out my 45 rpm record of Puff. I kept hoping the ending might change the next time I played the song.
A childhood of summers at Chalk Hills Camp in Northern Wisconsin followed where we sang folk songs accompanied by Flow’s 12 string guitar. Flow taught all the songs from PP&M’s solo albums and we would scour cutout bins in record shops for Peter, Paul &, and Mary albums at our respective colleges to learn the lyrics. In 1978, we ended that summer at Summerfest in Milwaukee for PP&M’s Reunion Tour.
Another counselor, Sinker, landed in St Charles, Minnesota as the Dover,Egor’s, and St Charles newspaper editor. She covered the filming of the Willmar 8 striking bank employees interviewing Mary Beth and Lee Grant for the paper. There she learned of a benefit concert at the Mayo Clinic Auditorium. Seven counselors made it to Rochester for the concert, sitting in the row behind the patron seats. We recognized most songs at the opening chord and not halfway through the chorus of Leaving on a Jet Plane. We were invited to the reception afterward and you dubbed us the Rochester 7, impressed with our love of the music and driving from Milwaukee and Madison for the concert. We continued to meet for camp reunion/PP&M concert weekends around the Midwest and remained in contact about causes and your music. So many conversations, causes, and, connections. One song we loved, Wild Places, led to you mentioning a small, pristine (wild) island near Martha’s Vineyard. That led to Tree’s efforts to get you to visit the Minnesota’s Boundary Waters.
So many memories from the past 50 years. There was Eugene McCarthy’s 90th Birthday Party at the Fitzgerald Theater in Saint Paul, seeing your last Concert at Carnegie Hall with Mary and catching the concert with you and Christopher on is washtub bass singing together in Rochester, Minnesota was another special moment in time. Causes like your work with Educators for Social Responsibility to develop the valuable curriculum for Don’t Laugh at Me. Seeing Judy Collins sing with you and Noel at one of the conferences in DC - another special memory.
It amazes me that in your somewhat fragmented lifestyle performing around the world, you and PP&M had the propensity to connect with me and others based on our shared love of the music and so many good causes. What a privilege to witness so many moments and see the fruits of your labor flourish. It has enriched my life knowing you.
Peace and Love,
Ann ‘calico’ Drivas
Peter,
I grew up listening to Peter, Paul, and Mary’s music. As a teen, I understood the power of your many songs during turbulent times of war and Jim Crow racism. Your words and music have lubricated healing among so many in the face of racism in the U.S., South Africa, and other places.
I witnessed your love and determination for healing again at the Unity Concert in South Dakota, where you and Bethany performed with many tribal musicians and dancers. You have been a humble witness to love, acceptance, and forgiveness. While the night air was bitter cold, the experience warmed our hearts. My heartfelt thanks for a life well lived.
Larry Schweiger
I will never forget watching you sing one New Years Eve at the Golden Cliff Restaurant and Lodge in Snowbird, Utah, in the early 80’s.
I was working at the front desk of lodge, and got to sneak away and catch part of your show while peaking over the balcony from the lounge above. What made it so special was that the love of my life, eventually my husband of almost 40 years now, had driven from Wisconsin up into the Utah mountains to spend New Years Eve with me. Watching you, listening to you sing the songs that filled our souls with so many emotions and truths for as long as we could remember, made that evening magical, and set our forever love on its path.
Thank you for always, way before that fateful New Years Eve, for always guiding us and sharing the way to love and live through your music, for filling our hearts and souls with goodness and light, through good times and bad.
As life goes on, it turns out that one of our greatest gifts is that our sons are musicians now, and hopefully passing on a little bit of your light through their songs as they reach people through their music.
Thank you for everything. Thank you for making a difference.
Wishing you love and peace, we are humbled in your presence.
With gratitude,
Deb and Tom Lynch
Peter
two little Jewish teachings for you:
in the Torah it is said for one who is passing that "he is gathered unto his people"-- va'yea'sef el amav. This beautiful expression, said of Ya'akov and Aharon and Moshe --- is not merely poetic. To be gathered unto one's people is to merge with the eternity of one's roots and offshoots, one's ancestors and children. It is to become alive--in the people with whom your soul has been gathered--including us. The welcome of your people--ancestors and descendants, students, friends, fans--is with open arms, because the soul will dwell again in unity, its true place.
the Hebrew word for love is ahavah (אהבה) -- it's numerological value is 13. When you double ahavah --- when love is met by ahavah rabbah (the great love) you get 13 + 13 = 26.
26 is the value of the four-letter name of g-d, Y - H - V - H, which means "WAS, IS, WILL BE".
WAS, IS, WILL-BE is an all-encompassing, total loving of the world and of each of us in body and soul. May our lower loves--our deep and longingest loves--be merged in the Great Love, and may the Great Love be magnified through our loves.
Love Jorian Polis Schutz
Thanking someone for a lifetime of love and support is impossible. I first met Peter shortly after I graduated from Berkeley in the late 1970’s with a degree in Conservation of Natural Resources. Unable to find a job I took a short-term position with an anti-war organization. Peter came to California to do some fundraising concerts at Cal. After his performance we spent a long time talking about the environment and all the things that needed to be done in the world to make it better. Peter flew back home, but we continued talking on the phone. One time he even sang the song “Light One Candle” over the phone. I remember him telling me he was still writing it, but it was so moving I cried.
When I landed a job in DC with Congressman Dick Ottinger (D-NY) with Peter’s help, we continued to stay in touch. I joined Peter, and his good friend Trudy Mason, for the rally at the conclusion of the ‘Great Peace March’ that went from Los Angeles to Washington, DC. At other times when I was in NYC I saw PP&M perform their annual holiday concert at Carnegie Hall. While working for Congressman Ottinger, Peter sent me a copy of an article that Christopher Yarrow wrote. That article was then published in the Congressional Record.
Peter opened doors for me that I have benefited from to this day. I went from Congressman Ottinger (D-NY) to Congressman Torres (D-CA) and then was appointed by President Clinton as the nation’s first Federal Environmental Executive. Peter’s most recent impact was when he sent letters to adoption agencies on my behalf allowing me and my husband to bring home two beautiful boys from Russia in the early 1990’s. A few years later, my husband, Ron McHugh and I, took our two boys to the Filene Center at Wolf Trap National Park in Vienna Virginia and were honored to have been invited by Peter to have them meet PP&M backstage after the concert. The boys were really thrilled, and Peter was so generous with his time.
As I said in the beginning, thanking someone for a lifetime of love and support is impossible, but Peter has the love and support of my entire family, especially mine.
Peter: You are the best –
The Family Mc-Mc
Fran McPoland,
Ron, Alexi & Nick McHugh
For Our Magic Dragon Peter Yarrow
With great love and gratitude,
Laura Parker Roerden
I first met Peter Yarrow in 1998, when I attended a launch meeting at McGraw Hill in New York City for Operation Respect representing Educators for Social Responsibility. I wasn’t supposed to be there. Our star curriculum writer Bill Kreidler was ill, and I was asked to cover the meeting in his place. I had just moved to Italy and had not yet received the boxes we had shipped from the States, which meant I did not have business clothes with me. So I bought what I could purchase quickly—a very formal, dark charcoal suit. As I was rushing to the airport in Milan, I took out enormously big, bright blue butterfly earrings I had in my purse and put them on, worried that I was overdressed. Yet even for a meeting with a folk musician, the earrings were a bold choice. Perhaps too bold. In the taxi to the meeting, I took the butterfly earrings on and off at least twice, because I was anxious about this meeting with a celebrity. At McGraw’s offices I was met by an impressive older woman, who was introduced to me as a vice president and promptly asked, “Who are you and why are you here?” As I fumbled to explain why the senior writer she had expected was missing, Peter waltzed in joyfully with his guitar on his back, hugged me and sensing the discomfort in the room said, “I just love your butterfly earrings. You are going to be perfect. I’m Peter.” Within minutes, the air in the room had shifted and we were all singing “Puff the Magic Dragon,” now smiling with a childlike receptivity and kindness, because that is how Peter Yarrow does things. So began a quarter-century of a deep friendship, collaboration, mentorship and a very special experience of Peter’s unique magic.
As the primary writer of the Operation Respect curriculum, I was fortunate to work closely with Peter. Early on I had asked Peter what his goals for the project were, expecting to hear the usual litany of metrics folks like to use: reduction of bullying behaviors, improvement in attendance, reduction in detentions. Peter simply and confidently answered, “World peace.” I laughed, because certainly he was joking. But I saw immediately: he was not. This was the moment when it hit me that Peter is a Jedi and I merely his trainee.
Peter had been motivated after the Columbine shooting to do something about the increasing violence that was threatening our children in places like schools, where sanctuary from bullets should be non-negotiable. Peter understood, though, that violence is a cultural issue, and creating safety is not merely a matter of hardening buildings. He wanted to spark a movement that would ripple out from children everywhere into the world. If we could stop bullets from flying in schools and teach children the power in nonviolence, as well as the skills of resolving conflict in community, of course we could put world peace back on the table. And no one would argue that Peter Yarrow knew something about social movements, having stood on the stage with MLK, Jr. singing “Blowing in the Wind” with Peter, Paul & Mary so many years before in that and in his other many acts in the righteous fight for civil rights.
Through Operation Respect, Peter was not simply preaching nonviolence or advocating for the absence of bullying. He believed the work had something to do with seating people back into their purest hearts. He felt the program needed an anthem and he found it in the beautiful Allen Shamblin and Steve Seskin song “Don’t Laugh at Me.” The song asks us to consider the perspective of those different from us and cautions to not get “pleasure from (another’s) pain.” But it does more. “Don’t Laugh at Me” points true north like a compass to our shared human vulnerability, as well as fallibility, which was beautifully captured in the Peter, Paul & Mary recording and video that became the centerpiece of the anti-bullying programming.
‘Cause I’m fat, I’m thin, I’m short, I’m tall
I’m deaf, I’m blind, . . .
Hey, aren't we all?”
What might be possible in a world where people could truly see and acknowledge one another’s pain and vulnerability? What problems might be connected to these threads of bullying that enshrine overpowering others as a solution? How might we create a world where we could restructure the dynamics that keep us imagining violence as the only way?
I remember a few weeks after 9/11, Peter and I were scheduled to present an e-learning concept for the Operation Respect curriculum at TechLearn in Orlando to gain support for spreading the work. Planes had only recently begun flying again; our nation still in shock. I had prepared a prototype of the project, with some fancy bells and whistles. But Peter wisely told me to simply put it away.
He asked me instead to create a slide show featuring images of people from all over the world, of all ethnicities, abilities, and ages. While the montage playing behind us on a massive screen, Peter invited CTOs from Fortune 500 companies to cross arms and link hands. Then together they sang “We Shall Overcome” with Peter humbly accompanying on guitar. I shouldn’t have been surprised when it happened, but I’ll never forget it. The air crackled with emotion as a ballroom full of executives in suits began swaying, tears streaming down many of their faces as they sang holding hands, “Deep in my heart, I do believe, that we shall overcome. . .some. . .day.” Peter has always been fond of using terms like “catalyzing hope through song” or “activating hearts” to describe the work, but it is so much deeper than that. His commitment has been to heal the dark places by bringing a light so strong that even hate could not consume it.
Peter’s celebrity opened doors for Operation Respect and along with it for bullying prevention and social and emotional learning programs across the U.S. It would not be an exaggeration to say he had an impact on an entire field of education by bringing lessons from movement building to the important work of making children everywhere emotionally healthy and safe.
Peter did the rounds presenting at every national teacher conference you could name—singing, healing, and uniting teachers’ and administrators’ hearts—before even suggesting we do the same for children. He simply refused to do the work in the wooden, orthodox way that is so common in curriculum rollout and adoption. This is, I believe, where his brilliance lay. We’d ask for strategic plans and he’d instead eye the horizon for opportunity. We’d think of roles we needed filled, and he’d take people who had a heart for the work and develop them. We’d press to leverage his famous contacts and he’d put on the brakes for a better time, because of an innately uncanny sense for timing. But what else would one expect from a master musician? Peter was bringing artistry to the task of peacemaking.
Other education programs unfolded in predictable ways: first pilot, then research, then revision and rollout, but Operation Respect began to have uniquely extraordinary moments. After we created a version of the program for summer camps, Peter created a youth march on Washington, with representatives like John Kerry in attendance and young people holding anti-bullying signs they had created. I believe I was the one crying that time: it was the most beautiful combination of youth empowerment and leadership with the support of powerful adults paying attention that I have ever seen. I’d be hard-pressed to think of another program that can say it was adopted by 200,000 sites in 50 countries, like Operation Respect can say of its programs. Peter’s keen intelligence and extraordinary vision was indeed drawing world attention, as the Don’t Laugh at Me curriculum was translated and rolled out into places like the Ukraine and the Middle East. Seeing children from Palestine and Israel singing together, their hearts connected and open across their differences, meant world peace no longer seemed to be so far out of reach.
Spending time with Peter meant you would occasionally bump into his celebrity, even if his humility meant that most of the time you entirely forgot how famous he is. He’d take the very cheap Fung Wah bus when he travelled between NYC and Boston. He would sleep on a couch without complaint. If Peter was recognized on the street or stopped for an autograph, he would always take the time to engage sincerely and authentically. His fans would be much better described as “new friends.” If you introduced someone to Peter, you’d also have to prepare them for the embracing hug and cheek kiss they were about to get. No one was a stranger to Peter for long and everyone was worthy of his rapt attention. He simply did not have anything but wide-open love and joy in his heart for others.
I remember once Peter was staying with my family in our small town in Massachusetts while we were working on a new curriculum to celebrate teachers. We took a break and walked into our downtown antique store—Peter loves antiques—and I introduced him to the owner of the store who was named Paul. I simply said, “Peter, this is Paul.”
And Paul said to me without missing a beat, “Then you must be Mary.”
He was making a joke to the actual Peter Yarrow of Peter, Paul & Mary about the band, without even knowing this Peter was that Peter.
I looked at Peter; he looked at me. And Peter said nothing.
We laughed heartily when we left the store, but Peter had no desire to out himself as a celebrity. He simply took those moments in stride.
Likewise, Peter could tell some of the best stories, so many of them intersecting with historic moments, most of them also very funny. I’d mention a heartbreak from my early days in high school and he’d counter: “Oh, right. That’s the worst. I remember a time that Ringo Starr stole my bird right in front of me.” When I told him I wanted to use the song “Blowin’ in the Wind” for the camp curriculum, he responded, “Let’s get Bobby on the phone now to ask.” And there you were: talking to Bob Dylan like it was the most natural thing in the world to do. Or you’d walk into his apartment and Gloria Steinem would be standing there, because they were working on a project together. Peter is simply a treasure trove of deep perspective on historic moments, largely because he has been so central to them.
Peter has been mostly a mentor to me, but also is one of the best friends you could ever have. When my mother died, Peter took it upon himself to help care for my father and created quite an independent friendship with him, inviting him to his concerts and other events. When my father died, he took time out of his busy schedule to be there at his funeral bringing song as balm, singing with us in church and at graveside. I know my father would have really loved that. The joy pouring so naturally out of Peter helped us manage our grief and connected our hearts at a time when we needed one another so much. Peter would often refer of those moments as a “mitzvah for a mitzvah.” But you always knew: he wasn’t keeping score. He was freely handing out blessings wherever he went.
Peter simply supported anything that the people he cares about cared about. When I wanted to start my own nonprofit, Ocean Matters, centered on youth leadership in marine conservation, Peter said yes to every request I made: from being on the board of directors, to hosting a fundraiser at his apartment, to coming with his family to Hawaii and performing a concert for an impossibly challenging fundraising trip. He even came scuba diving with the Ocean Matters staff; Peter was always game for an adventure no matter how daring. I remember once pointing out that being on our Ocean Matters incorporation papers as a director might open him to liability and he said, “I didn’t get where I got by letting risk stop me.” He was always a brave dragon, which gave us all license to be the same.
I was on the phone with Peter when my sister-in-law was calling from the hospital to tell me my brother had died of a heart attack at age 52. When I called Peter back, heaving in tears and explaining that I couldn’t imagine life without my brother, he said, “Then I’ll be your brother.” That is how extraordinarily generous Peter is. Always. He promptly became Uncle Peter to our three children.
As the years spun on, so did the work, as Peter was truly “weaving sunshine out of the falling rain.” There was the work with Olympians to bring character messages into schools; a curriculum devoted to acknowledging teachers built around a PBS documentary; then another program created for school children about gratitude and its place in our lives. Later when the political polarization of our nation became so intense and damaging, Peter pivoted to building bridges and supporting work that brought Democrats and Republicans together for productive and heart expanding conversations through the organization Braver Angels. After the Parkland shooting, Peter, his daughter Bethany, and Steve Seskin supported the teenage survivors through songwriting about their experience. Even though that project also bumped up against the pandemic, it resulted in a beautifully moving CD and video that showed how healing and powerful voices in service to truth can be. He empowered the teens to turn their grief into action.
The last project Peter and I did together was in 2022 in response to the mental health crisis in children post-pandemic. We created an activist curriculum to empower young people in similar projects for teens as the songwriting with the Parkland survivors had done.
Peter never stopped responding to the world’s pain. He simply always showed up.
I remember when we were working on the curriculum about gratitude, Peter said something that has resonated deeply with me ever since. He said, “I choose to live my life from the vantage of gratitude.” “I choose. . .” is such an important way to think about our emotional life. But then again, you’d expect those sorts of deep insights from a true Jedi.
When I heard this week that Peter would soon be passing into the ages, I was filled with deep sadness and loss. But I also chose to be filled with deep gratitude for the light and love he has brought so generously to me and to so many. And I also chose to return the mitzvah that knowing him has been.
As the Talmud states, “Do not be daunted by the enormity of the world's grief. Do justly now, love mercy now, walk humbly now. You are not obligated to complete the work, but neither are you free to abandon it.”
I have no doubt the best way to honor Peter is to live up to the words he penned in “Light One Candle” by continuing his important work to create a just and peaceful world:
“Don't let the light go out. It’s lasted for so many years. Don’t let the light go out. Let it shine through our hope and our tears.”
Peter, my friend, I tried to leave a message for you and somehow screwed it up so I wasn't able to finish it. Bless you, my friend for for your genius and your loving heart, your incredibly generous loving heart. The thing I always remember when I think of you is the fact that you called me to tell me that Al had been killed. We both loved Al, who was, like you, a world-shaker, but he couldn't sing. I remember sitting on the floor and weeping with you as we shared thoughts and feelings about our friend. I will never forget the gift of your love at such a painful time. You, my friend, inspire me as you've inspired millions with your talent, your genius and your incredibly powerful, loving heart. Thank you.
- Mike Farrell
My dear friend, mentor, musical inspiration. Thank you for so many years of kindness and friendship. From the first time we met backstage in Boston after my second PP&M concert when I was 13 years old … all these wonderful years …I’m deeply grateful to you and for you.
Impossible to measure the impact you’ve had on my life, my teaching, my musical performances. I will continue to carry on your messages of respect, love and joy. You always made me and so many others feel so special with your genuine warmth, humor and interest.
I love you, my brother.
- Paul Kehoe
You will always be a part of our life as Mosby's....memories of wonderful times and past adventures...and for me, Josh, the way you snuck up behind me and administered your bear hugs, while I was at work at Rain and Bar Bao on the UWS!
You make people smile and spread joy and love wherever you go...what a wonderous gift...we still have your painting you gifted my Mom and Dad for their wedding.
My family sends our love and fond remembrance to you and yours as we are so very grateful our paths intersected all those years ago.
- Josh and Maggie (and Jim, in absentia, of course) Mosby
I've had the great honor of being Peter and Noel's booking agent for many years. Helping them bring their songs and their stories to so many people has been a blessing.
Growing up, the music of Peter, Paul and Mary impacted me in such a way that in my teens I became a song leader in the Jewish community and taught their music to kids. The joy with which we would all sing these songs was contagious. For me to years later become a part of Peter and Noel's lives was at first surreal, but now I realize it was meant to be.
Earlier this year I brought my wife and 12 year old daughter to see a Peter and Noel concert. The three of us sang along in harmony. My daughter was so excited to point out every song she recognized.
Peter Yarrow is one of the kindest, gentlest souls I have ever met. His smile lights up every room; his warmth makes anyone in his presence feel loved. I know in my heart that I would not be the man I am today without Peter. His never-ending desire to spread peace and love has truly impacted the world. I am grateful for Peter and will love him always.
- Craig Newman
Dear Peter and family,
It was an honor to meet with you at Waterfall House. Bethany opened her house and her family to host our teepee ceremonies there.
My husband Rick and I traveled down from Akwesasne to sit with you and Bethany and Chris and Mary and pray for everyone and our lands. Good minds, good hearts beat as one. You are a great man, I am honored to have met you, I loved hearing your voice when you sing. I grew up hearing and loving your songs and singing along with them.
Sending love to you and your family
It was so nice to sit and listen to ceremonial songs...with you.
Much love, Karen and Rick
Hello, dear Peter. It's been nearly 30 years since we last talked but I can still hear your voice as if it was just yesterday. Do you remember when I was working for Senator Ben Nighthorse Campbell in Washington D.C.? Senator Campbell had switched parties and I found myself suddenly without a job and you were so kind and helpful as you gave me wise guidance about whether or not I should come home to Colorado and work for a non profit. I followed your advice and stayed in public service and was honored to have had the opportunity to work for the both the Clinton and Obama administrations, retiring finally in 2017. While in DC it was such a privilege to see you and Paul and Mary at Wolf Trap on more than one occasion. I am sorry that we lost touch over the years but know that you are surrounded by love and light. Trudy Kareus
Dear Peter, you are a shining star, you are, from near or far. Thank you for your beautiful voice and songwriting that contributed to the revolution of the 60s. And thank you for always continuing your work, performing and promoting causes with messages of hope for a free and healthy planet. I will always remember the historic moment when you joined us with Bethany, Raquel and Ester in ceremony. How WONDERFUL that you all were able to record together, too! But the epic-ness is not what is special about you and your life. You are a FABULOUS FATHER to my beautiful friend, Bethany. You gave her life. And for that I am forever grateful. You should know how much she loves you, Peter. Know what a true warrior Bethany is. Bethany loves you. Valentina loves you. Christopher loves you. Mary Beth loves you. We ALL LOVE YOU. You can feel free. You can feel all of our love surrounding you in an eternal cloud of unconditional love. Your heart vibrates with us. Your songs are eternal and we will sing them together in your memory, rediscovering our own empowerment. Love you so much! Carmel
i met peter in 1975 when, as a disc jockey in willmar, mn, i spotted him walking by our radio booth at the county fair...he approached me, so i asked when we could sit down for an interview...he said, "why don't you come out to the lake when you're done tonight? i'll give you directions"... from that time on he & mary beth treated me as if they'd known me all their lives...i spent many great evenings at the lake place, where i was always welcomed by his in-laws, & had the honor of spending hours in conversation with his mother vera, an effusive & loveable personality......my friendship with the mccarthy family is a memory i've cherished all these years & their christmas eve get-togethers were always unforgettable & imbued w/the communal spirit of the man i called "yaroshevitch the craftsman"(far more than a musician, his hands were skilled in the many tasks of lakehome maintenance as well)...he allowed me to observe his studio skills as well, as he painstakingly produced an album for an area band....his easy charm warmed my heart then, as now......he & his family are always in my thoughts & prayers & with that in mind as the holidays approach, i'm sending along a christmas song inspired by the 5 beautiful christmas eves i was invited to spend w/them...
- Johnny Antonelli
Dearest Peter...
I will never forget the moment I met you for the first time, backstage at Arise. I honestly didn't know who you were in that moment, the music legend part of you anyway. But that night, I met the kindness and most gentle man, with the biggest and warmest smile, and the purest and most compassionate heart. I loved every moment we shared over those few festival years... singing songs, long talks, watching you light up as you watched Bethany perform or Valentina playing nearby, hearing you talk and share your heart with so many people. When you hugged me, it was the best of hugs. When we talked, I have rarely ever felt so seen. Knowing you, for how briefly I was given the gift of this, left such an incredible imprint on my life and I am better for it. You have done many wonderful things in your life, but to me there is nothing more amazing than the man you are beneath it all. Thank you for the memories and for sharing some moments of your precious life with me. I will continue to cherish you and carry you in my heart. I hope to see you again.
With love,
Grace
Dear Peter (Pedro)
My big brother, we first met when PP&M did a benefit concert for Paul O'Dwyer's Senate campaign in 1968. What a journey you have led that I have had the joy of observing or participating in first hand as you defined Tikkun Olam. Never a human cause too small to advance but, of course, highlighted by your founding of Operation Respect and the love, time and effort you poured into building it.
We shared so many wonderful times in Telluride, skiing, running to the next SHOW at Film Festival and our nights preparing our feasts to consume. Your political activism never waned, even from the mountains where you took us to a remote studio where we recorded the song that helped to save the then floundering John Kerry's bid for the Democratic Presidential nomination in 2004.
Today we are so pleased that Mary Beth, Bethany and Christopher are there to help care for you.
Our family cherishes you, our times together and all that you have done to make our world a better place.
With Love and Peace
Your little dragon brother Paul (Pablo) Nussbaum
As I sat beside you on a wintry day in 2019 in the fragrant cozy kitchen of the Waterfall House, I felt one word emanating from you:
Beloved.
You were loved and you loved all of us profoundly and purely, regardless of whether we were Bethany, Christopher and Mary Beth or whether we had just met.
The room was filled with that love, with you at it’s warm, bright, soft core.
All the words we spoke, the causes we discussed, all the laughter, friendships, and good food we shared that morning, we were beloved.
Your voice and music has threaded my life, the cultural literacy I share with so many. There have been other times I have been privileged to sing the familiar songs with you and others under summer moonlight, chills running down my back with the enormity of experience.
But on that winter Sunday morning, I was included in your circle of beloved-ness and for that I will be forever grateful.
Thank you, Peter.
You have made a difference
Mary-Howell Martens
I met Peter Yarrow on the outskirts of NYC in 1986. I was just a kid, barely 18, walking on the Great Peace March. I didn't really know who I was or what I was about, but I was marching in hopes of a better world, like my brothers and sisters before me. Peter reached out to us younger marchers. He went out of his way to hang out and talk with us and he stayed and walked with us all the way to Washington. He never acted above us or really let on that he was famous, just that he believed in our cause. But word got out. We knew PPM (although not well). At the time I couldn't have named any song they did other than Puff. Paul and Mary weren't there, but Bethany was with him, and Pete Seeger was around, too.
Peter always carried his guitar with him and bragged that he knew Bob Dylan, and the song he always played was "Blowin' in the Wind". We used to roll our eyes every time he played it, because he really never played anything else. Bethany was hanging around, too. She was about the age where you think your dad is corny, not cool, and punk rock was still popular, but folk music was not. Grunge hadn't come around yet to kind of tie it all together.
In retrospect, he was very gracious to spend any time at all with us. He treated us like WE were special, not the other way around. He continued to play "Blowin' in the Wind" every day. over and over, so that we'd never forget it, so when the time came that we realized our quest would be bogged down by questions, we would not be discouraged by not having answers. The answer is always "blowing in the wind".
I wish I'd known he was sick. I wish I would have been able to come and play for him, like Bob did with Woody Guthrie. He has meant so much to so many. Puff was the first song I learned to play on the guitar. I sang my daughter PPM's first album every night for the first year of her life (side two). All their songs are lullabies. I played the Wedding Song on my wedding day, and my hope is that someone will play Flowers at my funeral.
My father also passed away battling bladder cancer, and it seemed such a sorrow to be brought down by such a simple organ. It seemed somehow like something you could replace with an animal transplant.
But Peter did his part. He shared and dared to dream the impossible dream. "When the sun turns black, and never shines again, when the trumpet blows, won't you call me please. Call my name." Blessed are the peacemakers. They shall be called children of God. And blessed are the pure in heart. They shall see God. God bless you, Peter Yarrow, and call your name.
- Mathhew Morse
Dear Peter,
I think it must have been 2012 when we met. I was experiencing pretty severe burn-out working on environmental issues in DC and wanted to figure out how to bring music into the climate movement. I met Bethany first and then you and the rest of the family. I wanted to learn how you and your collaborators did what you did in the civil rights movement and apply it to the climate fight.
You were very generous with you time and experience. I remember sitting in your kitchen in Manhattan for hours furiously taking notes, trying to capture it all.
Start small! Do something together and do it well. And celebrate your shared success! Then do something slightly bigger. And when you succeed again, celebrate your success.
We are human after all.
And sing.
Everyone must sing. Together. There’s something about the magic that happens when people do the simple act of singing together.
You were very clear that this isn’t listening to someone else sing. Everyone has to sing. Together. It’s about the collective experience. It’s about the feeling of that shared experience. That magical invisible weaving that happens as we raise our voices and lower our defenses.
The alchemy of your life, at least the small part that I got to see, has been to transform such sweet, soft human experiences into hard political power. In sharing that which is most basic we build that which is most elevated. It is a lesson that can take lifetimes to learn, but music is an accelerant. A conduit. And you channeled its energy to important ends. You’ve taught your kids and countless others to do what needs to be done. Tirelessly. Even when it is just so damn hard.
Over the years, some of my favorite memories of you have to do with both this ability to do what is just so incredibly hard, and your wicked sense of humor. That first Unity Concert in the Black Hills that we organized together was a perfect example of both. Thanks to complete physical and emotional exhaustion, I ended up with full blown sinus and lung infections. I was standing, but barely when I saw you arrive. In my feverish head I thought I’d get words of encouragement, or solace from you, but you pulled me in for a hug and whispered in my ear, “you got any other bright ideas kid?”. I think I nearly coughed up a lung laughing.
That was also the first time I ever experienced a public apology by a prominent white American for the atrocities our government perpetrated against Native Americans. We are not a nation that knows how to apologize. But you demonstrated how it should be done. That it can be done. With grace.
Do the hard things with music. With others. Together. And they’re not as hard as they seem.
Many would probably say that you have a strong moral compass. But a compass seems lightweight for you. You’ve also lived your life with a moral keel. A massive weight deep in the water that has kept you on course through the storms and the changing tides and the intermittent darkness.
I don’t know how to thank you for all that you’ve taught me, and for the gift of your family’s friendship. We will keep struggling together. Celebrating our successes together. And most importantly. We will keep singing together.
Love love love always,
Suzanne
Dearest Peter, Bethany, Christopher, Mary Beth, and others of the clan,
I'm Anya's sister, and although my family and I have generally come as a package deal along with her, I wanted to send a message of my own to you.
As I know so many others have said and will continue to say...thank you. Thank you for the kindness, dignity, and passion you have embodied in your storied lives, not just as musicians and performers, but as activists, wisdom-keepers, and friends, and which you have personally shown me and my family.
Peter (or, as we all call you, Petey), I first met you at a little outdoor venue in Portsmouth, NH, back in 2012. In our photo at the meet-and-greet afterwards, you grabbed my head in your arm and, funnily, I remember how soft your forearm was! It seems so silly but I still treasure that moment. Who knew, all these years later, we'd go out to dinner together, share life advice, and be sleeping over at your kids' houses?!
Speaking of, I can't begin to tell you how meaningful it was to attend the dinner and benefit house concert at Bethany's back in 2019. Anya and I had planned to drive back to New Hampshire when it was over, but a huge rainstorm came in and we ended up spending the night with everyone instead. After the air and energy of the performance melted away, Christopher built a fire and we spent time on the floor just chatting and catching up. At some point, you, Anya and I sat on a little couch up against the wall (your still-just-as-soft arms wrapped around us both!) and spent a long time talking about life, art, working with integrity, being in alignment with yourself, and connecting with folks who can guide you as you walk through the world. Although I don't remember your specific advice, I know it was meaningful in the moment and helped me to find courage and confidence in the essence of who I am.
As one of those younger fans who was introduced to PPM and your solo music by my parents, the soundtrack of my life has often included your work. In an era of inequality and strife, uncertain yet all-too-familiar, your unique mark on history informs so much of my own musical sensitivity and community approach. I'm an artist and musician in my own right, and beginning, for the first time, at 34 years old, to really imbue myself and my beliefs into what I create, rather than just singing hackneyed arias and painting landscapes for a paycheck. Sharing art that speaks up and speaks out, especially when you can do it with others, is the strongest way I know of to effect change. I am in constant awe of the way your words have moved generations of people to do better, to look deeper, and to join in community for a just and better tomorrow.
There is obviously still much to learn, for me and for us all, but I am so grateful to know your gentle spirit, sharp wit, and deep wisdom. I hope you are finding comfort in the outpouring of love that this project has brought forth! It has been one of the greatest joys of my life getting to know you all. Never in a million years did I think that our families would become friends, but I'm so thankful we have and will continue to be. May you all take time to nurture yourselves and enjoy each other's company.
Wishing you all the very best, in gratitude and love,
Ruth
Hi Chris and Bethany and Hi Peter! How do I pick just one story? I have a childhood of memories with your family as I hold Chris as one of my dearest childhood friends. It started at P.S.6 in NYC where Peter would come into our class and sing to us. He sat at the front of the room with his friendly smile, talking in different funny voices and singing songs like “Jimmy Cracked Corn and I Don’t Care” and, of course, “Puff….”. And I remember spending countless hours in the apartment (Chris cutting his hand was HIS own darn fault, Peter!”) and how loving every interaction with Peter was, and I am sure still is. And then, of course, there was Snowbird. And, though a teen at this point, I still thought how strange it was that everyone was making such a big deal about Peter…he’s Chris’ dad…that’s it. LOL. I could go on with little flashes of vignettes…P.S.6, Riverdale, Astros, sleepovers. I am forever grateful for the warmth and love to have received from the Yarrow family…Peter, Chris, Bethany (always so cool) and Mary Beth. My warmest wishes to you, Peter. Thank you for showing us - and singing to us - about how the world can and should be. XO
- Greg Boosin
My dearest Peter,
You have always been such a loving and kind part of my life. The music that runs through our entire family is a gift that I treasure. I'm honored to have been able to share it with you on a few occasions.
The two most beautiful memories that I have of times spent with you are both fairly recent. The first was at a concert you were giving. I was with my mom and with my husband, Jose. Jose had been in a pretty bad and very depressed mood all day. He almost didn't go to the concert but Mimi and I persuaded him to come with us. When you introduced the two of us to the audience, I saw his beautiful smile for the first time that day. Your beautiful spirit and inspiring music lifted him from his depression. When you invited us onto the stage to sing with you, it was a moment that I will always treasure.
The other memory was on the saddest (and yet uplifting) of all occasions. It was at the memorial to my mother following her passing. I can't thank you enough for spending that day with us. The moment that we lifted up our voices together in her honor, I know she heard us. I'm sure she joined in with you, me, and with my sister Wendy as we all harmonized on Blowing In The Wind. I will never forget it.
I love you very much, my dear cousin.
- Brian Gold
Dear Peter,
There are very few people in my life that have helped shaped me into the person I am now in the way that you have, and we are so sad to learn that you are not well.
Just after finishing college and having grown up in the south, you took me under your wing as if I were your daughter, and you showed me the world. I remember interviewing with you on the phone, and you said to me, “If you get this job with me, it will be extremely demanding, but you will learn so much.” What an understatement. The 13 years of my life working with you were not only some of my most formative years, but I am still in awe of how much love can be spread by one person—and to literally everyone. You are a magnet, attracting not only like minded souls, but literally everyone who has had the good fortune to be near you, even if they disagree with you on many levels.
I had the opportunity to watch the reactions of hundreds and thousands of people, as you spoke and sang to them, and I can’t name a single other person in my life that has had the ability to affect change in people night after night in the same capacity.
Thank you, Peter, for your heart and for your persistence of not giving up the good fight, no matter how many times we are knocked down. It is a quality that I can only try to emulate, but it is one that I will hold dear to me for my entire life here on this earth. I don’t know how you instilled this in our daughter, Emilia, bc she was 4 or 5 years old that last time she saw you, but when things get difficult in her life, she somehow always thinks of you. The energy that you brought years ago is still resonating within her.
You once rewrote the lyrics to “Lemon Tree” at Francesco’s and my wedding, for which we are still grateful. You changed a bitter song into something quite loving and sweet. My hope is that as you write this chapter of your life, it can be just as sweet and that all of the love and energy and peace that you have put out in the world can surround you and give you the biggest and warmest hug.
We all love you so much and send love a hugs and healing energy your way,
Beth, Francesco, Emilia and Nicolas
To Peter, with love and gratitude for you:
Thanksgiving
though burdened by sorrowful past
is a time of joyful communion
On this day - in mountainous Sonoran Desert
Bill and I hiked up our beloved trail
along canyon rim - dry wash steeply below.
At a sacred spot
where clear echo rings out excited encouragement
I sang a song of you
to audience of thousands -
the community of Saguaro cacti beings
populating the slopes,
big strong arms embracing all directions
tops reaching for sky's bright blue
and passing clouds.
I began, fortissimo, despite old voice quavers,
to sing my gratitude to you -
focusing on distant slope
where one familiar Saguaro stands out
tall -and golden.
Thank you my dear cousin -
loving family member
waterfall of giving
generous contributor to a better and just future
creator of beautiful melodies, harmonies, moving lyrics
brave fighter for your own life, too - winning many battles
and returning to give even more.
Your courage to right wrongs
stand up rise up
inspired me stronger
grateful for your greatness
walking an effusive Love path
designed by your own daring
hopes and dreams
so that
LOVE WILL PREVAIL
I love, love, love you Peter
and wish for you
even before you make the Great Transition
that your heart rests in the peace
you have always envisioned
and in the harmonies that you brought to this life.
Always in my heart, Cousin Karen
Dear, Sweet Peter,
You have been in my constant thoughts these past few days…
with a lump in my throat and heart breaking at the thought of you leaving this Earth plane.
I have been reading some of the lovely memories and tributes sent to you by so many of us that you have so genuinely touched in your long, well-lived life. Your seemingly boundless energy and unwavering, deep love that you have shared with each of us is nothing short of a precious legacy! Even through my teary eyes, this makes me smile
I promise to you that I will:
- Go to jail for justice
- Ring the bell of freedom
- …and Carry On
You have been a true force of nature packaged in a gentle, loving soul.
Thank you for all of the wonderful songs that I will continue to sing and all of the fun we had driving around the Texas Hill Country!
With my deepest love and gratitude…
Barbara Burton
Kerrville
Peter. You are larger than life. Superman. I have a cousin who was part of Peter, Paul and Mary. Puff.
But you were also a young super boy in the stories I grew up on from my mom, Mimi. I always heard stories about you, my mom and your big sister running around and playing like siblings. There was always a story about the young you. There are so many pictures of you before you were Puffs dad. That is who you are when i first think about you. First you were super boy.
Then, I also remember listening to Peter,Paul and Mary records at home, then singing them endlessly in the car. My sister Dana and I giggled when we heard Boa Constrictor and we loved Going to the Zoo, no matter where we were going. When we went to concerts those were two songs we always waited for. You are two different people to me - Both Superman and super boy. I “met” you through stories of your childhood, then I found out you were pretty damned famous. You were the music of my childhood. You became the stories and music of my kids’ childhood.
Peter, you knew then, and will always know, how to capture hearts. Years could go by without seeing you, but when we did, we could always count on a big big hug and then you listening to us like there was nobody else in the room. Then off to your full time job. Your hugs are something not soon forgotten. You are someone not soon forgotten.
More recently I saw another side I had never seen. At some point my mom ended up with several old pictures you had painted. She kept them for decades. I gave them to you and you told me about how much you thought you would be an artist. Perhaps inconsequential and a small detail in the broader arc of your life, but I think it was introspective, interesting. Not a side i had ever personally known. You always were , and always will be an artist. Music became your canvas, thankfully. It turns out your music was way better than your 4th grade self portrait.
My mom passed a few years ago but you are still her little brother. You will play with her again someday. You will both sing together someday. I think you are that inner child I heard stories about. You are a son, you are a father, you are an uncle you are a cousin. You helped change the world me and my kids live in. You are the music I grew up to, you are the music my kids sing. You are part of the family tree we put on post-it’s on your kitchen cabinets. Your family loves you so much.
Thank you for being part of the lives of three generations of family. I love you for every part of you. You are also pretty damned good at leaving an impression.
Hugs from me back to you.
I think what I most appreciate about you, Peter, is this: You care about others. For more than five decades that caring has been expressed through ORGANIZING, through bringing people together through music, through getting GOOD THINGS DONE. With your every breath you have endeavoured to "repair the world", and do the Creator's work. I've been witnessing your particular brand of magic since the 1960's, and have been privileged to receive a few "Peter hugs" along the way. Yes, that puts me in the exclusive company of about 1,000,000 other people, but it still makes me feel very, very special. Along the way I've taken photographs of you in performance, like the one I've included here. It shows you, your daughter and granddaughter at the Woodstock Playhouse, on the occasion of DIck Kniss's memorial celebration in Woodstock over ten years ago. For me it captures three generations of Yarrows, getting together, inspiring others, and continuing to get GOOD THINGS DONE.
- Mike Giovinazzo
As a junior at the University of Wisconsin in Madison, I for the first time saw Peter, Paul & Mary live in a concert on the night of the Vietnam War Moratorium. I had always enjoyed their music, but was blown away seeing how they engaged and motivated a large audience. Years later, after they had spent a few years pursuing solo careers and had reunited, I saw them again at Harrahs in Lake Tahoe where I was able to see several shows and, taking advantage of the bribable nature of casino properties, was able to buy my way into front row seats for a series of shows. I loved being able to sing along, and was especially gratified that they not only put up with my singing but encouraged it. After about five of those shows, Mary was nice enough to invite me backstage and I was fortunate to meet all of the members of the group and that was the start of many beautiful friendships which have lasted for decades. I always appreciated that Peter, Noel, and Mary all walked the talk - each was genuinely invested in being the best person that they could be and, notwithstanding the burdens of celebrity, did their best to maintain their humanity and their care for others. I was also greatly impressed at one factor that is rarely commented upon, which is how bright and well educated each of the members of the group was, which is, in my view, was what, combined with their awesome musical talents, enabled them to communicate so effectively. Peter, particularly, has always had such a beautiful way of cutting through the polarization of our times and delivering a message which resonates to all. I'm a lifelong conservative, and while I might disagree on issues with Peter, I have never questioned the sincerity and beauty of his feelings and compassion. I've always believed that liberals and conservatives all want the same things, peace, prosperity, and a better world - we just disagree on how to get there. Peter never failed to move me with his love and concern for others. When my daughter was critically ill, Peter took the time to put me together with medical professionals who offered their assistance - something for which I will be forever grateful. I also will forever appreciate Peter taking the time to come to my wedding and be a part of the ceremony. I just want to express my thanks and appreciation to Peter for being a part of my life and just for being who he is - a beautiful human being. The world needs more Peters.
- Todd Rothbard
On behalf of my sister Karen’s & my PARENTS:
Little Cousin Peter-
You were a great kid. We always loved babysitting you. Then to have a continuous stream of love and excitement throughout our lives as we got to bring our
daughters to all your concerts within a drivable radius and meet with you backstage or go out to dinner!
So inspired by and proud of you!
And it all came full circle for us when you so generously came and got everybody singing at my (Bob’s) 100th Birthday party.
We love you forever, and we hope we’ll get to meet you here in the ever after and sit on a heavenly cloud together to have Chinese food and some delectable desserts.
Love from Bob and Lillian
Ps. Here is a photo of us At a Chinese restaurant on the Earthly plane, one of you performing, one with extended family, both at the 100th.
My dear, dear friend, Peter,
As you – both on your own and as part to P,P,& M -- have been the sound track for social justice in America for over 60 years, so you have played that role in so much of my own life. We have protested together and marched together; we have campaigned together and, with Mary and Noel, gone to jail together (protesting apartheid); we have participated in memorial services together (from Allard Lowenstein to Mary); and we have celebrated together at important life cycle moments of joy and sadness from my wedding, where you sang so beautifully, to your 85th at which I was honored to offer a tribute. With other champions of social justice, among them President Clinton, Ted Kennedy and an array of civil, women’s and gay rights leaders, you were always a star -- and played a key role at the Religious Action Center’s (the RAC’s) 25th and, ten years later, at my own 25th at the helm of the RAC. And these kindnesses with which you have graced my life, are just one person’s memories of the vast array of ways you have been there, when you were need and have enriched the lives of so many of those who are blessed to call you “friend,” as well as too many political candidates and good causes to count -- as has been reflected in the beautiful tributes Bethany and Christopher have gathered.
But, then, dear Peter, you’ve literally touched the lives of millions for the better, over all these decades.
A special thanks, Peter, for your contributions to the communal life of the Reform Jewish Movement. At so many of our national Reform Jewish Movement gatherings, your songs and messages inspired and mobilized our social justice activists and leaders. You and I had fun recording our “Sing Out for Justice” album, debating the words for “Light One Candle” (and took pride that one of those conventions was one of the first places you performed it). Of course sitting through one of your sound checks was -- an intense experience.
These are challenging days for you Peter, and for all who love you – and you are deeply in my thoughts , in my heart, and in my prayers for comfort and blessing.
With abiding affection and boundless appreciation for all you have meant to me, my family and the cause of tikkun olam,
David Saperstein and Ellen, Danny and Ari
When I knocked on your door the day we met, I was soaking wet and out of breath after running most of the way to your apartment from the east side. I thought I’d left myself enough time but I underestimated how long it took to get a taxi in the rain at five o’clock. All you said was how alive I looked, were my cheeks naturally that rosy, and would I like a towel. The first of many lessons on grace that I would learn from you.
We spent the next three hours talking, watching videos, and listening to music in what was by far the strangest and best job interview I have ever had. Gigi was moving on and you needed a new personal assistant, facts I only learned hours before meeting you.
See, earlier that week I had a call from a headhunter who had tried briefly to help me find work when I first arrived in New York City. I’d moved there with my band, a suitcase full of art supplies, and a philosophy degree from University of California. I had no idea what to do with my life and neither did the headhunter.
Fast-forward a year: I’m at my desk in a windowless office doing mind-numbing administrative work for a couple of shady ex-stockbrokers when the phone rings. It’s the headhunter. He says, “I don’t know if you’re still looking for a job but I think I have something for you. In fact you’re the ONLY person I could think of for this opportunity because it’s not like anything else. Just like you!” (It wasn’t a compliment.)
He said I’d be working for a “pop icon” but that’s all he would tell me until two and a half hours before I showed up dripping all over your welcome mat. “It’s Peter Yarrow,” he proclaims on the phone. Ever heard of him?” Uh, yeah. You were only my first and arguably most important musical influence ever to that point. “Yeah, I know who he is.”
“Right. See? I knew you were a good candidate for this. Now don’t act starstruck okay?”
Yeah, I said again. I got it.
And thank god I was 23 and full of myself because if I had to meet you for the first time today, there’s no way I’d make that promise. I hung up the phone and ran from third avenue.
We mostly talked about Operation Respect and how to build a grassroots movement. I’m sure we talked about music too, Kant and Aristotle, and the sacrifices involved with being a personal assistant. It was a wonderful three hours, for both of us, I think.
So you can imagine my surprise when Gigi called a few days later to say I hadn’t gotten the job, ostensibly because I was too young and busy with my music and whatnot. But in the next breath she said, “Hold on, we’re not done. I’m fighting for you. You’re just like I was when I started here, and I will make him remember.” That’s the first time anyone had ever done anything like that for me before.
And soon enough I was out of my miserable east side office doing god knows what for god knows who — nothing and nobody good. And I was going to work with Gigi, Ali, Lizzie, Caroline, Mark, and you, learning how to REALLY change the world hand-in-hand with some of the best people in it.
You gave me so much in those years, and so much you never knew. So I’ll tell you now:
You gave me the ability to see my own superpowers and put them to use for good in the world.
You showed me how to think 10 steps ahead of anything and anyone, how to lay a foundation for massive social change, and how the same heart connection you can make with one person can be made with every person across the globe.
You gave me a lifetime of love, and lifelong friendships.
You showed me that if you can get really, really good at something, no one can take that away from you. Not schoolyard bullies, not senators, not CEOs.
You can be serious and silly. Careworn and effortless. Planned, practiced, prepared, and still full of childlike wonder. You can be all of it, all at once, and it will be magic. Even when it’s hard. Even when it’s sad. Even when it hurts so much that you don’t know if it’s a light at the end of the tunnel or an oncoming train. It will still be magic.
Thank you, Peter, for the magic.
Dearest Peter,
You have been part of my family since the reunion tour in 1978(?). You graciously met with concert goers after the show, and that started a lifelong friendship. My parents brought Philip and I to see PP&M the following year when you toured in Detroit and I was awestruck.
You have been there for most of the pivotal events in my life, always with a shoulder to lean on, and sage advice to a young, shy, woman trying to figure out my place in the world.
We have lost touch over the years, one of my biggest regrets, but please know that you remain one of the biggest influences in my life, and not a day goes by that I don’t think of you.
Your guidance and passion for outing injustice has taken me from Nicaragua in 1991, to participation in countless medical missions in the Caribbean and Central America, translating your message of service to my area of talent (nursing and anesthesia).
My life has lead me from New York to finding my passion providing anesthesia to the underserved area of northern New Mexico. Your kind support has lead that shy girl to become a leader that is not afraid to speak the truth, now able to stand up for what is right in my little slice of the world (my hospital and the Taos community). You once told me that I reminded you of yourself (a VERY high compliment!), and I have very much taken that to heart, trying to emulate your example in my own world.
My biggest regret in losing touch with you is that my son (who is now 10!) hasn’t had the opportunity to meet you. He hears stories about you and PP&M all the time though and has listened to your music all along.
Much love to you Peter. I wish you a journey of peace and love. I’m thinking of you constantly, please feel my warm hug coming from the mountains of northern New Mexico. Thank you for all of it. I would not be the brave, outspoken fighter for justice without all you have taught me.
Much love,
Kim Brandt (and son Declan)
Recalling Many Blessings…
My first sound gig with Peter, Paul, and Mary took place in December 1979 in Florida, coinciding with my birthday. Initially, there was uncertainty about the outcome. However, Peter complimented me on the sound and inquired about the AKG microphones. I informed him that I had purchased them specifically for the event. He appeared surprised that I had bought them myself. This interaction initiated a long-lasting and positive professional relationship with Peter, Paul, and Mary.
From there, our journey took us to prestigious venues around the world, including the Buddha Khan, the Sydney Opera House, Royal Albert Hall, and Carnegie Hall. We performed everywhere from Bleeker Street to Broadway, along with numerous anniversary specials for PBS. Our group was very close-knit, and although I did not play an instrument, the trio treated me as if I were a member of the ensemble. I may be one of the few people to have heard "Puff, the Magic Dragon" over 1,000 times; yet I never grew tired of it because each venue presented a unique challenge and learning experience because of Peter. Each audience was distinct, providing new insights every time.
Touring with Peter, Paul, and Mary was immensely fulfilling. Peter is known for his meticulous approach, often pausing a concert for an impromptu sound check or adjusting a speaker by mere inches. While some groups spend a couple of hours on a sound check, Peter and I would frequently dedicate up to six hours to ensure optimal sound quality. This dedication to excellence made the work profoundly rewarding for me.
At times, working at a concert venue makes it challenging to discern whether one is in Minnesota or Manhattan. However, the return performance at The Bitter End in 1985 evoked memories of the early days of folk music. This period was marked by social protest conveyed through three-part harmonies on intimate stages. It reminded me of the first instance I heard Peter, Paul, and Mary on the radio in my basement.
More recently, I was impressed beyond the music when Peter contributed to the development of Braver Angels, a bipartisan organization that utilizes dialogue processes to enhance approaches to conflict resolution among Americans across the political spectrum. Following the concerts where he conveyed this idea through his music, I was compelled to commend him, recognizing the significant positive impact such initiatives have on society today.
I have served as the sound engineer for Peter, Paul, and Mary for 45 years. Noel exemplified the qualities of a true Christian friend, while Mary consistently offered reliable and practical advice on nearly any subject. The group has imparted valuable lessons and highlighted the importance of listening to the lyrics instead of just the tones and melodies. However, it was Peter who encouraged me to remain with them. He assumed a father-like role, imparting essential life lessons that have made it difficult to imagine life without him.
Peter, until we meet again
With all my love,
Davey
Dear Peter,
We are writing to say thank you for all the wonderful times we have shared together as family.
Your music has brought us together by your talent, artistry and magical lyrics. Your love and friendship have kept us together over the years and continues to bind us even though we are apart. For this we are forever grateful, and that you have invited us to be a part of your life. Your guidance and vision have given us so much and the memories of our times together will last and guide us with a hopeful loving path forward.
We hope you find peace and love with family and friends in this difficult time.
With love,
Tom, Gail, Brian and Melissa Enright
I met Peter during a very difficult period in my life. My health was extremely frail and I had been encouraged to reach out to meet Peter, Paul and Mary, as their music had been a lifeline for me during many years of health challenges. I was gifted back stage passes in 2004 and Peter embraced me with a huge hug and so much love and support. He became a huge support, a fierce advocate and most importantly a dear friend. Shortly after we met, he helped me fight for a diagnosis of what was causing my extreme headaches along with many other challenging symptoms. We found out I had chiari malformation, neck and spinal cord complications. Peter got on a plane to be by my side in the ICU to help me get thru many very painful and complex operations. My conditions do not have a cure, the surgeries only help relieve some of the many difficult symptoms. When I have had severe pain flares that I’ve needed to be hospitalized for, he has called to sing to and support me many, many times. Since we first connected in 2004 my life has taken many twists and turns and led me to sing to patients who are in hospice care. He has been a huge supporter of me doing this sacred work. Peter’s love, support, music and advocacy have literally kept me alive while living with incurable health challenges. I’ve had the immense joy and honor of singing with Peter at some of the Don’t Laugh At Me presentations and at Kerrville, those experiences will stay with me until my final days.
Peter, thank you for your friendship, for the beautiful music, for believing that I could stabilize when everyone else had given up over and over again. Thank you for the pony song, which helps me find a way to hold on in the darkest hours.
Please know how much I love you and that I am sending you so much love. I treasure our friendship more than I have words for you.
I love you, dear one.
- Gillian Trumbull
Dearest Peter,
As I ponder the words to send to you, many sweet memories come forward. You, along with Mary and Noel, have brought inspiration and joy into most of my life.
Among my very best birthdays was my 16th on January 28, 1966, when a sweet young man treated me to a PP&M concert at the Loyola Field House in New Orleans and 16 long stemmed red roses! After a joyous concert from my favorite group, we got to meet and chat with each of you afterwards. It was truly an evening to remember! Over the years, I have enjoyed many evenings at your concerts in person or on TV, and have spent many hours listening or singing along to your records, tapes, CDs and DVDs.
You have been with me as I sang with my friends, and learned of peace, injustice, and love from you. I sang your songs to, and with, my three children and my students; oh, how they all love Puff, and were delighted that I had met Puff’s Daddy!
You welcomed me into your home on September 21, 2010, with a kiss on each cheek when I attended your fundraiser for Why Hunger with my friend Sue Leventhal. Your warmth that evening was palpable as you gave of yourself, as you always have, giving your time, talents, and even your home, to raise up your brothers and sisters in need.
You generously gave me your Operation Respect Don’t Laugh at Me curriculum, not once but twice, and to my husband Larkin, also, for his classes. I left my first set with my successor in California, then you provided it for me again when I resumed teaching in Alaska. Peter, you touched the minds and hearts of all of our students, and through them, their families! What a magnificent program!!
For several years, I took my 4th grade students in Willow, Alaska on a field trip on the only remaining flag stop train in the United States. Yes, we flagged her! As we studied and prepared for our trip, I taught them train songs to sing on the trip, including your This Train, Freight Train, and Morning Train. Many of our chaperones joined in!
In February, 2018 you sent me a lovely personal note in response to one of our donations to Operation Respect, wishing me well after my heart surgery. How thoughtful and kind of you to take the time for me. You are a dear man and good friend.
During the Covid lockdown, you came into our hearts and home via computer, calming our concerns and bringing us joy and comfort with your stories and songs.
Peter, these are just a few of the many, many ways that you have been a part of my life, and of my family’s, friends’ and students’ lives. You are a model for how to live well, work for our beliefs, and above all to love.
As a symbol of our love, admiration, and respect, we are again sending a donation in your honor to Operation Respect today.
With much love,
Suzanne Bounds
Willow Alaska
My dearest, dearest peter. I want you to know that from the first time I met you as a little girl you meant the world to me.
First you meant the world to me as an artist and someone I deeply admired, respected, and was following a path in the arts that I knew I too wanted to follow. I was in awe of you and everything you stood for.
Then you meant the world to me as my dad’s friend who saw me and understood me. I felt seen by you in a way I rarely had as a young adult finding my way.
You meant the world to me as a fierce social justice advocate and colleague. Serving on the board of operation respect was such an honor and privilege. The heart you wear on your sleeve for all who have been wronged and all the injustices in the world is a thing of sheer beauty.
But most of all, you mean the world to me as a friend. I’ve always felt like a piece of my father has lived on in you and being in your presence is like being enveloped in the warmest hug. A hug I wish I could stay in forever.
You will always live on in my heart and in the hearts of my children who already love listening to your music. You, peter, are the dragon who will live forever in all of us.
With all my love and admiration forever and always
- Jaimie Mayer
Dear Peter,
Far too often we are selfish with our words and hold back, I wish I would have said these things to you years ago or at least the last time we saw each other. You, my friend, are an extraordinary human being. You have given so much of yourself to make the world, especially the musical world, a far better place...a world of hope and happiness. Your kindness and generosity are are apparent in every step you take and every note you sing.
You and I do have something very special in common. Of course under completely different circumstances, we both became part of the incredible and loving McCarthy family. And that is how we met!
Since that time, (1969 I believe) I have held you in awe and with great respect.My children and their children sing your songs and hum your tunes and even tear in empathy with Puff. Your music and its message will live on for generations and across the world.
Thank you for everything.
Maureen O'Hearn, Julie's college roommate.
I was lucky to have inherited "Uncle Peter" through my husband, "Matty" (he & Peter were longtime friends before we married). Peter often stayed at our home in Miami Beach when performing in South Florida. And we spent time with him in Telluride one winter. Our sons, now 35 and 31, grew up listening to Peter's music, literally. I was very pregnant with Ryan, sitting in the front row at a PP&M concert - when the little guy in my belly started "swaying with the music" - awesome experience! One year, I convinced Peter to headline the Greater Miami Jewish Federation's annual Women's Day Luncheon, which I co-chaired. His "Light One Candle" earned a standing ovation! I have many fond memories of times spent with Peter. His kindness, generosity and dedication to manifesting "good" stand out in my mind. Sending hugs and love to Peter and family.
- Debra Leibowitz
My Dear Peter,
You are simply exceptional. In every way. Your genuine warmth, caring, authenticity, talent, have changed the world, have changed me. Thank you for showing me what it means to both live a life of service, while not forgetting the importance of presence and joy in one’s personal life. You embody love. Your love for your family, your friends, your communities, your belief in the goodness inherent in each human being, your commitment to Tikkun Olam.
Thank you for being such a friend and partner in activism to my mom and dad. They adore you more than words can say. As do I.
One of my favorite Peter moments: standing in your NYC apartment at an event, you feeding me and other guests with chopsticks. What a memory that was! Your vivacious and giving nature is a truly beautiful thing to witness.
Thank you for everything you’ve done, and more importantly, for everything you are.
You continue to inspire me, and you always will.
With so much love,
Danielle Moses
Tribute to Peter…
I came to know Peter during my 37-year tenure at ASCAP although, like so many others, I grew up with the music of Peter, Paul and Mary and had been a great admirer of their music and activism way before.
Getting to know Peter has been a very special experience. Apart from being a gifted songwriter and performer and member of, arguably, the most famous trio in the music business, Peter has always been the real deal. He walks the walk, consistently trying to move the needle, help people in every way possible and make a difference by doing everything he can to make this world a better place. He would often call upon me to do some small thing to help with one of his ambitious initiatives… and I always tried to come through for him because his sincerity and passion were contagious.
He has constantly been at work trying to bring joy to the lives of others… and his personal magnetism and commitment compelled you to join his efforts.
And despite his myriad accomplishments, he has never displayed any kind of superiority…. but has always been simple, straightforward. He is a star in so many ways… but he has never behaved like one. And if he had a hint of his own celebrity, it was only used to help others… to obtain “ungetable” tickets for a young cancer patient to achieve her dream of attending a Taylor Swift concert…. to help further the career of young artists who needed his help… the list is endless as is Peter’s capacity for empathy and action.
And Peter has always been so self-effacing that I can’t be sure if he realized how many are still mesmerized by his music and his performances. I recently attended several shows he did (solo and with Noel/Paul) at the Katherine Hepburn Performing Arts Center in Old Saybrook, CT near where I currently reside. At each show, he received a standing ovation many times during the performance and the audiences were swept away by his his music, his magic and his humanity.
When I visited with him backstage afterwards, he only wanted to hear about me… my projects and my life.
And he has always been so proud of Bethany… of her talent and her commitment. I have many fond memories of her sitting in my office at ASCAP with Peter, serenading me with a new song she wrote.
I feel so lucky to be a part of Peter’s circle; I continue to cherish his friendship, his joie de vivre and his unstoppable excitement
about all his causes and all the people he has taken under his very large wings.
Dearest Peter…. Please get well: we cannot do without you!
Love,
Karen Sherry
Peter, I felt so privileged that you agreed to bring your talent to the NAAEE members at our annual conference so I could get to know you a little bit. Introducing us to Bethany made our event even more special. Your ongoing support for the environmental education mission of the organization during my time there was a treasure. It has been a treasure to be a supporter of your work since then with several of the other causes to which you lend your support. You are so generous with your heart. Much love to you.
- Sue Bumpous
My dear Cousin Peter,
As I write this, my heart is filled with deep love for you and fervent thoughts for your well-being. I remember the first time I heard about you. My family lived in Harrisburg, Pa., far from our extended family from New York, Providence, and California. Mom proudly told me about you and Peter, Paul and Mary when I was old enough to understand. I was enchanted by your music and gorgeous harmonies and later, as I grew more mature in my understanding, your messages of peace, love, and hope.
Mom also told me about the Burt family musicales, where the family gathered and shared their music together when both of you were quite young. She mentioned sometimes you seemed shy as you would quietly strum your guitar in the corner of the room, perhaps preparing for the time for you to display your talent that day. Then, years later you bloomed into the icon we all know and love today, dedicating your life to the pursuit of justice, human rights, peace, hope, and understanding. Most importantly was your message of love, which sprung from your heart prodigiously. I remember how proud Mom was of you, just as you were proud of her ability to play piano.
I will never forget the time I first met you. I believe you were performing a solo concert at St. John the Divine in Manhattan. I had moved to New York City to pursue acting and singing, and couldn’t wait to try to finally meet you in person, if it were possible. Indeed, after the concert I was able to speak with you. After I introduced myself, you gave me the warmest embrace and invited me to meet your family at a later date. I was so happy when I eventually met Bethanny and Christopher, and you did your best to make me feel like part of the family. You always encouraged, supported, and helped me as I tackled my career pursuits, and later sent me to Kerrville to help me with my song-writing skills after a car accident made it impossible for me to work as an actress anymore. I remain very grateful to you.
Now, many years later, your generosity continues, as you helped guide me through my difficult journey with cancer, even while you struggled with your own health. Mom and Dad had passed away years before and I missed not being able to speak with them as I faced and still face my fear and anxiety, but you were there for me and continue to be.
Peter, you are always in my heart, and I will continue to pray for you as you navigate your own sojourn. May the same peace, love and hope that you have shared with the world be with you now.
Love,
Cathy Gale
I was working with Peter, Noel and Mary as the Associate Producer of A Peter, Paul & Mary Holiday Concert for PBS. I was a bit of a fan girl, having grown up with the trio’s music since I was a little girl and learning to play it all on my guitar. I flew in from Los Angeles for prep and we held a rehearsal at Lincoln Center. My car pulled up and Peter was there at the entrance to the rehearsal space. He said, “you must be heidi….so nice to finally meet you in person”. I followed Peter into the space. He introduced me to Noel and Mary and Dick Kniss and Shelly Belusar. The hall was empty except for the sound and lighting people, me, Rudi Goldman (EP & Director), Ken Fritz & Martha Hertzberg. The trio was on stage and thru his microphone, Peter said, “Let’s warm up. Heidi, I heard that your favorite song is Day is Done. We will play that for you now.” It was a dream come true. Peter, your kindness and thoughtfulness always meant the world to me. We have many memories and laughs together; stories too numerous to mention. Peter, I am sending you strength and peace. You are the most amazing and gifted soul. R’fuah Shlema. I love you. xoxo Heidi
To my dearest HeartFriend, the Dragon Mensch, Peter Yarrow,
How can I compress into words all that you have meant to me in the last 43 years? From the moment that you called out to the audience inviting us to "come on down and meet us after the show!"...I made a beeline for the stage door and you Dear Dragon were the first through the door conscripting me on your right side and another person on your left to usher yourself through the crowd. You asked me to act as "cup bearer" going backstage to retrieve more wine when you were running out. When the crowd finally thinned you asked me and all the folks with me that night...my Girlfriend and another couple we were double-dating with...out to dinner at the Ringside. Everyone else politely declined citing early work and school commitments. I thought they were nuts and gladly joined you for dinner expecting nothing but and wonderful dinner talking with one of my Heroes. We ended up talking about everything from your special connection to Portland Oregon...your dear Wife MaryBeth, to our mutual pull to be Artists...I was in Art School at the time...to some of your exploits with the Trio.The Ringside kindly stayed open well past closing time to feed us steak and lobster and their famous onion rings! When we finally were getting our coats to say our "Goodbyes" you looked across the table at me in the oddest way and said, "I don't usually do this but, there is something about you...you reached into your coat pocket and pulled out a business card. You wrote your personal address and phone number on the back and handed it to me asking me to stay in touch! I was completely surprised...on top of everything Wonderful that night...from my first PP&M concert, to meeting you all to dinner and chatting into the wee hours over an awesome dinner with you my dear Peter. We started writing back and forth...this was 1982 long before laptops and cellphones...and the following year you had me meet the rest of the PP&M Family...the last time you guys came back to Portland after only 12 months between concerts...you gave me a few unsold seats to pass out to my Art School Friends. That was the beginning of my induction into the inner circle or the "Peter, Noel and Mary Family"!
Soon I was tagging along on parts of each year's Tour. Traveling with you all and getting to know everyone over the years...taking literally hundreds of photographs...and eating your awesome salad with dinner backstage no matter where we were...that "Family Dinner" with your special salad helped to anchor everyone...almost as much as joining hands in the wings for "the Hum" just before you all ran out to start singing. I don't know how many times I watched from the wings as you, Noel and Mary worked your magic with first just Dick Kniss on Bass...then you all added Paul Prestopino. Sigh. Mary, Dickie and Presto will be there to greet you my dear Dragon. You taught me so very much...most especially that there is a special bond that goes well past a "normal" friendship...that Heart bonded kind of Friendship I have called my "HeartFriends"...you opened my Heart to see beyond the superficial dross of the fame and fortune surrounding you to meet you on a Higher Plane. I am so very proud to be able to call you my HeartFriend...a deep bond of love that has spanned 43 years of triumphs and heartbreaks...from the highs like you sharing "Light One Candle" with me shortly after you wrote it to the heart wrenching loss of Mary...my own tough fight with Breast Cancer...and your valiant battle with Cancer...my dearest Dragon you have fought the "Good Fight" stretching from today's fight with Cancer and the evils of Hate all the way back to protesting our involvement in Vietnam and Marching for Equality with MLK, being on the podium with him as he spoke his most famous words..."I have a Dream..."! You have lived your life pushing yourself beyond normal Human endurance to accomplish more than any hundred more ordinary Men. We Family Members often referred to your seemingly tireless action as your "Energizer Bunny Model"....always up and running for each Good Cause...you have pushed yourself to a much deserved rest my dear HeartFriend. My sweet Dragon, Peter now is the time to pass the Torch on to the next Generation...having set an example for us all to try to follow. Were you without some Human failings? No. But, you showed us your dear, sweet complicated Heart...as big as the sky above all of us who have had the honor, the Joy to call you our beloved Dragon! Go through that last threshold in Peace my dearest Peter. This is only "Goodbye for now" not forever...I will see you again with your open arms, open Heart and your impish grin...on the flip side! With my love always...
your HeartFriend,
Holly Page Bryant
I have never known a life without my brother Peter, his music, his civil and human rights activism, his international leadership in bringing people together and of course his concerts with Paul and Mary. But I particularly remember United Voices for Education, an offshoot of Peters's Operation Respect, of which I had the honor of serving as Chair with friend Molly McCloskey as Vice-Chair and staffer Elizabeth Kolodny with many national education advocate members supporting positive school climate in national policies. Ah, the Hill visits we had in pushing social and emotional learning, you with your guitar and starting each Hill meeting with Puff, and my favorite song Have you Been to Jail for Justice--and all young staff from offices far and wide come in to join. And then Peter's Christmas reception at Rep Rosa DeLauro's hill town house. Peter, you have been such an impact on my life and I remember forever your energy and your commitment to all causes children and democracy going back to the big 1963 March and NYC, The Bitter End. Peace good friend.
- Arnold Fege
So many things. So many stories. I don't know where to start. When I was growing up (yes, I just broke into song there), you were a light in my world. I know that I was one of many muffins and cupcakes in your world, but you were such a intrinsic part of mine. From the rare concerts we could drive to that always included getting time with the three of you (which, I always skipped out on Noel and Mary because I just had to talk to you again), to the yearly trips to Kerrville, every word you uttered to me impacted my life in ways I cannot begin to tell you about. You always remembered my name. Admittedly, it could be because I shared a name with Mary's daughter, but to me, back then, when I had no friends, it was everything. You became my friend. My family.
One year, at Kerrville, you set me loose with Bethany. She had to be a grown up middle schooler back then, braces, big hair, and a cool T-shirt. I spent the entire day following her around like a lost puppy, until she finally managed to lose me. I made my way to the backstage entrance and just stood there, in tears, begging for Peter. When they finally took me to you, you scooped me up, and talked all tears away, then sat me up on stage as Odetta and a couple of others performed, then over to center stage with you and Bethany for what was to me, the main show. In those young years, it was acts like that that really hit home. And I wanted to be just like you. I wanted to live like you do. I wanted to touch people the way you do (not a musical bone in my body, even my hairbrush microphone agrees there, so that didn't work out so well). I wanted to move people's souls the way you do.
As I grew, I rebelled, as most kids do. I became an angry teen, and I wanted to hate the world. I wanted to turn my back on everything, and embrace this angst. But there was always this part of me that could hear your voice. Feel your arms holding this child that you barely knew and making her feel like she mattered. Like she had the power to change the world. Slowly, your messages started seeping back through. And that facade I'd worked so hard on started to slip. Suddenly, though I was homeless at the time, I was giving to others who were worse off than I was. I was taking other kids that were also homeless under my wing and trying to guide them. It was a gradual thing. I spent a lot of time torn between two worlds. Two inner selfs. But your memory, your words both to me directly, and those in your music, became louder, and helped me find my way again.
When I finally turned 18 and made my way back to Texas, I went back to Kerrville with my mom. And when I found you at the little theater there and talked to you, even after all those years, you remembered me. You saw my face and instantly came to me and hugged me tight. I don't know how you knew it was me. It had been years. I was grown, and I had been maybe 10 the last time you saw me. Maybe you recognized my mom, I do not know. But you knew me. And in that moment, everything clicked into place. I was not torn anymore. I was still that same little girl that wanted the world to be a better place, and wanted to do my small part to make it so.
When my dad built and handled your (PP&M) website, I wanted so badly to reach out to you again. But I was afraid. Afraid of disappointing you. I felt like I was not doing enough. Like I was not deserving of the love you had shown me over the years. I know now that wasn't the case. I know that you would have embraced me still, no matter. And that time lost is still among my bigger regrets.
But, I've tried since then, in so many ways. I wish I had the wisdom and courage that you have shown me over the years. I fail more often than I succeed. But I keep trying.
That, and so much more, in my world, are your memories. Your legacies. You shaped me, as you shaped so many others, with your love, and everything that has come from it. And just the opening notes of almost any of your songs are enough to remind me of you and all that you are. I love you, Peter. I'm grateful that your legacy will never leave me.
Carry On....
Alicia Chambers
Peter...what words are there to describe you? Pinching my cheeks backstage at a concert'--'oh you cute..'--and your infectious laugh..Do you remember dancing at the Japanese restaurant in Beverly Hills while we waited for our food, curling yourself around the elegant pillars? But also, your wizened heart, those soulful eyes, the way you care about things so passionately, foot stomping as you play that guitar. Laughs, kisses and a big hug of love to you and all around you. If I could be there, I would pinch and kiss your cheeks, hold your hand and thank you for all you've been in this crazy world...And to Christopher and Bethany--let's carry forward all those memories, the power of music and the care for the world. Love you all! xo Anna Stookey
Mon cher Pierre, mon cher dragon,
This message is full of love, hugs and hygge to you from Denmark! What a privilege it was to have served on the OR board for over a decade! Even before then your music was in my life so your words, tunes and melodies have always been there. And greetings too my my father, Ray, who stayed with you on a business visit he had in NYC. He remembers staying up and chatting with you. I thank you for your hospitality and opening your home to him. Plus your song to him for his 70th birthday was unforgettable! And your songs to my colleagues when I worked at the Development Gateway Foundation was memorable and a unique treat!! I adore you from afar and send you lots of love and knus!! Bissous mon ami, from the other Charlotte!!!
Peter and I were friends for almost 60 years. Last night I showed Mary Beth new lyrics I wrote to Puff for Peter. She asked me to share them with all of you.
Peter’s Puff!
Lyrics:John Battiloro ©️ 2024
For you Peter!
Peter puff the dragon,
With a voice so sweet and clear,
He sang of peace and justice,
And brought the world some cheer.
From the stage he strummed his guitar,
A message full of grace,
He’d sing of love and freedom,
And light up every place.
He traveled far, from town to town,
With songs of hope and cheer,
He sang of justice, equality,
And wiped away the fear.
(Chorus)
Peter puff the dragon
Telling tales both old and new,
He taught the world of kindness,
And that dreams can all come true.
He sang of rivers flowing,
And of skies so big and blue,
Of a world that we could heal,
If we only saw it through.
With his friends, they’d sing together,
With harmony and rhyme,
A voice for peace and justice,
That echoed through all time.
(Chorus)
Peter puff the dragon
Telling tales both old and new,
He taught the world of kindness,
And that dreams can all come true.
Now the world is full of voices,
That sing of what’s to come,
But Peter’s songs remind us,
We can rise and still be one.
(Chorus)
Peter puff the dragon,
Telling tales both old and new,
He taught the world of kindness,
And that dreams can all come true.
In the ’60s, he came to fame,
With Peter, Paul, and Mary,
Their voices strong, they led the way,
Through struggles, bright and airy.
They sang of freedom, peace, and love,
And echoed voices true,
A voice for all who longed for change,
And a world that could renew.
(Chorus)
Peter’s Puffs is the legend,
Strumming on his strings so bright,
With his songs of unity,
He filled the world with light.
Beyond the stage, he fought for good,
For civil rights and more,
He worked for justice, side by side,
With people who would soar.
From Puff to Stewball
His songs still call us near,
A voice for peace, a heart for love,
A spirit crystal clear.
(Chorus)
Peter’s Puffs is the legend,
Strumming on his strings so bright,
With his songs of unity,
He filled the world with light
Now the years have passed him by,
But his legacy lives on,
Through every note, each heartfelt word,
His spirit lingers strong.
Peter is the dragon
And puff is his best friend
His songs will live forever
And forever never ends.
His voice you’ll always hear
Strumming on his strings so bright,
With his songs of unity,
He filled the world with light.
We are a Brazilian family of four, mother, father, and two boys. In 2012 we lost our daughter and went to the underworld. In our desperation, we sought ways out. What we decided was to honor our daughter by social initiatives, donations, deeds in her name. We decided to donate a library to the Arab Jewish Community Center in Jaffa, Tel Aviv, where children from all creeds could work and play together. And so we did. We invited Peter Yarrow to go to Israel for the inauguration and he immediately accepted. He was there with us on October 15, 2015 , sang songs, honored our daughter, and donated his name, image, and energy to raise the occasion. Today, the library is one of the most visited in the whole country and one of the only seeking to unite different people in these difficult times.
Our sincere appreciation!
Anna Laura (in memoriam), Arthur, Felipe, Claudia & Rudi Fischer
Peter, Peter, Peter. This is Rosa and Stan. I am writing first because Rosa is on a train to Washington to take the front lines in slaying the dragons that are roaming and already causing so much damage. Peter, Paul and Mary joyfully supporting Rosa in that first election. That started a lifetime of Peter and Rosa battling arm and arm to push back darkness and bring in light. Rosa helped defeat Contra Aid, join Lily Leadbetter to pass equal pay and passed the Child Tax Credit that cut child poverty in half. Peter is forever a hopeless optimist. And we share our closest, dear friend, Anthony, for a lifetime.
If you scratch the surface of any of us who lived through the civil right era, your music is woven through. I grew up in Washington while the schools were being desegregated. I saw you perform every summer at Carter Barron, volunteered at the NAACP and was in the organizing tent at the March on Washington, while you were singing at the Lincoln Memorial. I spent a decade fighting apartheid and was pollster for Nelson Mandela.
These notes to you will bring out the millions of places you shape our world for the better. We love you, Rosa and Stan
Pedro,
Outside of Jenni, Carol z”l, my mom and dad and precious few others, you have influenced who I am today.
I join millions of others, of course, who grew up with the music from Noel’s belting out “Early in the Morning” to Pete Seeger’s anthem “If I Had a Hammer” which you and the trio democratized, as you did with Dylan’s “Blowin’ in the Wind”.
I begin with the music because I know you self-identify as an artist first. My two most meaningful, of course, being “Light One Candle”, which you dedicated to Jenni and her Wash U. roommates at a PP&M Fox Theater gig in St. Louis, and “Day is Done” which you lovingly sang in memory of Carol at her shiva.
But then there’s the “activist” Peter. Few people have had our mutual connection. I worked for Al Lowenstein on the Hill and on several of his quixotic races, and likewise you campaigned and sang for him at his funeral and, it was fitting, that you, my brother, were the inaugural recipient of the Allard K. Lowenstein Memorial Award.
Pedro, we met for the first time 30+ years ago when, out of nowhere, Marc Geist calls to ask if “one Peter Yarrow” can travel to Columbus to meet me. Huh? Why? And why me? You were just beginning to think through Operation Respect — and I wasn’t daunted by raising money from business “machers” (as even the captains of industry grew up with the music).
Turns out you show up with guitar in hand at a quiet Italian restaurant here in Columbus packed by lovers because it was Valentine’s Day. Carol was with me, and you began strumming the first chords of “Leaving on a Jet Plane”; you sang it to her and tears began flowing, not only hers and mine, but everyone else at the restaurant. When Mary passed you sang it bedside to her; at Carol’s shiva you reprised it. Now we sing it back to you.
Pedro … there’s your artistry and there’s your activism. But by a mile, both overshadow your humanity. You are simply incapable of addressing anyone — from teachers and bodega workers to taxi drivers and members of congress — by anything other than “my brother”.
I love you, Pedro, because YOU embody Tikkun Olam with every ounce of your being. And I love you because you taught me to love Barney Greengrass Pickled Herring with Cream Sauce. And to both of those, let us say “Dayenu”.
Richard
You can't say Peter Yarrow without also saying Charlotte Frank because both of them worked so well together to found the organization which has brought Israel and the people of the United States closer together. Peter first met Charlotte when he came to her office at the Board of Education where she was in charge of curiculum and asked her if he could sponsor a contest where the students could win prizes for their essays. Shortly after that when Peter learned that Charlotte was bringing students to Israel and was also bringing Principals from various schools throughout the Country he said he'd like to join her and bring his music to Israel. All of his songs were translated into Arabic and Hebrew and most of the classes had students of both denominations.
I came to know Peter after Charlotte and I were married and joined with them on a couple of trips and was amazed to hearth children in singing Hebrew and Arabic. As to my own relationship with Peter it was well known that he and I were very far apart politically but we were able to overcome our differences by simply agreeing to disagree as his view of the world and mine were totally different. Not withstanding that we used to go to the Board Meetings at his apartment and he asked me to join the Board which I did. At each meeting he would go around the room and each of the people in attendance would say who they were and what they were doing and what they would like the organization to accomplish. Eventually they put together a curiculm to be taught to school children and it was very successful.
Peter is a very talented and loves his music and he enjoys being with people especially at his apartment. Peter is a larger than life figure and I doubt that I will ever again meet somebody who has his talent and his ability to do well by doing good.
With Respect,
-Marvin Leffler
NYC
I am 66 years old, and have been a Peter, Paul & Mary fan since I was about five (c. 1963). My mother passed on two of the early albums, and I played them continually, learning all the lyrics and melodies by heart. Because of Peter (and Paul and Mary) I became a firm folk devotee, later picking out many of the songs on guitar. Their stunning rendition of "Leaving on a Jet Plane" eventually led me to John Denver. In the summer of 1991 I had the pleasure of meeting Peter at an event at Great Adventure Theme Park in New Jersey, where I had come with my partner, David Gordon, and a Peace Child contingent. PP&M were performing, and we were also accompanied by Trudy Mason of NYC, then Peter's girlfriend. I met Peter after the show, and he gave me a great big hug. It was an honour and pleasure to meet one of my childhood idylls. Love, peace, and godspeed to you, Peter. xxx
- Caroline Smith
I've been going to the Kerrville Folk Festival with my parents since I was a baby and have always enjoyed getting to hear Peter play--and sometimes getting to go up on stage with all of the other kids to sing "Puff, the Magic Dragon."
At the 2014 festival, I got to see Peter play a set accompanied by Christopher. For their performance of "The Fox," Peter asked for a child to come up on stage--"We need someone to come help us out with this one. Someone under 6?"--but no kids volunteered. Then he adjusted the call: "Ok, under 30!"
I was 27 at the time and happily went up to join them. It was an absolute delight getting to share the stage with Peter and Christopher for that song. I was especially touched when I ran into Peter again at the following year's festival and he remembered me!
Thank you so much for your music, your laughter, and your gentleness. I now have a daughter of my own, born in 2022, who has been out to Kerrville twice so far. She has her own copy of the "Puff, the Magic Dragon" children's book and is learning that dragons, like love and music, live forever.
I sang on stage with Peter Yarrow!!!! Yes, I can, in all truth, tell my friends and family that I sang on stage with Peter Yarrow. You came to Corvallis, Oregon and gave a concert at Corvallis High School, in part to celebrate the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship becoming a Sanctuary Church for immigrants. During the last song, you invited audience members to join you on stage to sing with you. I was one of many who accepted your invitation. I was thrilled! I was a fan of Peter, Paul and Mary since I was a teen and had so many of your albums. My sisters and I sang and danced to the music for hours. They were quite impressed when I told them I sang on stage with you. Best brag ever! Thank you. Thank you for your music. Thank you for your generosity. Thank you for your hilarious sense of humor. You have brightened so many of my days. And you will continue to do so. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
- Melida Seyavedra
Ahh, Peter, where to start? At the beginning I guess…1965 was my first PP&M concert in the old Sydney Stadium in Australia. I was 17, very young, very naive about concerts. I’d never heard of backstage passes, even autographs. I thought you went to the concert, thought you’d gone to heaven, then went home and waited for the next tour in 12-18 months time. I came from a small town, so I guess I can be excused….
So, after a number of Sydney concerts over the next four years, I started travelling, and have never stopped. I was picking apples in 1970 on an Israeli kibbutz when someone got word that PP&M had broken up. Say it isn’t so!
More years travelling, some time back in Australia, more travelling, all the time working to pay for the travel…
Fast forward to December 2005, Mary’s comeback concert at Carnegie Hall. after her leukaemia treatment. Now, I don’t do winter. But, there can be exceptions and this was to be one. What a joy! After the concert, I approached Peter as he was leaving, garbled something like “I’ve come from Australia for the concert”, to which he replied “come back to my place, I’m having some people over”. …..there were, I guess, over 100 people there: Operation Respect people, Senator John Kerry…and little me, made to feel as welcome and important as anyone else.
Fast forward again ….my almost annual trips to North America invariably included concerts and equally invariably included being invited backstage before and after the concerts. Apart from the Covid years, I guess I saw at least 40 concerts. My most recent concert was in October last year at Lexington, MA. I’d hoped to catch up again in Ohio two months ago, but Peter’s health battles caused those to be cancelled. My most recent email was in July, still planning for those concerts, signed “much love, Pedro”.
I’m a nobody. Just a kid from small town Australia who managed, for some obscure reason, to be included in the very broad “PP&M family”. For this, I will be forever grateful.
But Peter, I have to mention: your attempt at an Australian accent is, well, simply dreadful. It needs a lot of work. Always happy to help out. You know where to find me.
Much love, Carole Nash
At the Kerrville Folk Festival, there was a camp named by the inimitable Tim Henderson as Camp Moco Verde. (For those non-Spanish speaking folk - Camp Green Booger) Every first Saturday night we had Bawdy Song Night. It was our excuse to drink copious amounts of Mescal, Tequila, Whiskey, beer.... or any other liquor for that matter... and smoke pot and sing bawdy songs. There were no rules. We warned everyone that walked up that this was a special night and that we'd be back to more tame singer/songwriter circles the next night. Every now and then, someone would sneek up from the shadows and be surprised by the unadulterated, uncensored songs.
This was one of those incidents. I went through a "spoof" phase, spoofing a lot of different songs, making them pretty obviously dirty or off color. I had spoofed Puff The Magic Dragon - Biff The Tragic Drag Queen. As I was singing it - I should disclose here that I was under the influence of Mescal worms - a couple of people were trying to surreptitiously inform me of something... My clouded mind couldn't compute.
When I was finished, a few people laughed nervously. Then I felt a hand on my shoulder. I looked back and there stood Peter himself. He sighed and said,"Graham, spoofing songs is a legitimate art form.......... but........... I really didn't like that one. Please promise me that you will never sing that song in public again."
I laughed, but, through my mescal addled brain fog, I realzed that he was serious. So, I promised. And I have kept that promise.
Peter has been such an inspiration to me. I had been playing Puff for decades. All my kids know ALL of the words and can sing them to their kids now. At one point, all of my girls have sung Puff with him on stage. Even my grandkids have sung with him. Those moments are precious to me. And it has been precious to them as well.
I gave Peter a pecan for his 60th birthday. I told him to go plant it and make sure that it was watered so that when he was an old man, he'd have a shady place to sit and pick his guitar. On his 80th birthday, he said he didn't remember that, however, that is a lesson to remember to plant and care for seeds for the future trees... whether in the literal sense or a figurative sense.
Thank you Peter for all of these precious moments and for the love you have spread through your lifetime.
I love you!!
- Graham Warwick
Several years ago during a performance at Kerrville with the Billy Jonas Band, Peter Yarrow sat in the audience to watch us.
The following morning, I saw him at breakfast in the hotel and he stopped me as I walked by him. After some small talk, he asked me why I hadn't worn a dress onstage the day before. He smiled and teased, "A woman should always perform in a dress." We laughed, and I explained to him that I had not brought any dresses with me on this particular tour.
We happily chatted for a few more minutes and then said goodbye. That evening, we left Kerrville. A week later, I received a package from him. In the package was a beautiful blue dress. I still have that dress!
- Ashley Jo Farmer
In October of 2009 my brother David and I organized a "get-out-the-vote" rally at the Beachland Ballroom in Cleveland, OH. We were on the verge of electing our first African American president. We had a large and diverse slate of some of the best local talent. Peter and I had a mutual friend in Cleveland, Chuck Fink, and it was through him that I was able to contact Peter. I left a message at whatever number he gave me and didn't really expect much to come of it. I figured it would go through Peter's management or whatever and disappear. Imagine my surprise when several weeks later I heard Peter's voice - that unmistakable voice - on my own voicemail. Peter showed up. It remains one of my great privileges as a musician and as an activist to have shared the stage with one of my heroes that night. Thank you, Peter, for that and for all you've given us over a lifetime of service.
- Noah Budin
REMINESCENT BLESSINGS
My love for the most wonderful folk group was prevalent almost immediately when I first heard “LEMON TREE” playing on the radio. The trio consisted of three talented and capturing voices giving warmth and love to all listeners. The woman's voice fit beautifully with her two male singers and included the tenor as well as the baritone blend brought interest and light into my life.
After that I followed closely with this trio and occasionally learned facts about them. We are focusing today in the beloved tenor voice of Peter Yarrow. I always purchased the albums when they became available and thoroughly identified with the content of the songs and the spirit of folk music which warmed my heart totaly.
The fourth album introduced us to live performances and we learned even more about them individually and as a success group. One thing that caught my attention was Peter's ability to bring the audience together as a group and enthusiastic participants warmed to the challenge. We also noted a surprise as Peter sang words of a French song and I personally was awed by that experience. My words remain as English based writing.
As time passsed, I continued following my wonderful trio and was delighted when they participated in “THE JACK BENNY SHOW” two consecutive appearances. Added delight to my love for them
I memorized so very many of the songs and my sister and I sang occasionallly from time to time. We also sang songs from other folk artists as well. I actualy developed a little talent for instruments that were of interest to me. I played bongos a little, also the auto harp and eukelele and finally developed a knack to play guitar. How I became a loyal enthusiast and that is said lightly because I truly allowed the music to enter my heart, soul and spirit.
I was quite a basket case when this trio ceased singing and playing together. But they truly were, at that time, and remain an inspiration for me even after all these years. The care and love they truly showed us was a healing for my life and I can't describe it in any form to modify the depth I feel.
Any time I think back to that time in my life, I realize that I have been very blessed and Peter is truly number one along with others and that emotion continues today. I will be adding more content to this historical story with this folk based rendition and it should appear soon.
Love and blessigs, carlene
I was 12 when you called me to come meet you at CBS TV station in Philadelphia! I asked you every possible question about Mary! (grin).That's when our friendship began. I remember the look on your face of sweet patience and kindness. In every note I sing you are in my heart. I remember you listening to me sing If I Had Wings in Connecticut and throwing me a kiss, and the honor of singing with PPM in Washington and at The Valley Forge in PA..highlights of my life.. So many years, so much love, words can't express the depth of my graditude and love for you...
My sweet friend and mentor. You are forever in my heart.
- Kevin Roth
In 1969, when I was 6 years old, my camp counselor taught us two songs, If I Had a Hammer and Puff the Magic Dragon. Those songs stuck with me. A few years later, I learned to play them on guitar while I sang them, and I bought my first Peter, Paul & Mary album. The group was a big inspiration and influence for me. I love the songs, and the harmonies made a big impression on me. More than 25 years ago, I attended a World Hunger Year benefit at Peter's apartment in Manhattan. I appreciate his work to help sustain WHY.
Several years back (I believe it was 2008 in Wichita), I attended the North American Assn. for Environmental Education (NAAEE) conference at which Peter was a guest speaker and performer. It was a special experience for me and many at the conference. I got to have lunch with Peter and a small group of my fellow environmental educators during that conference. We all shared about what we had been working on. Peter told me I was "a keeper". Sadly, I didn't get to continue working with him, but I appreciated that he felt that way in the moment.
I was still in high school when a friend taught me the song "Sweet Survivor", co-written by Peter along with Cynthia Weil and Barry Mann. Over the years, and especially since the 9/11 attacks 23 years ago, I have sung that song at many peace and environmental events. I am so happy to be able to share the song with both young people and audiences filled with people I know have been dedicating themselves to making positive changes in our society for decades.
Bless you, your talent, and your life's work, Peter Yarrow. We may lose you soon, but the Heavenly choir awaits your sweet tones.
With love to you, your lovely and talented daughter, Bethany, and your whole family.
- Sharon Abreu
Dear Peter,
We met briefly a couple of times at a Tech conference I used to attend in Orlando back in the early 2000s. I remember you being as pleasant as I imagined you would me.
I was in ITS at The Citadel Military College of South Carolina back then, in my 40s, tall and thin with long dark hair. I don't expect you will remember me. There were a sea of techies for you to meet at that conference. So many people vying for your attention.
It was an honor to meet you.
Your music flavored my youth. I thank you for that. I enjoyed your songs so much that they gave me many hours of earworms back in the day, and maybe again today if I think about them.
Sending you thoughts of comfort and healing. May this day be filled with many blessings.
-Alice
It was Peter and PP&M's music in1963 that convinced me, as a 7th grader, playing the violin to switch to guitar and learn my first song, 500 Miles. I was invited to sing this at the school assembly. Fast forward to 8 years ago, my tribute group to Peter Paul and Mary, (Peter Paul and Mary Alive) went to see Peter at Pepperdine University in California to get his blessing. He not only embraced us but, called us up to the stage for the second half of his concert so sing with him. There I was with my mentor, perplexed, grateful and wondering if I should sing my part, which is Peter's part, or make up a fourth harmony....wow, what a blessing to be singing with him, and with Christopher there playing the washtub bass. Having shared our story with the audience, Christopher jokingly called me "Dad" because I sang the role of his father in my group. I truly love Peter Yarrow, my friend, and am so grateful for the inspiration he gave in the formation of my tribute group to his honor, as well as Mary's and Noel's. We are taking Peter's instruction to heart, "Carry It On".
- Peter Gordon
I had the honor of singing with Peter as part of New York Choral Society for one of the holiday concerts. Singing with him, Mary, and Noel was a childhood dream come true. I grew up with “Puff” and so many other songs. After singing with them, I downloaded their chronology and listened to it countless times.
I now live in Arizona and had the privilege of seeing Peter and Noel at the Mesa Arts Center a couple of years ago. It was such a treat to sing along with them again to song like Weave Me The Sunshine and many others.
My life is so much richer and fuller for having Peter and his music as a part of it. As you take your place on the Great Mandella, know that your are free now, you can heal now, you can love now, and now you can be sure the world will go on with you as eternally present in the consciousness and hearts of so many you have touched.
With love and comfort,
Jason Seth Beckerman, Ed.D.
As an early aspiring folk singer in the mid-60's, my main source of inspiration was Peter, Paul and Mary. In fact, the first song I ever learned to play on guitar and to sing was a P,P &M song (Polly Von). Peter's voice and guitar playing continued to inspire me throughout my life and career as a semi-professional musician. Fast forward ten years when I met Dianne in Boston. Imagine my thrill when I learned that Peter Yarrow was a cousin! After all my years of adoration, now I was related, if only through marriage. Through the years our many meetings at concerts, family gatherings and culminating with our being able to host Peter and Christopher in our house, when they played together at our local Music Hall, I was able to learn what a caring and loving soul Peter is. These qualities eclipsed his talent as a singer and musician and made me forever grateful to be part of another wonderful family. My love and thanks go out to you, Peter. Jim Sardonis
Dearest Peter, cousin Dianne here. One of my favorite memories from the earlier days was when we were in Woodstock with Bob Dylan and his girl friend and my Mom. Dylan and I had a swimming race and I remember you yelling to me "for the family, Dianne!!" I did win sort of but I was given a head start-what fun!! I also remember you saying to us "he is going to be famous'" and you were so right - such a great memory! Thank you for all the great memories! I love, you Peter! Dianne Burt Sardonis
PS to PY
I don’t like to clog up this page, but I keep thinking of things I should have said previously.
Firstly, your YouTube podcast thing during lockdown. I don’t think anyone else has mentioned this, but it was a daily ritual for me here in the Land of the Lockdowns…generally, it was around 11am my time. I live on the northern beaches of Sydney and we were in a Covid cluster (remember clusters?)….we took lockdowns very seriously, in retrospect perhaps too seriously, but they no doubt prevented many deaths and even more hospitalisations. For a while I was limited to a seven kilometre radius for socially distant exercising….no real hardship in such a beautiful part of the world. I’d set out with my camera, my Covid-gifted photography obsession, but make sure I was always back home for your podcast. A time of singing and talking, real time interaction with other participants, a lifeline and a window into what was happening elsewhere in the world. Through this, I could catch up with other PP&M friends, and make new ones. Andi (Akiko) Ogawa was one of the new ones. We’re almost neighbours, Tokyo being only an hour away in time zones, and we are now in at least weekly contact.
Secondly, the friendships created and sustained through PP&M. One of the most deeply entrenched is with the Prestopinos. I often acted as Paul’s unofficial roadie and was deeply distressed by his oh so premature death. Sara remains a constant in my life, a source of comfort. There are others, too numerous to mention, some I’m in contact with regularly both in writing and physically when I’m in their part of the world….others I would see at concerts and we’d catch up with our news.
My life has been incalculably enriched by my PP&M connections. Your acceptance and inclusion of this crazy Australian, along with that of Mary and Noel, has been as wonderful as it’s been unexpected. And tell Noel I have some more, much travelled, Berocca vitamins for him, next time I see him. They’ve been to Ohio and back, but they are still good to go.
And lastly, that GI tract thing that Bethany mentioned: I live with a similar, but no doubt less severe, complication. I find, especially when I travel and “normal” food is simply untenable, I can exist for quite a while on my trusty standbys of yoghurt and bananas. Easily obtainable, easily digestible. Just a suggestion.
Thanks again for everything and may you be surrounded by peace and love.
Carole Nash
Many, many years ago at a concert in Ann Arbor, Michigan, you invited children and the young at heart to join you on the stage to sing along on “Puff”. My young daughter excitedly clambered up on the stage. You briefly held the microphone in front of each singer and when you got to her you held it in front of her for an entire phrase. At the end you gave her quick hug and told her she had a lovely voice. She was on cloud nine for weeks. She later went on to study music at university. Thank you for inspiring my child and so many more.
And, one more thing, as a young teen, in the late 60’s who was teaching herself to play the guitar, I worshiped your songbook with the tablature and learned how to fingerpick every song from then until now.
Thank you for all the joy you have brought the world.
Sara Lambert
As a Girl Scout and later a counselor at Chalk Hills Girl Scout Camp in the late 70s and early 80's, the music of Peter, Paul & Mary touched my soul. Peter became a friend to many of us, taking us to dinner after concerts and even singing with us in his hotel room. In later years, Peter would talk at lengths with my Middle School Principal husband about his "Don't Laugh at Me" program. We enjoyed countless concerts with our children and with friends. Our last concert was Peter and Paul in Madison, Wisconsin in 2017. I will always love you, Peter! Thanks for your beautiful music, your tireless advocacy for what is right, and for your friendship! The attached picture is from a 1999 concert at the Adler Theater in Davenport, Iowa.
- Jan "Wizzard" Zum Mallen
I'll never forget one of the first times I met Peter. I was home on break from college, maybe 20 years old or so. He was on one of his many frequent visits to Columbus, staying at my parents' (Rich and Carol Stoff) home, in my childhood bedroom (I stayed in the guest bedroom). I came downstairs in the morning only to hear a slow and soft "mmmmmm.... ohhhmmmmm" coming from the den. I crept into the den slowly, and saw Peter in full headstand with his back against a wall.
"Helloooooo Jenniiiiiiii" he said slowly in his low, melodic voice, his eyes remaining closed. I backed up warily, tiptoeing back upstairs, to let him finish his morning devotional. I'll never forget the image, and we'll never forget you, Peter.
Peter, the lives you've inspired are countless. The little bright bursts of joy that each PP&M fan feels each time they hum along to a song or lock into the perfect harmony singing along with you, last them a lifetime. Trust us, you will never be forgotten. Your light will live on for generations and generations to come.
With love,
Jenni Stoff Sood (with love also sent by Sumit, Maya, and Sadie Sood)
Another story….
I was a 14 year old teenage girl and just beginning my search for meaning. It was summertime and I was visiting Asbury Park, NJ.
I went to my first Peter, Paul & Mary Concert.
That evening I saw and felt something that I had never experienced before. I witnessed the coming together of extraordinary talent,
Values driven music that speaks to everyone. Three harmonies voicing a call for human dignity, justice, equality love
and peace. Performers giving their all to the audience and then, inviting and leading a chorus composed of a large number of audience members to experience the reality of inclusion, connection, feeling understood, seen and true community by singing
together.
Thus began my journey seeking to create this feeling for the rest of my life.
For many it is religion, for others the glory of nature but for me it was the feelings inspired at this performance.
Luckily, I enjoyed many many more PP& M concerts that helped keep this light shining bright!
Love you lots,
Xoxo
Marge
Oh, Peter -- thank you! Thank you for the first concert I attended at eleven years of age, and thank you for all 77 Peter, Paul, and Mary concerts that I have attended through the years (not counting the PYNPS concerts, and your solo concerts). Presto used to say that that was a fine kind of madness... You have inspired, entertained, and given us hope, when it seems hope is gone. Yes, you have provided much of the soundtrack of my life. You have never given up on us, and perhaps your courage, your willingness to speak the truth when it is hard, and your kindness and accessibility are things that, along with your music, will live on. Your memory will always be a blessing. The Peter salads before the concerts, the amazing hour long sound checks, your attention to detail -- I will always treasure these memories. The party at your apartment after the Holiday Concert at Carnegie Hall (with John Kerry in attendance), and the patience backstage after the shows when you were exhausted, but you stayed to meet and greet the people whose lives you inspired. It's hard for me to pick one image to include, but I chose this one of you and Presto at Ocean Grove. The love that goes out to you from all your "little dragons" is immeasurable. You are loved, and will be loved, always.
- Rebecca Russell McFee
I had the incredible privilege of working with the legendary Peter Yarrow on the Peter, Paul and Mary Lifelines record, and I must say, it was an experience I will always treasure. Peter's passion, creativity, and kindness made every moment of our sessions a joy. His dedication to his craft is truly inspiring, and I feel grateful to have had the opportunity to learn so much from him.
I have fond memories of our time together in the studio. Peter's enthusiasm was infectious, and his love for the music was evident in everything he did. He brought a sense of energy and focus to every session, and his passion was inspiring.
I feel lucky to have had the chance to work with Peter Yarrow, and I will always be grateful for the experience. He is a true legend in the music industry, and I feel honored to have had the opportunity to be guided by him and work alongside him. Thank you, Peter, for being such a wonderful influence and guiding light. Your music and your spirit continue to inspire me to this day.I had the incredible privilege of working with the legendary Peter Yarrow on the Peter, Paul and Mary Lifelines record, and I must say, it was an experience I will always treasure. Peter's passion, creativity, and kindness made every moment of our sessions a joy. His dedication to his craft is truly inspiring, and I feel grateful to have had the opportunity to learn so much from him.
I have fond memories of our time together in the studio. Peter's enthusiasm was infectious, and his love for the music was evident in everything he did. He brought a sense of energy and focus to every session, and his passion was inspiring.
I feel lucky to have had the chance to work with Peter Yarrow, and I will always be grateful for the experience. He is a true legend in the music industry, and I feel honored to have had the opportunity to be guided by him and work alongside him. Thank you, Peter, for being such a wonderful influence and guiding light. Your music and your spirit continue to inspire me to this day.
- Roy Henrickson
It’s been such a blessing to know you Peter. I first met you and Noel in 2017 at a Pete Seeger tribute in Washington DC. The picture of you and Noel and me is one of my favorites and shows the joy and love you have always spread. The other photo was taken just this past April as you, Mary and Noel were inducted into the Folk Americana Roots Hall of Fame. You have always been one of my guiding lights for truth to power and will always be. Much love and peace to you and thank you for being such an amazing example for all of us.
- im McFadden
Peter, My sisters and I have loved you since we first heard PP&M on the car radio in the early 60's. You and Noel inspired me to learn to play the guitar. I grew up to be a pediatrician and an amateur folk singer. During my residency, we had a young girl who had been in the hospital a long time fighting a difficult illness. Her body was doing well but she had forgotten how to smile. One night it was quiet and I had a guitar. I sat at her bedside and played "Puff". By the third chord the little girl was beaming . Three days later she was discharged home, still smiling from from ear to ear. Thank you Peter for Puff, the rest of your songs, for PP&M, my hobby, and for everything you have taught me about social action.
Sincerely, Howie Rashba Bedford, MA
Oh dear Peter -
The last time we saw you was in June of this year and your parting words to me were “Please keep in touch, I want to be there for you in this challenging time”. I reached out to share the news that Mike and I are both employed now and when I didn’t hear back from you, I knew something was not as it should be. I learned that you were home from the hospital but very weak. Today, Bethany’s email offering an opportunity to send a living tribute hit me hard as there is no way to sum up the impact you’ve had on my life but I will try to bring some highlights here.
Last week, I was showing Noah, now almost 14, a photo of himself at age 2 with Pete Seeger at my alma matter when Pete came to do a talk with song shortly after Toshi passed away. Noah has no recollection of this meeting. I am grateful to say that Noah has many memories of you, dear Peter, and he is at an age where those memories will stay with him.
When you invited me to come and work with Operation Respect, I went and spoke with the principal of the school I was teaching in and explained that I needed to leave my position as working with the DLAM program was a once in a lifetime opportunity. She understood and jokingly said “but he has to come sing for the kids first”. I relayed that message and within a couple of days, you were in a taxi on your way up to the Bronx to sing for/with a handful of the classes that I had already started introducing the DLAM curriculum to. This was a classic Peter. Someone, somewhere has a need and you do what you can to help. Over the years, the work of Operation Respect has remained dear to my heart but dearer is the truly remarkable man I got to know. Seeing you over the years has kept some part of my inner need to know things were really going to be okay, alive. The hope was ignited each time. Not only personal hope but hope for our communities, our country and the world. Each time, a reminder that there are people like you, the very best humanity has to offer, who live being lead by their heart and making the connections that need to be made to make change happen!
Fast forward to March of 2020 and the world came to “the great pause”. We didn’t know which end was up or where we were going. Your zoom calls, where we all talked and sang together, had more of an impact on my family than you could ever know. My mom joined in from Massachusetts and we joined in from Connecticut as we were not gathering together in person in those early days because we didn’t want to risk doing anything that could risk my octogenarian mother’s life. Those zooms kept our spirits up and gave us hope that despite all else, we would all be okay and carry on as the sweet survivors we are!
Just last week, Noah’s music teacher reached out to say that the class is going to transition from orchestra to guitar classes as "the 8th grade class curriculum delves into the rich heritage of The American Civil Rights Era. This shift in musical focus will allow students to study, play and sing songs that embody the spirit of this pivotal time in our history, fostering both musical growth and cultural understanding.” She went on to say that what they have planned is “historically significant and thought provoking music of Pete Seeger, Wood Guthrie and more”. Noah and I talked about your role in The Civil Rights Movement. Noah grew up with your presence in his life and understands how remarkable you are in the bigger picture, far more than just the man who called himself “Uncle Peter” when Noah was a younger boy. The first thing I thought of when I got the email from Noah’s teacher was - I know that if Peter was well and I asked, he would hop in a car and share with Noah’s class his first hand experiences with what they are studying and sing with them, just like he hopped in that taxi to sing in the Bronx.
My mother wrote a “Letter to The Editor” last month, they accepted it and held it until after the election. In the letter, she talked about how we need to come together and heal and not live in the divide. She introduced people to Braver Angels and provided a link to their site. This was another part of our lives that came thru you; my mom is involved with Braver Angels as a result of your sharing about the work you were doing with them and introducing us to them.
With that, I want to thank you for being the shining star that you have been in my life and my family’s life! We are grateful for you and all the better for the connection to you!
With much love and admiration,
Tahri (Gang)
Dear Peter,
My ears recently found their way to your music and my mind and spirit have relished in its messages. My two favorite songs of yours are "The Great Mandala" and "The Young Grow Younger Every Day" from Burt Bacharach's Futures album. I especially enjoy your performance of the former with the late, great Richie Havens. Last year I watched it regularly on YouTube. "The Young Grow Younger Every Day" takes me back to a time I've never known, yet allows me to feel as though I am there. Your songs have provided me with refuge and comfort. I thank you for your musical contributions to our world. You have made life here a more pleasant experience for so many, including myself.
All love,
Victoria Hart
Who isn't a Peter Paul and Mary fan!
Growing up in Montreal, Canada in the 70's, of course my parents had the "Peter, Paul and Mary" album and I became such a fan of theirs, and especially that album. I would stare at the cover while listening and imagine where that picture of the three of them up against that wall might have been taken.
Fast forward to my living in NY City. As a musician myself, there was the first time I played The Bitter End. I stood there staring at that wall on stage and then of course, looked up to “THE” album hanging up on “THAT” wall. I couldn’t help but cry with a big smile on my face. A full circle moment for me that I will never forget.
Throughout the years, I saw PP&M a few times. I also had the incredible opportunity to accompany Peter in a small showcase room at a Folk Alliance Conference. I then was working for the Northeast Regional Folk Alliance, and we hosted Peter and Noel. I will also never forget my first time at the Kerrville Folk Festival where my husband and I sat right beside Peter in a songwriter round and got to play a song while he listened.
Our lives come full circle in so many ways. Now I read that his is coming to an end.
Thank you, Peter, for your gift of music and for all the love and joy you brought to so many.
Cheryl Prashker
I grew up on the harmonies of PP&M, and so many other amazing duos and trios of the 60s and 70s, and loved the songs that you three made famous. All these years later, my husband and I are now a folk duo. We put out our first album in 2010, and one of the early reviews of it (which, I might add, was intended to be a put-down) likened our music to "Pete Seeger, or Peter, Paul and Mary." We considered this to be a huge compliment! Several years later, a gentleman hearing us at a house concert asked if we had heard of PP&M, since our harmonies reminded him of you three. We could think of no greater accolade! Thank you for your songs (Puff and Day Is Done are particular favorites of mine), your harmonies, your activism, and everything.
- Faith
I was literally introduced to folk music the day I was born. My parents had Woody Guthrie’s “Songs To Grow On” the day they brought me home. Several years later sometime in the early 60’s, when I was around 8 years old, (in the heyday of the Civil Rights movement) they brought they brought me to a Peter, Paul and Mary concert. From that day on I couldn’t stop listening to PP and M. Peter’s soothing tenor and captivating voice was always comforting, especially in times of duress. Then several years later I was asked to perform at concert in Central Park. We went on right before PP and M. After our performance, while leaving the stage, Peter walked up to me, put his arm around my shoulder and said “great set! You have a beautiful voice. Keep on singing on..” I never wavered in my love and admiration for Peter Yarrow, the awesome tenor, his true compassion for humanity, his constant activism to save our planet from the ravages of war, climate change and all things evil!
Though I never did get a chance to have him in my radio show, I have always held Peter Yarrow in high regard and always got a chill whenever he, and Paul and Mary were on PBS.
To this day, Peter has always represented the best in humanity. Keep on, Peter, keep on!!!!
With all my love and admiration, always!!!
- Jon Stein
I believe that Peter and PPM were my first introduction to folk music. They exemplified the power of music to engender / communicate a deep spiritual connection through the synthesis of word, composition & performance emblematic of the idiom, 'More than the sum of its parts.' Peter & PPM had the unique gift to elevate a song whether of their own creation or written & composed by others. The earliest songs I recall are 'Puff the Magic Dragon' & 'Blowin' in the Wind.' Other tunes I'm quite fond of include: 'Music Speaks Louder than Words,' 'Jesus Met the Woman at the Well,' 'Don't Laugh at Me.' Perhaps my most favorite is 'The Great Mandala.' I am most grateful for how my life has been enriched ten-fold by Peter & PPM. (ANDREW SUSMAN)
Peter, your music and spirit have been an inspiration to me since I was a little girl in Detroit. Having moved to Israel 30+ years ago, I had the opportunity to fly back and attend the Kerrville Folk Festival twice. One of my most wonderful memories is how, at the end of my first Kerrville, C. Daniel Bolling arranged me to share a ride to the airport with someone, and didn't tell me who it was...and it was YOU! I sat in the back of the plane, you sat in the front, but as I made my way to the windsock I saw your face peeping elfishly through the doorway, waiting for me. You bought me a juice, and we chatted about Israel and the chances for peace. I know that if everyone could have a fraction of your positive energy, peace would come much sooner. Sending prayers for personal peace, in the bosom of your family.
- Sandy Cash
My mother would play Pat Boone or Elvis records on her small turn table that she brought from her real home with my grandparents. She'd order a pizza and just sat there ignoring me for hours on end. Every once in a while, she'd beg me to understand what it was that she was listening to ,but I well, just didn't feel anything. We had a neighbor, who I called Uncle Sid, who loved folk music. He played Pete Seeger, Bob Dylan, Joan Baez, and Peter, Paul and Mary. One day, as I was sitting in his living room, "Motherless Child" sung by Mary Travers came filling the space. I cried. Someone understood how I was feeling and it made a difference in my life. I get the anti war music and I get protest songs, but to me, the way Peter, Paul, and Mary just told a story reached down into my Soul bringing me pure light. Later on, I met a boy who I just loved with all that I am. And your music brought us to concerts, hours spinning songs together, and being happy in each others company. You helped me craft memories that last a lifetime. Music changes people. It changed me for the better. Music can change the world especially when we can all join voices and sing together. Although I never met you, know that your music and pure heart just filled my life in the darkest of times and into the light. Thank you. You made a difference for one little girl who just didn't belong anywhere.
- Andrea Perez
My wife and I have been long fans of Peter, Paul and Mary. We are currently watching the Holiday Celebration over and over on TUBI. That was a great performance. Continues to inspire us to this day. My wife sings Light One Candle endlessly and to all our neighbors through the walls of our apartment each time it is played or seen on TV. I think the Campfire CD is something like a pinnacle for Peter, Paul and Mary as it sums up well not only the years of your singing well together but what is most important for all of us in life--in this world and the next--namely, family, as you have emphasized and spoken and sung about also in all your performances around the world. So, we pray for your recovery and continued success and share your songs and CDs with others whenever we can. Sincerely,
- Eric and Barb Dohrmann.
Peter personally taught my father Denny to play the guitar when my dad was young. It was an experience my dad talked about and was very proud of. My father kept a handwritten notebook with songs and their chords including Peter’s songs and other folk songs too since that time, adding to it over the years. My father in turn taught me to play the guitar from the same handwritten notebook. It’s all I asked to have from him when he recently passed on. When I was old enough, as a young teen, my father took me to see Peter perform. By then I knew what an important and amazing person Peter is and the message he shares with the world. Weave Me the Sunshine is our favorite song, and our family theme song. It is the song I loved playing with my father the most. I hope to share it with my children. Thank you for contributing so positively to my family and the world.
- Susan Gladstone
As a Millennial, I first discovered Peter, Paul and Mary when PBS aired the trio’s televised Holiday Concert in 1989. But it was when I was 12 years old in 1996 when I became enamored with PP&M’s music and message of hope, encouragement, inspiration, love, and sociopolitical conscientiousness. Peter, it was then when you became my permanent role model! Your sensitivity, articulate voice, words of wisdom, genuinely sweet nature, enthusiasm, passion, and massive musical talents gave me something and someone special to look up to in times of trouble from that point forward in my life. And whenever I listen to your music and the music of Peter, Paul and Mary, I always feel a sense of internal comfort and reassurance.
Thank you, Peter, for your loving affection. Thank you for keeping an open mind and heart to everyone. Thank you for being a gift to the world. And, thank you for sharing my first name!
- Peter Felton
first experienced Peter's big heart and generous spirit when he showed up as a surprise guest lecturer for my freshman Psychology class at Cornell in 1969, the morning after he'd performed in the Barton Hall gym with Noel and Mary.
But the time he really showed so much kindness was when I went to the "backstage" area at a folk festival in Sonoma county, California to speak with him and hand him my first cassette album. He was talking to someone else, but he motioned me to come close, and he took my hand, and squeezed it repeatedly while he finished his conversation, then turned to me and offered me to kindest attention. He was interested in the Israeli peace group I told about, and he graciously accepted my cassette album, opened his guitar case and placed it there, telling me he planned to listen when he got home. I'd be nervous about speaking to this well-known and accomplished performer, and his warmth and care meant a lot to me at that time. I thought of his song, "And if you take my hand, my son, all will be well when the day is done."
May the kindness and comfort he offered so naturally flow forever in the hearts of all of you who've been close to Peter, even as his time with us grows short.
Blessings, and peace,
Will Fudeman
I have had the privilege of meeting Peter several times when he visited California for his book signings and concerts. I've been a lifelong fan and Peter, Paul & Mary.
My fondest memory was bringing my younger son to Barnes and Noble for his signing of "Day is Done". It was only a few weeks after Mary had passed, and we were all missing her so much. Daniel, though, was very excited to hear the concert and enjoying the music so much that Peter invited him to the stage to sing along and turn the pages to his book! We stayed afterwards for the signing and Peter had very encouraging words for me, the mom of a sensitive child whose soul Peter really saw. It about brought me to tears. Peter gave me his email address and phone number and invited me to call him if we ever needed his encouragement. I was far too shy to take him up on his offer, but I still have them and his note carefully placed in the book he signed.
Peter - your kind words and songs have kept me going through some hard times. Thank you for sharing your kindness, your gift, your songs with us. Thank you for your words and generosity you shared with my little boy. He is a grown man now, and he remembers you fondly. You and Mary and Paul have made a real difference in the world and in our lives. Just, thank you.
- Julie Ellingson
My introduction to folk music happened in about 1963 or 64 when I saw Peter, Paul and Mary at the Convention Center in Saratoga Springs, NY. It was my first live concert and it was the impetus for the music I have loved ever since. I was fortunate to see the trio at the Saratoga Performing Arts Center and have enjoyed Peter's performances at Caffe Lena. Of course, I was heartbroken to hear of his recent cancellation. But most of all, his inspiration lead me to host a folk radio show at WSPN/Skidmore College for the last 30 years. I will forever remember that first concert which opened a door for me and a musical journey I never thought I would have. His music will live forever in our hearts - and I will be sure my listeners will never forget the impact he has had, and wil continue to have, on our musical landscape. With much appreciation - Chris McGill WSPN 91.1 Skidmore College Radio
My mom was raised with Peter as a child, along with Peter’s sister Elena. Their mothers were sisters, and until they all followed their own paths as adults, the three were as close as if they were all siblings.
My mom tills me that I meet Peter for the first time at a concert at the Woodstock Playhouse in the early 1960’s. My first memory of time with him was at a family Seder when I was around 5. He entertained me and my younger brother with children’s songs and stories, and kept us amused through what might have otherwise been a boring adult dinner.
In 2014, I reconnected with Peter at a concert he performed with Noel (Paul) at Longwood Gardens in PA. From that time until a year or two ago, we stayed in periodic contact. In 2017, Peter hosted a family reunion at his home that connected my generation with cousins and stories that we’d never met or heard. It was an incredible evening of warmth, love and connection.
Those are the qualities I will always associate with Peter: warmth, love and connection. I will miss knowing he’s in this world, but know that his legacy, personal and professional, will live on.
- Wendy
Dearest Peter, You kissed my cheek at a concert. You touched my life as a child and camper at summer camp where we sat around the campfire singing the songs of PP&M. From that you inspired me to learn to play the guitar. From age 12 I began learning to play and sing your songs of love, strength, purpose and strength. At 71, I continue to play, sing and share your music of PP&M. I am eternally grateful to you. You legacy lives as "The Answer is (and will always be) Blowin' In The Wind."
- Stacey Grant
Dear Peter,
I can’t thank you enough for the hope, strength, and vision you and your music gave me and my whole generation back in the 60s. But, as great as that was, I REALLY loved your work with Don’t Laugh At Me. (By then I’d been teaching in public schools since 1970.) Not only did I have you open the school year at my school district in IL, but I had the privilege of co-presenting with you at education conferences and I know that DLAM touched not only thousands of students, but their teachers too. I love this picture of us. You’re wearing the shirt I gave you the night before you spoke at National Louis University graduation and received your honorary doctorate. Your life has inspired, challenged, and graced so many of us. You live on in our hearts and our lives. Well done Peter, well done.
Sending you love and peace.
Joan Maute, Ed.D.
I’ve always been awed by Peter’s generosity of spirit touching on many different areas, watching as they’d travel and perform on behalf of so many causes, but I never imagined we’d meet or become friends. That was one of the many surprise gifts arising from my connection with The Carter Center. There, Peter once so sweetly played a song for me about bullying that brought me tears, a special moment of shared compassion that sparked a friendship. Then, in 2018, after the school shooting at Marjory Stoneman Douglas HS, he invited me to join him and other musicians in Parkland to help the students write songs, and “Wake Up America.” This was one of the most meaningful experiences of my life. I am forever grateful to Peter for extending his hand in generous friendship and the resultant experiences that this ushered into my life.
- Lauren Speeth
This is Peter Wong from Hong Kong ! Thanks so much for your coming to support Invitation Education through hosting concerts and sharing in our conference! Your singing and sharing had already touched many lives ! The Project Respect started because of your support in Hong Kong has provided tremendous impacts to hundreds of schools and helped thousands of children breaking through the trauma of bullying and know how to support each others!! The song ‘ Puff the magic dragon ‘ is in our school children’s song book and always sings by students of all ages as well as teachers !!We are so grateful for your friendship and generosity of sharing your beautiful life ! Your contribution to the world will be remembered eternally ! I send my love and want to say a big Thankyou on behalf of children and schools as well as families in Hong Kong ! We all send our very best and love to you! Peter , lots of love from your brother in Hong Kong , China ! Peter Wong
August 2010 I was walking through Rensselaer, NY Amtrak station and caught sight of a man with a guitar walking down the corridor, and into a coffee shop. I recognized this man as Peter Yarrow from Peter, Paul and Mary. I gathered my courage to approach you on your way out of the shop to say, "Thank you for your music," expecting to be treated like a fan, brushed off, kept at a distance, but no, you took time to really talk with me. We had a delightful conversation about travel and music and shared love for Minnesota. A couple weeks later, at Great River Folk Festival in LaCrosse, WI, I was fortunate to meet the duo Mustard's Retreat, and thanks to David Tamulevich, have enjoyed many opportunities to hear you perform with them in the Midwest! Once again, I want to speak up to tell you, "Thank you for your music." It's a lovely coincidence I will always treasure. Much love to you always.
- Linda Lee
When I was a little girl, my father would sing "Puff the Magic Dragon" when tucking me into bed. Then sometimes I would go around singing the song at school the next day. In high school I rediscovered Peter, Paul & Mary with "Puff the Magic Dragon," and since then I haven't stopped listening to Peter, Paul & Mary.
As a history major, I of course took the opportunity to take a class on protest songs. And during introductions (on Zoom because the first day of class was a virtual snow day), I said that the reason I was taking this class was because I like Peter, Paul & Mary. In the background I had some of the albums from Peter, Paul & Mary on the wall, hoping my teacher would notice. I even had my teacher play Peter, Paul & Mary's version of "The Times They are A Changin'." I also did a small project on the song "The Great Mandella."
Now I have many Peter, Paul and Mary albums on vinyl, and I always look for albums by Peter, Paul & Mary albums whenever I go to a used record store. I also keep a Peter, Paul & Mary CD in one of the 5 spots in my CD player in the car. In 2022 and 2023, Peter, Paul and Mary were the artist I listened to the most on Spotify, with a total of 43,611 minutes listened to Peter, Paul & Mary between the two years. Even decades later their music is still relatable and is still powerful. "Puff the Magic Dragon" will always be apart of my childhood, and has a special place in my heart being an adult now. Thank you for voice and thank you for your music. You weren't afraid to speak your mind and to stand up for what you thought was right.
- Emily Waggoner
I first met Peter in 1981, the second year I was in The New York Choral Society, whose music director was Robert De Cormier, who was also the music director for PP&M. Starting that year, and continuing for over two decades, every other year PP&M and the chorus presented a Christmas Holiday Concert at Carnegie Hall. Working with this trio -- who performed with us for gratis -- was an unforgettable, magical experience each and every time. One year we did a week on Broadway with them performing this concert, and in 1988 we recorded the concert at Lehman College, which went on to become a PBS holiday staple, and can still be seen on Youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pKwYE8DX0JY. Over the years Peter also used singers from our group to perform at schools and on recordings for special projects.
I also had the privilege of dating Peter for a brief time, which I remember with fondness. Some years after that, during a rehearsal break with the chorus, he had time for a quick hug and I showed him my wedding ring. His eyes lit up and he asked "are you happy" and my reply "So very much" seemed to fill him with joy on my behalf and he gave me another hug.
I admired him deeply for his commitment to the issues he believed in; he was an artist that never paid lip service to a cause but went all in. It was one of the reasons our chorus members never hesitated to step forward whenever he requested singers. We loved him.
- Karen Snow
Word has gotten to us here in the San Juans that you are about to ‘walk on’ into the spangled Cosmos. Peter you are unique and extraordinary and you are the person in my life who most exemplifies the huge and sacred practice of tikkun olam! You have spent a life giving and fixing and loving and singing. And I don’t know about rest in peace. Can’t imagine you spending eternity resting. Maybe pause for a blink or two, but I think if there are things in that realm that need fixing you will be doing it. And personally speaking, I prefer your guitar to any harp.
Vast thank you for your many blessings old friend. And especially thank you for the songs.
If you get to heaven before I do please tell my friends that I’m a coming too.
From Mount Wilson and Wilson Peak, from Sneffels and Ajax, the winds of love and sacred transformation are blowing from your mountains, with love, Pam and John and the Lifton-Zolines
I am 73... I won a guitar at a carnival when I was 9. I learned to play by playing along with the first Peter Paul and Mary album.. First song I learned was Where Have All the Flowers Gone, and soon learned all of them. I remember listening to that album many many times until I knew all the words, all the notes, and eventually learned how to harmonize. I cannot tell you; there juat aren't any words big enough to describe the impact that your first album had on me. It changed how I looked at the world and forever changed the direction of my life. I am deeply thankful for your music. We have a mutual friend, Joanie, and we all had dinner together after one of your shows and it was a huge thrill to meet you and break bread with you. I just want to say how much you are loved, and thank you for the beautiful incredible influence you had on our generation...
Michael
Thank you Peter, for the music and the love.
We started attending PP+M concerts in the late 1960s.
In the 1980s and early 90s we took our two daughters to 7 or 8 shows. Carly, the eldest, came with us to a show at the Sunrise Musical Theater in 1985; at age 6. She carried white roses to give to Mary and at the end of intermission walked to the stage. Peter invited her up. Mary picked her up and thanked her. Peter then asked her a few questions.
Carly politely asked Peter if he could hurry up as she had to go to the bathroom badly. Peter said sure as he said… “ I understand that very well”. 5000 concert goers burst out laughing.
Over the years we attended many shows and met Peter at FAI several times. He is always generous with his time and we have been singing his music for decades.
Thank you Peter. We love you.
The Engels Family
Hollywood Florida
My sister, Geri, bought the first Peter, Paul and Mary album when she worked in NYC and I was in 8th grade. She resembled Mary (shiny, long blonde hair) and at times while shopping in the city she pretended she was her.
We moved to Penfield, NY the next year (outside of Rochester), and I think it was a week after the JFK assassination, Geri had bought us tickets to the PP&M concert in the area. It was standing room only (we were standing) and the memory of being there, at that time, listening to that music, especially "If I had a Hammer," is seared into my memory. Even now, all these years later, the memory brings tears. Your Dad was a gift to the world. May his memory be a blessing.
- Lisa Katz
I have warm memories of meeting our several times when I catered the green room for the World Folk Music Association’s (WFMA) annual concerts. I’m not a professional, my fare was simple. But you made it a point each time to seek me out and profusely thank me for preparing it. I knew you had been served far fancier spreads, but you made me feel truly appreciated.
On another front, “Puff” was the first song I sang to my daughter and then to my grandson. Last night, he returned the favor.
- Shelley Capkan
Dear Peter,
You've always been a special presence in my life. I first saw Peter, Paul, and Mary perform when I was a young kid interested in music, and your dedication and musicality was inspirational. I've always found you to be a warm and giving person. When I needed someone to do a benefit for my son's school, your first response was: "I'll be there." And at that time, playing a benefit for a bunch of kids with attention deficit disorders was no simple task - but you handled it masterfully. Not only that, but you made the whole process seamless and beautiful. There's a saying that I've always loved, which is, "Those who give quickly give twice." You've been giving your entire life, quickly and three times over. Your music and your commitment to helping others through music has been a shining star in a world where often we can often only see the dark of night.
Much love,
Jeff
I knew Peter at PS6. We took guitar lessons at the 92 Y with Bob Calbourn ( not sure of the spelling) Bob had a long nail on his right hand which he used as a guitar pick.
I remember when PPM was formed and followed Peters career. Saw him last at Thompkins Corners Cultural Center where he played on an extremely hot night. It was a fund raiser, for his good friend Mark Weiss who is president of TCCC.
Also saw him at a concert at laguardia hs, where I went with my cousin, Mimi Segal Daitz ….she gave Peter the gig at Romp and Stomp at Cornell.
So Peter has been in my life, in some way, for years…..since I was in 5th grade and he in 8 th .
- Alison Goodiwin Schiff
To Peter, With Love
From all of us at Peoples' Voice Cafe
You uniquely know how to light the way
Your vision, active leadership, advocacy and soul
A light force of how to keep the world whole
You lift people up, from near and far
To rise and become who they really are
With a spirit that is creative and fun
and songs that soar, connecting everyone
Our social action work to carry it on
Is going strong and has only just begun...
- From the People's Voice Cafe - Bracha Lieberman
Peter:
Just wanted to let you know, that after watching the video of The Folk Americana Roots Hall of Fame Induction Ceremony - for the second time! - the sense of gratitude I have for knowing you all these years! - and the thanks that i have that you are part of my life - is a fact of life that i am truly thankful for. The joy and meaning, thru not only your music but, more important, your ethics and personality, that your presence imparts, carry so much meaning and value that continues to inspire me daily. I’m sure the “Peter Yarrow Spirit” - especially the ideals and humanity that you always espoused - will stay with me, and every one of your admirers, well, forever.
With huge respect and love - Bernie Weichsel
Peter, you changed my life. It goes back to a couple of specific times...raiding my older sister's record collection for all her PPM records when we were young kids in Chicago, to Kerrville New Folk in 1986 when you sat in the front row as I sang "Manuel Garcia" for one of the first times...and you came up to me afterwards and told me how you mom was struggling with cancer right then. That's how we became friends, and I had to pinch myself more than a few times over the years for our intersections...your 50th birthday celebration at Kerrville (that's WAY 'in the rear view mirror for me now at 71) and the continued celebrations in New York City which included a boat ride with friends and family on the Hudson River. You gave my dad Irving the biggest and longest hug he ever received in his life when I brought him backstage after your outdoor concert in Miami years later. What I want to say to you is that you've inspired me for a long time, and to know you even the littlest bit over the years has been very meaningful to me, it has encouraged me to be the best singer and songwriter I can be, and I will be forever grateful knowing we shared molecules at the same time on this spinning blue orb. Godspeed, and may we always be connected.
- David Roth
Dear Peter,
Your gifts of words and melody always confirm my experience, in person and recorded, that you are a man who is a prophet
in your own time!
Literally, however we join in music or Peter, Paul and Mary, we discover, then recognize a common ground for honest, critical conversations with each "other" to create and nurture a shared future. Know you will live in each of our hearts. And our souls.
And, we will sing and dance, and give joyful word sounds to each "other".... We will "tend into their sharing", the seeds you have so generously and compassionately planted in us....
With loving gratitude,
Vanessa Gang (Tahri's Mom)
I met Peter under the most unusual of circumstances. We have stayed in touch ever since and always get a laugh out of the experience.
It was a Sunday afternoon back in the late 1990s. There was a fierce blizzard blanketing the Northeast and Peter and I happened to be across the isle on the same slow, snow delayed train from Boston to Penn Station, New York. At 11pm and about 5 miles from Penn Station, our train came to a halt. The snowbanks grew and the wind whistled. There was no electricity, no light and no heat. As you can imagine him doing, Peter reached up to the overhead and retrieved his guitar and began to play and sing. From 11 PM to about 2:30AM in the morning everyone in the entire train found their way to our car for what was and incredible, emotional and spontaneous sing-along with Peter. Every soul lucky enough to be on that train will remember and cherish the experience forever!
To my great embarrassment, I didn’t know the identity of this talented musician. As the train lights flickered on, the heat came back and the train began moving again, Peter restored his guitar to its case and put it back overhead. “Wow” I said. “I don’t know what you do for a living but you ought to get yourself into music”. Peter smiled and everyone around us looked at me as the dumbest person on earth!
Since that evening I have always tried to attend Peter’s many concerts in the Boston area and he would never fail to invite me backstage when the concert was over. One time, at the Golden Rooster in Scituate MA he told the train story and invited me to join him onstage to sing Puff the Magic Dragon! On my 50th birthday back in 2001, Peter appeared at my firm’s Boston Office and gave a surprise concert to our 2000 employees. He composed a funny song for the occasion about the train adventure. One of my favorite keepsakes is a Peter Paul and Mary legacy picture book. It contains the inscription “To my Train Buddy Digger, Thank you for your career advice. Peter”.
Digger Donahue
The Invisible Thread
Dear Peter,
There exists an invisible thread that unites us all. For many, this connection has been forged through the words spoken or sung by those who hold a deep belief in something enduring and true. Your lyrics and the songs you have performed with Noel and Mary have profoundly impacted generations of our families. This invisible thread has shone brightly, not only in your interactions with each of us but also through leading us in songs imbued with meaning in an often challenging world. The thread you have created spans continents, generations, and decades. We are committed to ensuring that this light continues to shine.
With affection and gratitude,
Nancy Tkachuk and the generations of my family
A snippet from my memoir, "Surrender: My Journey from Guerrilla to Grandmother." I was happy to be able to talk with Peter about how important this song was to me as I tried to make my way in the complicated world of activism against the Vietnam War.
The summer after I finished high school, Dick (my older brother) was only a year from graduating college and having to decide where his life was headed. He had bought Peter Paul and Mary’s Mandala album. Together we listened over and over to the title song, a ballad of the imprisonment, hunger strike, and eventual death of a war resister.
Tell the people they are safe now
Hunger stopped him, he lies still in his cell.
Death has silenced his accusations
We are free now, we can kill now
We can hate now, now we can end the world
We're not guilty, he was crazy
And it's been going on for ten thousand years.
Take your place on The Great Mandala
As it moves through your brief moment of time.
Win or lose now you must choose now
And if you lose you’ve only wasted your life.
It became another song that I sang with all my heart. I lived with stories of martyrs who suffered and died for their beliefs. I lived with righteous confidence in my vision of a God-ordained right and wrong and with the necessity of confidently pursuing the right, even unto death.
- Katherine Power
57 years ago I spent more or less every Saturday night in my college dorm room, in the dark, listening to ALBUM 1700. The casual reference to "How's the preacher? How's Don? Did he go back to school? No kidding I thought he was gay!" blew my mind -- I thought I had the worst secret in the world, and here it was referred to as no big deal -- and the MAIN song on this astonishing album, THE GREAT MANDELLA, written by Peter, was the theme of the whole year as I waited to find out my draft lottery number and agonized, as everybody did, over the Vietnam War. So then to MEET Peter so much later in life, and become friends, and get to experience his incredible sweet, gentle, wise, so-deeply-caring self close up . . . it's been a gift and an honor and a pleasure. Hats off to you, Peter! And thanks!
- Andrew Tobias
I didn't sing in high school, and played clarinet. Then a group of teachers played songs at an assembly, and one was Puff, The Magic Dragon. I looked into the group Peter, Paul, and Mary and was hooked on folk music. And when you did Denver's "Leaving on a Jet Plane," and Lightfoot's "Early Morning Rain," I bought a guitar my senior year (Mom helped). 52 years later I am a songwriter (folksy stuff or ballads), songlead at church, and learned to sing harmony. I owe you and your friends for that beautiful addition to my life story. Many of my values are based in songs you did. It started with Puff and his dragon. I consider myself to identify most with you, in the threesome. The highest compliment someone gave me once was that I reminded her of you.
THANK YOU for the music, the messae, and the life you have lived.
- Tom Langr
You made me the person I am today. You , Mary and Noel were my idols. I was a fat , shy kid in the 60’s who had a couple of friends. I did have a decent voice but seldom used it. Another girl and I would listen to your albums over and over till we knew every song by heart. We started a folk Mass at church and would end with The Song is Love. We acquired two guys who were great guitarists and became The Russet Mantle. We sang at local colleges for special events. Never a big deal but we loved it and people loved us. The shy girl I was became a woman who loved herself. I knew I could sing on that stage and sing better than 90% of the people there. I wouldn’t hide in a corner trying to vanish. I’m 75 now and I go and drag the person out of the corner and make them sing with us. I’m still overweight but no one will ever believe I was shy. It’s all because of you and your magnificent group. I still try to stand up for what’s right and you helped me learn that too. I’m an old lady and still sing at wine bars and cabarets occasionally. I just wanted to say thank you for making me, me.
- Linda Martin
I am an author of role-playing games and teach game design to college students that was inspired very much by Peter. I will never forget Peter, Paul and Mary in concert at the Minnesota State Fair in summer 1989. I first sang Puff the Magic Dragon on 8-track with my grandma and grandpa, and it was probably the first song I memorized.
In the lands of dragons and unicorns, sometimes we slay our dragons, but sometimes they inspire us to the heights of love and heroism. I cannot imagine life without your words, your music, your resilience.
- Tim Krause
Earlier today, I was singing "Light One Candle." Born in 1975, my mom played your music while she cleaned the house, and it became the music that helped me navigate those rough teen years. PPM was my very first concert in Louisville, KY. My 4 kids have listened to PPM their entire lives. And my adult daughter now wears a PPM sweatshirt I purchased at one of those concerts. I cried when Mary passed but was so happy she lived long enough to see the Obama inauguration. Thank you for sharing your talent with the world. We have been blessed by you. And we will keep fighting the good fight, even when times are tough...and they seem to be tough...but your music encourages me to keep going. Thank you to your family and friends who have shared you with so many people for so long. I'll still be listening. It's time to play with Puff forever.
- Hope
When I was young, I heard Peter and the group sing on an album at a friend's house. To say I was instantly smitten is an understatement. Unable to get to concerts, I played records and tapes til they wore right out. Later, as an adult, for several years, we attended Peter Paul and Mary concerts at Wolftrap as part of fundraisers for the local non-profit TV channel. We were taken to meet Peter and Mary a few times, with our then-small daughter. Peter was wonderful with her, playing with her, singing gently with her. His presence really made those concerts special. The memories are touchstones for us to this day. I also remember one concert where the audience would NOT quit singing along. Peter got a bit firm with us, and actually got quiet for a song or two before the whole sing-along thing started over again. What he and Mary and Noel put up with from their fans!
- Carolle Cox
Dear Peter,
My Mom (Lisa) and I (Mollie) met you 23 years ago when I emailed Noel and asked for Peter, Paul and Mary to perform at my 5th birthday party. You all gave us backstage passes to an upcoming concert which started our lifelong friendship with you, Noel and Mary. For my 11th birthday, you finally did that concert for my friends and I in the basement of the Count Basie Theatre in Redbank New Jersey! We have so many fond memories over the years. Especially the benefit concert we did together for the NJ Sharing Network after they gave my little sister a new kidney.
Thank you for everything,
Mollie and Lisa Rubinstein
Dearest Peter, Although you don’t know me… I was lucky enough, many years ago, to go back stage at the Greek Theatre to meet you after a beautiful heart felt concert!
You were both kind, genuine and responsive and I was forever grateful for that! Very often, you grow to love the artists that you follow because of similar dreams and hopes you share…. We certainly shared the same passion for peace and compassion. I went to every concert that I was able to attend in California… I always kept my antennae up!
I, too, battled cancer and can relate to what you’re going through…I am sending good wishes and kind thoughts for you
To stay strong and free from pain .thank you for all the pleasure and enjoyment you have given me thru your music .
Warmly ,
Murphy Romano
A lady from California
At one of the trio’s events in Minneapolis, the family seated behind us had a severely handicapped daughter, probably in her early teens. As we waited for the show to begin, her feet were on the back of my seat and she frequently kicked me in the back of my head. Her parents did the best they could to keep her calm through the beginning of the show. And then some magic happened! You sang Puff and she settled right down and “sang” along with you! They left shortly after that. What wonderful parents they were to bring her to see the folks who created that beautiful dragon! I have attended several of your concerts but I believe that was my favorite because I saw Puff through the eyes of that child.
Know that you will always be loved in my home!
Sue Hilliard, Two Harbors, Minnesota
My wife and I were dating in the late 60s when we attended a PP&M concert at the Pasadena Civic Auditorium. She had decided we should break up and I convinced her to attend this concert since it was only a week away. I bought her a corsage and we waited after the concert to meet PP&M. When Peter came out and saw the corsage, he asked who gave her the beautiful flowers. She indicated that I had given it her. He mentioned how nice that was and more than 50 years later, we are still married and going strong. Had the privilege to see Peter and Paul earlier this year in Southern California. It was just what we needed with our world being what it is today. Thank you, Peter, for sharing your message through your music to show us the light in the world.
- Doug & Karen Poindexter
For Peter Yarrow
Like so many of my generation - of many generations - Peter's music has been part of the soundtrack of my life. I heard the trio sing "Day in Done" in a concert in Madison in 1969 and then heard the trio the next week at the big anti-war march in DC. It became a go-to song for me to sing to my kids.
And there are personal moments as well. When my wife and I heard him sing "With Your Fade to the Wind (Harriet's Song)" at a concert in Madison WI, we knew it would be an important song for a friend who was an avid cyclist and who was dying of cancer. But it was not yet on an album, We reached out to Peter and he sent a us a cassette tape (remember those?) recorded in his apartment and later we played it at our friend's funeral. The words he wrote then fit him now - "Yes, there are hands here to comfort you / And if you need there are tears to cry with you too."
I had the pleasure of meeting him a few times over the years. A gentle sprit, a committed activist, a catalyst for change and an amazing musician. He is always a blessing to our world.
Phil Haslanger, Madison Wis.
I’m almost 70 and I can’t remember a time when Peter Yarrow wasn’t a great source of inspiration, hope and joy in my life.
I have the most wonderful memories of my mom taking me and my siblings as kids to see PP&M to learn songs of freedom and equality.
That great joy was magnified when my sister and I took her son and granddaughter to see Peter at the Keswick Theatre in 2019. The best part was when my nephew and his daughter joined Peter on stage to sing Puff the Magic Dragon. Peter asked her how she knew all the words and she replied, “My Bubby taught me”, to everyone’s delight.
You are well loved, Peter, and you have given us all so much!
- Lisa Steinberg
Peter...We met in Kalamazoo, my hometown, in 1963, and, oh my, I cannot count the many times we met up after that. Shelley kept me hooked up at so many venues...Mary's surprise birthday party at the little red schoolhouse, the Christmas concert at Carnegie Hall (I ran down to the bakery to get you donuts), Interlochen more than once, Chicago, Detroit, St. Louis, Cleveland, Cincinnati, and the beat goes on. Shortly after my dad passed away, you dedicated a song to my mom and me in Detroit. You were always so kind to my mom, my two kids who were born in 1968 and 1970, and my little grandson later. You liked to squeeze Stevie's little cheeks and murmur little bits of sweetness to him. You are a kind, kind man and so very thoughtful. This gal from Kalamazoo will never forget you. Much love and peace to you!
- Linda Rowgo
It was 1964, I was almost 6 years old, and I had my face held close to my parents' black and white television screen watching Peter, Paul and Mary perform their music. I was transfixed. The next day, I was strumming my father's baritone ukulele pretending to be them and pretending to play “Puff, the Magic Dragon.” Later, in sixth grade, my teacher would bring her guitar into class and play us Peter, Paul and Mary songs for us. That Christmas, I was gifted a guitar, and I never looked back. Those musical icons of our youth often seemed so untouchable, superhuman in many respects. I never thought I would cross paths with them. Fast forward to July of 2023. I had the fortune of getting to know Noel through my music and my move to Maine. Noel and Peter were performing a concert in Waterville, ME, and my wife and I got tickets. It was a treat to be invited backstage after the concert to see Noel and meet Peter. I have found that a portion of musicians of Noel's and Peter's stature can be unapproachable. That was not the case here. I knew Noel was fantastic and very down-to-earth, but I had never met Peter. Well, there was Peter sitting on a chair in front of me telling stories. When I introduced myself to him, he looked me in the eyes, grinned, stood up, and gave me a great big hug like we were long-lost friends. In a way, we were because I knew him for most of my life through his music. I left the Waterville Opera House that night with a full heart because Peter and Noel, two of my idols, had both turned out to be the exemplary, gracious human beings in person that I had hoped them to be in my mind since watching their black and white images on that television from my youth. Lots of love to you, Peter, and thank you for the inspiration and the memories.
- Gordon Ward
Thank you for the wonderful gift of music you have shared with us. As a child growing up in the 60’s, I listened to your music with my parents, and fell in love with Puff when it was featured on Captain Kangaroo. As a parent, I shared your music with my daughter. I was so fortunate to see you in concert twice, and fully admit to singing along to Puff with tears in my eyes - it is to this day my favorite song. I wish for you peace and comfort, and the knowledge that your music has touched so many hearts and made a difference in so many lives. Thank you, thank you, from my heart to yours.
- Mary Erickson Gerbig
In the 1980's I was working as a Paramedic in the City of Springfield, Massachusetts. At the Springfield Symphony Hall I was asked to cover the concert by Peter, Paul and Mary. Being a long time fan I was delighted to be given this assignment. Partway through the concert, while Paul and Mary were play a short set, Peter came to the back of the hall where I was enjoying the music and asked me how the music sounded at the back of the hall. I appreciated his interest in a quality event and in soliciting my opinion. Growing up in the 60's "Puff" was one of my favorite songs and it fed the dreams of a young boy. Peter's contributions to the joy in my life over the past 65 years is recognized and appreciated. His music inspired me to learn to express myself through music, relationships, and understanding. Much love and peace.
- William "Bill" Dunwoody
My mom and I loved Peter, Paul, and Mary and after she died in 2003, I found myself listening to them every year on her birthday. I created a special and very unique playlist one year and burned a CD. I listened to that play list for months every day on the way to and from school, where I taught music. While I listened I often cried, a good deep cathartic cry. That May, I spontaneously went camping at Spring Gulch, the campground I visited with my family every summer growing up. They had a folk festival, and on a whim, I attended. Of course I listed to that CD the whole way there. While I rode my bike around the campground, feeling closer to my mom than I had in years, suddenly I heard a familiar voice and a familiar song. I walked over to the main stage, and I was stunned to find Peter Yarrow and his son performing- I had never even looked at the lineup. They played that CD playlist almost verbatim... and I soaked in every beautiful minute. I was so honored to have my photo taken afterwards with them, while blissfully in total shock that somehow, that completely unique CD brought my mother and Peter together in a way I never imagined. It was beautiful. A few years later, I met Peter again at another concert and sang Puff on stage with a group of people. One more time a few years after that, I purchased a meet and greet and had the opportunity to discuss compassionate education with Peter. He made me feel seen and heard and understood- and validated the work I do at a beautiful nonprofit as their Director of Education. He gave me his email address that night, and since then he has kindly written back every time I've reached out to him- each time with a personal, sincere, loving message. I am so honored to have met you, Peter. Thank you for bringing together generations of people through love, compassion, and drive for change.
- Sarah Thornton
My daughter's play school teacher was so surprised when a 2-year-old could sing along to every word of Puff. It's no surprise at all given that it's been a nightly lullaby for all her life - for her, for her little sister, for our foster grandkids, and for every other little kid that I've ever rocked to sleep.
My PP&M albums were some of my closest friends as an only child in the 80s, and I had many an unsent letter asking for advice as I navigated my early teenage years. My first boyfriend was on the wrestling team, and the New Paltz High School wrestling team rocked out to 10 Years Together for more than one gym workout.
Peter, you and Mary and Noel have been a huge part of my life and I know that I'm not alone. Thank you for everything. I am forever grateful for the music, laughter, and tears that have carried me through and always will.
- Anne Simons
I met Peter at a benefit that my late brother and his wife paid for to raise money for their school. I asked Peter if he had room for yet another benefit concert. He asked about my special needs program, and gave me the number of his staff to arrange it. The first concert was Peter alone. He and I agreed that he would not be expected to 'do this benefit' each year, I had no intention of that. So for the second year, a well known singer songwriter, close friend of Peter's, had led me to believe we were on for the second concert; but that fell through close to the concert date. Peter called and told me to hold on, he was calling Sue Leventhal of (then called) World Hunger Year. "Who can we get, I'll perform again, but let's find someone to split the bill"......Sue thought, and within 3 minutes she gathered some names, the first was "Tom Chapin" and Peter said, 'that's it, call Tom and hook him up with me, we'll work this our, tell him Barry is a joy to work with"......It was Tom, his daughters who were starting the Chapin Sisters, Peter, and Phil Namanworth, singer songwriter.........(Sue has become a dear friend w/ Marsha, my wife Barbara, and me).....the next concert, no Peter, but yes from Noel and Dick Kniss, and they were joined on stage for the first time in nearly 40 years by Eric Andersen....
I was driving Peter from his apartment to a LI theater where he was headlining a benefit concert for my special needs program. We talked about everything; he got a call from out of state, might have been Christopher, who was visiting family....Peter said "yes, yes, put him on....." and I believe he said "HI Mac" as it was Gene McCarthy. It was a kick to hear Peter's side of the conversation.....He said goodbye, turned to me and said "where were we ?.......oh yes, the secret to a successful marriage, in fact any long term relationship ?.......................share a public bath with your partner........you won't believe how that brings people together" ...I told my wife later on, she was willing to share a bath with me, but ixnayed the 'public' part, to which I said "Barb, he was very adamant about it being a public bath" LOL...............Peter< I wasn't the only one with whom you shared that secret, was I ?? I love you, always, and may I thank you, Noel and Mary, the music was essential to my Life, to many, but you and your partners did something more than symbolic. You often sang in a semi circle, it enabled you to sing and look at the other 2, but it also brought the audience into that broken circle, we were a part of something more than a concert.
- Barry Nisman
I barely even met Peter Yarrow, but it was part of the spark that turned my life to a new direction. In the early 1980s, I worked as a local radio personality in Orlando, when Peter shook up the market by spearheading a new creative endeavor: a children's radio station. It was an experiment which never took off in terms of commercial or even popular success, and I did not work on this project at all - but the idea was so bold, hopeful and inspiring, in a time of craven materialism which seemed like it couldn't get worse (obviously, it could and did get a lot worse), that it inspired me to prepare myself in new ways and begin many years of working with children and youth. I will always be grateful for that model of taking a wild chance which put children first.
- Carren Sheldon
I am but one of millions of his fans and have a story about how he singled me out of the crowd bringing joy and a memory that makes me smile whenever I think of that evening. It was quite a few years ago at the Hutchinson Center in Belfast, Maine. Peter was there to share one of his children’s song books and do a few tunes! What an opportunity for someone like me who had been following PPM forever and always aspired to be Mary in the group! It was a small venue, rows of chairs set up in the large conference room. I got there extra extra early to get my seat front and center! Peter started playing and I sang right along with him, adding Mary’s part at times and bursting with joy as I sang. Peter stopped playing, looked at me and invited me up with him to sing If I had a Hammer. He paused to change the key on his guitar to better suit me. Here I was doing a duet with one of my most admired persons of all time! I wish I could say I did a great job, but it was more croaky than how I was singing as part of the audience! But I was sharing energy with Peter Yarrow and croaky or not it is a magical experience that I will always be able to access in my memory and enjoy that evening all over again! How kind Peter was that night to give me a chance to share his light which has shined all over the world.
- Diane Braybrook
When I was a little girl, my sister used to play folk music on her record player. She was a hippy. 8 yrs older than i. I used to steal her albums and listen and sing along. Peter Paul and Mary and Joan Baez. I fell in love with both artists. When I was older, I’d go to as many folk concerts as possible. I’m from Vienna Va, so Wolf Trap was my place to go, as was the Birchmere. I was in a good area for folk music. In the 80’s, my boyfriend introduced me to a radio show, Musicamericana. Every Sunday night, we would listen to it. I was loving all the older and newer artists. I bought albums then cassette and cds. My collection is huge. I still will play cassettes and cds. Through those years, my favorite concerts were with Peter Paul and Mary. It was a regular at Wolf Trap. The last time was in 2007 or 2008. It was just Peter and Paul. Mary was too sick. We all knew at that time. She passed soon after. I cried. Now I cry again. I saw Peter in 2017 at a venue in Bethesda MD. It was wonderful. I was in the front row and got some good photos. It’s so hard to see this today. My heart is breaking to hear this bad news. My love and prayers to Peter, his family and friends. It’s so hard to see my hero’s pass. Paul is still the one to keep the word out. I know this will be really hard on him. We all send prayers to heal.
Love you, Margaret
Dear Mr. Yarrow, Thank you for sharing your tremendous talent and empathy with us for all of these years. I don't know how many times I have watched the PBS specials and listened to the greatest hits CD which I own, but I still enjoy them every time as if it were listening to an old friend and receiving a hug from them. The one song I repeatedly listened to when I bought the CD's was, "Light One Candle". Please be assured that even though your time on this mortal coil may be coming to a close, we will always keep the candle lit in thanks that love will never die, and your encouragement to keep the flame lit no matter what the obstacles, has inspired many of to keep going even when we felt like giving up. Don't let the light go out!
- Johannes Dirnberger
I grew up with the music of PPM in the 60s. When I began to play guitar, their music was some of my first success. All my life, I’ve had the albums, watched the concert specials, donated to PBS because Peter encouraged me to. It wasn’t until I had a daughter who also loves the music that I got to see the group live. What a privilege! There are so many times in life that a lyric or melody creeps into my day. Just this week, I found myself quoting Lemon Tree. And I know I will be watching the holiday specials with extra feeling this year. Not only does the trio’s music fill my lifelong playlist but also my he group helped me to build my social conscience, nudging, singing, or shoving me to know, care, and act for a number of important causes. Thank you, Peter, for every note and every moment. You will always be here with me and so many others. Peace.
- Sharon Bishop
On a Sunday afternoon while driving on Interstate 87 south through the majestic Adirondack Mountains in Upstate New York, we were listening to 60's Gold on Sirius XM in 2017.
I was 60 and my wife was 55. She is from a different music generation, U2, The Police and The Talking Heads. I'm a child of the late 60's and early 70's. I had 2 older sisters and 2 older brothers. I grew to love the music of the 60's living on Long Island. The Beatles, The Beach Boys, Bob Dylan & The Who. But my favorite artists were the story tellers, Arlo Guthrie, Simon & Garfunkel and Peter, Paul & Mary.
Back to the car ride through the Adirondacks. While listening to 60's Gold and singing to my hearts content. My wife's classic comment, I wish I had her video. She says, "Who the hell knows EVERY word to Puff the Magic Dragon? I mean, EVERY word! Noone these days knows every word!" She laughed so hard as I sung, EVERY WORD!
It's a story we still tell. Around a fire by a lake with friends. Two of those friends also Peter, Paul & Mary fans. So we pull it up on YouTube and you know it, the three of us start singing Puff the Magic Dragon.
Thank you Peter Yarrow, Paul Stookey and Mary Travers for the years of memories. For music shared through the generations.
My mantra, Peace be the Journey (from the movie Cool Runnings).
Jeff Gillham, Upstate NY, aka Opa
Way back in the 60s, PP&M were at the coliseum in Winston-Salem, NC. I was a student at Wake Forest University. I went with friends to see the concert. We hung around after hoping to meet them and when most everybody had left and no one stopped us, we walked behind the stage through a curtain opening. Paul was standing over near a car talking with several people. We saw an open door and walked unto basically a “green” room. Several people were sitting on benches talking with Mary and Peter. We were invited to join them. I asked about the D-28 Martin he was playing. After about 30 minutes, things were winding down and Peter asked, “Who was the one who was going to carry his guitar to the car?” I assumed it was me and so I did. What a kind man he was. Over the years I saw them 7 times in concert. What a group! Love you Peter Yarrow. Fight the good fight as long as you can. God bless your soul!
- Jerry McDowell
The first song I ever learned was “freight train“; I was familiar with that song by Peter Paul and Mary. My friend taught me how to do a four finger finger pic but wouldn’t lend me his guitar. So I built on a block of 2 x 4 six wires and practiced. The next week when I showed him That I could do the finger pick key showed me how to make a chord (I think it was C; circa 1960s, late)
Today, from some friends, I hadn’t seen in 40 years. I’ve acquired a guitar that Peter had drawn a caricature of himself and signed for station KTWU in Topeka, KS, For a fundraiser.
I’m very happy to have this, it makes me smile.
I saw Peter at the Jewish community center event (annual)) in Kansas City years ago, it made me smile then as well.
I’m gratified to have this guitar. I’m playing it tomorrow at the Jam at my local coffee shop and I’m grateful, Baruch Hashem, That Peter is still with us.
Thank you, Peter for so much for so long
Alan
Dear Peter,
Yes, I do feel I can call you Peter and not Mr. Yarrow because you, your music and your passion for equality and justice have always been a part of my life. I was born the year the "In Concert" album was released and I grew up listening to it and all the other albums. As I child I simply loved the music, as an adult I came to love and appreciate your commitment to the causes of peace, equality and justice and have, especially in the past decade, looked to you for inspiration and guidance in navigating the political climate we have found ourselves in.
The world is a better place today because of you and your legacy will live on through your music and your family.
To Bethany, Christopher and the rest of your family and friends, thank you for sharing Peter with us for so many years.
Sending lots of positive thoughts and energy your way.
- Janet Bradshaw
I was fortunate enough to meet Peter this past April at the Folk Americana Roots Hall of Fame in Boston. It was our first meeting. I approached him and after introducing myself, he said, "do you know who you remind me of? Stan Rogers...do you know who that is?" "Of course," I replied, "fine Canadian Folk Singer!" "No, no, no...he was a Folk Singer," Peter replied. With that gentle message, I knew all I needed to about Peter...he didn't see people as nationalities, color, political affiliations...he saw them as PEOPLE. Important distinction, and a lesson I will never forget. Thank you, Peter, for your music, your humility, your kindness, and your love. God speed...until we meet again.
- Tony Gillespie
I graduated from high school in 1969. That should give you a good idea of the world I lived in. The songs that Peter, along with Noel Paul and Mary, sang to us inspired, soothed and taught us about laughter, the world around us, acceptance of each other and how to be better people. My children were introduced to their songs from the time they were born. My four year old granddaughter will be the next generation to sing those songs. Numerous concerts over the years have truly enriched our lives. One stands out for me. It was an evening with just Peter in a barn-like theater during a snowstorm. The power went out but the show went on thanks to cellphone flashlights. It was wonderful and so much more personal. Afterwards, I went to say thank you to Peter and we ended up talking about my job at the Philadelphia Veterans Affairs Hospital and about my Vietnam Veteran husband. I’ve never forgotten those special moments of personal time I got to spend with an incredible, empathetic, genuinely caring man. For seven years, I took care of two children who lived across the street from us. Because they are Jewish and we aren’t, I learned a great deal about myself. Together, we learned to sing “Light One Candle “, year round! Peter, you are truly loved and have been a great blessing for my family. Thank you for being who you are.
- Jan Mohrfeld
Peter you have changed my life. Your message touches my heart. I admire your ability to share peace, love and justice through song. You are one of my heroes Peter...right up there with William Wilberforce and Martin Luther King. We have been to many concerts. My granddaughter was two when she would repeat your name when looking at a photo of you that was in her room. She loved your books and the music that created them. At age 8 she sang Puff with you in Scottsdale, Arizona where you performed. Last April the same little girl, now 13 sat in the second row in Cerritos Center for the Arts, and was probably the only 13 year old in the audience. She sang each song with you and Noel. She feels the message that you share. Peter you have not only changed my life but also my granddaughters. I don't have the words to thank you enough. I am so proud of my granddaughter and you have helped develop her character. She gets it!
- Jean Suico
I happened to be at McNally Jackson Books in SOHO, NYC sometime in August 2012, when Peter Yarrow held a mini concert to promote his books for children, "Puff the Magic Dragon" and "It's Raining, It's Pouring". Out of the blue, Peter Yarrow asked me from among the crowd to scan the book for the audience beside him while he sang the famous "Puff" song.
I was so happy and can't believe I was beside him. I grew up in the Philippines listening to the songs of Peter Paul and Mary as introduced to me by my older brother who was a folk singer.
After the mini concert, Peter Yarrow spent some time with me sharing his experiences with Paul and Mary during the Edsa Revolution in 1986 and the concert they held at Manila Hotel. Then he got my phone and asked a staff to take a photo of us.
It was one of the best moments of my life.
A few years later, me and my fellow alumni of Mindanao State University watched a concert of Peter Yarrow in Manhattan.
Thank you so much Peter Yarrow for the precious memory.
- Marie Fe Conde-Acera
I am 15 years old and in my opinion, there is no folk music without Peter Yarrow. Peter is the kind of person that comes up once in a lifetime. So many people (including myself) were introduced to folk music through his songs. I would just like to thank him for his work and the fact that he has continued performing for so long. I saw Peter and Paul in June, and it truly was one of the greatest moments in my life. You could feel the energy and power still going strong. I know Peter is and will be remembered as a great musician, songwriter, and overall great person for the amount that he contributed to the world, from the beginning of his career, he never stopped fighting for what he believed in, and that’s something that not many people do, and something that needs to be appreciated. He should be known not for Peter, Paul and Mary, but for his constant demand for social change. So, thank you Peter Yarrow for inspiring generations of young people, and being one of the greatest human beings I can think of. — From, Anthony.
I was 10, and Woodstock was a wonderment a long ways away. I was in Montana, and couldn't drive. There was an old school bus the teenagers were painting and I painted a flower on it. All the colors were considered psychedelic ( totally cool) . I wanted to go soooo bad but my parents were not having that at 10 . The day the bus left, man I was bummed. This older girl told me she was going to the coffee house to listen in to tunes and asked me if I wanted to go. WOW it sounded pretty cool. So I went. It was a broken down 2 story apartment building. Outside their was gray tarpaper shingles, WOW on the inside, pillows on the floor, (thought was weird) black light posters, more peace signs and a massive stereo system. So I was watching my first lava lamp, and this song came on that caught my attention fast. It was called Blowin in the Wind. It was deep. And I listened to the rest of the album with all these ( older) teenagers. And when John flipped the album , I asked who the group was. Low and behold it was Peter, Paul and Mary. I was so excited , I played the guitar, not hard to follow the music, I was playing their tunes. I told my new found ...older friends I was playing them , I got invited to play with them. So all of my extremely great new experiences, were thanks to Peter , Paul and Mary
- Connie Dauch
This story will probably not be unique, but I share it anyway. In the early Sixtes, as a young teen, I was just learning to play guitar. My teacher, although teaching me classical technique, was willing to teach me how to finger-pick "Puff, the Magic Dragon." Once I had it down, I began singing it for my younger nieces and nephews. As a result, it became a staple in my repertoire as I grew as a folk musician. Over the years I became an elementary music teacher, frequently ending my lessons with "Puff." Then I became a father, singing for my children, and often putting them to bed with "Puff." On the side, I entertained other children, often ending my set with "Puff." Then I sang "Puff for my grandchildren." Now, as a retired individual, I sing for children in libraries, still pulling out "Puff." A couple of months ago, I was enjoy a singalong lunch with friends, when a boy from a neighboring table came up to me and shyly asked, "Do you know 'Puff, the Magic Dragon?" I wish you peace, Peter, as you enter these final days of your earthly journey. Thanks for the gift you gave me, that I've been able to share with many others.
- Volkert Volkersz
Peter, you and your pals, P and M, have not only filled my heart and soul when I was a teen and young adult. You have been with me all the way to my 77th year. Not only that, my daughters loved you just as much and ... now my grandchildren. I brought you with me to Israel where my friends and kibbutz members would come to my room to listen to PP&M and sing along. We saw PP&M in Foxboro, MA, in Tanglewood, MA as well as you, alone, Peter, in a Unitarian Universalist church coffeehouse in Franklin, MA. What an honor that you came all the way to this small out-of-the-way town to speak and perform.
I wrote something poignant in the comments section of this site before I found this page...I hope you get to hear it. It has to do with chanting for you. Blessings for your overwhelming gifts to the world. I am especially grateful for "Light One Candle," and that you came out as a proud Jew. Bless you for you!
- Eva Friedner
Peter, you and your beloved Mary and Paul (Noel) came to the University of Cincinnati campus to help campaign on behalf of John Gilligan for Ohio governorship, and to educate and encourage student voting and activism.
After your incredible concert you and your cohorts hung around in the Armory Fieldhouse to chat with those who wanted to learn more about voting and becoming engaged and active in making our nation better. Thank you.
Your Peter Paul and Mary eponymous album was my first record purchase when I was twelve. And so my relationship with you and your friends began.
As you make your transition from this life, know that your music and your haunting, poignant songs to defend humanity and the underdogs around the world have had a lasting impact on me.
Gratitude and blessings.
Peace.
Lynn
Dear Peter,
My name is Bill Colbert, and you know my brother Paul. I became a fan of yours (and the others) in the early '60s. I learned to play guitar in 1964 just so I could perform "Very Last Day". I learned by playing along to PP&M records, and have been performing ever since. I can even say I played in coffee houses in the '60s. One of the biggest thrills of my life was when you sang "Happy Birthday" for me backstage at a performance you did in Buffalo. I was always impressed by the way you took time for fans, and also for your incessant attempts to engender love and friendship in the world.
Thank you for my music, and Godspeed.
Love...Bill
I was privileged to have booked Peter as the headliner for our 2013 Annual Savannah Folk Music Festival when I was President for the Savannah Folk Music Society / Festival Coordinator from 2011 to 2016. Peter and his son Christopher graced the stage and played 2 wonderful sets. In 1999 we were also able to bring Noel (Paul) as headliner for the Festival too.
I grew up listening to Peter Paul and Mary from the early 60's in Bombay, India and still continue listening to / singing and playing their songs till this day after moving to Savannah since 1992. I too love the song " Don't Laugh At Me" and frequently perform it myself.
Peter's contribution to the Music World as well as his passion to promote "Anti- Bullying" of children in particular is very noble and something that I support whole heartedly.
Peter and I share one thing in common ..............both of us had our guitars stolen at different times. My precious 12 String Ovation - Glen Campbell model was taken from the Green Room area of Grayson Stadium after the 2013 Savannah Folk Music Festival, where I had brought the guitar so that Peter could sign it for me. While chatting on the way to drop Peter at the Savannah Airport, Peter shared his stolen guitar story with me..........he got his back after 10 years though!! Fortunately I was able to recover my guitar and when we visited New York for a friend's 60th Birthday, I was able to take my guitar to Peter's house, kind courtesy of David Tamulevich's assistance and finally did get him to sign it for me.
Thank You Peter: for sharing your talent, vision and music with all of us worldwide as Peter Paul and Mary as well as your solo work and Project Respect
- Christopher Desa
I was privileged to have booked Peter as the headliner for our 2013 Annual Savannah Folk Music Festival when I was President for the Savannah Folk Music Society / Festival Coordinator from 2011 to 2016. Peter and his son Christopher graced the stage and played 2 wonderful sets. In 1999 we were also able to bring Noel (Paul) as headliner for the Festival too.
I grew up listening to Peter Paul and Mary from the early 60's in Bombay, India and still continue listening to / singing and playing their songs till this day after moving to Savannah since 1992. I too love the song " Don't Laugh At Me" and frequently perform it myself.
Peter's contribution to the Music World as well as his passion to promote "Anti- Bullying" of children in particular is very noble and something that I support whole heartedly.
Peter and I share one thing in common ..............both of us had our guitars stolen at different times. My precious 12 String Ovation - Glen Campbell model was taken from the Green Room area of Grayson Stadium after the 2013 Savannah Folk Music Festival, where I had brought the guitar so that Peter could sign it for me. While chatting on the way to drop Peter at the Savannah Airport, Peter shared his stolen guitar story with me..........he got his back after 10 years though!! Fortunately I was able to recover my guitar and when we visited New York for a friend's 60th Birthday, I was able to take my guitar to Peter's house, kind courtesy of David Tamulevich's assistance and finally did get him to sign it for me.
Thank You Peter: for sharing your talent, vision and music with all of us worldwide as Peter Paul and Mary as well as your solo work and Project Respect
- Christopher Desa
Dear Pater…I was the 10 year old in 1963 listening to my sister PP&M albums ..asking for a guitar that Christmas.. and determining my fate and faith as a folk singer in those moments. Never in my dreams did I think I would call you a friend! And here we are .. as I reach my 64th year as a folk performer.. ! Singing with you obviously a dream come true.. getting to know Christopher( I love you! ) and sharing stage moments and harmonies will fill me forever.. never can one person be so terrified as I onstage … when Peter says ‘Libby just sing .. “ if you miss the train I’m on” …. I’ll walk that tightrope again with you Pater…anytime ..everywhere.. so generous ..with deep love know that I am throwing you a kiss…. For the one you stole from me in Flint one year!! Put that cheek up for a kiss and swiftly turn to catch my lips!!!hahaha.. I’d bet I’m not the only one !.. love to the family
- Libby Glover Mustard’s Retreat
When I was 16, I visited my sister at the University of Massachusetts for a weekend. Peter, Paul and Mary were performing and we got tickets!It was the mid-Sixties and I was swept up in the social movements of the time. I was naive, hopeful, angry, and a hopeful classical musician who wanted a way to express her feelings. Seeing and hearing Peter, Paul and Mary gave me the language to express my feelings and steered me in the direction of social justice - a life-long pursuit. And I was actually able to tell this to Peter several years ago.I am grateful to have had the privilege to know him.
Julie Ratner
Dear "Uncle" Peter,
It was such an utter delight to get to know you and share so many stages with you on tour with Lonesome Traveler. Performing with you was one of the great honors of our lives and an experience that we will hold close to our hearts forever. We treasure those memories of hearing your stories, enjoying your mischievous sense of humor, and learning so much from the way you perform by fully embracing your audience with overflowing love, compassion, and humanity. Your indefatigability was and is an inspiration.
Just a couple weeks ago at a gig we played together with our band we were remembering something you told us - that whenever someone performs, whether the music is political or not, just gathering a group of people together to share the experience of music is a revolutionary and world-changing act. Thank you for all you have meant to us and to the world.
Much love,
Justin Flagg
Matt Gelfer
Sam Gelfer
Beau Moore
Dearest Peter, I guess it’s been about 63 years you’ve had a home in my heart. A door began to open as I heard your beautifully plaintive voice on that first PP&M album in Albert Grossman’s office. Albert was convincing my grateful father, Richard, to hire PP&M to perform at Sage Hall, Smith College (the group’s first concert as it happened - sly Albert hadn’t mentioned that little fact). Following that your impish smile juxtaposed against your very serious attention to detail regarding the room’s sound at Sage Hall opened more of my heart space to you. Then you, Noel and Mary ran onto that stage and magic struck.
My Aunt Georgie was sitting beside me that night. Between tunes I heard her exclaimed “I think that’s Vera Yarrow’s son Peter!”. At that my heart new space became a room. As it turned out Aunt Georgie and your mum had taught together at M&A and for me that was enough to claim you as family.
Throughout the years I’ve revered your intelligence, your kindness, your creativity and maybe most of all your generosity of
spirit and fostering of talent. My life has been immeasurably enriched by your presence on this planet. Your room in my heart has always been filled with light. One of the loveliest light filled memories from my youth was walking with you along Lexington Ave., to go somewhere for lunch. You turned to me, asked me to wait, crossed the street to briefly speak with someone then
returned to continue our walk. When I asked who the person was you didn’t know but said you thought they looked wonderful and wanted to tell them. I’d noticed they walked a little bit prouder after your compliment. Since that day I’ve never let an opportunity pass to tell strangers when I think they look fabulous. These comments have always been met with a smile and a thank you. They feel lifted. I feel lifted. My thanks to you for that insight and those moments.
People all over the world have been profoundly touched by your musical gifts, your art and benevolence. I know you have a home in each of their hearts as well. You’ve gathered a very large extended family and our love for you feels eloquent beyond words. It’s love bonded by humanity. All these many years I’ve wondered what takes us, in your sphere, beyond mere admirers no matter how or how well we’ve known you. You gave me the answer. You received the eloquence to describe it for us all - “We are all one spirit” “From the dawn of creation We are one”.
And so Peter, as “it flows through you it flows through me”.
Shalom,
Lee
I was first introduced to the music of Peter Paul and Mary by my Mom. It was the mid to late seventies and I was around 5 years old. I sang my little heart out to those songs and believed, even then, they would help me care for the people of the world. All through my life, Peter Yarrow’s music, words and example have been the guideposts of my journey. His wisdom has been the beacon of hope when I felt the world was losing its way and my efforts were coming to naught. Sending light for Peter on his journey onward. All the love and gratitude are filling my heart and spilling down my cheeks, but oh how they clear my vision. Blessings.
- Heather Floyd Swann
PP&M were the first Folk Group that I embraced as ayou g girl and over the years I attended many concerts at The College of William and Mary ( my Alma Mater), in Richmond, Norfolk, Charlottesville, during a blinding snowstorm, and in Northern Virginia. Following their Peaceful protests and singing , “If I had a Hammer”, “ Blowin’’ in the Wind”, and “ We shall overcome” I had hope that we could all someday live in Peace. My friends, the Bakers, came to know Peter, Paul and especially, Mary, as fans and then close friends, and I treasure a pair of Mary’s pearl earrings gifted to me. My children grew up singing “Puff, the Magic Dragon” and
we cherished every album the group made… especially the Christmas In Concert albums. My late daughter and I visited personally, backstage with Peter, Noel, and Mary at Wolf Trap. She wrote often to NOEL and kept up with him and Peter after Mary’s passing. I especially loved, “Don’t Let the Lights Go Out” that Peter wrote, and as a musician offered a rendition to my Jewish friends at Hanukkah for many years. Peter’s light will never dim, and, just like Mary, he lives forever and Noel will ne with them one day when they sing and play together again. I am now at the Twilight of my years too and I wish Peace and love, Peter. Thank you for all you gave us 🙏💜🎶
- Terry Arnold
My best friend and I met Peter in 2011 at Stanfest in Canso, Nova Scotia, Canada. I was brought up on Peter, Paul & Mary specials on PBS, so to have the opportunity to meet Peter as a 24-year-old was an incredibly special moment for me. He was so kind to us and was happy to let us take a picture. During his performance at Stanfest that year, Peter sang Puff the Magic Dragon, but he extended it to include a verse about what happened after “Puff sadly slipped into his cave.” This lyric had haunted me since childhood, so to hear that, in fact, Jackie Paper one day had his own child whom he introduced to Puff was deeply healing to me. I remember sitting on the edge of a grassy slope with my best friend listening and crying great big run-down-your-neck hiccupy tears. I’ve never forgotten it and I never will.
All my love to Peter and his family, and thank you for everything.
- Caleigh Dunfield
I'm a second-generation Peter, Paul & Mary fan. My parents played their music during my childhood, and since college I've seen them perform several times at Wolf Trap (VA), the north shore of Boston, and several times in Manhattan when I moved there. I saw Peter perform at the Eldridge Street synagogue, and I saw him and Noel Paul at Symphony Space. But my favorite Peter Yarrow memory is when I ran into him in Chelsea late one Monday night! I believe he had just come from a PBS taping (he was wheeling his guitar behind him), and I had just come from an improv show. I recognized him, and even though - as a New Yorker - I would normally never approach a celebrity, I decided I couldn't let this moment pass. So I went up and introduced myself, and he was so gracious and delightful. Truly one of my favorite NYC memories, from 11 years of living there. He's a living legend, and the music and story and work of PP&M means so much to me. I continue to play their music for my own boys (3rd generation listeners)! I'll be playing "Weave Me the Sunshine" now, and remembering the happy sing-alongs at Wolf Trap, and playing "Light One Candle" and thinking of his example in activism and social justice and non-violent resistence. Thank you for the music, Peter, and thank you for the example you've set.
- Kristy Wesolowski
I got this plush when I was 4 years old, and I named him 'Pop'. I still don't understand why I didn't name him 'Puff', and I reckon I just went with the name 'Pop' instead with my bizzare outlook as a kid and it stuck. I adored the song Puff the Magic Dragon, and it shaped my imagination and music tastes today. I am absolutely gutted to hear about your battle regarding your health, and I hope your remaining time on this earth is filled with love and joy. Like yourself, Pop has went through a journey filled with cherished memories, and while his current condition has seen better days, it paints a picture that expresses a wide range of stories. Thank you greatly for the music and your time helping my childhood so much more brighter. All the best to you and your family, friends, and fans.
- Stuart Robertson
Like so many of my generation - of many generations - Peter's music has been part of the soundtrack of my life. I heard the trio sing "Day in Done" in a concert in Madison in 1969 and then heard the trio the next week at the big anti-war march in DC. It became a go-to song for me to sing to my kids.
And there are personal moments as well. When my wife and I heard him sing "With Your Fade to the Wind (Harriet's Song)" at a concert in Madison WI, we knew it would be an important song for a friend who was an avid cyclist and who was dying of cancer. But it was not yet on an album, We reached out to Peter and he sent a us a cassette tape (remember those?) recorded in his apartment and later we played it at our friend's funeral. The words he wrote then fit him now - "Yes, there are hands here to comfort you / And if you need there are tears to cry with you too."
I had the pleasure of meeting him a few times over the years. A gentle sprit, a committed activist, a catalyst for change and an amazing musician. He is always a blessing to our world.
- Phil Haslanger
I first had the pleasure of meeting Peter in 1978, backstage at Veteran's Memorial Auditorium in Columbus, Ohio. He and Noel Paul were very gracious after the concert, coming out to the edge of the stage to chat with hangers-on.
I enjoyed the good fortune to be with him a number of times backstage after PP&M shows. He moved through those assembled back there and usually greeted me with "How are you? Who are you?" I always enjoyed my brief chats with him.
Just today, I was rummaging through my LPs and came across two of his solo efforts that are very well worn.
His music and his life are an inspiration.
- J.Brent Bill
My first introduction to Peter, Paul, and Mary was when I was 6 years old. My dad called me into the room to watch you perform Puff the Magic Dragon. It was the first time I ever heard it, and I will never forget it. I fell in love with that song and that dragon. Then a few years later, my dad bought a cassette tape of Peter, Paul, and Mary’s greatest hits, and I was hooked. I was that shy, scared, weird (would later find out autistic), bullied kid at school —the kid who never said a word—when I was in 5th grade, the 6th graders made a wish board, and one wish was that I had a voice. It took me a long time to find a voice, but I have your music to thank for it. I remember in high school, I used to carry a stack of Peter, Paul, and Mary cd’s for comfort. I had my headphones on whenever I could get away with it. I have seen Peter, Paul, and Mary in concert at least half a dozen times, and in November of 2023, I had the pleasure of taking my 16 year old daughter, Abigail, to your concert with Paul at the Genesee Theater in Waukegan (front row right hand side). I got to watch my daughter cry tears of joy just as I had the first time I saw you guys perform (at the Midland Theater in KC)—when I was around her age. In fact, she has become such a fan, she has taught herself to play many of your songs on her guitar. I remember when I was around 18 years old, I worked so hard to win some tickets to a concert you were doing in Kansas City (at Starlight theater), and I won them, but I got terrible seats so far back that I couldn’t see you guys. I was so upset, my mom somehow got me backstage passes to your show in Denver (Fiddler’s Green). My dad drove through the night to get us there, and I got to take pictures with you and Paul, and Mary gave me a hug, and I so wanted to tell you how much your music meant to me, but I didn’t have a voice at that time, and I didn’t say a word, and I’ve always regretted it. Peter, Paul and Mary kept me going through hard times. They helped me survive the bullying. I have been very blessed to have your music in my life, and I am so happy to see my children (all 8 of them—especially my daughter Abby—now 17) love your music the way I have and always will. Thank you for being there for me when I needed you the most. Thank you for helping me find my voice.
- Jennifer Vanags
Dear Bethany and Christopher, I live in Blue Hill, Maine and have grown close to Noel and Betty over these many years, so I feel a special connection to Peter having heard so many stories. Having grown up in NYC in the 50s/60s, any card carrying lefty followed the emergence of PP&M. Who wouldn't love them?! All of us learned to play our nylon stringed Goyas to their first album, learning all those songs note by note until we could play them all.
I moved to Cincinnati for my college years. The trio came to town and performed. After the concert, Peter, guitar in hand and a group of us decamped to a friends' home. Peter, ever the troubadour, held court telling stories, punctuating them with song until the wee hours. I remember that night as one of the most wonderful of my young life.. The memory has never faded.
When I moved to Blue Hill, The circle was closed meeting Noel as I did. But that night with your Dad will forever remain as a highlight. I will remember that night forever, along with Stewball, Puff and their many friends, all present that long ago night. Thanks to your father for the good times, the lessons learned and all that inspiration... Kind regards, David Caplan
My career as a singer-songwriter began circa 1963 when, on the radio in my '49 Ford, I heard PP&M singing "Blowin' In The Wind". Luckily, before too long I made some records (yes,vinyl) and engaged an agent, David Berman, who knew Peter. I had the honor of having dinner at Peter and Mary Beth's house in Malibu and then a summer visit to their cabin in northern Minnesota where we had a music and wine-inspired midnight dip in the lake! Peter, you have always inspired me, as a human being and a songwriter, to fight the good fight and I know you are doing that now. I can't be there to sing for you but I can and will sing Puff for my grandchildren the very next time I see them. As we always said back in the day--Peace and Love, Don Lange
I was nine years old when first introduced to Peter, Paul and Mary’s music. It was magical! Got my first guitar at the age of 10, and have been singing and playing ever since. Many kids are beginning to form their world views and social consciousness at around 10 yrs. old, and I have to say that PPM, as well as others in the folk movement, had a huge influence on my formation. I was thrilled to have experienced a couple of PPM concerts through the years, and even more thrilled to have met Peter at a Madison bookstore when he signed one of his books for me, then kissed my hand when he learned I was a teacher. I considered not washing my hand for a while, but as it was mid-flu season in kindergarten - it got washed! I used his books and CDs at school, as well as singing with my guitar regularly. As I am now retired, I still meet former students who, if they remember little else, still remember the music with love! I may be only one little teacher, impacting just a few lives at a time - certainly not the millions over the years, that PPM have impacted - but my hope is that my own impact has moved like concentric circles, inspiring kids to love others, act with kindness, without bullying, and make their own positive impact, large or small, on this world that so needs hope and activism. I have PPM to thank for their influence, and I am so grateful for that! Now battling ovarian cancer myself, I have some idea of what our beloved Peter is going through. I do pray that God will wrap loving arms around Peter, comfort him and his family, and welcome him home when the time is right. Lovingly, Carolyn
My parents met Peter, Paul, and Mary on one of their first dates - My dad was working backstage at a concert venue, and he snuck my mom in. She got their autographs on a slip of paper, each were written in pencil. When I came along, they sang me your songs as lullabies. My first concert was Peter, Paul and Mary, when I was five years old. I sat transfixed, singing along with the songs that I knew. Many years later, I was living in Boston and Peter was giving a reading at a book store for his Puff the Magic Dragon book (It was the day after President Obama was elected the first time - Hope and change were in the air!). I went, and listened to Peter read, and sing for just a small group of us. Afterwards he took his time speaking with each one of us. I told him about my experience at that concert as a child, and he held my hands and asked "how old were you?" - "five" I said, and he said "you'll always be five to me." I cried!
I had booked tickets for my parents, my partner, and I to see Peter at the concert here in Whitehall Michigan (I live just down the street from the Playhouse) which was cancelled.
I am so glad that he has been such a big part of my life. Thank you Peter for everything.
- Jenna Brown
Many years ago, my brother had the opportunity to meet Peter at a songwriter's workshop in Nashville. Will enjoyed the session, then waited in line to meet Peter. Will admitted that while his tastes in music didn't quite mesh with PPM, he knew his brother (me) would love to be in his shoes that day. Peter gave him a hug. A few days later upon getting back home, my brother was so proud and happy to have met someone of that stature at his first NSAI conference. Peter is a friend to all that met him.
And yes, I did have the opportunity to meet him and relay the short version of the story after a concert in Kansas City some years later.
Peter, your music and activism is beyond compare. I wish you peace in the rest of your days.
- Jamie Jaycox
Ever since I was six months old, I have attended Peter Paul Mary concerts. I can’t even count how many I’ve been to. I carried the tradition on with my daughter, Emma, and three and four generations of mom‘s attended those concerts. The one that stands out, the most is the one in Chautauqua, New York. We were able to talk to Peter and Paul and it wasn’t just a hi. How are you. It was a full conversation. He talked to my daughter, who was maybe eight or nine at the time and asked to her favorite songs and made her feel like she was the only one he was there to perform for. I will be forever blessed For knowing them all. It’s always so sad when someone so beloved passes, but their spirit lives on in their music.
- Katrina Neilen
Watching PBS’s Frontline and Associated Press’ Korea’s Adoption Reckoning Documentary in late September ignited a personal reckoning for me as I am processing my identity as a Korean Adoptee now in reunion. As I listened to Korea’s adoption history and how international players led to more than 200,000 Korean adoptions, I woke up. For 40 years I let others tell my story and let my life story happen to me. After watching this PBS documentary my Korean Adoptee (KAD) voice had an internal reckoning of my own psyche, identity, and purpose.
My own reckoning brought up a so many questions about war and humans response to society's problem. I have been afraid to publicly share my response as I have been fearful of my own voice and (imagined) violation of “the rules of response.” Yet as the seasons change and the freezing winter weather brings snow to my motherland South Korea and the cold air surrounds me in my Maryland home, the fearfulness of my own adoptee voice freezing up reignites the fire inside me.
Now is the time for me to share my own adoption story as it is happening. Yes, the story of war trauma and adoption trauma continues because I am the story, I am a Korean Adoptee- Chana Bilek.
Here is my response to the PBS Documentary: Korea’s Adoption Reckoning. As I tried to figure out my response, I felt the confusion and pain deep in my gut. I then heard the stanza repeat over and over again in my head “Where have all the flowers gone?”. Finally I asked myself the question “Where have all the fathers gone?” and this is what bloomed. Inspired by Peter Paul and Mary’s Song: Where Have All The Flowers Gone (1962).
Oh, When Will They Ever Learn Chana Bilek (October 2024)
Who must you listen to now?
Strong KAD, KAD voices.
Who must you listen to now?
You gave no choices.
What did the agencies fail?
Failed man's morality.
What did the agencies fail?
Accountability.
Oh, When will they ever learn?
Learn, learn The Creator's Truth.
Oh, When will they ever learn?
Which ways will adoption change?
Answers lie in questions of rage.
Which ways will adoption change?
Adult adoptees will take stage.
Where did all the fathers go?
They ran, ran away.
Where did all the fathers go?
They must also pay.
Oh, When will they ever learn?
Learn, learn The Creator's Truth.
Oh, When will they ever learn?
Where have all the mothers been?
Been shut down and out.
Where have all the mothers been?
No one let them shout.
Where have all the children gone?
Thousands were sent far, far, far away.
Where have all the children gone?
Governments let money lead the way.
Oh, When will they ever learn?
Learn, learn The Creator's Truth.
Oh, When will they ever learn?
Why don't we start learning now?
Hold guilt, pride, happiness, and shame.
Why don't we start learning now?
Relationship laws guide life's game.
How can I not find my voice?
To ignore the complexity is a choice.
How now can I find my voice?
Leave the adoption fog and truly rejoice.
Oh, When will they ever learn?
Learn, learn The Creator's Truth.
Oh, When will they ever learn?
I humbly thank you Peter Yarrow for inspiring me!
P.S. I'm also very blessed to have had a chance to see you perform with Paul in Baltimore Maryland a few years ago at the JCC Pikesville.
With love and gratitude,
Chana Bilek
Maybe about ..mmmm...10 years ago Peter appeared at The State Room in Salt Lake City and I had tickets. At the last minute my wife found that she could not go, so I took my daughter who was a young Writing student at the University of Utah. I thought that it would be special for her to meet someone who had such an impact on our history, my history. At the end of the show Peter was standing at the edge of the stage talking to people. I introduced my daughter to him and next thing I knew Peter's hand was on my shoulder as he used me as support to climb down off of the stage to speak to my daughter face to face. He asked her what she was inspired by and listened intently to her answers. He gave her encouragement. It was like there was no one else in the room as he encouraged her to follow her dreams. What an amazing man. I hope my daughter remembers it, I certainly will never forget it.
- Michael Downie
This news deeply hurts my heart. This is my most heartfelt memory of your amazing father: As a child of the 1960s, I grew up a PP&M fan as it formed my sense of justice, freedom and equality.
Every Sunday at the Sunday school I went to, Puff, the Magic Dragon was always playing in the background. I always looked forward to playing with my Sunday school friends. One in particular I always played with, so when he wasn’t there for a few months, I became curious as to why. Several months later, he finally showed up again, but this time he was confined to a wheelchair. Again, Puff was playing in the background. I was in total shock. He even tried to explain but my fear wouldn’t let me listen. Then, he was gone again. The next month the Sunday school class received the news that this young boy had passed away due to his illness. Again, as we were being told, Puff was playing. The lyric “Dragons live forever, but not so little boys..” I thought it was about my friend. It was about death. Little did I realize it was about the death of innocence. Despite this, I carried it around for decades until. I had the chance to tell your father in person this story. He responded by saying he would think of this story every time he would sing it. To this day, I cannot hear this song without tearing up. When I last spoke with your dad, he gave me the most beautiful hug I’ve ever experienced. I’ve uploaded it below. I attended Ms. Travers memorial in 2009. All three of those beautiful souls mean so much to me, to a whole generation. Please accept my deepest sympathy. I lost my dad two years ago. But I will always know that “a dragon lives forever.” Puff will live forever. Your father’s contribution to this world will live forever.
- Dennis Hall
Peter is a great person as well as a great singer/songwriter. As I’ve always loved PP&M’s music about forty years ago I started taking my then two and a half year old daughter to their concerts. The very first concert was at Valley Forge Music Fair near Philadelphia. One of the men selling souvenirs gave my daughter a back stage pass and that was the start of something special for us. Peter paid a lot of attention to Mary Elizabeth (my daughter) and we still have some fantastic pictures from that night. From then on every Valley Forge Music Fair Concert we would go backstage for the post concert party and Peter was just fabulous to us. Once when we stopped at Dennys afterwards we bumped into Peter and he invited us to sit with him and his friends and bought us breakfast. Another time he talked to her from the stage during a concert when he caught sight of us in the audience. Our relationship with Peter was not only a fantastic celebrity meeting experience but also a bonding for my daughter and I as he provided us with a wonderful shared experience. As she got older we continued attending concerts at different venues as Valley Forge closed. To this day our love for PP&M’s music and Peter in particular is still an interest that we share. Last year at Christmas I bought her an album cover signed by all three and she immediately wanted to get it framed. I want to thank Peter for the great memories that Mary Elizabeth and I share to this day. He has most surely given us some of the best mother/daughter bonding moments as well as making a small girl feel loved and important. Peace and love, Peter and thanks again!
- Mary Lou Cavallini
I have followed PPand M for 50 + years and have loved every moment, every song, every performance ( got to see them live 5 times in Ohio). I cherish it all. Peter always touched my heart with his beautiful, compassionate voice and words. After one of his concerts in Dayton, Ohio, some 40 years ago, we saw him after their concert at a local restaurant and I had the chance to tell him how much his music meant to me. He gently kissed my cheek and it was one of the best moments of my life. I am now 78 years old and remember that moment as if it were yesterday. I am a nobody but Peter made me feel like I was special. P,P and M and their music made me a better person.Thank you Peter...for all you have given to us, for your strong and gentle love. Godspeed.
- Mollie Forner
About 30 years ago I attended a Peter Paul and Mary concert at the Great Auditorium in Ocean Grove, NJ. This is a huge beautiful all wooden auditorium, built in 1894 by shipbuilders, that seats about 7000, and has amazing acoustics. It also has a marvelous organ, one of the largest in the country. After the intermission, Peter came out on stage by himself. He admired the tremendous pipes seen at the back of the stage. The organ itself was below the stage floor, as it is on a device that allows it to be raised and lowered as needed. Peter suddenly asked the audience, “Is there anybody out there tonight who knows how to work this?” After a few minutes a man from the audience came up, and our excitement rose as the organ rose out of the floor. The man sat down to play and looked to Peter for direction. At that, Peter led the audience as we all sang Amazing Grace along with him and the organ. Afterward, he said to us, “This is one of those moments that will someday give strength to an old folk singer. I have never forgotten that experience! Thank you Peter! Love, prayers and strength to you.
- Christine Scull
Our family was privileged to see and hear Peter, Paul & Mary in concert a number of times over the years. One time at Ravinia, about 20 years ago, we were celebrating our son's birthday and decided to treat ourselves to pavilion seats. Sitting near the back of the pavilion as they were doing sound check, we were impressed with how meticulous and invested Peter was. It was clear that he wanted it to be as close to perfect as possible. Knowing that he had done this day in and day for many years and was still bringing passion to every aspect of the performance touched all of us and added even more to the enjoyment and meaning of the concert. And now we are proud to say that our son is a performing musician and educator. Thank you, Peter, for everything. We will continue to listen to and treasure your music and memory.
- Linda Uhl
I have been a Peter Paul and Mary follower since I was a little girl. I was fortunate to see them several times with my own mother who passed of cancer at age 58, and with my son, Nicholas, who is now 19. Nicholas took his first steps at a Peter, Paul and Mary concert in Ravinia, Illinois. Several years later, we saw Peter and Paul at a concert in Joliet, where, afterwards, Peter invited then six year old Nicholas to come over for a hug. I took a photo so honored to have my son meet Peter. I treasure that photo, and have displayed a copy in my home since. Nicholas, now in college, has his own collection of Peter, Paul and Mary albums. Thank you, Peter, for the life you have lived, and for all that you have done to make the world a better place.
- Michele Thompson
My husband and I attended five or six separate concert of PP&M during our marriage. It was one of the things that bound us together, our love for their music. We had all the recordings, both in vinyl and CD. Whenever we took a road trip, that is what we sang along to, as well as John Denver. Since my husband’s death, I find comfort in listening to those songs again, it brings him close to me.
Another important thing, when I was in grade school, in the early 1970s, one of my favorite teachers and her husband sort of adopted my two older sisters and me. I was probably 8 or 9 at the time. I remember going to their house and singing along to PP&M tunes and shaking maracas and playing other instruments. Those songs were what I used to reunite with my sisters after a long estrangement. I sent each of them a copy of the CD of the album I remembered. It helped us to communicate again.
Thank you Peter, you have been part of my life for nearly 60 years.
- Joan Diamond
I was 13 years old when I fell in love with Folk music and of course Peter, Paul and Mary. Their music moved and motivated me as it did with so many members of my generation. I bought my first guitar in 1960 and slowly taught myself to play so that I could feel more a part of the wonderful stories and messages they taught. Their music and message is timeless and I find myself listening to them as much today as I did sixty years ago. In 2012 Peter came to my synagogue to perform for my Cantor's 25th Anniversary, and sang "Don't laugh at me" which moved me to tears. He also graciously allowed my Cantor and me to sing and play with him on stage, a moment that I have cherished ever since.
In 2018 my grandchildren were troubled by how Puff the Magic Dragon ended, and so I wrote another verse to satisfy them. I always meant to share it with you Peter, but never felt right sending Puff's daddy my poor attempt to add something to a song cherished by millions. Peter, I do so now only in the hope that it may bring a smile to your face, and in spite of my trepidation, I know that you won't laugh at me.
Little Jackie Paper grew up - as children will -
one day he met and fell in love with a girl whose name was Jill...
before too long they married and had a babe called Jacquie too...
a beautiful little baby girl whose name was spelled with Q
Little Jacquie Paper learned to love that rascal Puff
and she brought him strings and sealing wax and other fancy stuff!
Together they would play - with tea sets, dolls, and toys
she taught him all the games she liked - he taught her a dragon's noise
Jacquie showed he dragon that children grow up soon enough
but there will always be another who will come and play with Puff.
I always felt that the heart and soul of your music was Tikun Olam, the endeavor to make this world a better place. Through your music and your commitment to social action, you have done just that. I salute you, and thank you from the bottom of heart.
Rabbi Avi Kapnek
Peter,
I thank you so much for the just plain joy of listening to you play the guitar and sing. As a high schooler in the 60s we learned your albums and sang. Later in college I friend and I placed second in a big talent show with your music. I so wanted to perform but was so shy yet the gentle force of the messages in your music propelled me through. I gained a lot of confidence from that and was later able to teach confidently. To this day when I’m stuck and need some support I listen and sign along with your performances on YouTube. I can’t thank you enough for difference your music and peaceful resistance you have given. Just wanted you to know that will continue my best to make them
far-reaching. You work has made a difference and it will continue.
A gentle peace to you, Sir!
- Susan Krsnich
In 1987, I was fresh out of college, and was privileged to teach English in Nanjing, China. This was before Tiananmen Square, when China was still shaking off the vestiges of the Cultural Revolution. The occasional person wore a Mao suit, and there was only the beginning of cultural mingling between China and the United States.
It was in that environment that I taught American conversational English. Our students, English teachers themselves, learned about American cities, sports, slang, and even a little bit of music.
Somehow, I found a guitar, and I taught my students to sing Puff the Magic Dragon. They absolutely loved it. And for our closing ceremony, I sang Leaving on a Jet Plane. The students and staff enjoyed that as well, but I had to do an encore of Puff.
That magical dragon helped this American girl to bridge a cultural divide. Even now, it’s one of my sweetest memories of my time in Nanjing. Thanks, Peter, for bringing Puff to life.
- Liz Fallin
Puff was the very first song I learned and loved as a child and the Trio's music has been my favorite of all music throughout my life, and I was fortunate enough to see them live finally, many years ago. In subsequent years I was also fortunate enough to see Peter and Noel Paul play together on several occasions and once, I was beyond fortunate enough to take my Mom, also a lifetime fan, to see Peter and Christopher together and meet them both which was another level of magic. What an absolute joy and blessing in every way, Peter has been to the entire human race and planet and his magic will resonate in every way throughout generations to come and will live on through Christopher and Bethany. Thank you for sharing your wonderful Dad with all of us and for the amazing gifts of words, music and projects that have made and will continue to make the world a more loving and beautiful place. May his amazing love and spirit surround all who love him and may all find peace and comfort and so much gratitude for all of his magic <3
- Karen Miller
Peter, Paul and Mary was the first concert I ever attended. It was in Lincoln, Nebraska, where I still reside. My older cousin took me and it was followed by many other P,P&M concerts you were gracious enough to put on for us here in the Midwest. Although I drifted to the Rock 'N' Roll music (I know what you're thinking but, you DID say that you "dig Rock 'N' Roll") and later the Blues but, I always loved listening to P,P&M or any fraction thereof. Later in life, I became half of a duo that played a lot of folk music, including P,P&M and Bob Dylan.
I want to thank you for your activism and keeping the public informed and on our toes. You can pass that thanks on to Paul, too. Mary, well, I'll have to wait and tell her in person much later...I hope. In the spirit of P,P&M, I will endeavor to "Carry On".
- Dave Young
Peter, you were a musical and personal inspiration to me as a teen. I became a songwriter while learning Mary’s part on every one of your PP&M albums (we had a similar range), and performing these songs with my own trio. I copied Mary’s look and posturing too. When you spotted me after one of your concerts at the Milwaukee arena around 1965, you interrupted your autograph-signing to walk over to me and give me a sweet kiss on the cheek. Never forgotten needless to say! I am attaching a song I wrote, Loving You Is So Easy, which I hope you will enjoy. Thank you for sharing your talent and generosity with so many of us over the years and forever.
- Christine Kuchler
My very first concert at age 8 in 1963 was to a Peter, Paul, and Mary concert in Chicago. When Peter dedicated Puff to the children in the audience, my father leaned down and whispered to me, “This song is for you.” I looked around and saw only grown-ups. I knew at that moment that it was for me. That moment led to a lifetime of music, teaching, and activism. Many years later at a conference where Peter spoke to school administrators in Michigan regarding his anti-bullying “Don’t Laugh at Me” program he sang This Land. I, being an elementary music teacher who taught ASL as a way to help Littles with lyrics, sang and signed along. As he kept playing he asked me to join him on stage and sign along. I did. After, he asked me to remain on stage during his closing song, We Shall Overcome. He put his arm over my shoulder as I signed and sang the anthem of my life’s work with the man who inspired me to it. Though I am a retired teacher I am still a community organizer, elected official, musician, and activist. All this began with a song dedicated to children in 1963. Thank you Peter Yarrow, for inspiring, and setting me on my life’s path. You have profoundly impacted thousands by impacting me as a little girl.
- Tiyi Schippers
Thank you Peter for, together with Mary and Noel, being there for me. With great music, standing up for the right causes. Í have learned so much from the three of you and you have been a part of my life from the early sixties to now. In October 2015 me and my late wife Anna decided to go from Sweden to Portland, Maine for your concert there. It was fantastic and we were so glad we went. After the concert you kindly invited us to join you for dinner in New York the coming week. You took us to a peruvian restaurant and we had a fantastic night of discussions about politics, religion and diffrences between Scandinavia an the US. We were overwhelmed with your generosity and kindness. It was so great and interesting that we even forgot to take a photo as a memory. We often talked about this, the kindness, the importance of ethics and standing up for what is right regardless of personal gains. I will treasure my meeting with you in my heart for the rest of my life. Thank Peter, for being a part of my life for over 60 years and the years to come. See you! With Love /Tom
I don't know you, dear Peter, and yet you have been like family throughout my life. Your presence has been like tones of music which are felt in and remembered by the sinews, the heart, long since the song stopped, or the way the sunlight feels when it sneaks out from between clouds and warms the heart. To state the obvious, know that you are loved and heard and felt, where even strangers are called upon to reach out to you and your family, your closest friends, to offer - love - just for you being yourself!
You and Mary and Noel once sang Kate Wolf's song - which just popped into mind now - Give Yourself to Love:
..."Kind friends all gathered 'round
There's something I would say
That what brings us together here
Has blessed us all today.
Love has made a circle that holds us all inside
Where strangers are as family, and loneliness can't hide
You must give yourself to love, if love is what you're after
Open up your hearts to the tears and laughter
And give yourself to love, give yourself to love..."
- Erica Zweig
In 2011 I had the privilege to go to a concert Peter and his son Christopher performed in at my alma mater Fitchburg State University, in Fitchburg, MA. HIs music, message and love of humanity shined thru during the concert. Following the concert, I had the honor to meet and speak with him personally. He greeted me with a smile, looked me in the eye and asked me what I did for work, at the time I was working in Oncology and Palliative care. He shared with me that he too worked on the board at the Branford Hospice House, in CT. He spoke about helping others, to my surprise he took my hand and kissed it. Then blessing me for caring for the others. Dearest Peter, a heartfelt thank you for your grace, compassion and music you have imparted with humankind. Your music lives on as does your spirit! May you feel the embrace of warmth, love and care holding you gently and securely as you rest. Now in return, I bless you. May God’s peace and love be with you Peter. Charlotte Bell
In 1962 when I was 13 years old, we spent Thanksgiving weekend with family in Troy, NY. My cousins brought new record albums home from college. I was never the same after listening to “Peter, Paul and Mary'” your debut album. My dear uncle Clarence, crusty New England or and engineering professor, carped about beatniks, socialism and “modern” music, as we replayed the album and absorbed its message. yes, the times were a- changing and we launched into heated discussions about race, gender, and glaring inequality.
to this day every time I listen to you or Peter, Paul & Mary I think that weekend, where I startef on the road to peace, love and understanding. And today, gazing downeast toward you from a, snowy side hill farm in Vermont, I thank you for all the decades of beautiful music you have given us.
- Jamed Taylor
I don't know Peter personally, but I contacted him last year to ask if he would participate in the memorial for a mutual friend, Roger Deitz, who had suddenly passed away last year. Peter couldn't make it because of his medical issues, but he took the time to send me the most heartwarming response, which I've copied below. My best wishes for a peaceful experience as Peter enters hospice, and I think I have the right to also convey Roger's best wishes even though he left us.
"Brother Rick,
I would have loved to have joined you, my friend, but I have some scheduled medical tasks that conflict.
Thank you for reaching out on Rodger's behalf and go well, my brother. In this draconian time, we do well to keep singing and keep our friendships front and center, yes?
Onward, in peace and gratitude,
Peter"
- Rick Ilowite
Dear Peter,
On August 31, 2005, I had written a personal, supportive message to Mary as she struggled with AML. I had just recovered from a bone marrow transplant for the same disease and took a leap of faith that I could offer her some hope and comfort as someone had done for me a year prior. I was surprised and incredibly touched when I received a thank you note from you!
I have loved your music since I was a child. “Puff” brings instant memories of my Mom, which I cherish.
I live next to Gordon and had gotten tickets to see you at The Kate last Summer which was postponed to 2025. It was going to be a musical highlight for me!
I may be a spec in the ocean of people who care for you and wish you well, but I will keep you in my thoughts as you travel this path you are on, and your music will always be in my head.
Godspeed,
Pam Southworth
Peter’s generosity was a gift that left a lasting imprint on my heart. Though we didn’t know each other deeply, he graciously invited me to share the stage with him on several occasions—at the Kerrville Folk Festival and a fundraiser for Kol Halev, the cherished temple in Austin.
One moment, in particular, stands out. We were preparing to sing 500 Miles at the fundraiser, and after a brief rehearsal, he turned to me with that familiar twinkle in his eye and said, “Sing softer this time.” Amused, I asked why, and he replied, “So the audience can hear me!” His humor dissolved my nerves, making me realize I’d probably been singing louder than intended. I relaxed, and together we created something beautiful, a performance I’ll always treasure.
Years earlier, I had been a singing waiter at a Los Angeles restaurant called the Great American Food and Beverage Company. My most requested song was Puff the Magic Dragon, a tune that invited everyone to join in. That song was part of the soundtrack of my youth, a time when Peter's voice was a constant presence, shaping my teen and young adult years with his music and his message.
Peter’s courage to stand against injustice and his ability to unite hearts through song have left an indelible legacy. For that, and for the laughter, the music, and the shared moments, I am forever grateful. Peter, your light has touched so many. I love you.
- Donna Lipman
Peter, you ruined my life! Way back in the 60s I heard you play "Freight Train" on the radio, and my brain said "you must do that!" A couple of years later I found he PP&M Songbook, and learned it (more-or-less) from there. Later still, I learned Elizabeth Cotten's original version and incorporated in some of her playing. My fated life on the banjo followed this same kind of trajectory.
My daughter Aimee and I had the great good fortune to see the three of you at the Times-Union Center here in Jacksonville, FL, a few years ago- not long before Mary passed. I was just buying the shirt i there yesterday...
Thanks for the memories!
Ron
It is difficult to know where to begin. Peter has been a joyful and uplifting presence in my life for almost as long as I am able to remember. I look back and vividly recall joyfully singing “Puff” as a child, together with friends, on our school playground. And then pinching myself when, decades later, I stumbled upon a mysterious help wanted ad in the NY Times and had the great good fortune to be hired as Peter’s assistant. Of course his intelligence, boundless energy, and commitment to so many important issues were inspirational on a daily basis, but his warmth, patience, humor and generosity were also touching and deeply affecting. I loved getting to know Peter, and I loved watching the effect he had on others, the care he extended to so many. Not only was he kind to me, but also incredibly thoughtful with my children and husband. To this day, I refer to life lessons he exemplified, and I treasure hundreds of memories from the time I was able to share with him. I have long recognized, and don’t at all take for granted, that meeting Peter has been one of the luckiest experiences of my life. Love him, love him, love him.
- Jennifer Parkinson
Your dad created a womderful timeline for me, starting when my older sister brought home the first album from college when I was in the 6th grade, to PPM not considered cool amongst my college peers because they sounded too good, to being blown away by album 1700, to the absolute treat of attending a reunion concert in Boston in the early ‘80”s where your dad repeatedly and to no avail implored the audience to stop clapping, to learning and playing ‘the Great Mandela’ on the piano for the weekly solo special at the Union Church on Vinalhaven, almost 60 years after my first exposure on the family mono hifi. Forever grateful.
- Sky Ludwig
Peter, Paul, and Mary have been my favorite musical group since I started listening to music in my dad's car, a "61 VW bug. They are the reason "folk music" will always be my favorite genre. They are the reason their station on Pandora gets the most listens, no matter what I'm doing. I first heard "Blowing in the wind" sung by my outdoor education camp counselor when I was in fifth grade. My life has been informed and molded by the stories told in PP&M songs, whether written and performed or just performed by them. Their version has always been my favorite! I bought their 50 years with Peter, Paul and Mary DVD while watching a PBS special; it is a treasure that I return to often when I need to be reminded that there are good, decent, compassionate, and oh so talented people fighting the good fight for social justice and equality. Thank you Peter Yarrow for being one of those people; your legacy lives on in me, my husband and both of our now adult children. We are all still "fighting the good fight."
- Allison Unterreiner
I loved the original trio, and both Peter's solo and the joint Peter and Paul performances since Mary's death. I well remember Peter's determination during the intermission to autograph the tickets of all of us in the line at one of his concerts at Elgin Community College in Illinois. He was persuaded to stop signing because of the number of small children in the audience, who were up way past their bedtimes, but was torn between his "duty" to his older and his youngest fans. I was among the last to get my ticket signed, and value it still. Although I had an hour or more to drive home after the concert ended, I did not care how late it got. I would happily have stayed there all night, listening to one of my favorite musicians ever! With heart-felt gratitude, thank you for a lifetime (both yours and mine-I am 82) of songs!!!!!
- Elizabeth Cerny
My two encounters other than simply attending events with the trio or the duo are testaments to Peter’s dedication to quality in performance art.
Once at the Cerritos Performing Arts Center we were visited in our box by Peter Yarrow checking on the quality of the sound system during Noel’s solo set. We conveyed our admiration for the excellent audio. He thanked us and withdrew.
At another concert at the Irvine Amphitheater we got another visit when Peter crouched down during Mary’s solo set and inquired if the audio mix had been that good at the beginning of the concert. I assured him that it was and offered that having once owned a recording studio I felt qualified to answer the question.
The last time we had the privilege of hearing he and Noel Paul two months ago we noticed the physical manifestation of his struggle disappeared while playing and singing.
Thank you Peter for burning so brightly in your time in this realm!
- Dave Bremer
Hi Peter. I am a 58 year old from Ontario, Canada. I have been listening to Peter, Paul & Mary since I was very young. My family did not have very many records but we did have "In The Wind." The album is older than I am. Our record player was one of those stereo consoles and I would lean against it and listen to the vocal parts coming from the two speakers. It was my early introduction to great vocal parts and harmonies. I would also sit with a guitar (without all of it's strings) and try to pick out the chords. Peter, Paul & Mary's music has been with me for my whole life's journey. Your music helped to make me a strong singer and musician and your activism and example shaped me into the person that I am. I had the pleasure of meeting you once when you were in Ottawa, Ontario, Canada. I was thrilled to see you live in concert and meet you afterwards. It was a dream come true to see you. I am so glad that you are getting to hear and see these tributes. They are all so well deserved. I wish you much love and peace in your final days. You changed my life and I will forever be grateful to you.
- Heather J Topps
Dear Peter,
Growing up as a child of the '70s in Oregon your music was in our household and listened to frequently and now part of my life for more than 50 years. In the 1990s and beyond I had the pleasure of seeing you perform in Portland, Oregon both solo and also as part of "Peter, Paul, and Mary" at a massive concert on the waterfront with tens of thousands of people, then again at the Schnitzer Concert Hall. It was such a great pleasure to see you on stage again earlier this year with Noel at the Golden State Theatre in Monterey, California. Such a wonderful show! I want to thank you for the music, for the activism, and for letting your light shine all of these years. Sending all my love and good thoughts to you!
- Anthony Wynn
Dear Peter, I was so sad to hear this news. Please know you and your family are in my prayers.
Just really want to sincerely thank you for your songs, your dedication and your spirit. You’ve certainly been an inspiration to me over the years. (I’m 77).
I started listening to PPM back in the mid 60s. You were the spark that got me to start playing guitar and I’d try to emulate your voice.
My first and favorite was Gilgarra Mountain and Day Is Done. I played them often and videotaped myself back in the mid 80s’ playing them with my 2 year old daughter dancing and mugging at the camera. It’s a hoot and we always get a big kick out of seeing it. In basic training, ( I was drafted in ‘‘67), I’d sing Gilgarra Mountain to myself when we went of a forced march to a remote bivouac area. It kept me going…
Sorry we never met in person…but I’ll always remember your spirit and the inspiration you gave me.
Respectfully, from a big fan,
Ken
P, P and M had such a huge impact on my life. Your songs carried me through good times and bad, and formed the foundation of my belief in peace and mutual respect. I remember sitting around with my brothers and sisters, singing your songs in the 60’s and 70’s, a tradition I carried forward with my own children and now my grandchildren. I was fortunate to meet you in New York City, when you did a special presentation/sing-a-long for operation respect, for teachers at the public library. Seeing you in person and hearing your music moved me to tears. It was a moment I had waited for my whole life, to meet you in person. I was especially moved when you sang The Cruel War. My son was in Iraq at the time, during Operation Iraqi Freedom and you had such kind, comforting words. Thank you for being you, for giving us a social consciousness in a time strife and for filling our lives with music.. You are forever in our hearts, Teresa VandenBosch
Although I remember singing Puff the Magic Dragon as a young child, I only learned of Peter Yarrow's social justice songs as a young man about to reach draft age at the end of the Vietnam War. Fortunately, the draft ended a few months before my 18th birthday.
Many years later, I was motivated to civil disobedience partially by a midnight vigil for Tim DeChristopher and Peaceful Uprising by Peter, his daughter Bethany and fellow musicians. I, along with 25 of Tim's other friends and climate activists were arrested after Tim's sentencing on July 26, 2011.
- Vincent Pawlowski
There wasn't a time where the music of PP&M wasn't playing in my home. No matter how many times my mother heard "Puff the Magic Dragon," as a mother of a son, she cried every single time she heard the line "a dragon lives forever but no so little boys." Every. Single. Time. For 60 years that song brought a tear to her eye.
I saw PP&M in concert twice. I saw every PBS concert every time they were on.
Thank you for being as important in the life of my family (for generations) as you have been. I wish you peace.
- Kathryn
I was born in 1976 and grew up listening to the music of Peter, Paul, and Mary thanks to my parents. Puff the Magic Dragon was one of my favorite songs as a child. I grew to love Light One Candle and so many other more serious songs.
When my dad was dying of lymphoma this summer we tried to find music to soothe him. Nothing we tried worked until we put on Peter, Paul, and Mary. I couldn't help but think as Blowin' In The Wind was playing that maybe my dad would soon have those answers. The last song my mom and I sang to him was Puff the Magic Dragon and the last song he heard the notes to was Leaving on a Jetplane. I know your music gave him, and us, peace.
His music was invaluable in so many moments of my life. I truly believe Puff never dies and that we all still have that faith in magic within us, if we only look.
- Kathy
Your Father's music, talent and compassion along with Noel and Mary helped me through a very dark period of my life. I was living in Boston at the time, in the mid 80's and was fortunate enough to see Peter Paul and Mary perform 3 times. I could identify with their music and through them, I emerged out of the darkness into a world that had not changed, only to find that I had changed. I will be forever grateful to your Father for the role he played in my life. I'm a 65 year old woman who now lives in Missouri and just finished with my 3rd round of cancer. Be Stong, Peter!! Believe!!
- LeighAnn Woody
Sending love and appreciation and a puff the magic dragon story I am driving with my oldest child, jamie whalen, age five - we are listening to Puff the Magic Dragon and he says ‘do dragons really live forever? ‘
I respond
‘Well they’re in your imagination so yeah I guess …’
And he said
‘But if your imagination is in your brain and you die then your brain dies ‘
And then I say mmm hmmmm
And he says ‘but maybe your imagination is in your spirit so it lives forever ‘
Here’s to the eternal life of spirit
- Moore
One of my first memories as a child is Peter, Paul and Mary singing. Their voices caught my ear and introduced me to social justice and the call to not merely be a witness, but to be that person who uses their words and whatever talent or strength to stand up for others. To stand up for what is right. To make this world better by my presence. I grew up in a pretty isolated and insulated family, surrounded by racism and intolerance. The power of the music of this trio is that their words echoed in my mind and made me start doing my own research into history, into what it means to be a human, a friend and a neighbor, whether to the person next door or someone on the other side of the world.
My third daughter was born chronically ill. One of my favorite songs to sing her when she was in pain was "How Can I Keep From Singing/The Great Storm Is Over." On "Lift up your wings and fly," I'd pick her up and raise her high in the air. She'd spread her wings and pretend to fly, laughing and being happy. I'd listen to Peter sing the line "Sweetness in the air and justice on the wind" and it would brace my soul. There were so many tears during those hard years of illness and poverty, but the music brought hope and joy.
While to me Peter is inextricably linked to the group Peter, Paul and Mary, I recognize he is an individual with his own singular contributions to the world. On the same note, the trio would not have existed - at least no in the same way or with the same influence - without Peter's willingness to share his voice and talent. And that trio changed hearts and lives and continues to do so to this day.
My daughters used to ride in the car as children and sing the Union Medley along with me. Then my children grew up. As a teen, my oldest joined me at a protest as we wore "Which side are you on" shirts. Just weeks ago, I looked at photographs with pride of my oldest stood side by side with grocery workers locally to demand the right to unionize.
That is impact. Peter, there is so much to say. So many instances in my life and the lives of my children that I could point out, but that would take a book and some of it is just not my story to tell, but please know that a couple of the most beautiful things that remain in my life still remain due to the way your music taught me to view the world and helped me question the intolerance and bigotry that permeated my childhood.
Thank you for that. You are loved, you are appreciated and you are forever in the hears of myself and my children.
Gina Locke (aka René Moses)
While working for Jim Brown Productions as an editor, I was cutting the Video News Release, VNR, of the Peter Paul & Mary program Jum had just completed. Previously I’ve edited many of these and it never took more than half a day. However for this one Peter came in to join me and direct the edit. It wound up taking a week. At first I thought this doesn’t need to take so long but then I realized that Peter was the keeper of the sound for Peter Paul & Mary and was careful to polish every aspect of his life’s musical work much to benefit of the finished product. I will always remember his professionalism but even more the warmth and kindness of just being with him. I feel honored to have worked with him. We also partied a bit and he was no slacker there either. Peter is a gift that keeps on giving.
- Bruce Connors
Dear Peter, I have been a fan ever since I first heard Puff the Magic Dragon as an 8 year-old in 1963. Your music, with Noel and Mary has always brought me warmth and joy. It also inspired my soul. Peter, Paul, and Mary, as well as other great folk musician's helped to fuel the anti-war movement in the 1960's and helped to raise my consciousness. I never felt as though I was listening to an act. I always felt as though I was listening to the voices of angelic friends and I thank you, thank you, thank you. You have made more of an impact on me and millions of others than you could possibly understand. I last saw you in Waterville, Maine in the summer of 2023 and I was so excited to have been there. Again, thank you, my friend. Peace and love to you.
- Harry DeLoe
My Dad was a United Airlines pilot. He always talked about the party he went to at a friend’s house in Manhattan. There were a couple of musicians practicing in a back room- and it was Peter, Paul & Mary before they were well known. Later Peter was on one of my Dad’s flights. My Dad talked to him and told him they had met before (Peter didn’t remember- understandable.) My connection with their songs came when I was around 7th or 8th grade and our Quaker Meetinghouse was sheltering a family from El Salvador. I used to listen to Peter, Paul and Mary’s song by that name, and it helped me understand what this family had been through. I particularly loved the No Easy Walk to Freedom album for its social activism, and still own it and listen to it.
- Kendra Munger
I am 60 years old. I was born and raised in New York, Queens,Kew Gardens to be precise. I was in kindergarten, wearing dog tags for a missing soldier in the Vietnam war. That summer I attended girl scout camp in the Catskills Mountains. Night time fire circles were always my favorite part of camp. We would gather under the night sky and learn and sing songs, mostly spirituals and folk songs. Peter, Paul, and Mary were among my faves! I recently became a Grandmother and just sang PUFF THE MAGIC DRAGON to him for the first time. We have a morning song hour over facetime because we live 12 hours apart from one another. Many if Peter’s sings are being celebrated in those precious hours!
- Cherise Barasch
Peter, we only met in person twice. The first time was when you were gracious enough to host the SEEGERFEST performers in 2014 before the big celebration in Lincoln Center's Damrosch Park. The Owens Brothers Band was one of those performing groups (there were seven band members). Your generosity that day was noteworthy and the music ALL of the performers shared together in your apartment that day was extraordinary and a memory I cherish. Thank you for that and for all of your artistry and inspiration. Know that you have been a blessing in my life and in the lives of so many people. Peace and love always...
- Chris "Oledude" Owens
I was in the audience in 2023 in Waterville, Maine when Peter and Paul performed, and I'm glad I was there. My husband and I were thrilled to hear them sing. Hearing the music transported us back in time. When they sang Puff the Magic Dragon, we had tears in our eyes, as we grew up on that song. We missed having Mary there, but the audience did a good job of singing and adding to the stage performance. I am truly grateful that we got to see them. We are praying for Peter and we hope he knows how much he has touched people's hearts, including ours. We're lucky to be living in Maine where Paul lives, otherwise we might not have known about this concert. Lots of love to Peter and his family from two grateful fans.
- Ronna
My parents (John Gilbertson and Karin Bakken) went to high school with Mary Beth in Willmar, MN. Mary Beth and my mother were childhood friends and have remained friends since graduating in 1964. I remember my mother telling me about Peter and Mary Beth’s wedding. My mother told me about how Paul wrote “Wedding Song (There Is Love) for your parents wedding. When I got married in 2004, I had that song included in my wedding. My mother was also part of the stained glass window restoration at Calvary Lutheran Church in Willmar, MN. Your father played a role in this project as he assisted in locating and securing the original stained glass windows from the church for restoration. One would be remised if they didn’t include their own childhood memories of hearing Puff the Magic Dragon. When my uncle passed way in August 2000, Puff the Magic Dragon was played at his funeral. That song brought comfort to our family during our time of sorrow.
- Kristen Gilbertson Howell
I briefly met Peter at the stage door after a concert when I was a high school teenager in the 1960's. My friend and I shared with him how we had participated in a sit-down strike against the Vietnam War at the main staircase in our suburban high school. We had no idea about how to really protest, so this had been a big deal to us, eve though it was such a small thing. Peter responded so warmly, encouraging us and telling us we we were making a difference in the world! Later I realized how insignificant our experience had been, but he had taken the time to hear us and interact with us and he made us feel empowered! I am now 72 years old and I have always remembered how enthusiastic and kind he was to a couple of girls. Not to mention the fantastic music he made with Paul and Mary.
- Kittie Palm Houser
Peter, your music has always been iconic in my life since the early 1960s when I was growing up in Santa Barbara. The world of which you sang was magical and benevolent and full of wonder to my young ears. Peter your music helped me maintain that wonderful and build a foundation of love. When I met your dear daughter, Bethany I was inspired me to explore more the world of music and indigenous cultures. Which remain central to my practice as an artist and poet. Thank you, Peter, your music stays with me every day and propels me forward to be kind to others in this world. With love Les in NYC
I learned to sing harmony at five, inspired by my mom's Peter, Paul, and Mary album, which included " The Cruel War" and "If I Had a Hammer" both of which I still sing today. Because of them, I asked for and got a guitar for my 13th Christmas. I used that guitar to lead sing-alongs for the next nine years and will lead carol singing next week. I saw the trio, aptly described in a review as two cellos (my favorite string sound) and an angel, live in Cincinnati in the 90s and was inspired by the bold truth-telling in "El Salvador." I looked forward to PBS appearances, another terrific way Mr. Yarrow directly enriched my life and American culture. He will continue to do so. Thank you, Mr. Yarrow.
- Cathy Martell
Peter, you and I met after an anti-bullying presentation you did. I grew up being bullied for who I was, a highly sensitive gay person. That evening I told you how much I appreciated what you and Peter Paul and Mary did to comfort me and give me hope. You looked into my eyes as you held my face between your two hands, and said "I'm with you." Then you pressed your face against mine and held me for a moment. In that simple, heartfelt moment I felt seen and heard, and I felt the intimate authenticity of everything I ever heard you and the trio sing and speak about while I sat listening among thousands of others. Years later, I found my life partner, and every so often I tell him again about the special time I met you. Thank you, Peter, for inspiring and supporting me and for inspiring and supporting everyone else who heard you through words and music like I did.
- Gregory Giroux
So sorry for you, for Peter. I took care of my 86 year old father (who loved Peter Paul & Mary as I do) in his later years and a few years ago while he was in home hospice care. He too had bladder cancer and battled it for more than 15 years. Having experienced that heartbreak followed by home hospice for my husband less than 2 years later, I know the physical and emotional turmoil. Please note, be prepared for anything, good and bad. No two deaths are ever alike. The journey is unique to everyone and can be painfully surprising as well as oddly bitter sweet. Wishing Peter a smooth and pain free journey, and to all who love him I wish you love and peace of mind.
- Michele Mancini
Dear Peter,
As a 70's child who grew up with parents who played PP&M on the record player and the radio, then the 8-track, cassette tape, CD and now streaming digital channels, and many concerts in person, I want to tell you that I love you and thank you for sharing your time, talent and yourself with me and my family. My dad first saw you and Noel Paul and Mary in Chicago in the 60's and I was fortunate enough to join him and my mom and my brother at your concerts in the 70's, 80's and beyond. Each time, each moment was magic. Holy. A prayer and a communion between you and us in the audience.
As the song goes, "light one candle..." and you have lit so many candles in each one of us, from childhood for some and in adulthood in others. I am who I am because of having you as a role model and the messages you shared, the examples you set, and the kindness and generosity you showed me as an audience and personally as a fan. When I was taking guitar lessons at the Old Town Folk School of Music in Chicago in the late 2000's, I was fortunate to see you and Bethany and Rufus perform in person. I waited after the show, hoping to see you, and you stopped and gave me a big hug and kiss and chatted with me while you signed my guitar. It meant the world to me.
I have been so inspired by your activism and your conviction in the goodness in people and the common bond we share as brothers and sisters, regardless of how we are labeled or identify ourselves. Your causes are all of our causes. All of us, grandparents, adult children, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren and beyond will continue to carry your light in each of us, and that light will never go out. I've seen to it that my daughter, now 12, has grown up listening to your music, and the importance of what your music is saying, as well as how you put your beliefs into action. The people who I have helped over my 54 years, and who have offered me help, from my co-worker with no car to my refugee neighbors in Chicago, to my beloved first boss, who didn't fire me when I made a $300,000 mistake and who taught me Hebrew and treated me like family...each time it's because you helped make me who I am today: A person who will stand up for what's right, who extends a hand to anyone who needs it, who speaks for the weak and marginalized, and who doesn't tolerate bigotry or bullying, and who uses the power and gifts I have for good, anywhere and everywhere I can.
My father is responsible for bringing you and PP&M into our lives. Although I think it was Mary's golden hair that first got his attention, it was your guitar playing, incredible voice, and your powerful message that captivated him and inspired him to put you at the very top of his musical and life influences. He also learned to play the guitar to play your songs. I'm so grateful for his excellent music taste and his judgement of character. He's about to turn 80 and his memory is fading but he still remembers everything about each time he saw you and Noel and Mary in person as well as the albums. I re-posted Bethany's message on my Facebook page and added my own stories. I concluded my message with the following:
"We're living in stressful times right now. Even the best of people can be tempted, in hard times, to justify vilifying "this person" or "that group." It's easy to make blanket statements, to become cynical, to give up on humanity. Popular- and social-media make it seem like people have to pick a "side." If people feel that way, I hope they pick the side that shows up for their family, friends, co-workers and neighbors with empathy. Don't let hate win. Don't let our differences blind us to each other's humanity. Peter never stopped working for what he believed in, with humility and compassion. He's a bright light in the world. He would want us all to be courageous and work for Peace, especially now."
Thank you for the laughter, the pauses, the deep thoughts, the consoling nights, the outrage and call to action, and all of the love. Love is the greatest gift you give us. We are beyond grateful for it and it will keep growing. All of us will see that you are never forgotten.
With Love and Gratitude,
Shannon Gallagher Schock,
Friend and Fan Forever
There is a wonderful fable-tale written by the Ukrainian philosopher Hryhorii Skovoroda called "Grace-given Erodii" (Blahodarnyi Erodii). Having worked as a dramaturg at the Les Kurbas Theatre in Lviv Ukraine, where this is performed, I decided to translate it into English...and spent 17 years (on and off) doing so, as it is highly stylized in structure and joy, ...and also because it was for my soul and not for commerce. The tale is a philosophical discussion between a Stork (Erodii) and Monkey (Pishek) on the meaning of being brought up well, and grace. Somewhere around year 14 of the revisited translation, a moment of connection happened with you: I realized that you (& Noel & Mary) where there alongside me as part of my upbringing. The years of listening and learning about how harmony functions to tell a story, to fill a page or a room or a soul or souls or nations had been and remains deeply imprinted upon my reasonings and actions in how I navigate the world. Thank you for this. I once wrote you a letter long long ago (which you answered) about how when I was a child terrified of thunder my father would play "Day is Done" and it always brought me to a place of calm; and how as young adult, the thunder had morphed into the sounds of the world's darknesses, but the constant of the song's care remained. ...and I feel this reverberation now, literally sitting in an air raid alert in Ukraine; filled with the love of a wonderful human being--whose hand has helped many of us to the wellness of when the day is done-- than the monstrosity behind the thunderously wailing sirens. I've been well brought up. Thank you for your part in all these processes. I wish you beauty, love and peace. Julie.
I don't even know how many PP&M concerts my husband and I have been to over the years.
Their music always made my husband and I smile. And we had so many memories of Peter. We once, accidentally, had the hotel room next to him when we traveled to Green Bay WI for the concert. We only realized it when we all came out of our rooms at the same time for the breakfast the next day.
The one memory that stands out was the memorial service for Senator Paul Wellstone of Minnesota in 2002.
I saw Peter a few feet away from us after the service, near the Green Bus. (Peter will know what that is.)
He was carrying his guitar and talking to someone about it. He said he wanted to pay tribute to his freind Paul.
Peter had tears in his eyes, and his words trembled. I had seen that look on stage, but I always thought it was part of the act.
Seeing him outside, on the sidewalk, with no audience, holding back tears of grief for his friend made me realize that he was always that caring and loving, that it was never an act.
Love to Peter!
- Jean James
I grew up with your music in my home. I wore out my tape of Peter, Paul, and Mommy as a child. My dad is a nurse who worked nights so he was only able to sing me to sleep on the weekends and I always requested Puff! It's still a very special song for us because of those memories. As I got older, especially when I went to college and started learning more about the world and became passionate about human rights and how to make a difference fighting for them, the rest of your music started resonating. I had always known your songs, but as an adult, I truly understand and appreciate them and their impact. You have left such a mark on the world and have such a special place in my heart. I don't have the words to tell you just how much you and your music mean to me. I'm now pregnant with my first child and you can rest assured, your music will live on. I will make sure my child also grows up in a home filled with the wonderful messages of your music. Your legacy will continue for generations to come. Thank you for the music. Thank you for the difference you've made in the world. And a very special thank you for that rascal, Puff.
- Ashley
I was Peter’s housekeeper for a time for his place outside Telluride. Ski Ranches? It’s been almost 20 years. Peter, you were always so incredibly kind to me. You would stop and talk with me, ask me about my dreams, and when I told you my degree was in art/painting, always after that you’d ask me if I was making art.
One time many years later I was buying a guitar from someone and met him at a coffee shop in Lawson Hill. I didn’t know how to play guitar really, was just wanting to learn. You walked up, saw me on the bench and remembered me, and so kindly were willing to take it from me and play a little tune. You declared it perfect for me and I still have it.
I think of you with such incredible fondness, such love, you saw me at a time that I needed to feel seen, and somehow you knew it. What an incredible teacher and mentor you are. Thank you for the way you walk this earth.
- Jana Stone
Peter has had a profound impact on my life, and we were pen-pals for several years. I met “Puff’s Daddy” at a concert in Chicago and told Peter I wrote a paper about PPM for my English class. I was a very curious, liberal, hippie wanna-be 16 year old. Ever since that concert, my parents and I followed PPM around the Midwest attending as many shows as possible. I was always thrilled to have a note in the mail from Peter, many times suggesting books to read, several by John Steinbeck. He always encouraged me in my endeavors, and contributed to causes I believed in. When my son Luke was born, I introduced him to Peter at a “Puff” book signing. The torch truly had been passed on. You will always be my hero Peter, Love, Lisa.
My dear friend, Bob Donahue, took me to my first Peter and Paul concert in Massachusetts several years ago and then treated me to a wonderful show last year at the Katharine Hepburn Cultural Arts Center in Old Saybrook, Connecticut. First row, center seats! I knew to bring tissues to both performances, wisely! Bob and I cried through so many songs…for nostalgia and for the here and now ongoing journey you and Paul were taking us on. Traveling with you two truly brought us to higher ground.
My friend Bob may be your most devoted fan, is that even possible? He has every record, every piece of paraphernalia, newspaper clippings, knows everything you’ve done, your accomplishments, all of your projects. We were allowed to bring records to sign, there was a limit, Bob gave me several more of his for you to sign for his massive collection. You were so gracious, signed everything, looked us in the eyes and were totally there with us in the moment.
I am a huge fan as well and also loved being a younger sister to my older sisters, total fans! - wearing pleated skirts and turtlenecks to your shows in the ‘60s in your iteration of Peter, Paul and Mary. They hung on every lyric as we do now. We cried bittersweet tears for the tenacity of your worthy stances through the years and happy tears just to hear the music!
You give joyously to a world desperately in need of joy. Your belief in the good of Humankind is contagious.
I cherish the pictures with you and Paul, Bob and me after the show. You have the warmest hug, your humor and the twinkle in your eyes lasted into the afterglow of the performance.
Shows I will remember forever. Thanks for acknowledging me as a fellow traveler.
Light and love to you and your family and to all who love you…
Cyndie Hasty
Dear Peter,
I am so grateful for your music. I sang your wonderful melodies and harmonies while I was in camp, high school, and college, as a young adult, and now, as an elder. I meet online with various groups of singers, some of us singer-songwriters from around the world. No matter what country some of our participants hail from, just about all of us are familiar with your songs and have been inspired by them. I expect I will be singing your music for the rest of my lifetime. Thank you for your inspiring gift of music. I am so sorry to hear about your poor health. I am impressed by the example you have set for so many of us, teaching us how music can bring meaning to so many and even, sometimes, helps to bring about change.
Thank you for the gift of music you have given us all,
All the best, Joan Sacks
Dearest Peter,
For the past 30+ years I've had the tremendous honor of being an adopted if somewhat elusive and reclusive member of the Yarrow family. And whether or not I'm in contact, you're always on my mind: sometimes in the form of fond memories of dinners and tipis, sometimes as the voice in my head that says do the right thing, be less selfish, more generous, kinder, let people know that you care. For it is from you and Mary Beth and the values with which you raised your children that have helped shape who I am on a good day, and you've accepted me despite my many flaws. Christopher is one of my closest friends and favorite people, and I know you appreciate my relationship with him. I'm grateful to him for many things, not the least of which is his sharing you with me. I've enjoyed the time I've spent with you and wish there were more, and that I hadn't wasted so much. I love you dearly, Papa Peter, and I will miss you tremendously and never forget you or how you've changed me for the better. Through your career in music you've achieved immortality, and your activism will have enduring effects on the world, but I didn't put off contributing to this website for four days to write about that (although it seems strange not to acknowledge it). In truth, I don't want to say goodbye.
Imperfectly, incompletely and with sincere gratitude and adoration, Nasti/Anastasia
Until I met Peter, while living in Colorado, I had no idea how much fun a classically-trained cellist could have jamming, improvising, and occasionally performing folk and political-movement music with Peter...in venues ranging from living rooms to sold-out auditoriums. Not only is he a musical icon, but he's so warm and approachable as a person that it's been easy not to be awe-struck, but just to have fun making music. And his songs are equally so approachable musically and structurally that it's easy to step outside the classical framework and just "be free." One of the greatest compliments I've ever been paid was when, after playing an entirely unrehearsed version of "The Great Mandala" together (to a packed 700-seat house), Peter turned to me and said "remember what you did just now--I'd never heard it like this before, and it really works."
Another fond memory: hiking together on Faraway Ranch, a 1000 acre parcel in Colorado that Peter was instrumental (pun intended) in preserving. I picked a little feathery frond from an unassuming plant and showed it to Peter. "Do you know what this is, Peter?" "No, no idea." "That's...yarrow!"
Thanks, Peter, for all you've done--but even more, for who you are.
- Peter Lert
I was a very little girl when I first met Puff and was introduced to PPM. I think I was six. I was so young, that I thought Jackie Paper had died and I cried each time I heard the song, until a few years later when I realized, like me, Jackie Paper was growing up. Since then, Puff has been a substantial part of my life. I've sung the song to all of my children, my grandchildren, and I will to my greatgrandchildren as soon as I can get to Florida to see them. Peter, you have been an inspiration to me my whole life and not just because of Puff, but because of the other songs that you have brought into the world. If not for PPM, I would not know songs like "Lemon Tree" or "Light one Candle" or oh so many others. You've brought so much joy to me and my children, I hope this project shows you how one life can impact the world. Know that you are loved and respected.
- Lori Hicks
Aloha:
I did not know. I guess my retiring from the folk music community in the Washington DC area and moving to Honolulu 8 years ago, I kind of got out of the loop. I was for several years co-president, vice president and I am a member still of the board of the World Folk Music Association. Peter, you remember Dick Cerri? (Often referred to with love, as Mr. FoIk Music. I worked with him from college (grew up with his radio program from junior high on - Music Americana) until he left us in 2013. I was his production manager for the program. Peter, you and Noel were part of several of our annual concerts and all three of you often interviewed live on his program. You were always generous with your time and so cooperative as these concerts featured many folk performers each time. Noel and Mary too, of course. You were always so gracious and kind to me. Sometimes when all those performers were meeting to get organized just before the concert began, you would help me corral them and quiet them so we could plan an always wonderful finale featuring all the performers. This was sometimes as many as 20 different acts! AND you would always ask me what you could do to help. My goodness. We even talked about the possibility that after I arrived in Hawaii, you would come, and we would get together. Though that did not happen, I loved that you considered it. Peter, thank you ever so much for all the music and care and your always immediate response when I would reach out to you for ideas or invite you and Noel and Mary to our events. Much later, after Mary passed, we talked as a joke that you two could keep on going and I could be the third member! Such an honor that would have been no matter how far-fetched that was! Wow, just joking with you meant a lot to be. I have always been a super fan of the trio and your solo activities since I was in junior high and will always adore your music. I still do performances here and often the singalongs are Peter, Paul and Mary songs, everyone's request!
I love and respect you so much, as a person and a musican.
Love, Aloha and in harmony,
Doris
So many words to say. Peter, you have lifted me with your music, your humor and commitment to world peace since I was a young girl. My 5 siblings and I wore out the Peter, Paul and Mary albums in the house--we had most of them! Then, I was privileged to see you perform in Denver a little while back. I work with children through our Denver Conflict Center and read books to the kids about nonviolent conflict resolution, so I was thrilled to hear about your efforts to bring attention to bullying behavior--and to use your CD with our program. Music speaks louder than words, indeed...Know that your spirit has touched us all and I am very grateful for your gifts. Sending love and peace as you travel-on.
- Nancy McGuire
Back in '64, my sister Lynn, who was 15 at the time, got a nylon string guitar for Christmas. I was seven years old. I don't remember asking her to teach me how to play, nor do I remember her offering to teach me. It just happened. She was learning how to finger-pick from a guy she knew in high school, and she started teaching me. The first three songs I learned to play were Puff, the Magic Dragon, A-Soalin', and Talkin' Candy Bar Blues. :)
I have not stopped finger-picking, and in fact just broadcast a show on a web site called streetjelly.com this past Wednesday, and I sang and played all three songs.
Puff has been a favorite and one that people request, repeatedly. I'm so thankful to have learned it.
Thank you so much for giving this and so much more to the world.
Your FolkSinging Friend,
Billie
p.s. my middle name is Preston, so my stage name is Billie Preston. If you know, you know. :)
I had a moment to offer deep gratitude for a song he sung solo when Peter, Paul and Mary stepped outdoors to meet with fans after a concert at Westbury Music Fair. My father had died years earlier after a heroic tolerance of rare cancer after being exposed at TMI. Peter sent me a copy of the song in a cassette. Finally, I could grieve my father's passing. Fast forward 15 yrs. I was able to personally thank him for sending the cassette at an after concert gathering I attended after a P, P&M concert in Philadelphia. He rembered my dad's story, he remembered sending the cassette. Who does this? Someone with a heart bigger than the galaxy. I love Peter, his humanity, his voice of outrage, his heart of gold, his humanity. I offer deep gratitude for the gift of his commitment to bring a voice to essential and important causes. He has enriched our globe and I am honored having hugged him.
I learned about social justice from him as I assimilated in America in the early 60's. I was a young child, learning English, and was able to grasp social justice through their music. I have followed his music for more than 60 years!
May rest and peace be with him.
- Holly DeYoung
On December 8, 2023, the officiant who married us did so with adaptations of the lyrics to "Weave Me the Sunshine" - a song which has served us well for decades and will continue to do so for decades to come. Here is what she wrote:
“Annie and Eric, you are a couple that is so neat.
To see you both together is truly a treat.
You’ve both known each other for a very long time
and have a love and friendship that’s truly sublime.
So now the next chapter of matrimonial love begins -
You’ll climb new mountains and drink from golden fountains.
May you always know you’ll weave in the sunshine; you’ll weave in the rain,
and can continue to fill each other’s cups over and over again.”
Peter & Eric have had several opportunities to meet and briefly chat over the years here in Pittsburgh - either after a PP&M concert or solo act. The first being in 1989 at the Syria Mosque when Eric was all of 12 years old! This and ALL of the occasions that followed are precious memories.
But the attached photo (dated March 16, 2010) shows the brief moment we were "Peter, Eric & Annie". Annie was a bit "star-struck", but soon realized she too had a friend in Peter Yarrow.
We are sharing and sending our love and wrapping you virtually in our arms with the hugs we know you like to give and receive. Keep singing... we'll be singing along!
- Eric & Annie O'Brien
Dear Peter,
I've been a fan of yours and Peter, Paul and Mary since I was in high school in the Philippines. I'm 62 now. I met you at the 80th birthday party of our common friend Cora Weiss, a lifelong human rights activist and peacebuilder, in 2014. It was the thrill of my life. Your concerts on YouTube during the pandemic helped my husband and me cope with loneliness, isolation, and anxiety at the time.
I'm sorry to hear about your health challenge. I'm sure you're managing it with strength and resilience. I'm sending you lots of love and joy!
- Mavic Cabrera Balleza
When I was ten years old, a very famous man came to our town for his wedding to a doctor's daughter. My friends and I stood outside of the church and peered in through the window to watch. He performed at our little Catholic school and his songs won my heart and informed my soul on how I wanted to live. My first album was "Peter, Paul and Mommy." I have shared those songs (on a record player) with a few generations of children(even some friends of his own children)! Perhaps his biggest impact was decades later when, as a school guidance counselor, I ran into his "Operation Respect" program. He created it to stop school bullying. Sixteen years of sixth grade students were, like me, informed on how to live. "Don't Laugh at Me" touched them in ways a talking to or a lecture on kindness couldn't. They learned to see others' humanity. Peter... Mahalo, mahalo. Mahalo Nui for all you have sung about. For all you have cared about. May your passing be peaceful and pain free. You will always be a touch stone.
- Susan Pirch
Beloved Family Yarrow,
On Sunday I'll be 51. My mommy "gave" me Peter, Paul, and Mary when I was just a nibblet. It remains an endless bond between us, and the very best gift.
From sitting cross-legged in the PS 6 gym, to Carnegie Hall, to Tanglewood, to Riverside Church, we've sung with you.
You didn't know we were there, but we were among the smiling ones behind the floodlights.
Thank you, too, for Bethany. She is magic.
You will always have the kindest roar. We think of you. And we will keep singing.
- Jennifer Wasserman
When my nephew was 5 years old, he changed schools for kindergarten because of some classroom turmoil with the teacher who seemed to be picking on him because he was biracial. He told us, "they don't want me here anymore." I was heartbroken. I took him to a PP&M show, and arranged to go back stage post-show. Peter walked in the room, saw him, and picked him up, swinging him around. All I could think was, "My nephew is being attacked by a folk singer!" We ended up going to 3 shows before Mary passed. He took flowers to her at one show, and Peter received them for her from the stage. Peter fist-bumped my nephew, who was 8 at the time, and he was convinced Peter remembered him. He's 24 now, and he still knows the songs!
- Julie Cord
I met you through our mutual friend Charles Lawrence, who worked for you in the 90s. I had the opportunity to see you in Washington state, New York, Maine, and a couple other places, as my path crossed yours in our travels. I so thoroughly enjoyed your company. But, Peter, truly we met long before that, as I contemplated the magic of sealing wax and other fancy stuff. You ignited the imagination of my young mind, and gave me the permission to carry that spark into my adult life. I, and so many others, are the cave in which Puff will continue to live and burn. You will live on in all of us. Thank you.
Dear Peter, you have been a part of my life since I was a child growing up in the 60s. You, and Paul and Mary, have inspired me so much, to work for justice, to stand up for and fight for what is right, and to have hope. I thank you for that. I took my children to see you three in concert when they were little. My oldest (now in his late thirties) andmy husband and I went to see and hear you at CalTech a few years ago, and it is a memory for my son, and for us, that he sang up on stage with you, in a group, and you called him out for his fine voice. We met you in lobby, and it's a memory we all treasure. Bless you on this next stage of your journey, and know there is much love walking alongside you now. We will never forget you. Love, Peace, Prayers and Strength to you, and to those who love you and whom you love.
- Melinda Ebelhar
As a 17 year old , high school junior in Columbus, Ohio, I was asked to sing in a trio. I have never heard of the group Peter, Paul and Mary. With my 12 string guitar I had just bought in Munich Germany, Bill with his very expensive 6 string and Mark, we tackled your music. Lots of practice and laughter in Bills bedroom . . . his parents were very patient. Sang at church youth gathering across the Central Ohio area. I fell in love with your music, your sound, and your heart. Then Mark left and we picked up Charma. If I remember right, I actually sang Mary's alto parts. Great times. Great music. Great memories. I do recall, one night I was in a deep funk. Started to play "This Train" but in a slow, sad tempo. I had never heard the three of you singing it till years later. Wow, was I shocked at the difference. But, I did like my version better. HA. At my age now, many times, I'll go to UTube and play your music. No matter what challenges I face, my heart smiles hearing your voices. Thank you Peter for the joy, the wonderment, the challenges, and the wisdom that has came out of your music. My prayers are with you. May God's peace and understanding go with you always. Ron Myers
As a child in the early 60s, my father often sang “Puff” to me, with accompanying shenanigans from my beloved “Puff” hand puppet. I loved the song and got a warm feeling every time I heard it as I grew up and well into adulthood.
At my wedding, my husband chose your Wedding Song for our first dance, which was lovely. And for my dance with my father, I chose Puff the Magic Dragon.
Never was I ever so grateful for waterproof mascara. My choice decimated everyone at the reception as well, with nostalgic happy tears. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for such a tender, precious moment. My Dad has since passed, but that will remain one of my most treasured memories with him.
I am thinking of you - and all those you love - wishing you freedom from all discomfort and peace. The world so appreciates the precious gift of music and love you gave us. God bless you, Peter.
Elizabeth
Hi Peter...
I had the honor and pleasure of joining you and your daughter for a mini concert at Georis Winery in Carmel Valley for the opening of the Monterey Zoo in 2019. With all the stellar people that have coursed thru your life, it was probably a minor moment for you, but it was a lovely moment I and the others in attendance got to share. Having never played with you before, or your songs, I got to add a little conga, a little sax to your musical fabric and it was wondrous. You have a special relationship with your audience and it was fun to witness. Peace be with you, my friend. Arno
I love you Peter!!You have meant so much to me and my family over the years. PP&M was my grandfather's favorite choice of music. We all went to Red Rocks in 1969. I was 11 years old. Every time you were in Colorado I went and met you doing your meticulous sound checks at the rocks! Thanks for letting me join you on stage. Years later, I joined you and Molly for the Kindness campaign in Colorado Springs. You stayed at my bed and Breakfast Inn. You met my sons Patrick and Sean and you listened so intently as Patrick scratched out twinkle twinkle little star on his violin. He was 4 years old and probably because of you big hug as a reward he plays to this day. You invited the boys up on stage many times for Puff the Magic Dragon sing along. You mean the world to us! At the Tuned In workshop, Patrick and I met Christopher. Later we all went to dinner. You wore that silly napkin on your head. What a wonderful weekend we had. We loved seeing you on your birthday at Kerrville. Thanks for sharing your cake. I have so many fond memories of you! Love always!
Karen
Oh Peter, I am sending my gratitude, love and light to you while you are preparing to leave, not on a jetplane, but on angelwings to be a light and inspiring musician on the other side. I love your activism, musicality and unwavering good humour and passion you so freely shared with others. You will be forever in mine and so many other peoples hearts with the music you have spread around the globe. Thank you and bon voyage. I hope you know not to be scared of this last transition in this lifetime. I have read and talked to people who came back from the other side that makes it clear to me that there is nothing to fear. The people who have passed before you will welcome you with open hearts and sing with you lovingly. Fly away gently and peacefully.
- Ulli Sir Jesse
I only met Peter once in person, and he was as delightful and kind as one could possibly hope. I'd, of course, been a fan for decades.
I'm uploading a (mediocre) version of Puff I sang and recorded for my mom as part of her Christmas gift one year, long before I ever got to meet Peter or Bethany. I didn't have money for gifts, but I spent a week recording her an album of karaoke covers on my cheap laptop with my lack of editing skills or recording equipment, and of course Puff made the CD, because what better song could there be to sing to your mom?
Peter is one of those souls whose kindness is so uncontainable it has spread far beyond his sphere and touched so very many millions he'll never meet. He's made this world a significantly better place.
- Conrad Shaw
Dear Mr. Peter Yarrow,
I hope you feel fine and peace this moment as you see this message! I am Josephine Choi, a retired primary school principal in Hong Kong. I knew and loved your songs and had seen you in the early years in the 20th century in Hong Kong. You, Paul and Mary were good singing partners and had come to visit Hong Kong one year.( Sorry I forgot which year!)I remembered that three of you sang your songs together to encourage us. One program called “Don’t laugh at me” had launched in that year. I had joined the program and learned how to help those in need and created some activities to enhance the skill of the weak students to prevent bullying. This was a very good program held and promoted by you and your team! Thank you so much for your love to Hong Kong students! We love you and hope you feel ease and strong in your heart! May God’s grace and blessings be with you today and forever!
Love and thank from Hong Kong ,
Principal Josephine YY Choi
Puff was the very first song I learned and loved as a child and the Trio's music has been my favorite of all music throughout my life, and I was fortunate enough to see them live finally, many years ago. In subsequent years I was also fortunate enough to see Peter and Noel Paul play together on several occasions and once, I was beyond fortunate enough to take my Mom, also a lifetime fan, to see Peter and Christopher together and meet them both which was another level of magic. What an absolute joy and blessing in every way, Peter has been to the entire human race and planet and his magic will resonate in every way throughout generations to come and will live on through Christopher and Bethany. Thank you for sharing your wonderful Dad with all of us and for the amazing gifts of words, music and projects that have made and will continue to make the world a more loving and beautiful place. May his amazing love and spirit surround all who love him and may all find peace and comfort and so much gratitude for all of his magic <3
- Karen Miller
I loved the Puff The Magic Dragon. I wanted to be a singer but was too shy to ever sing for anyone. In the 6th grade, there was going to be a talent show at school. I was determined to be in it and sing "Puff The Magic Dragon". Because I had a little bit of art talent, I was chosen, along with a really pretty girl, to work on an art project out in the hall. Somehow we started talking about the upcoming talent show. I told her I was going to sing it in. "Really" she responded. I said yea... "Puff The Magic Dragon"...thinking she would be so impressed...she looked me dead in the eyes and said..."That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard". Although now I laugh about it, at that moment I was crushed. I did not sing in the talent show... or anywhere else for years. But I eventually did, doing many Peter Paul and Mary songs. In fact, while loving to sing "Puff", I've probably done "The Wedding Song" more than Paul. Thank you Peter for the music. With great love in my heart, I can say your music had a wonderful effect on my life. You have been a gift to the world. God bless you.
- Sam Grant
PP&M's music changed my life. In the early '60s, I would often spend several summer weeks at my aunt & uncle's house in Georgetown (DC), soaking up huge amounts of a forward-leaning metro lifestyle, as much as an 11-year old's brain could. Just before one such trip, I heard PP&M singing, "Blowin' in the Wind," on the Today show, and, for the first time, I realized that songs could be much more than, 'do-wop' June/moon/spoon nascent rock&roll entertainments, that music could - and should - speak to important intellectual and social issues. When I got to DC, I bought the album and played it nearly incessantly. I had received a tenor guitar from another uncle, and I bought the sheet music for the album and practiced and memorized every song. I did the same with each succeeding album. Three years later, I formed a folk music trio with two friends and achieved some measure of regional success; we included a number of their songs in our set lists. Not only did the words convey important messages, but Peter's & Noel's guitar playing (and Russ' bass) guided my own approach, and the 'rolling fingerstyle' remains a central element of my music. So, Peter, if this message gets to you, thank you for this marvelous toy you've given so freely to so many, and know that you will be well and long remembered. -- Chip Levy (The Northeasterns)
Peter is the only one of the trio I got to see in person. It was at a book festival in Hyland Park in Bloomington, MN. I was working a booth with the nature center but told them since it was my birthday I was taking my lunch break to go listen to him perform. He sang the version of Puff where Jackie Paper's daughter met Puff so the legend would carry on. I didn't get the chance to meet him since I had to be back working, but he did see me taking his picture while he was doing a sound check. Peter, Paul and Mary were my favorite group. Loved all their music with their beautiful harmony. They are my go to when I need a rest from the world. Thankfully their music will live forever...just like Puff! Thank you Peter, Paul and Mary for the music.
- Pauline
I grew up listening to Pete, Paul, and Mary's LPs. I still remember all the songs. They taught me a lot about what it means to sing with other people.
In November1969, I participated in the Moritorium to End the War in Vietnam in Washington where PP&M performed. It was a red-letter date in my life, especially singing "Give Peace a Chance" with Pete Seeger.
Over the years, I've led people in singing many of PP&M's songs.
From 2013 to 2019, Sunrise Ranch in Loveland, Colorado held the Arise Music and Camping Festival. For some of those years, Peter played, sometimes with Bethany. It was an honor to get the know his gentle yet fierce spirit. He commanded an audience as ever. And he had undying passion for the advancement of human culture.
Recently, I played a YouTube video of PP&M playing "The Times They Are a-Changin'" at the Newport Folk Festival. I played it for Sunday morning service, and people sang along. It was remarkably relevant for our times. And their voices, their passion, and the synergy between them is still epic.
It is amazing what a big part of your musician like Peter can play over a lifetime. He has been a great gift to me, and I know there many, many people who've had the same experience.
Thank you, Peter. You are amazing! Thank you.
- David Karchere
I have a memory of who I somehow believe was your Dad singing Puff The Magic Dragon to me and my older Brother, in our house on top of the mountain, when we were tiny tots. I also remember monkey puppets being gifted to us, as I recall, by the singer guitar player. Not sure how your Dad was somehow singing to us in our home, but at that time, my Woodstock Visual Artist Mom was running a small in home day care and she also was in real estate. It was Woodstock back in the day. Well, we were up on Glenford. Perhaps our parents knew one another.
Anyways, both the singer guitar player and the song Puff The Magic Dragon, and the monkey puppets, were a HUGE DEAL to me in my childhood and I will always remember this song and those monkey puppets! I also have sung this song to other Children who love this song as well!
Funny, cuz in Chinese astrology I am mentally a monkey, emotionally a dragon, and physically a snake.
Prayers in the Holy Spirit for your Influential Pops!
El Shaddai
Jehovah Rapha
Refuah Shlema
Yehoshua HaMessiach
Ruach HaKodesh
Ministering Angels
God’s People
Hear Here
Thank You
Praise You
Hallelujah
Amen
Dearest Peter,
While looking through some old family notes I realized an error in my reminiscence to you a few days ago. It seems I was mistaken about the school where my Aunt Georgie taught with your mum in NYC. It appears to have been Julia Richman High School. Nonetheless, it stands that it was Georgie's connection with your mum that cemented in my young self the sense you were family. Senses are wise and I shall forever be grateful to you for your nurturing commitment to humanity throughout my life. Your voice fills my home.
On behalf of my parents (Richard and Marjorie), my daughter and granddaughters I send you healing love and respect,
Lee Munroe
My daughter and I traveled with Peter and his group in 2008 to Vietnam. It was an amazing trip. Peter gave three concerts in support of victims still suffering from exposure to Agent Orange after all these years after the War in Vietnam. We went out into the countryside and saw two young children who had been born with disabilities due to the fact that Agent Orange is still in the soil and water. My daughter, 15 at the time, was very moved by these two children. One other special time on that trip was when we met with former members of the Viet Cong now serving in civic posts and Peter led us in a song. It could have been "Where Have All the Flowers Gone?" But I am not sure. We saw Peter close up as a man devoted to helping those in need and he gave my daughter and I an experience that we will never forget. Our love goes out to him and to you as well.
- Susan Bardfield
I first met Peter in a business setting. He was looking for someone to repair and refinish the hardwood floors in his apartment. All of the companies he reached out to for estimates told him the floors could not be salvaged. Peter would not take that for an answer, and finally reached out to my company which is now called REA Wood Floor Restoration. I personally met with him, and from the time he met me at the door, I had a great feeling about him. He was the nicest and most down to Earth person I had ever met in my 25 years if doing work in Manhattan. It was like meeting with an old friend...this was only 30 minutes into the meeting. Very cordial, very welcoming. It was one of the most memorable meetings I've ever experienced. Well, we talked about a bit of everything, and then we talked business. I told him that we could find the flooring to replace the damaged boards, and then refinish and stain the floors. The logistics were challenging because there was a lot of furniture and we would have to do the work in stages. He loved the idea, and he hired us. Peter and I worked closely together to mix several different stain colors to get the desired look...he is truly an artist with a great eye. The project was challenging, but we ended up with great looking floors. Peter was very greatful and happy with the end result. The best thing that happened thru all of this, is that Peter and I became friends. During the project; and even after it was completed, Peter would invite me to have lunch with him..either just talking and eating in his kitchen, or actually going to his favorite Chinese restaurant. The talks we had about social justice, music, and just about everything he cared about was awe inspiring to me. His empathy and compassion was second to none. He inspired me to care about social justice and change, in a way I never thought possible. I can honestly say that if I am considered an activist today, it is because of Peter Yarrow. He would always call me his brother, and I considered him mine. He would talk to my 12 year old daughter on the phone sometimes, and gifted her Puff books and other memorabilia...something she loved. As I reminisce about Peter, I sometimes think and wonder...did the world deserve Peter Yarrow? I'm sure it needed him.
- Reggie Alston
I have such fond memories of Peter from my childhood. His son Christopher was a classmate and friend of mine during our years at P.S. 6 in Manhattan. His talent and social and political advocacy were always to be admired. That said: I remember most fondly his kindness and compassion.
I was one of those children who experienced chronic abuse and harassment from members of my peer group, largely due to the perception of my sexual orientation. Peter Yarrow demonstrated early in my life that men were not required to adhere to stereotypical norms of “masculinity.” Men could be kind, gentle, affectionate, inclusive and creative.
Operation Respect is yet another example of his commitment to social justice and one for which I hold tremendous respect. Peter is, as one might say, “the real deal.”
I send my love and support to his children Christopher and Bethany and his family, friends and fans.
Peter Campbell (Lichter), Toronto, Canada.
I grew up listening to your dad-Peter- alongside Paul and Mary as many children of the 70s did. My dad always used to sing Puff the Magic Dragon to me.. it wasn't until my late teens when I left home that I finally started to understand the true meanings of the song.
I was lucky enough to have met Peter and Mary backstage at their "Lifelines" concert in Connecticut where I gave them a hand-made rainbow quilt and told them just how much their music- as well as their social activisim and ethics had influenced my young adult life.
Over the years I have seen and heard Peter sing many times and each affected me deeply and profoundly for different reasons.
Your light will continue to radiate down the generations for this very reason- the amazing example you set forth all your life. Of fighting for peace, justice, and those less fortunate. Of speaking out- peacefully but with great clarity- against injustice in whatever form it presented. Fighting for equality. For harmony. For love.
In that spirit this is what I send.. love. Strength. Courage. Peace. and Magic.. always Magic!
- Cassy Pelkey
I attended Camp Saratoga in the beautiful redwoods in Northern Cal each summer from 1966-1971. In those days, the kids from Southern Cal arrived after sunset because we all took the (now defunct) "Dayliner" from Union Station in downtown Los Angeles. When the van arrived at camp, we were brought to the "Evening Friendship Circle" already in progress, and songleaders with guitars leading everyone in "Leaving on a Jet Plane", "The Great Mandela", etc etc. "Marvelous Toy", "Puff" and so many others became favorites. The years at camp were my most formative and inextricably linked to what became the soundtrack of our lives, and Peter, you were and still are so central to what was then an anti-Vietnam war message but with every heartfelt uplifting lyric, a belief in humanity that continues to resonate today & forever! I have added so many PPM albums to Spotify so even in 2024, I am in awe listening to the brilliance and humanity of Album 1700.
Thank you, thank you for the beauty and timelessness of all your music. It still makes me cry, it is so beautiful! Yours is a life incredibly well-lived!!!! Thank you for sharing your heart and your genius with us all. Be at peace!!!
- Gwynneth Russler
Peter, Paul, and Mary have been part of my life since I was very small. What makes this unusual is that I am profoundly deaf (since birth) but can hear with my hearing aids. I listened to their songs at full blast with the lyrics in my hands. I would sing them too (off tune, of course) but the beautiful voices of PPM resonated (and still do) with me. Thank you for enriching my childhood and my life with your amazing songs. I remember watching a PBS special years ago and Peter telling the story of how he wrote “Light One Candle”. We sing this song every year at Hanukkah in my house and in temple. Long after the dragon has ceased to breathe fire, his voice will still be singing the songs for years to come. Thank you, Peter, for enhancing my life with your songs and your soulful voice. Even though Little Jackie Paper comes no more, there are still millions who believe in Puff the Magic Dragon and we will always remember the mightiest ones of them all, Peter, Paul, and Mary. Sail away to frolic in the autumn mist in peace in the land of Honah Lee, dear Peter. You will never be forgotten.
- Laurie Heeger-Averitt
Dearest Peter,
It seems so wrong not to be present with you during this time, as you, unknowingly have been present with me through so many parts of my life. Why didn't I ever think before to send you a note of gratitude? Well, actually I did thank you, Paul and Mary at one of Mary's last concerts at the Britt in Oregon. She was quite unhappy with her performance so a gushing woman probably wasn't helpful. But for me, it was heaven to be in your presence singing along with the music that means so much to me.
You helped me bond with my older siblings as we would play our records in the basement and sing along through my adolescence. To this day, 60 years later, we only have to start singing "Puff" and we are transported to that time. We will always belt out “IF I had a hammer”! My brother bought the PP&M album for me for Christmas and I played it when I was sad or happy or full of teenage angst. I have treasured it, Album 1700 and my others forever and even learned to play guitar a bit because of your music. At age 70 the songs continue to be a part of my own heart’s repertoire.
I grew to have a pretty serious social conscience because of the message in the songs. They helped form my belief that we can make a difference in this world.
Puff was a favorite lullaby for my own children and then my grandchildren. Day is Done, Weave Me the Sunshine and so many more are indelibly etched in my heart and those of my family. You likely will never know the many lives that you have touched in a most perfect and profound way. I hope you will take some comfort in the extended legacy that you leave whenever we make a joyful noise along with your meaningful lyrics and heartfelt melodies. Folk music always has been and always will be my favorite because it tells us stories and helps us to be better.
As for you, well your voice is like warm cocoa on a cold day. It just wraps us in comfort, kindness and acceptance. Thank you, Peter. Your legacy will live in us as an "infinity gift" as my grandkids might say. Wishing you the same comfort you have provided to me and my family.
- Margaret Beck
My mom, Mimi Gold , watched as Peter was on the rise. Look at the dates on these news papers. There was the really good reviews , some good reviews and one just waiting to see what PP&M would become. For those of you that dont know, they did as the saying goes “they made it all the way to Carnegie Hall “
I know i have more of things like this. I will post them as i find them. It is the Peter that was already waiting to change the world. All the way back in 1966.
I know there are tons of tributes to who Peter became, but these newspaper clippings show he has always been the person we came to know now. Hopeful, generous and kind.
The newer photo is with his nephew Daniele
- Karen James
My sister, Marge just recently sent you a glorious note about the impact you and your music had on her. I was on the tail end of that same family, introduced to your music through those elder siblings, and it created such a bond between us that lasts to this very day, and as she said, belting out your songs is one of our favorite heart unifying moments of all time. I, too, have passed on to my children (now in their 20s) many of your songs. If there is one image from my childhood that brings Comfort and Joy it is the cover of your TEN YEARS TOGETHER album. It is for me an icon that absorbs me into so much welcomed nostalgia. Praying for your peace and well-being. GRATEFUL beyond words to have been on the receiving end of your generosity with wonderful talent fit for a special time and age! BLESSINGS and peace be with your spirit!
- Patricia Feder
Peter, Paul & Mary were a huge influence on me in my younger days. I started playing guitar, and singing three-part harmony in a group when I was just 14. At age 76, I'm still doing it. Pretty soon, this led to me writing songs, one of which - "Grandma Got Run Over by a Reindeer" - has done pretty well for me. I saw PP&M in concert several times, including 1963 at Forest Hills, when they introduced "Blowin' in the Wind," by saying that the writer, Bob Dylan, was someone we'd be hearing a lot more of. Recently when I was asked to name my favorite concert, I chose PP&M's reunion tour. It brought me to tears, hearing those voices and guitars blend again after a period of separation. Thank you, Peter, for everything.
- Randy Brooks
Dear Peter,
Peter, Paul and Mary was the soundtrack of my youth in the ‘60s and ‘70s. Your music and your talent brought me and so many millions of others joy, hope and peace during a turbulent time. There will never be another Peter, Paul and Mary, and there will never be another Peter Yarrow.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I send you peace and love and wishes that you know what an important part of history you were and always will be.
Love,
Carol Herz
Petaluma, CA
in 1964, I was just awakening to the world of music, other than the Irish folksongs and songs written by my beloved Great Uncle, Walter Donaldson. Our house was always singing, and I guess it was that that started me in the world of music...one day I heard a different song on the radio, sung by three young people in sort of a slow, haunting way, that talked about sadness, and war, and answers to unanswerable questions; it absolutely floored me; the beauty of the singing, the weight of the lyrics, the fact that it made me feel. And think. The song, of course, was "Blowing In The Wind", by Bob Dylan, and the trio, of course, was Peter, Paul and Mary. From that day on I was awash in the Folk world; I had all the albums, the songbooks, knew most of the songs by heart, begged for a guitar until Santa left a beautiful little Yamaha classical guitar under the tree on Christmas morning. I followed them, uncontrollably; I think I was madly in love with the beautiful Mary...as I learned more about music and guitar playing I came to understand that Peter and Noel were brilliant musicians, as well as humanists, activists, and social movers and shakers in the quietest and most enduring of ways. I saw them live (and sang from the crowd, of course), at the March on Washington. I saw them live in concert somewhere in the city, I followed them in magazines and on TV...and I sang the songs...with them, for them. I only met Peter once, personally, in a "meet-and-greet' after the concert in the city. I last saw him at a blessedly wonderful concert in Morristown, New Jersey, sponsored by our wonderful local Folk Music group, The Folk Project; I was amazed at his strength and connection then, and sang with him once more. I'm still performing, singing the songs, and will do so until I no longer am able; the catalog is mind-boggling; "Day Is Done", "Light One Candle", "Don't Laugh At Me", and of course the songs from the beginning, if I squint too hard when I sing them I can see Peter and Noel leaning in over their guitars toward the mic, and see Mary's hair alight as she tosses it in the spotlights...I just recently watched the PBS Holiday Concert 1988; tears streaming down my face the entire time. I never had a chance to actually thank him for it all; for the good they did, for the hearts they awoke, (including mine), for the spirits they kindled...and for the wrongs they made right. But I know someday I will. And, for now, I will do what I can to follow...
- Robert (Bob) Cole
Thank you, Peter Yarrow, for all you have given to me personally, and to the many singer-songwriters you have mentored over a lifetime. Thank you for keeping the music alive, and aligned with with the values of peace, and of love, and of what it means to be human. What a treasure it has been to have your music and melody in my life since as far back as I can remember. What a blessing you and your music have been in my life. I am a better person having been touched by all you do, and all you have done, and all your music and legacy will do to help humanity in the days ahead. Thank you, sweet beautiful music man. Love and respect always, Candace
It’s 1968. Three high school juniors and a sophomore. Two boys and two girls. Girls could sing and boys could play guitars. We formed a folk group to keep up with the times and turmoil of the world around us. We turned to Peter,Paul and Mary for our inspiration. No better models for our music and message. We also added some Crosby, Stills, and Nash.
Did our singing at Catholic youth gatherings and for social events at our church. We all knew each other from grammar school.
Your music, your story telling, your sound was so mesmerizing and distinctive.
Thank you for being such a memorable part of my teen years. The memory I have of you in song will never fade away. Puff and that Jet Plane. Thank you.
Godspeed and know that all dragons go to Heaven.
- Dona Stec
Peter, you dear man, I wish you peace and love to help you and your family though this difficult time. My heart, along with millions of others, is breaking at the prospect of losing a man of such conviction, humility and wisdom. You've helped shape the lives of generations - worldwide. I can never thank you enough for the joy and understanding you've brought to me personally, and my grown children. You allowed us to get on stage with you, when you were here in Homer, NY a few years ago...it was a dream come true for which I will be eternally grateful. It was an honor to share the stage with our beloved Strong Dragon, to sing along to your PUFF THE MAGIC DRAGON. You'll forever be in our hearts. Puff will live on, and a soul as kind as yours is eternal. I hope to meet you again someday, on the other side of this existence. You are greatly loved and will be missed.
- Caroll Tracy
Peter,
When i heard about your health battle, the words “ if only i could heal your sorrow, shine on me again “ came to my heart - the touch of sorrow was not just from knowing what you are going thru physically, but how you were hurting because you couldn't sing live and strong as always and get others singing along. i knew i could pray, and have been praying for you and your family since as you climb that mountain. May you find Comfort on the hillside, where the Shepherd is tending his sheep.
I heard you in 1970 in Kansas City , and wore out two 8 tracks of 10 Years Together. I think i have been to each concert you and PP&M have done in this area.
We met in the mid 90’s at one concert. Noel was performing a solo time and we bumped into each other as you were walking around the “house” seeing how the sound was.
We talked about the sound and listened in various places in the Theatre. We discussed things about life and social issues going on and spiritual things, and it was truly meaningful. We both agreed the sound was really good that night.
Thank you for taking the time-when you could have been focused on other things , to include me in your “ sound check” and engage me. A kindness i will never forget.
I have seen the brotherhood you and Noel have lived out all these years and it is wonderful and an inspiration.
Prayers and gratitude,
Dan Newby
Every moment in life, I believe, is orchestrated by God. Your life was woven into the tapestry of mine & all the others who were touched by the gift of music you so freely shared, music that uplifted, spoke to the realities of life & shaped parts of our character that we never realized. It was about what God wanted to do through the life of Peter Yarrow & you were obedient to share your gifts. Thank you for all you have given, even this opportunity to bless & pray for you. Sent with much love & many prayers from a Canadian girl.
- Michele Collins
Words fail in my attempt to encapsulate what your life journey has meant in my life journey. You have braced our planet with the vibration of love and peace since being a young man. How many times have I listened to the albums that you and your dear Paul and Mary created
And then, when you could’ve retired, you chose to come to Utah and support a fledgling activist organization Dedicated to waving the flag of climate justice.
Perhaps you’ll be able to recognize the impact you have made once you transition. I look forward to the day that I transition because I believe that we go to an Existence with no strife or struggle. I believe that love is all there is and you have personified that your entire life. If the world could model Your message, what a wonderful world it would be!
I will always treasure the memory of my encounters with you & look forward to the day when our spirits encounter each other in a different world. Your involvement with Peaceful Uprising was just one of countless examples of how you impacted our world And rest assured, there are countless humans that will always hold your memory in our hearts. Thank God for you! And thank you for sharing the God in you. Rest easy, my friend you go on a cloud of intense love from this planet!
- Julianne Waters
PP&M was my entry drug into folk and traditional music, and into thinking about ways in which we could make the world better and fairer. I became a musician and also a perennial volunteer for Hudson River Sloop Clearwater (ten years), and now teach music at Berea College in KY. Berea integrated and coeducational since 1855) provides a free education for black and white students primarily from Appalachia: its motto is “God has made of one blood all peoples of the earth.” One of my courses is Appalachian Music and I lead the Folk-Roots Ensemble; I make sure my students know who PP&M were and the part music played in the Civil Rights movement. PP&M set me on a path that has placed me here to carry the message on through my students. Thank you for your good and great work.
- Elizabeth (Liza) DiSavino
Peter has been an inspiration to me and so many others for my entire life. As former Chairman of WhyHunger and SVP of ASCAP, I
was privileged to witness first hand the support Peter has given to social justice and singer/songwriters. I sang his songs at summer camps and in the car and at many PP&M concerts at the top of my voice. When my wife and I were honored at our synagogue, Peter was there to give an amazing performance to support our synagogues social impact programs. Peter - you will be remembered forever as the voice of a generation and the face of social justice. Peace to you my brother. Seth Saltzman - SVP ASCAP, NYC.
- Seth Saltzman
8 December 2024
Dear Peter, you are so very dear to so many of us who feel like family. We met a few times at Binghamton University and once at Wolf Trap. I sang with you when you were in Endicott New York after your whirlwind arrival from Israel and peace work with Palestinians and Jews. Your voice has been and always shall be a voice and a legacy of hope, commitment, passion, justice, love, and courage in who we are and who we can be. The candles are lit and they will never go out. For this I thank you.
So many thoughts are racing through my mind as I read of your journey with Puff to what comes next. Please know there will tears and gratitude, as there are right now, when you pass through the veil. And always there will be songs. Thank you for taking me and thousands of other children of the 1960’s through some really terrifying times with grace and love. Many of my nearly sixty years have been spent sharing the music, hope, and values you and Noel and Mary shared in song and life.
The Winter Solstice comes in a few weeks. In the turning of the seasons I find great assurance. I pray you are embracing all the light and love sent in these living tributes and what a gift from your family to set this up. Blessings to all and wholeness of being.
Rev. Barbara Snyder
Dear Peter,
THANK YOU for the fun and joy that you added to our lives! Your music is woven into our history with years of listening and singing along with, taking our (now grown) daughters to see you at Westbury Music Fair, and playing your tapes and CDs to the preschool classes that I taught for years.
My daughter had the opportunity to meet you at a book signing where you commisurated as Cornell Alumni.
You are a true mensch!
Wishing you comfort and peace,
Sheila Slotnick and family
Dear Peter,
I was born in 1954 so I consider myself to be a middling baby boomer who began his coming of age process in the 60's. Considering my demographics I was one of those people who have known Puff, The Magic Dragon, my whole life. As a fledgling folkie on of the first songs I learned was This Train and I learned it from Peter, Paul and Mary. I learned the songs of Dylan, Guthrie, Paxton and so many others from P,P&M. You and your trio mates have been with me my whole life as a guiding force in my own song writing and performance and I am eternally grateful for that.
That influence brought me to The SongSchool, in Lyons Colorado for the first time in 2010, where our mutual friend Steve Seskin has guided me for many years. In 2015 I brought my daughter Molly for her first SongSchool and Steve brought you. Molly and I both attended you workshop that year and sat right there in the very first row right in the front row of chairs. The subject was songs of protest and social justice that could adjust and adapt to many issues and situations there by carrying on for years if not decades, dare I say centuries, becoming generationally traditional songs that embody the power of song. You gave us a prompt and 15 minutes to write. My paper stayed blank, writer's block, but Molly wrote furiously and when the 15 minutes were up and you asked if anyone would care to share her had was up in a flash and she joined you in front of the group to share with you and us what she had written. I that moment I realized how the goal of your prompt and been achieved. I sat there listening with tears in my eyes as my 19 year old daughter stood there with you, one of my all time heros, and sang her song. When you graciously complemented her work she body offered to play you more and you graciously invited her back to the green room in the Wildflower Pavilion to share them. You even offered her your guitar to play.
It was a moment I will never forget and one of the most thrilling moments of my parenting life. A few years later you came to Park City to perform and again Steve Seskin was there as I had helped him bring his Kids Write Songs to your local Schools that week. During the course of the evening you asked the audience to join you on stage to sing Puff The Magic Dragon and of course Molly and I were up in a flash. Most of the kids on stage that night were 10 years or younger with their Moms holding their hands so that put Molly and I closest to you in age. We stood right next to you on the stage at the Egyptian that night so we were closest to you physically as well. Chris was with you that night playing his washtub bass and we all sang as if the fate of the world depended on it. In that moment I flashed back to my six year old self hearing Puff for the first time. Now nearly 60 years later I was on a stage singing the song with you and you son and my daughter (and Steve of course) The power of a song written for the generations struck me full force. The wonder, magic and power of Puff had come full circle for me and been passed onto my daughter who continues to write powerful songs and deliver magical performances.
I know for certain that Dragons do not live forever and you my friend are certainly a Magic Dragon but your roar will continue forever as will your songs and spirit. Thanks for the music, the inspiration and most of all the magic. Give my love to Mary when you get to the other side.
- Bill McGinnis
Where to begin? Peter’s music and beautiful soft spirit captured my attention at an early age. The music he made in Peter, Paul & Mary was particularly captivating! Their harmony singing, tonal blend, musical and lyrical excellence was bound to live on for centuries. The first time I heard Puff The Magic Dragon I was transported to a place of fantasy and imagination. The imagery and lilting musical accompaniment was particularly thrilling. Being a professional musician myself, this music inspired me in my singer/songwriter journey and I am forever grateful for the tremendous impact Peter has had on me. I will forever remember this beautiful man. Thank you Peter!
- Michael Dwyer
Dear Peter,
Meeting you put me absolutely on Cloud Nine. It was ten years ago; I was running for Congress and a mutual friend said that you were always looking for progressive candidates to support. Did I want to meet you? Did I?! We shared some magical hours in your wonderful Manhattan home and I floated out of there in disbelief at my good fortune.
I fervently wished my mother had been alive to hear about it. A peacenik from forever, she’d introduced us kids to Peter, Paul and Mary starting with your first album, and we learned every song. In fact, more than 60 years later, I still remember playing “Blowin’ in the Wind” over and over again, studying the words with my twin sister and our friend Jeanie Hansen. A light bulb went off as it dawned on us what “metaphor” was: “How many times must a man look up before he can see the sky?” Oh, that’s about civil rights, isn’t it?! And “How many years must a mountain exist before it is washed to the sea?” is about injustice, right?! It was a revelation. As you always say, music has the power to change hearts and minds, and yours did just that.
But back to just ten years ago: You came to Ithaca for an incredible fundraiser that was the highlight of my campaign. I hate to keep using the word “magical” but that’s what it was. Even more than a fierce political ally, you became a dear friend. I treasured our visits and phone calls, especially the weekend at the Waterfall House (with warmest thanks to Bethany!).
Peter, the power of your voice will never be dimmed. The force of your example – to keep fighting for justice and peace – will live on in whatever good works we who follow you can accomplish. The joy of your love is the ultimate gift that keeps on giving. With all my heart, I wish you peace and comfort on the road ahead.
Martha Robertson
Dear Peter,
One morning, in the ‘80s or ‘90s (I think), in NYC’s Penn Station, I was waiting for a very late train. So were you and Pete Seeger, sitting on the floor, backs propped against a wall, your legs in jeans sticking straight out in front. The conversation between you two was so animated, so intense, that those of us who recognized you and Pete (and there must have been others besides me) gave you your space and didn’t dare to interrupt. Peter, the passion I saw that morning at Penn Station is how you have lived your life off-stage and on . . . a passion that shaped the magical collaboration you shared with Noel Paul and Mary . . . a passion that entertained your audience and inspired it.
- Bryan hatchett
Dear Peter,
Peter, Paul and Mary was the soundtrack of my youth in the ‘60s and ‘70s. Your music and your talent brought me and so many millions of others joy, hope and peace during a turbulent time. There will never be another Peter, Paul and Mary, and there will never be another Peter Yarrow.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I send you peace and love and wishes that you know what an important part of history you were and always will be.
Love,
Carol Herz
Petaluma, CA
My parents raised me up on PP&M. My dad took me to my first ever concert with my best friend, Gina in 1960 something. Selland Arena in Fresno CA. We joined in “the answer my friend is blowin’ in the wind. . .
Peter Yarrow, my all time #1songwriter, folk hero. His music carried me thru teen-dom and onward as a young mother. I too, raised my 5 babies up singing Puff, Weave Me the Sunshine and Light One Candle. Up loud!
I took my 12 year old daughter to her first concert in 1993 at the Spokane Opera House. We clapped, we sang, we cried.
She raised up her 4 children with the same love. Rocking her baby, singing The Garden Song, inch by inch, row by row. . . Someone did indeed bless the seeds we’ve sown.
Our beloved Papa Dragon may sail on but in his own words
“Lives by the sea. Present tense.”
- Cathy Larson
I had the honor of working with Peter on the Unity Concert in the Black Hills of South Dakota. I have put together a fundraiser for the concert in Boulder, Colorado, and Fort Collins, Colorado. When we did the fundraiser in Boulder, Peter came early and spent most of the day with us, which was such a delight. I always called him my skin angel, because of his amazing kindness! This is something I will never forget, and weep as I write it here. My beautiful roommate from college was in the process of dying of breast cancer at that time. She was a singer and had the most beautiful voice. An article had been written about her where she acknowledged that Peter, Paul & Mary had been one of her inspirations to go into music. I took it with me that day, and when there was a quiet moment, I asked Peter to sign it so I could send it to my dear friend, Debra.
To my surprise, before signing it, Peter went over to a quiet chair and read the entire article. That moment is forever in my heart! When I told the story to my dear friend Debra, it meant so much to her! We both wept because Peter’s caring touched us so deeply!
Thank you, dear skin angel, Peter, for all the blessings and love you have showered on our beloved Mother Earth, and the people!
- Lisa Bealafeld-Beck
Several years ago, my wife and I had the honor of seeing Peter perform in a small venue in New Hampshire. He was so warm and giving in his performance, and at intermission when we got to speak to him he greeted us not with a hello, or even a handshake, but with a warm hug. The man exuded love.
After intermission, when Peter returned to the stage, he found he’d forgotten his guitar pick in his jacket in the dressing room. I always have a pick in my jeans pocket and as I was in about the third row, I walked up and gave Peter my pick. He smiled, thanked me and said it was a nice pick and would do nicely.
He played the whole rest of the show with that pick and last I saw it was tucked between the strings of his guitar. What an honor for me from a man who helped teach me to love folk music, and unknowingly taught me to sing harmony.
I’ve had the pleasure of seeing Peter one more time since, with Noel. Both concerts warmed my heart and brought happy tears. What a gift Peter Yarrow is to us all. All positive thoughts and prayers to him and to your family.
- Fred Giuffrida
I first saw Peter, Paul & Mary in Fort Worth in 1966, then in Dallas in 1968, in Kansas City in 1970, again in Fort Worth in the late 1980s. I saw and talked with Peter many times at the Kerrville Music Festival through the years.
We were honored to have Peter perform at the Winnsboro Center for the Arts (Winnsboro, Texas) a few years ago for two nights and again a year later.
When he discovered we were singer-songwriters, he invited us up the second night and asked if we would sing “Blowin’ in the Wind” and “If I Had a Hammer” and sing a couple of verses. He changed our little town in ways no one else could, greeting people wherever he went and spreading joy and love. We wish him a smooth transition from a live lived well.
- Lindy Hearne
Loved your dad and PPM. Saw / heard them many times. One evening my brother and I went to the Berkeley Community Theater to hear PPM. But they had to cancel I believe because of illness. But Peter was not ill and about 25 of us were outside the theater in a courtyard. He came out and spent quite a while talking with us. He didn't have to do this. It was a lovely visit and we were so grateful that he took the time to speak with some of the fans who were sad the concert could not go on. Very generous of your dad. Bless him and all the beauty he put into this world. Thank you Peter Yarrow.
- Lousie Rosen Byer
I've been a fan of Peter, Paul and Mary since high school. I am now 73. I've seen you all live a couple of times in Houston, the last time on a revolving stage. After the concert you and Noel signed my album and you gave me a hug. That was maybe 30 or so years ago. But my most-enduring memory is your song "Weave Me the Sunshine" way back in 1972, I think. I designed my own stationery on bright yellow paper with a bold graphic sun (long before computer graphic software) along with those words, and I used that stationery for years. Peter, I know you're nearing your transition into Love. I want you to know that you have brought sunshine and joy into my world. God's mercies are new every morning--great is God's faithfulness!
- Janet Troy
Peter was playing in Portland Oregon He called my son Dan up on the stage to help sing the chorus of Puff the Magic Dragon.Dan is a musician and artist and has Down syndrome That moment thrilled Dan and he still talks about it.We also shared stories about protest and song and how Peter used his music to reach audiences in profound ways especially young people.
We also see his presence in his son Christopher.Music is eternal and Peter will live on in his music and through his family.I hope that you are surrounded by love and music on your last journey Peter and thank you for your generosity
- Angela Jarvis-Holland
Once upon a time our parents brought us to see Peter Paul and Mary play at the Circle Star Theater in Redwood City, CA. I was about 3 years old and completely in awe through the whole experience. At the end we stood crowded around, patiently waiting for autographs. When it came to our turn Peter looked at my parents and asked to hold me. Transferring me to his welcome arms Peter went on to tell them that he missed his own daughter and that I reminded him of her. My parents said he held me for quite a long time as he signed autographs of others. I’m not sure what happened to that autographed program but I do know I looked at it many times over the years when I was small, trying to find the resemblance.
Years later I was able to bring my own two children to see Peter read his Puff the Magic Dragon book at the Reading Bug Bookstore in San Carlos, CA. It was somewhat of a full circle moment as my son was about the same age I had been. Happy memories I will always cherish.
- Rachelle Kenny
I grew up with "Peter, Paul & Mommy" on vinyl when I was in grade school. I sang "Puff" with my sister on stage at a school presentation when I was in kindergarten in 1964 or so. I grew up with Pete Seeger and your PP&M. They all were the soundtrack of my youth, along with Phil Ochs, Tom Paxton, and later Holly Near and dozens that followed. But Pete Seeger and PP&M were there first because they were accessible to us children.
As I got older I found that I shared a synagogue with Peter. B'nai Jeshurun on the Upper West Side. I particularly remember he sang "Light One Candle" in the sanctuary on the eve of the 2nd Gulf War.
I also remember when Pete Seeger, Peter Yarrow and Dar Williams sang at a benefit to help John Hall try to win reelection as Congressman. Sadly, he lost. As Tom Lehrer wrote in his song "Folk Song Army," "They may have one all the battles, but we had all the best songs!"
I'm attaching 2 photos from October, 2010 of that benefit concert. One has Pete, Peter, Dar and John Hall. The other is of Peter Yarrow on stage solo.
The few times I had an opportunity to meet him in person, I found him kind, gentle, soft-spoken and, well, a very nice man.
- David Block
Dearest Peter.
You have been a light in my life since the 1960s. My Mother would take me to see you with Mary and Paul. I grew up singing many of your songs. As an adult I was blessed to meet you on several occasions. For the first time David Roth and I went to see your last show with Mary at Carnegie Hall. We were invited to your apartment for an after show gathering. You were so welcoming. The second time I ran in to you at NYU Hospital. You were getting ready for a program there and I was visiting my ailing aunt. You saw I was crying, recognized me and you were so kind. The video I attached is from City Winery when you invited me and a handful of others to join you in Puff the Magic Dragon. I am so grateful for the gifts you have blessed our universe with on so many levels. As a retired special educator, I shared the Don’t Laugh at Me song and materials with my students. I want you to know how deeply you are loved by so many from multiple generations. May your transition be a gentle one surrounded and guided by love.
Much love to you Dear Peter.
xoxo. Susan
When my son son was 10 or so he wrote a letter to Peter asking permission to sing his songs in a little band my son started with his sisters__peter graciously wrote back and said yes and then arranged for tickets and backstage passes for us at an upcoming concert in Clearwater fla__after the concert my son nervously went backstage and introduced himself and Peter hugged him___and took my whole family out for ice cream___i was overwhelmed with his kindness___when later I asked my son what peter had said to him my son couldn't remember but said he felt it in the hug peter gave him___that hug changed my son and gave him confidence he lacked and has stayed inside him all these decades__"thank you" doesn't seem enough for me to say__puff was very special to my son and now my granddaughters___"I felt it in his hug"__the innocence of a child to recognize that love is magic and magic is love___many blessings always and deep gratitude for being
Peno
Horsewalker's mom
Dearest Peter,
I was twelve years old when I got my first guitar. Peter, Paul and Mary’s “Blowing in the Wind” Songbook was what I used to learn how to play my Aria. I adored PP&M. Bought all your albums. Your music, your message; the aura of the three of you who seemed completely imbued with love, kindness, honesty and a commitment to civil rights/social justice. I was enthralled. At thirteen, I saw you in concert at the California Chico State College and you lit an unrelenting fire under me to use Music and Love to make a difference in the world.
In the early 70s I had the honor of being an opening act, along with John Fischer, for Noel Paul Stookey in Los Angeles. That initiated a lifelong musical banter and friendship. Noel later introduced me to you, Peter, and Mary at a concert you did in Nashville several years later. You were both so gracious.
Through the years, I had numerous opportunities to perform & record with Noel, as well as to attend PP&M and then Noel & Peter performances after Mary’s passing. It is true that even though you were now a duo, I could “hear” Mary singing her inimitable part. Very mystical and moving.
In 2017, I recorded an album called “Mangle the Tango” of my original songs except two. One was written by Noel Paul Stookey and Peter Yarrow – “The Very Last Day.” Peter, you, thrilled my heart by agreeing to sing a cameo part. “The Very Last Day” was one of the very first songs I learned to perform, so this was so special. It sounds so rich and powerful with your voice authenticating it's message! I've attached it for your listening pleasure!
Thank you, Peter, for your life, your songs, your beautiful paintings, and your Love service to others.
Thanks for Puff, Little Jackie Paper, Lemon Tree, The Very Last Day, The Great Mandala et al. – so many songs that I’ve listened to over and over. Some I’ve also learned and played over and over.
You have touched and influenced so many people around the world. Thank you, for touching mine. You are so cherished, and I will always hold you dear.
With Great Love & Respect,
Pam Mark Hall
Thank you Peter for sharing your heartfelt love for educators and children around the world. Your visit to Georgetown Kentucky for the I.A.I.E. Conference in 2002 is fondly remembered and very deeply appreciated.
The educators and children you spoke to will always remember and appreciate your music and love.
Helen and I still remember the visit and warm hospitality when we visited you in your home.
May God bless you and your family.
Dallas Blankenship
Dear Peter,
Your music has been a fixture in my life as far back as I can remember. I was an infant when my parents bought me the “Peter, Paul and Mommy Too” cassette and lyric book. I still cherish it more than thirty years later; “Inside” was always my favorite. It reminded me of the benefits to seeing people as they are, which was a great comfort to me as a disabled person.
At age 6, I went to Ravinia with my mom and aunt to see PP&M– a tradition we maintained until I was 18. One year, we even nearly had a chance encounter with you! That same year, I first heard you sing “Don’t Laugh At Me”. The song was there at the moment I needed it, and for many moments after.
A few years after that, I first heard “Weave Me the Sunshine”. I was again struck by strong feelings of kismet. That song has been a favorite since, there when I need cheering up and when I am already glad. I felt the kismet yet again, this past year. I had the good fortune to finally attend a “Peter and Paul” with my husband, as well as my mom and aunt. As the lights dimmed in Waukegan, IL– a block away from my first house– you played the first notes to “Weave Me the Sunshine”. I had not even dared to hope it would be sung, let alone first. And then, you stopped the song to teach the entire audience the words! I was stunned, again it was as if the moment was just for me. I will not soon forget it, nor any of the other hundreds of memories I have associated with your music.
So, thank you Peter. Thank you for helping so many people with your music, exactly when we needed it.
- Hannah Stoltz
I feel like we are old friends. In the mid-'60s, in Lincoln, NE, I saw Peter, Paul and Mary at a concert here and was enthralled with it. I sang the songs; I wanted hair like Mary's (and it still is ...). I wanted to play a guitar and harmonize and what I really wanted was to release my own quiet Self, someone caring and who would do as you all did ... stand for 'right'. And I learned ... and learned more. About ten years ago, as I was chatting with a healthcare provider at an appointment, she looked at me and said, "You're an activist, aren't you." I had never felt it 'showed', and grew warm with that thought and moniker. I knew then, the things I learned from the music, the gentle spirit of Peter, and more ... had grown in me as well. To this day, no matter what, when I need a lift, or need to help others with that same spirit, I still give them the URL for the two fractivist videos that Peter filmed, with Bethany and others, in his home, inviting us all in with him. I hear that voice, the music, the urging to stand and sing and link arms, and I begin to calm in that strength. It matters. Always.
This storm, even for dragons, will pass, and no matter what is beyond, know that you, Peter, will always be a part of me, because I will still have the music, the caring, urging voice to do 'right' and to carry on. Peace to you and to your family ... and always, love. It's what we've learned from you, like an old and very special friend. <3 (( ))
- Linell Connolly
I am a retired Black woman lawyer born in Oakland, CA in 1957. I grew up with you, singing along. Music healed my troubled childhood, filled with violence and severe poverty. I felt sorry for Puff and hammered in the morning. As a young adult, my friends married to the "Wedding Song" and I traveled widely always with "Leaving on a Jet Plane" echoing across the miles.
Although I merely enjoying PP&M songs as a child, as an adult I had a better appreciation of your continuing activism in the midst of war and civil upset in the world. As the post 9/11 world became more distorted, I purchased Songs of Conscience & Concern. I needed that music so badly. I shared "All mixed up" and "Don't Laugh at Me" with my childhood friend and his teacher daughter so he could take his guitar and share it with the 4th graders in her class. The CD played in my home and car providing solace as the world grew darker. I reminded everyone about the songs and the many means of protest. But by 2015, I realized that the nation was in trouble greater than in 2001. Your voice will remain in my ears, your songs in my heart as I navigate my way through these difficult times. leaving on a jet plane without knowing when I'll be back again.
- Bernadette Janet
Peter Yarrow is in his final days. I can’t begin to say how profoundly his music has touched my life and the lives of so many. The trio of Peter, Paul, and Mary not only brought joy and inspiration but has also been a powerful voice for justice, peace, and humanity.
Songs like “Blowin’ in the Wind” and “If I Had a Hammer” remain timeless reminders of the strength of community and the possibility of change when people unite. His music has been a guide for those who seek a kinder, more compassionate world.
His voice is a beautiful gift and has inspired generations. In 1981 or so I remember playing Blowing in the Wind at a nuclear arms protest on my college campus. My nephew was weaned on Puff the Magic Dragon as were many campers around campfires.
- Kathleen Murray
In 2013, our 4 year old grandson was suffering from an immune deficiency which required the cure of a stem cell transplant from a matching donor.. He did eventually find his match and the stem cell transplant was a complete success. He is a thriving teenager. It was during that search for a donor that Peter volunteered his time and talent. It was a Sunday morning in early spring of that year that we saw Peter appear on a news program and Peter said that he would be performing at a bookstore that afternoon in Maplewood, NJ. We ran down to the bookstore and as Peter walked in, I (Mark) grabbed his hand and said I need your help. Peter said speak to me after the event, which we did. We explained our grandson's condition and the quest for locating a donor match. Karen showed Peter a video of our grandson singing Puff. Peter asked how he could help and we brazenly asked if he could perhaps perform a benefit concert. Peter did not miss a beat and simply said, you set up the venue and I will be there. We secured the venue in Manhattan and in May 2013 Peter performed as promised to a very large crowd of our relatives and friends. Last year we had the opportunity to meet with Peter at a concert Peter and Bethany performed at the Town Crier in Beacon, NY. We reminded Peter of his generosity and how much it meant to us. We showed him pictures from that concert. He was indeed very touched when we told him that our grandson was fully cured and thriving. As life long fans of PP&M, nothing can compare emotionally to Peter's generosity of spirit. We will forever be grateful. We pray that his final passage be peaceful. With love and appreciation. Karen and Mark Lefkowitz
Dear Mr. Yarrow,
Thank you for your kindness and uplifting words when I assisted you at the Toggery in Telluride a few years back. I'll always remember your genuine warmth. It means so much to me.
Also, thank you for the music that created beautiful, decades old memories of singing to my young niece who could not get enough of that magic dragon.
️ Feel well soon ️
With Love,
Valarie from Virginia
I fell in Love with P,P&M, in 1962, I was 12. At 17, Peter invited me backstage, and for years after, I was welcomed by all of them! The music and honesty of the issues of the day, shaped my life in many ways; I became a teacher, in the inner city of Los Angeles, and I not only brought a humane teaching style to my students, but the music of P,P&M! "If I Had Wings " was one song I made sure my students knew! I wanted them to believe in themselves and know that they could "fly,"and achieve their dreams! Thank you Peter, for your kindness, compassion and selflessness. If not for your music and it's influence on me, who knows how my life would have turned out.
The painting I uploaded, was painted by my sister, I treasure it.
- Diana Samek
I met Peter by chance one morning several years ago while waiting for a plane at LaGuardia airport. I was at the gate a bit early, and closed my eyes to meditate, and when I opened them, I saw an elderly man walking down the corridor with a determined gait, and a guitar slung on his back. I said to myself: “ That’s Peter Yarrow, and there’s no one accompanying him.” He looked as if he was unsure about exactly where he should be to catch his flight. I went up to Peter and introduced myself as a longtime fan, and asked if I could be of some assistance. He was so thankful, kind, and gracious. As it turned out, we were on the same flight to Chicago, and he was going on after that to play at a rally in South Dakota, ever championing those in need.
When we got off the plane in Chicago, I saw as I passed his row that he was fast asleep. I gently woke him and explained that we had to deplane, and offered to get his guitar out of the overhead bin and carry it for him. “ Thank you, my friend” he said, and I thought I should be thanking him, for letting me be the wing man to my folk hero, for even a brief period of time.
- Gary Kaplan
I got my first Peter Paul and Mary album when I was 8 years old right when it came out I learned every song on it. A few years later I was in the studio video taping a social drama and Peter Paul and Mary were in the next studio they were recording Peter's you are what you eat and I ran over when they took a break and got a quick hug from everybody. Then a few years later I started going to the Kerrville folk festival and Peter was there almost every year I was for over a decade and I worked in the office doing triage and I got to see him interacting with everybody and he was especially kind and gentle with the kids and the kids did concerts and threadgill theater I will love and be grateful to him forever for being such a wonderful part of my life, and still my favorite music.
Blessings to you, dear Peter, and when the angels sing you to your rest, may you rejoice in being with all who have gone before .
- Cathy Gould
Oddly, while never having met you personally, Peter (Chris, and Mary Travers, yes), I've been blessed to see you on the Kerrville stage twice: 2001 with Paul and Mary, of course, but more memorably 2002, celebrating you 64th birthday (which I remember you claiming as your 62nd) and remembering/joking about Anne Feeney and "her hippie daughter is out there somewherr" (Amy Sue was off stage left on the dance beach), while having a raucous good time. I recently spoke with Stuart Vexler about you. You just make life fun. I saw a video of you during COVID, with Bethany and others singing, I think, We Shall Not Be Moved.
- David Trotter
Brother Peter, You were my childhood, and you were my daughter’s childhood. We are 60 & 35, and your songs were probably the first I heard, and followed suit with my daughter. We sang your songs in the bus on Field trips, we sang them at camp, and I always knew Puff was real.
I took my family and relatives to see the mighty three at Westbury Music Fair, many years ago, and I’m so glad I did. What a night!
Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for sharing your gifts with us…you’ve changed our lives, and hope we sufficiently let you know how much we loved you, and hope you felt it, and feel the love now. May your days be filled with beauty, friends, family, and so much love….Love Christine & Katie
Peter had an enormous influence on my life. I know I'm only one of millions. I was in high school when I went to my first concert. It was Peter, Paul and Mary. I was just learning to appreciate the Folk tradition and this is the music I've revered my whole life. A couple years later, in college I saw PP&M. After the show, Peter spoke to many of us who stayed after. He spoke of peace and the importance of educating ourselves and being active. I took it to heart. He autographed my draft card. I've been inspired by his legacy of peace, love and persistence. His music is a gift that will live forever. Go in peace, Peter. Thank you.
- Jim Hasenauer
My high school youth group sang so many of your sins. Then in high school, the choir i was in sang Puff. Fast forward a few years and I learned that Puff was inspired by the annual parade at Cornell of the dragon annually built by the architecture students. It was 1982 and I was studying at Cornell and so happy to see that parade. I also found a children's book of the song and read and sang it often for my children. Then I saw you perform at a concert in 2009 before the inauguration of Barack Obama. Was so fun to sing the songs. Just this past summer, I was in Alaska. In Haines there is a hammer museum. The driver of the town tour bus had never heard "If I had a hammer," so I played it for her. Many blessings and thanks for the music!
- Rebecca Myers
Dear Peter,
I have always loved your music over the years, but it has become even more meaningful to me in my later years. I was thrilled to see you and Bethany perform last December at Cafe Lena Saratoga. I also sent the live access to my brother and his wife so they could see your performance as well! Also, big fans of your amazing talent!
You were fabulous and we so enjoyed your stories as well as your songs! It meant so much to meet you after the show and give you our thanks for all the years of sharing your incredible talent with the world!!! You are truly a blessing to humanity and your legacy will be treasured for eternity We are all sending you healing prayers that all of our love that surrounds you will free you from pain and will fill you with joy in knowing that you have touched the hearts of millions of people throughout the world
I will be buying your children’s books to share this Christmas with all the children I know and donate as well to a Grassroots Reading Program for children in Albany, NY.
With Sincere Gratitude and Blessings to you,
Joanne Richards
Peter, I am sending you huge love and gratitude. My mom and Dad, Midge & Syd Weiss, were organizers. In fact, my dad was a political cartoonist and drew political cartoons during WWII, the Korean & Vietnam wars. They met in the early 50's at a rally for "integration" and equity in NYC. I remember growing up in our house to your music... especially singing about the 1915 organizer, Joe Hill, who was killed for organizing. "I dreamt I saw Joe Hill last night; alive as you and me. Said I to Joe, 'you're ten years dead'. "I didn't die' cried he. I didn't die cried he." Peter your protest songs, Joe Hill, If I had a Hammer... and, of course your love songs... Don't Think Twice & of course, Leaving on a Jet Plane. What a gift for our world. Powerful, Beautiful, Touching! Thank you!!!! Love & more love! Jody
I will always be grateful for the help Peter has given me with my music. Back when I was starting as a nobody, Peter first assisted me with getting a song published that was later recorded by Mary McCaslin. He welcomed me onto the stage at the Harry Chapin Memorial Concert at Cornell University to join me on a song I had written for Harry, and later sang a duet with me on my first record. For someone of his stature to be so generous to an unknown artist is truly remarkable. Wishing the best for Peter & family.
- Mark Rust.
How can you thank someone who has been one of the best parts of your life since you were a child? Long before Peter was a neighbor, I grew up with PP&M songs as part of the soundtrack of my life. I remember the day that Miss Toone, my high school Creative Writing teacher, basically suspended class and played the entire first PP&M LP for us. After that, it was a different world. Finishing my schooling, I went and hid out from the real world in a little, almost unknown Rocky Mountain town in Colorado, Telluride. t was such a delight when Peter moved to town and continued to spread music, his smile, and optimism to the rest of the world. Thank you Peter, for a lifetime of music and happiness. Many blessing to you from me and from all your friends.
- Jim Bedford
Peter Paul and Mary provided an opportunity to listen to great music as a family. I attended many Carnegie Hall concerts with my mother, father and brother. And Peter and the group inspired a young teenager to make social and political commitments. All of this continued when I attended Peter's first solo concert at Carnegie Hall. And my first real "date" was to a PPM concert, again at Carnegie Hall. Such excitement sharing this great music and activism with a girlfriend! It all came full circle when I was able to bring my own family to see Peter at The Kennedy Center Millennium Stage. Thank you Peter for the joy you brought to my life. I hope this note can share some of that joy with you.
- Mark Shugoll
I am so grateful to have an opportunity to express the way that Peter Yarrow's music has, my whole life, held me and delighted me, given me words to cry by, and to grow with. For a young child whose experience was marked by chaos and absence, the music offered me a harbor - comfort, coherence, beauty, and pathways for imagination. 500 miles seemed exactly the distance my peace-loving father had to go to serve at an Air Force base so he wouldn't have to go to Vietnam, Leaving on a Jet Plane gave me a map of feelings for moving out of state away from that father when he came back from the base, and Puff of course, offered a story that never stopped inviting me to picture unreal worlds (likewise Stewball), and to mourn the loss of hope that absences would ever be made up. Decades later, I sang Puff to my own child every single night at bedtime for years. It is not just that the music was the soundtrack of an early life, a soundtrack I never grew out of - it is also that the voice of Peter Yarrow, through the miracle of recording, stood in for a father, particularly for a girl who would go on to be a writer - to cherish lyric, pattern, tone, as well as meaning. I loved, and still love, the constancy of the voice, and the goodness that pours through it. I could not thank him enough for marking the late 20th century in the United States the way that he has. And for marking my own little life - making it beyond bearable, making it joyful, interesting, and wonderful.
- Alexandra Chasin
Years ago , after Mary had passed, Peter and Noel Paul came to Baltimore to appear in concert at Symphony Hall. I had gone to every previous concert there and was determined to get a close orchestra seat this time...which I did ! I also decided to write a "fan" letter well in advance because ,as you get older, you want to be sure and thank people who have meant a lot in your life. After the break, it was either Peter or Noel who came out and QUOTED MY LETTER...the just of "we don't have fans, just friends" in the audience. I felt like standing up and saying "That was MY letter"...but , of course I didn't ! First saw PP&M at Muhlenberg College in Allentown Pa.(1963?) and followed them ever since...12 concerts I think from Massachusetts to Baltimore,even Mary solo and my son met Noel in Mt. Dora Florida. I can only reiterate that the musical and social awareness legacy is enormous and I wish Peter well, knowing that his contribution was immeasurable and will be treasured. Prayers for fortitude, Peter !
- Sally Kahn
I had the extreme pleasure and privilege of working with Peter several years ago in a show called Lonesome Traveler (yes that's how it was spelled). He is inspired and inspiring every night he gets onstage. He speaks with the wisdom and gravity of a generation that fought so hard to win human rights for all and now sees these rights slipping away while the younger generations hardly seem to notice or care. Peter's special. He's the real deal, a man on a mission, committed, in the moment, and I will always treasure the time I spent with him, on and off stage. I hope some of his mojo has rubbed off on me. Thank you Peter Yarrow.
- John Korba
Dearest Peter,
Our time spent together with Susan, Ralph and Mary Beth is a forever highlight of my life. You are inscribed in my heart and I will cherish our memories. Thank you for the Puff book that has now become a family treasure. You have inspired me my entire life and I will listen to your precious singing with all the love in my heart.
I will forever love you.
Janice Hill
I don't know Peter Yarrow the man, but his music has been pretty much the soundtrack of my life. One of my earliest memories is singing "If I Had a Hammer" with my big sister in our backyard. In high school, I pretty much knew every PP&M song and sang them often and harmonized with my guitar-playing friends. When I met my husband, one thing we had in common was our love for PP&M. I remember listening to them singing "We Shall Overcome" one beautiful evening at Wolf Trap and thinking that, at that moment, all was right with the world. On the day of Bill Clinton's inauguration, my husband and my young son and I were walking down the street in DC and heard a group singing PP&M songs up ahead. We got closer and it was actually them! Standing on a street corner singing and celebrating with everyone else! I've seen them numerous other times too and most recently had tickets to see them in Keene, NH a few weeks ago which, sadly, was cancelled. I'm so sorry to read of Peter's illness. But thank you for the beautiful music that has enriched so many people's lives and will continue to do so long into the future.
- Sally Caltrider
My son Jacob has been a fan of Peter Paul and Mary since a very young age- For his tenth birthday - front row seats to a Peter Paul and Mary concert in 2004-we have been so lucky to go to several concerts over the years and Peter has always shown such kindness to my children- All of you are in our thoughts and prayers
May the Holy Spirit send you strength and comfort and that our Lord and the Blessed Mother will be by your side with their everlasting love.
- Shayne Brannon
Dear Peter,
I wanted to send you a message to let you know how much the music of Peter, Paul, and Mary has always meant to me.
I got to meet you one time in 2010 at LaGuardia Airport. My wife and I were in NYC for our 20th anniversary. We did a lot of touristy things, but the highlight of my trip was seeing you.
I spotted you from the back as you were in line at a restaurant. I told my wife that Peter Yarrow was in line to get food but she thought I was pulling her leg. The previous day, I had told her I saw Dick Gregory in Times Square, but it was just an older Black man who bore a passing resemblance to him. But you sat down one table over from us, and then we knew it was you.
I was too star-struck to say anything to you so I wrote you a note and waited for you to finish your meal and gave you the note. You read the note and bowed toward me and blew a kiss to my wife and waved to both of us, as you went off to your gate.
Everyone in my family (including uncles and all the cousins) has heard me tell that story, because I thought it was so cool to meet Peter Yarrow!
The music of Peter, Paul, and Mary will live forever. And it is a blessing to all of those who have ever heard it and will be hearing it in the years to come.
Peace be with you.
Sincerely,
Gregory Hicks
Dear Peter, I've been thinking about you everyday and am recalling when I first moved out to Los angeles. I was fortunate to stay with you Mary Beth,and. the kids for a while to help out . I enjoyed driving around with you to different events, and was always in awe of your constant energy and ability to bring the best out of people for whatever cause you were trying to raise money or awareness for. People seemed to gravitate to that love and energy. It is a special power. I'm sending you that strength now as you keep the strength and unwavering love.Keep pushing on my friend! There will always be Puff and Jacky but to me you are the King of the muffin stuffins!! all my love to you!! Stay strong. Kenny Lehn
Peter Yarrow is a treasure in this troubled world. You have touched my heart as few others have done, with your music, your kindness, your service and your very being. Your music is the soundtrack of my life. Often moving me to tears with its poignancy. Always feeling like I’m experiencing true genius and the best that humankind can be. I had the privilege of attending several concerts by Peter, Paul and Mary. I have had the honor of meeting you several times, through your generous benefits in Portland, Oregon for Oregon Public Broadcasting and in Corvallis, Oregon for your house concerts for One Story at a Time. You treat each person you meet as a long-lost friend and radiate to them love and compassion. You make me want to be a better person, to strive for justice and to live life to its fullest.
- Yvonne Morse
Ten years ago when I was working at a radio station, I was tasked with interviewing Peter for an upcoming folk festival. I did my research, prepared my questions, and expected to have 5 or maybe 10 minutes to talk to him. Peter had other ideas. He wanted to talk. So I threw out my notes and we wound up having a long conversation about...everything. Near the end, he said "I feel like we're really brothers of the spirit." I went to the show a couple days later, met him, and he said "oh Jack! The interview!" and gave me a big hug. I didn't get a "selfie" or even a photo. I didn't need one. We were "brothers of the spirit." Thank you, Peter. Rest easy, my brother.
- Jack Mills
I was, as so many were in the '60s, a huge Peter, Paul, and Mary fan. When my husband and I finished our Peace Corps service in 1982, we came home and started our family with 3 children, and, so, my days of learning new songs were virtually over. I always tell people my knowledge of the music scene began and ended with Peter, Paul, and Mary.
In 2019, Peter played at a festival at the Beacon Sloop Club and invited everyone to come on stage to sing the old standards--Blowin' in the Wind, Leaving on a Jet Plane, etc. It was thrilling! Afterward, I went over to where Peter was sitting and introduced myself, saying that I regretted not being able to go to his talk at Roosevelt House at Hunter College a few years back because I had to teach that night; he asked what I taught, and I told him I taught Nursing at Hunter. With that, he took my hand and kissed it, remarking what a wonderful thing it was to teach Nursing.
The experience of a lifetime. A small gesture, for which I continue to be very grateful.
- Norma Hannigan
While traveling from a soul searching journey surfing and trying to find my self , i returned home to America though San Francisco airport .
I first saw your father in the rest room guarding this Old guitar case, a few minutes later, he sat down next to me at a counter at a deli in the airport.
I ordered a bagel with lox and a coffee , Your dad ordered the same,
We commented about how great the lox were and I had said to him, I hadn’t eaten it in a few years because I’ve been out of the country for a few years ,
He thought that was great , and asked me where i had been, just Lunch Counter small talk……
So then I ask him about his guitar and his really wore case ,, he loved it so much, i could tell so,,,We moved it between us so no one could bump into it.
Then ask him what he did, He said he was a folk singer,
I said,” oh like Peter, Paul and Mary?” He said yeah, “I’m Pete “
“ No Way “,, I replied, I then told him how much I loved that song Puff the magic Dragon.
And how it was and is my very first memory..
He was very interested to hear the story I told him,
I was just four years old on my swingset in the backyard of my house, singing puff the magic Dragon ,and waiting ,,,,
For my mom and dad to come home with my new little brother.
I said to him what an honor to meet you and How much I loved his song .
We talked about the song,, what it was about ,, and how the impact of writing a song could affect a little boy first memory and then meeting the little boy many many years later. You guys it was so so cool .
He told me he was heading to New York to see you guys and we both had to catch flights so I asked for the bill, And the waitress brought over the bill, two locks and bagels and two coffees!
We looked at each other and laughed and told her we weren’t together. It was a funny moment, Your dad grabbed it and bought my bagel and coffee
What a gentleman, I think, him and I could’ve been true friends....when I heard of his passing , I thought of that few moments of crossing paths with such a cool guy. I hope this silly story brings a smile to your face as it did to me remembering it.
Jeffrey J Carson
“That beardless, gleaming, child-hearted and stout friend of mine -who introduced things into the conversation and introduction that were never dreamed of much less imagined: the Groom at whose wedding I was Best Man: Peter Yarrow!”
This tribute to Peter as Paul introduced him on a live recording of “Wedding Song” I have relished for decades.
There’s something about Peter’s voice: it has a sweet mellow melancholy that perfectly complements his two partners. And his songs! “Light One Candle” and “Don’t Laugh at me” should be included in school’s curriculum.
Thank You Peter for your Call and Response both during concerts and when we returned home to open our ears and hearts to walk the walk of loving justice hand in hand with our neighbors.
- Marnie St.Clair
" A dragon lives forever, but not so for little girls and little boys . Painted wings and giants rings , make way for other toys. One grey night it happened, Jackie Paper came no more. So Puff that mighty dragon, he ceased his fearless roar. His head was bent in sorrow, green scales fell like rain. Puff no longer went to play along the cherry lane . Without his lifelong friend, Puff could not be brave. So, Puff that mighty dragon, sadly slipped into his cave. "
Where do I even begin ?! For 32 years, I felt like Peter Yarrow was my best friend. From the very moment I watched the 1993 PBS children's concert special Peter, Paul, and Mommy Too, I was hooked. Watching Peter, Paul, and Mary in that concert at the age of 5 was magical. The three voices harmonizing perfectly between them were beautiful and I instantly connected with all the children in the audience, who felt like my peers at such a young age. Puff The Magic Dragon was the very first song performed in that concert and little did I know at the time how much that song would change my life. I could go on forever talking just about Peter, Paul, and Mommy Too alone, but it was their genuine love for children that shone through the performance, their love for one another, and most of all, their comedic sense of timing and their ability to give kids a massive attack at the giggles, opened my heart to them and enchanted me. I knew nothing at the time about their history that went back to the 1960s and their political activism , or what folk music was even really about. All I knew was whether they were singing about a boy and a dragon, an old lady who swallowed a fly , or a little leaguer stuck playing right field because baseball can be so awkward when you're not great at it, I felt like I could relate to them, and I thought they were just an extension of the PHENOMENAL children's music market that is millennials had the privilege of exposure to in the early 90s , particularly thanks to Raffi Cavoukian of Baby Beluga fame, who would also have a sold out concert on Broadway that same year.
About 5 years later, I had moved from Fremont, California with my mother to Plantation, Florida and because we're Jewish , she enrolled me in Hebrew School at our local synagogue Temple Kol Ami Emanu - El and I quickly joined the Junior Choir because I loved to sing. While we were learning a bunch of Chanukah songs, we started to rehearse a song called Light One Candle which I was surprised to learn was written by Peter Yarrow , Peter of Peter, Paul, and Mary himself ! Then I discovered that Peter Yarrow was also Jewish like me ! I instantly fell in love with Light One Candle and would sing it every Chanukah for the rest of my life .
Years and decades went by, I got older as did my favorite Trio, but my love for them and my love for Peter never ceased. I started learning everything I could about PP&M , saw their earlier PBS concert specials that were more adult oriented albeit with some children's content included like their 1986 25th Anniversary Concert and their 1988 Holiday Concert, both of which included Light One Candle and of course Puff The Magic Dragon . I studied their history during the 60s, 70s, and 80s , and watched and listened to as much content and footage of The Trio as I possibly could. Albums, videos, books, you name it . But, I also learned that Peter Yarrow was more than just the founder Peter, Paul, and Mary, that was only the beginning. Because he was Jewish, Peter also began to perform with Debbie Friedman, an on the rise American Jewish folk artist as well who was also inspired by PP&M and self -taught herself the guitar to many of their songs, and as she began songleading at Jewish summer camps, she began to teach campers their music. Debbie Friedman would go on to record an astounding 23 albums in mostly religious Jewish music, but her folk style in combination of Hebrew and English lyrics and in melody became so popular that she would go on to sellout Carnegie Hall twice and would share several stages at Union For Reform Judaism ( URJ) Biennial Conventions with Peter Yarrow himself and together they would play both her songs and his songs . Lastly, because Peter, Paul, and Mommy Too was such a smashing success in the kids music genre, Peter Yarrow actually was connected with Raffi Cavoukian who visited Peter's apartment in New York City in the early 1990s for an environmental awareness event and later joined together to celebrate one of Pete Seeger's milestone birthdays. Yes, Noel Paul Stookey was the stand up comedian with the sound effects on stage and Mary Travers was the soul of Peter, Paul, and Mary. But, it was becoming clear that Peter Yarrow was the heart of PP&M and not only became the group's spokesman but also used his platform like Noel and Mary also later would venture into other projects in their own communities and beyond.
As I got older and eventually moved back to the San Francisco Bay Area to live with my father at 16 , my love for The Trio continued to grow ever stronger. But, there was a problem. Neither of my parents, in South Florida or the Bay Area never purchased tickets to allow me to see Peter, Paul, and Mary in concert. Either they were never in town, or my parents just never had the interest or the finances to make my dream come true. This would go on until September 16 , 2009 with the untimely passing of Mary Travers to acute mycological leukemia and complications of chemotherapy. I was stunned, I was floored, I was shook . I thought my dream had died and I would never get to see Peter or Noel in concert.
Then, when I least expected it, something marvelous began to happen. Noel Paul Stookey came to the Freight and Salvage Coffeehouse in Berkeley, California in March of 2017 and while he mostly played his own solo material, he did include a couple of Peter, Paul, and Mary classics such as If I Had A Hammer and Blowing In The Wind ! I was overwhelmed meeting Noel for the first time and I had so many stories to tell him as I began to collect autographs . That first concert opened the door, and in July of that same year, Peter Yarrow also came to the Freight to perform ! It was MAGICAL ! A never ending parade of PP&M songs, the ultimate moment was when Peter invited anyone who wanted to sing Puff The Magic Dragon onstage with him to come up. I couldn't run fast enough. It was AWESOME ! I shared so many memories of The Trio with Peter and took more photos and got more autographs. I even got to meet Peter's daughter Bethany Yarrow , who performed with him and I practically wept into her arms onstage after singing Puff . It was incredible.
2018 was an earth shattering year that opened the floodgates. After the absolute tragedy that struck Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida in the same school district in Broward County where I grew up, it didn't surprise me that Peter took a trip to Parkland to teach the students Blowing In The Wind and to help them write and record their own songs of political protest . He and Noel couldn't stop raving about them and my heart was warmed . Then , when I needed it most, a great miracle happened. Peter and Noel came back to do two concerts TOGETHER as a duo at Freight and Salvage Coffeehouse in Berkeley and FINALLY I got to experience a Peter, Paul (, and Mary ) concert ! The set list was a lifetime of dreams come true Puff , Light One Candle, Day Is Done , Weave Me The Sunshine, The Garden Song, Where Have All The Flowers Gone, Leaving On A Jet Plane where they paid the ultimate tribute to Mary because she always sang the lead on that song, Don't Laugh At Me and anti - bullying song written by Steve Seskin another Jewish folk artist who was also in attendance the The Trio had recorded, If I Had A Hammer, Blowing In The Wind , and many, many more ! I also was surprised to get to go backstage after the final concert and take a photo with them which I had Noel's daughter Liz Stookey Sunde take. I collected more autographs and finally got so many lifelong questions answered by both Peter and Noel. Noel told me that Mary would have been "pleased and proud" that I was still a fan at 30 years old . Peter kept raving about what a beautiful voice I had. I was overcome with emotion and it was one of the most magical 48 hours I had ever spent !
In 2019 , I would see Peter one more time . He was a guest performer at an off Broadway concert called Lonesome Traveler , a show about the history of folk music in America performed by mostly millennials ! Peter again invited me onstage to sing Puff with him and because it was the day after my birthday, he actually sang Happy Birthday to me and gave me a hug ! Priceless .
I again had tickets to see Peter and Noel in concert together at the Freight in March of 2020, before the coronavirus pandemic led to the cancellation of those concerts and the slow beginning of the end. The concerts were never rescheduled and Peter and Noel would not tour again for another couple more years . Then , a glimmer of hope remained when Peter and Noel announced one last concert at the Harris Center For The Performing Arts in Folsom, California and of course I immediately got tickets. But, the election of 2024 had deadly consequences . Little did I know that Peter had secretly been diagnosed with bladder cancer in 2020 and had been battling for 4 years. The concert in Folsom was cancelled and very soon Peter would enter hospice care.
January 7, 2025 would have been the saddest day of my life if not for the fact that my beloved Miami Heat were playing the Golden State Warriors at Chase Center in San Francisco and would go on to beat the Warriors 114 - 98 . Perhaps it was the spirit of Peter Yarrow telling me " And if you take my hand my son, all will be well when the day is done . "
I cannot imagine a life without Peter Yarrow . He was not by any means a saint and had his share of sin, but his goodness radiated through all of us and his ultimate humanity shown through, to kids and adults alike for generations and millions of people. There will never again be another one quite like him. And now with both Mary and Peter gone , it is all up to an 87 year old Noel Paul Stookey and more importantly to the rest of us, to preserve, protect, and defend the historical legacy of Peter, Paul, and Mary. I will miss Peter Yarrow more than words could ever say and I thank him from the bottom of my heart for a lifetime of memories, laughter, smiles , joy , healing, love , and caring. He was the hammer of justice, he was the bell of freedom. And he was the song about love between my brothers and my sisters all over this land. Rest in peace my friend. What a life ! And what a job well done !
Love forever,
Jonathan King - Hayward, California .
I first "met" Peter Yarrow by being a teenage fan of Peter, Paul and Mary, and could sing and play all their songs, and loved them and what they stood for. Many years later I learned of Peter's activism as he became friends with and a supporter of my father, Harris Wofford. A very special member was Peter coming to sing at the wedding celebration for my father and his newly wedded husband Matthew Charlton. Singing underneath a tent in Nantucket near our house at the ocean, he added joy and depth to the celebration. I know my father was deeply touched that Peter made the trip and valued the community gathered so much to be willing to come and sing. Thank you Peter for your music which has filled my life since early days, and thank you on behalf of my father for your support for service in so many different forms.
- Susanne Wolford
Dear Peter,
I suppose much of what I want to say cannot be said or it's been said better by so many others. I stand with so many whose lives you have touched but have never actually met.
Your songs resonated deeply within me from my time as a young girl,when puff is a magic dragon and I'd run around the house singing it. But with great fervor I picked up other songs. And yes, some concerts and yes what we lovingly call the b-side songs are probably more my favorites.
Okay, I watched as you and Mary and Noel lived a faith and commitment that I wanted to have too. To sing for those who had no voice. To speak truth to power. To listen to people's stories and share them with others. That justice may be done and all God's people, yes, all God's people, can live together as one family.
So thank you. For so much. As youmake your way home, you know Mary is waiting to greet you and so many others of your friends. This time of transition I pray be smooth and as painless as God will allow it. Well done good and faithful servant. Well done my brother. Well done my mentor I have yet to meet.
May the Angels welcome you to Paradise. May the martyrs come to escort you to the holy city. The new and eternal Jerusalem.
- Mary Dumm
Dear sweet Peter.
I am so blessed to have personally met you and spent time with you backstage at Wolf Trap In Virginia, Andand The after show late dinners that you so graciously hosted for your friends. It is definitely a highlight of my life to have sung with you on the millennial stage at the Kennedy Center as well as on Capitol Hill while you were promoting the don’t laugh at me program. I was proud to be able to help you on behalf of NASSP. I also remember when Beverly Baughman and I accompanied you to the Met for an Opera and then later out to dinner. It was nice to have an intimate family dinner with you, Bethany, and Mary Beth at a neighborhood Italian restaurant. So many memories ! Peter , you have touched my life and millions of other people as well with your passion, fight for justice, educating our children to not bully. And your wonderful music . Sending you me much love!
Beverly Coney
I met PPM in when I was 5 years old, in 1978, at Tanglewood. My mother was a big fan, so she walked me to the stage after the show and Peter held me in his arms and sang a bit of the Marvelous Toy to me. Years later, I called pbs to during a telethon and was fortunate to speak with him again. I told him how my young children were now enjoying their. A third generation of fans.In 2017, I saw Peter and Paul at the Cabot Theater in Beverly, MA. After a wonderful show, we went back to our hotel and bumped into them in the lobby! Peter sat with us, took photos and even sang a few lines for me from The Marvelous Toy for a full circle moment! I love you, Peter. I am praying for you and will be forever grateful for your music, kindness and joy. Thank you. You have woven us the sunshine.
- Leigh Sasen
When I first laid eyes on Peter in the green room, I was frozen in my place. He walked over to me and said, "Hello, I am Uncle Peter, what's your name"? I managed to get my name to leave my mouth and croaked, I am Millie Davis and I am singing a song today". I have been a Hospice RN casemanager for 25 years. But have been playing guitar and singing my whole life. I am sad to learn that Peter Yarrow is nearing the end of his. He, the talented songwriter who wrote the classic song, Puff the Magic Dragon. This photo was taken 10 years ago after Robert Zucker gave me an amazing opportunity to open Peter's concert in Higley AZ in it's beautiful auditorium. Bob requested that I play the song, Hallelujah and I was thrilled, but nervous. My dear, now deceased friend, Al Catarino, agreed to do some lead work with me on that stage, to calm my nerves. After it was done, Peter hugged me so tightly, spilled his coffee on me, and to my delight, told me that it was the best rendition he'd ever heard. My words were, "Wow, ok, I can die now." I will never forget that feeling. Wow, I floated off the ground for a long time. What a kind man! We talked about world peace among other things. I am really sad to hear that he is leaving us.
- Millie Gollinger Davis
I was lucky enough to be born in 1960 so grew up through the best decades in music, and you were a big part of that. In 1980 my college roommate and I were lucky enough to budget for and score tickets to your concert at the Strand in Pittsburgh and it was, in every way possible, the best concert I have ever attended. You guys made it a shared experience. It was not a passive sit back and be entertained night. When the mike was held out to the audience while we sang the chorus of Puff and the three of you quietly listened I felt a bond with strangers that I have never felt before or since, and we need that in the world. You inspired us that night. Inspired us to create that feeling of love and acceptance for as many others as we can. I lost her to cancer a few years back, in fact I am the only one left out of the four of us who lived, loved, and laughed together at college, but I carry the hopes and dreams your songs and performances inspired in all of us. I will never touch the world the way you have, but you taught me that that is ok, as long as I stretch out my arms and accept and love those that I can. Thank you. Thank you for being a part of my life, and the lives of my children as they grew up listening to your records and hearing their mother sing your songs. Thank you for being who you are and without even realizing it, making me the woman I am.
Hi Peter,
I'm writing to you from a hotel room here in "The Villages" near Orlando, FL...I'm in the current configuration of The Kingston Trio, we just played Key West yesterday -- attaching a photo of a very fine rooster I made friends with outside a little Cuban cafe we had lunch at before flying to Orlando -- and I just heard that you were in hospice care.
I've got this job because my parents gave up their Peter, Paul & Mary, Kingston Trio and Limeliters albums to my "education" and eventual job as a picker and harmony-singer, something I can attribute directly to sitting in front of the record player and going over the individual parts for Samson & Delilah over and over and over...and OVER.
In other words, I'm here largely because of you.
The second photo I'm attaching is of the nasty motel staircase up which I had to lug my bags and instruments -- TO THE THIRD FLOOR u-- sbmitted, you know, just in case you have any actual *regrets* about not being on the road presently ;)
I wish I'd had a chance to sing with you (other than on vinyl). I have so much I want to tell you, and you have SO many other messages to get to, so I will sign off wishing you all the love, comfort and peace I've gotten from silently joining voices with you whenever I needed to fill up the tank.
Love,
Buddy Woodward,
The Kingston Trio
Braver Angels held a Board retreat at Eastern Mennonite University in Harrisonburg, Virginia in June 2017. I was taking a class at the Summer Peacebuilding Institute. Peter came to perform and share about Braver Angels. I raised my hand and shared that what they were doing with political discord, the organization I work for, Coming to the Table (www.comingtothetable.org) is doing for racial healing. You'll see in this video how he reached out and hugged me... which was about 30 years since the first time we hugged after a Peter, Paul & Mary concert in Oregon. My blessings to you always, Peter, for the joy and inspiration you've brought to my life and to so many others... and also for the hugs...
- Tom DeWolf
Hi Peter, this is Heather Ford from Trenton, Maine. I grew up listening to you on the albums my parents had. We had no radio in the first few cars we owned as kids so my dad taught us Bamboo and Puff, and all the songs from the records. Then when we knew the melody he would take some harmonies, usually yours because he was a tenor. When we got older, all three of us would take a part. So many wonderful memories of your voice and my dad’s together for hours in the car. I stuttered as a child except when I was singing, and I am so thankful for the musical ear training and breath control I learned to stop stuttering. I am now a singer and have had the opportunity to sing with Noel a few times. Unfortunately, I have never had the privilege of meeting you. Your clear perfect pitch tenor voice is in my mind and soul forever. Thank you for the music Paul. Say hi to Gary Hill in heaven, he knows all the songs! Thanks for enriching my life. Your forever friend in Music, Heather Hill Ford.
Hi, Peter!
It’s been more than 55 years since we first met. You were walking alone on the street of Ginza in Tokyo. I found you and bravely said hello and you were so friendly and asked me to find an antique shop. A superstar was walking alone looking for some woodblock prints for Mary!
Since then we got together whenever PPM came to Tokyo to have concerts. I met Marybeth when she was pregnant of Bethany. Bethany came to Tokyo when she was 9 or 10 year-old?who used to be crazy for electronics games. Christopher and I went to Kamakura, one our trip from Tokyo, to see the big Buddha. These were precious moments of my life.
I learned a lot from Peter and Mary. They were my heroes. And still are they.
Love you Peter. Thank you for your friendship. I miss you. We will cherish your songs and voice forever.
- Mari Sugimoto
Peter was the featured speaker at the American Association of Family and Consumer Sciences in Dallas Texas. As the entrepreneur of Learning ZoneXpress I sponsored Peter to speak. I went to the Avis car rental and said I have a VIP to chauffeur and the agent said WHO is your special guest. Peter Yarrow.
The agent was so excited as he had been on the Selma Bridge with Peter, Paul and Mary, March 1965 for the Selma Protest and Bloody Sunday where non-violent activists highlighted racial injustice. March 15,
Lyndon B Johnson asked lawmakers to pass the Voting Rights Amendment of 1965. Thank you Peter for all you have done for racial justice!
- Melanie Nelson
Dear Peter~
We listened to all your music growing up. Such a beautiful lesson in consciousness and caring... the best voices, the most perfect harmonies. There has been no one like you since.
When my youngest son Nicky was very small, he had to use a nebulizer for asthma, and we called it "Puff".
But the memory that stays with me most, was after the death of my beloved youngest brother, Sam in 2012. In 4 months, pancreatic cancer took him at 45... in his last days as I drove to and from the hospital, your music was my soundtrack... to my loss, to his death, to my deep love for my brother.
You and Paul's son played a small venue near our home in Massachusetts later that year, and my husband brought me. You called people to the stage to sing Puff with you, and I was standing next to you and told you of how much your music and voice were a part of saying goodbye to my brother Sam. You hugged me and said something so kind, and we all sang the music to that beloved song and it was one of the most piercingly beautiful moments in my memory. Thank you for that. I have a photo of it somewhere.
During these political times, I have often wished that you and Paul and Mary were together singing about it, joining us all in song and opening our hearts in the ways I remember from growing up in the 60s.
I wish you every blessing on your journey and peace in these last days. You touched so many and you surely touched me and I am grateful. I hope you read all of these loving words and that it nourishes you for the journey ahead.
With so much love, lisa
I was inspired to learn the guitar the first time I heard PP&M in concert when I was in high school. I was inspired to use my talents to help promote causes because of your passion, Peter. For many, many years I have performed music that I am passionate about and has a good message. At 74 I am still performing mini concerts in senior citizen facilities where one of the most popular songs is “Puff”.
Peter, you and Noel and Mary helped me find a purpose and begin a positive journey. We have met many times—you would recognize my face but not my name probably. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Love to you and your family.
- Jim Kirkendall
As I was born in 1961, my memories of the very early Peter, Paul & Mary are, to say the least, minimal. By my pre-school years, with my mom in charge of the record player, I knew all of your music, and very proudly sung them out LOUD for everyone within hearing distance. While, as a child I didn’t understand the causes or the meaning behind the lyrics, the beauty of them was undeniable, even to a child.
As an adult, I fell in love with your music all over again, this time understanding the meaning of the lyrics. I was very lucky to gain control of the tape deck / cd player at my home, and my daughter grew up loving PP&M. In the early 90’s, I was able to take her to a PP&M concert, and for a long time afterward, kept only y’all playing in the car as we drove. Even now, if the word “puff” comes up in any conversation, my almost 40-yo daughter will break out into Puff the Magic Dragon.
In 2016, I was able to snag front row tickets to take my mother to see Peter and Noel in Galveston, Texas, and was thrilled to be the one in the audience that Peter lightly flirted with. The light bow and blown kiss my way at the end of the concert brings a smile to me any time I think of you.
As you’ve taught us, dragons live forever, but not so little boys. But that is in the physical sense only. You will still be with us, sharing your music. Many generations of us love your music, and will sing it with generations yet to come.
- Melody May
I only met Peter Yarrow once and it left a lasting impression. Pete Fornatale was my partner on a program called Mixed Bag Radio. Pete was a dear friend who opened so many doors and introduced me to so many wonderful people. One of our 200 sessions was with Peter, Paul and Mary. What a day! When Peter and I went to shake hands, he gave me a big hug, A BIG HUG. That moment and Peter’s kind words have stayed with me for all these years. I realize that hundreds, if not thousands, if not tens of thousands have been impacted in this memorable way, by this kind, talented and generous man. I’ve always wanted to thank him and now I have the chance. Thank you Peter for a lasting memory of kindness and love! When your time on earth is done, there will be two Peters waiting for you at the pearly gates! Yarrow will be greeted by Saint Peter and Peter Fornatale … give them both a BIG HUG!
- Chris Hall
Peter Yarrow, Mary Travers, and Noel Paul Stookey have been my heroes since they hit the music scene in the early sixties. I first saw them in concert in Portland, Oregon, in 1968, while they were also in town campaigning for Eugene McCarthy. Since then, I have seen Peter. and or P, P&M approximately 45 times throughout the country. I also have my tickets for the upcoming concert at the Cerritos Performing Arts Center in California. Besides his music, I have been inspired by Peter's example of activism and humanity. My life continues to be influenced in many ways by P,P&M. Thank you, Peter, for all you have done for me, and for so many people and causes around the world. May God comfort and sustain you at this time.
Thom M. Armstrong. Ph.D.
Claremont, California
Spook Handy
Dec 09, 2024
No! Some say grace teaches the heart to fear. I’m not so sure. I’ve also heard grace has taught the heart to sing. And that brings us back to Peter Yarrow.
Peter Yarrow – of Peter of Peter Paul & Mary - and my mom never met in person. But his music touched her. My response to his music also had a profound effect on her. Here’s what happened:
Barry Gruber, Spook Handy, Peter Yarrow, Bethany Yarrow, Pete Seeger - Riverside Church, Manhattan, NY - Aug 6, 2005. photo by SuZen
SCARED BUT OPEN
My mom tried to be open-minded but was scared of the social changes of the 1960s. They were quite the opposite of what we experience today. Back then, we were expanding our freedoms, learning to respect women, and gradually granting more rights to people who weren’t straight white men of financial means. These changes were the next natural step in realizing the promise of the American Ideal.
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THE BEATLES
But, for a lot of people, these changes were scary. For a while, my mom was still open to them. She sat with my siblings to watch the Beatles on the Ed Sullivan Show on February 9, 1964. She didn’t know what to make of my jumping up and down, running from room to room, doing somersaults and home-plate slides on the carpet, and singing – yelling - at the top of my lungs throughout their performance.
But she still took us kids to the Beatles’ movie, “A Hard Day’s Night.” It was one of only three movies I ever saw in a theater with my mother. The two others were Mary Poppins and the first Star Wars. I fell asleep during Star Wars. But I remained fully alert during the two musicals.
PETER PAUL & MARY
Soon, my mom bought two contemporary record albums: One was the 1964 Beatles album, “A Hard Day’s Night.” The other was Peter Paul & Mary’s 1962 debut record. It was named after the trio, using the older spelling (without the ampersand and with the comma): “Peter, Paul and Mary.”
So, at a young age, I was singing “Can’t Buy Me Love,” “A Hard Day’s Night,” “I Should Have Known Better,” and “I’m Happy Just to Dance with You” as well as “500 Miles,” “This Train,” “Where Have All the Flowers Gone?” and, of course, “If I Had a Hammer.” These two albums and groups shaped my music more than any others.
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THE CONCRETE CRUMBLES!
The foundation of my mom’s openness came crumbling down on the day of my first “Holy Communion.” It was a big deal for a little Catholic boy to receive the “Holy Eucharist” for the first time. Like most families, mine had a big party. My mom invited everybody: My grandfolks; my aunts, uncles and cousins; our neighbors; their aunts, uncles and cousins; and their neighbors. I mean everybody. People I didn’t even know.
There I was in my white suit. My hair crew cut. My eyes beaming. My smile gleaming. My heart full of purity and joy. My mom, recognizing the festivity of the celebration, put on the Peter, Paul and Mary record. When the upbeat “This Train” came on, I ran to the center of the living room and started doing the Locomotion – or something vaguely resembling it. I hugged my mother through the entire melancholy “It’s Raining.” By the time “Lemon Tree” came on, I was exhausted and practically fell asleep on the couch.
HELL BREAKS LOOSE!
The next song was “If I Had a Hammer.” Like a teen who has eaten all he can eat, but then finds more room when the chocolate brownies come out, I suddenly found an endless reservoir of energy. In less than the two-minute and ten-second duration of the song, I darted out of the room, dashed down the stairs into the basement, ripped open the door to the tool cabinet, grabbed the hammer, sprinted back upstairs and proceeded to indelibly whack the coffee table.
Aunts froze mid-gossip. Uncles froze mid-hors-d’oeuver. My grandmother was aghast. My grandfather looked up from the sports page. Cousins searched the room for other whacking tools so they could join the fun. But, I probably got in only seven good whacks before I felt myself getting whacked back. My mom was, understandably, infuriated. She grabbed me by the ear, marched me out the door, into the car, and back to church, where I had a one-on-one audience with the monsignor.
After ten “Our Fathers,” six “Hail Marys” and feeling very very sorry for my sins, my mom drove us home to an empty house. Peter Paul & Mary were never heard again under our roof. Nor were the Beatles or any other record more modern than Johnny Mathis – except for the ones my brother snuck in, but that’s a story for another time. My mom’s fears were confirmed. She learned that rock n’ roll really is a dangerous influence on young kids.
BUT THE SEED WAS PLANTED
Twenty-something years later, I played my first professional concert. It consisted of songs by Peter Paul & Mary, the Beatles, and Me. The PPM songs went over better than the Beatles songs and I was soon labeled a “folk artist.’
I didn’t begin understanding what “folk music” is until I met Pete Seeger in 2003. But I met Peter Yarrow two years earlier at the Kerrville Folk Music Festival where I was invited by “Paul” (Noel) to play a special concert. I spent the week hanging out with Peter and Paul. They are two wonderful, wise, generous people. Role models for any musician or any conscientious citizen.
I subsequently performed a bunch of times with Peter. I haven’t gotten around to counting, but it’s somewhere between 5 and 10. We first sang together with Pete Seeger in 2005 at the Riverside Church in Manhattan. And what did we sing? “If I Had a Hammer.” Peter uses a photo from that concert as his banner on his Facebook page.
He invited me on stage at the Lincoln Center tribute to Pete Seeger in 2014. We were even booked to play a “double bill” in 2020. And I filled in for him once at a festival when he had a bad cold.
No. Peter wasn’t the guy who filled my mom’s heart with fear. Nor am I sure I am to blame. The music of Peter Yarrow and Peter Paul & Mary is an unapologetic mix of incredible energy, optimism, joy, faith, hope, and love. How could that ever fill anybody’s heart with fear?
Today, I am concerned that most of America has lost its bearings. Only 31.5% or so of eligible voters voted to preserve democracy. After four years of working to repair damaged guardrails, we are now on track to remove many of the remaining ones possibly for generations to come.
Peter Yarrow’s and PPM’s music rings with harmony, humanity, and decency. And as the photographer Robert Corwin told me, “Peter (and Noel) don’t just sing and go home.” They have dedicated their lives to living, sharing, and bolstering the values they sing about. I recommend any parent, teacher, or other mentor of children to consider exposing as many children as possible to the music, message, and work of Peter Yarrow.
Do that, and you’ll be helping to…
Keep the Flame Alive!
Dear Peter, wonderful fellow Tellurider, My first experience hearing you sing and play music was when I was a bright-eyed little child listening to you, as Peter, Paul and Mary! My mom had gotten me the delightful record album, "Peter, Paul and Mommy" and oh how I loved "Puff the Magic Dragon", and still do! My sweet memory is of listening and singing along while I propped up the opened album cover in front of me and bent it back and forth to make the photo of the three young children on the cover "dance" while I listened and sang! (I thought they were so cute and lucky!) ...Many years later, my husband-to-be and I were invited to a neighbor's holiday party where you were there as a guest, too! We shared with you in our excitement we were to be married soon in February and how we'd selected Paul's "Wedding Song" to be played at our wedding ceremony! You gave us a very special, cherished, personalized honor and asked the party hosts if they had a guitar. They did and you played and sang "Wedding Song" to us! We were ecstatic and deeply touched, awed by your kindness, and it seemed to us, an understanding of how much the song meant for us. Your gift of singing for us elevated our feelings of love as high as the snow covered mountains all around us! It was sheer exciting fun, and it truly was absolute divine enchantment for us! I'm speaking for both myself and for my beloved, late husband, Tim, your warmth, unique talents, softness and strength given to us from the open kindness of your beautiful heart has been an absolute treasure in this precious life. Thank you, Peter. Sending you a bear hug and Love, Amy Cannon
As a child I suffered with chronic ear infections. My mother would play Peter, Paul, and Mary albums for me and let me just try to lose myself in your beautiful harmonies. It helped. It also made me more aware of what was going on in the world as it was not just marvelous little toy I heard but leaving on a jet plane leading to discussions of Vietnam. I was four to six years old, Dad was in the Navy, and at sea much of that time. You helped instill a sense of the world will be okay as long as you and all of our folk singing family were making their voices heard. I sang your songs later in my teens to the children in the daycare where I worked hoping to pass on your wisdom, care, and joy. On behalf of my mother and myself we wish to thank you for your time, your words, and your music. You are loved.
I met Peter after a Peter Paul and Mary concert back in 1963 at Illinois State University. It was so special because I hung out with them in the parking lot waiting for Peter who was late so I got to talk with Paul Stookey and see Mary and her boyfriend xxxx’ing! Haha! Finally Peter came out and said a few kind words as well. I was so blown away as a freshman and new to college and folk music and just want to add that their made my musical direction. I formed a trio at ISU called the Innsiders who became the most popular folk group around. We moved up to Chicago area and did numerous coffee houses, TV shows and big private engagements. I want to thank Peter for his beautiful gifts of music and humor and bless him with prayers for good health. It was such a wonderful experience to see an meet him and PPM. It changed my life!! God Bless!
- Richard Robertson
I am 61 years old and I grew up listening to Peter, Paul and Mary. I was also fortunate enough to see them in concert many times over the years. Peter seemed like such a gentle and beautiful soul. Peter’s legacy will live on for generations. One of my favorite songs that Peter wrote is Light One Candle. It is so appropriate now:
“ What is the memory that's valued so highly
That we keep it alive in that flame?
What's the commitment to those who have died
That we cry out they've not died in vain?
We have come this far always believing
That justice would somehow prevail
This is the burden, this is the promise
This is why we will not fail!”
- Steve Vellines
We grew up knowing Peter as a good friend of our parents. Through activism, politics and music he was connected with us and always so warm and kind when we were children and as we grew. He always brought positive energy, love and his guitar to our holiday parties (and really every time we saw him)! But it was very recently when our father Alan was dying of his own cancer that Peter showed the true heart and soul that made him a dear friend for so many people. He offered to sing to our father while he was in hospice care and came to his hospital bed and put on a private concert. Our father had not opened his eyes in days but did that day, even briefly, for the first time, acknowledging his friend Peter was there and that his beautiful music was reaching his ears.
My father looked up to Peter in many ways as a role model, a partner in many projects through the years and a close friend. But it was this act that showed us who Peter is to his core. Someone who would do anything for his friends to bring them happiness, comfort and joy. Who always thinks of inspiring others through service and through his gift of music to the world.
Peters songs that day may have been the last words our father heard as he passed away very shortly after. If they were, we are happy and comforted knowing they were sung by his friend Peter Yarrow.
- Michael & Brian Handell
Dear dear Peter, I am so lucky to have met you through our friend, Sitara in Denver in 2017. You hugged me like a lifelong friend and I felt the most authentic, truest love from you. How could a complete stranger, let alone a wildly famous musician, be directing so much love at me? And to have dinner with you and your son after the concert and soak in more of your love? What a gift you are! You are pure love, Peter, and you left a major imprint on me! l will forever be in awe of the power and purity of your love and I strive to love others in your spirit! Gentle sails, Peter! Much love, Kristin Stewart
Dear Peter - When my daughter went through cancer, you did a private concert online for her, her husband and precious new baby. You sang your beautiful song “With Your Face To the Wind.” Your inspiring lyrics and words of encouragement meant so much to us. You gave us all strength. We now send the same back to you, Peter and those words….“With your face to the wind, I know you’ll be smiling again.”
Remember Peter you are an illuminating gift to us all. Your kind heart has brightened and lifted spirits of so many going through challenges and cancer. We send our heartfelt love and gratitude to you - for you are like the wind. You have fought the fight. Please be reassured that your incredible life and magical music has made you a winner and helped others stay strong even when they are up against the wind and life’s unknowns.
We see you smiling again. Your endless world of fans and friends send you hugs, gratitude and our deepest appreciation.
Much love always dearest Peter and thank you for your limitless kindness and caring.
Sincerely, Robyn
Dear Peter,
This is Aaron Shneyer, the director of Heartbeat, the Israeli-Palestinian youth music project. We first met years ago at the Sabreen studios where I got to witness you, Said Murad, and David Broza doing the highly abnormal and yet simply human act of creating music together. Your deep respect and affection for one another brought me great hope, and still does, and has served as a model for what we must continue creating -- opportunities for Israeli and Palestinian musicians to know each other and create together.
I also had the honor to share a stage with you multiple times, at Georgetown University and at the Seeds of Peace event in New York City. I'm so grateful for your consistent and unwavering presence and commitment to peacebuilding.
I want you to know that your work continues. Your light continues.
With love, hub, ahava, salaam, shalom,
Aaron
I first met Peter in the late 80s when I waitressed at a restaurant that he frequented in Telluride. He was always a PURE JOY to see, full of love and genuine tenderness. Being in my young 20s and far from home, I wasn't receiving that many loving hugs or heart-centered warmth from my ski bum community. I know that Peter was like this with everyone he came across, but he made me feel like I rightly deserved this singular attention from him...like I was the special recipient of his boundless love. A couple of decades later, I got to spend a little more time with him after lucking into giving his granddaughter Valentina ski lessons and getting to know Peter's whole family. That was when I realized that the warmth from Peter was as strong and unwavering as ever. Peter thank you for enriching ALL of our lives. I'm sure I'm not the only one that is trying to emulate your radiance.
- Angela Mallard
I am deeply saddened to read of Peter's battle with the evil cancer but hopeful that my story of my long (from afar) admiration and deep appreciation for the gifts he has shared with me and the whole world.
For me, it started in the mid 1960's with, I think, it was a PP&M TV appearance, singing "If I Had a Hammer" ... that led to album after album purchases. Then I taught myself to play guitar, got involved with "Folk Masses" in an Episcopal Church in Evanston, Illinois. I started introducing more secular music to the staid congregation, and somewhere around 1970-ish (?) the Rector sent me to Atlanta where Peter was leading a workshop in audience (congregation) participation singing. He was magnificent, as always ... so inspiring, so genuine, so humble ... I feel myself back there as if it were happening just in this moment! Fast forward to about 1991/1992 - Peter was one of the judges at the Napa Valley Emerging Songwriters Contest, where my wife had submitted two songs and had been accepted to perform them. Peter was in the parking lot as we approached the entrance, and I asked him if he would sign my guitar, and he graciously did! A few years later all our musical equipment was stolen from our garage and sold at a Flea Market ... The most devastating loss, for me, was that guitar with his signature! Several years later, in Portland, Oregon, I heard an advertisement on an AM radio station that he would be performing that evening at his son, Christopher's store The Monkey and the Rat. (Mind you, I NEVER listen to AM radio - that was a 'fluke' but clearly a message from the universe that I would have another opportunity to reconnect. I was Over the Moon with excitement!!!) I took my 12string Taylor guitar to the event. I hung on every word, every note of every song he sang in the first half. Then, I held back, waiting, during intermission while Peter chatted with all the wonderful people there to hear him. Finally I was the last one there, holding my guitar. I mentioned that he had signed my first guitar several years back, in Napa, CA, and asked if he would sign this one for me as well. To my enormous surprise and joy, he not only offered to sign this one, but asked my permission to play it during the second half of the show!!! I thought my heart would BURST! I couldn't believe my good fortune! The next day, I actually took the guitar to work with me (I was working at Nike at the time), and I set it on a conference table where I was awaiting a meeting with someone I had never actually met before, but we were starting a joint effort on (? who remembers now :)! Steve Young was my colleague's name and when he walked into the conference room, of course he immediately noticed the guitar, looked at me, and said, "OH, that was YOUR guitar that Peter played last night!" What are the chances that we would both be at the concert and then meet the next day for the first time? So, that is my story ... I have performed so many of his and the group's songs over the years, both alone and with my singing partner. Additionally, I led a small group of teens and we did many, many of my favorites, including "Very Last Day", "Weave Me The Sunshine", "Because All Men Are Brothers", "The Hammer Song", "Puff" to be sure ... and many, many more ... Four of my most favorites are "Such is Love", "Music Speaks Louder than Words" "Light One Candle" and "The Great Mandella". I have long recognized and appreciated his (and Noel Paul & Mary's) commitment to Peace and Equality ... they are outstanding in a troubled world. I will miss him terribly, but comforted by the music which lives on in all our hearts. Sending prayers for comfort and peace from Eugene, OR, I remain one of his most dedicated fans, Pam Briggs ...
Dear Peter,
I bought my first Peter, Paul, and Mary album in 1961 when I was only 11! I attended my first PP&M concert in Chicago two years later and never missed another one for the decades that followed.
I wrote you a few years ago through your agent, thanking you for sharing your music that changed the way I wanted to live my life. You helped shape the advocacy that I practice today. Your gracious response to me will be treasured forever.
Warmest wishes and kindest thoughts to you on your soul's journey to Peace, Light, and Love.
- Michelle Wollert
Loved PP&M since I was in 5th grade and did a puppet show project to Puff the Magic Dragon. Mom took us to concerts in Milwaukee a few times, then I was an adult and went to concerts at Ravinia and in downtown Chicago. When Peter sang for an ERA rally in the 1970s in Chicago -- though it failed to inspire the legislature to ratify -- I was glad to hear him sing. When my husband took our son to the hot dog stand to get us some food while I held our place in the park, Peter was there at the stand -- and held my son while my husband got the condiments for the hot dogs. A kind act from a humble and compassionate man. My kids then went to a good number of concerts with us. Sending love for the memories, and for that moment of holding my then toddler.
- Jone Lewis
Don't let the light go out!
I have listened to the Trio for more than 60 years. Puff was no more than a baby lizard when I first fell in love with Mary (and then the Boys) and finally had a chance to see and hear in person some years ago. Since then, we travelled up and down Cailfornia any chance we could. Paid $100 per ticket once, then again and again, when $100 was a lot of money for a young couple.
A dear friend was President of the Cerritos Performing Arts Center when P,P&M were performing back-to-back nights a few years ago and she arranged for my late wife and I to attend the after show backstage event. We met. We talked. We got autographs and photos. Having stayed at the hotel near the center for the second performance, we bumped into to Noel and Mary the next morning. A treat for real fans who sang many a song around the campfires when our children were growing up. You made our lives richer and the world a better place, Peter! We love you, all three of you, and will be singing about flowers blowing in the wind for the rest of time!
Bob Williams
Costa Mesa, CA
I have always known Peter Yarrow, and he has always known me. I was 5 years old and very sick with Rubella and my mom set the record player next to my bed. He sang me to sleep. Then, a few years later, I began singing with him. He taught me how to harmonize. When I was an angry, too young to be a hippie teen, he introduced me to the inside of the music. I discovered the artistry of layering the power of music with the passion of lyrics. I learned to be a gentle warrior, a musical prize fighter, a singer of conscience. While my peers steeped themselves in electric sounds, I dwelled deeply in the art of acoustic poetry. Peter gave me that and I came to know is that I am folk music. In my 70 years I have been inspired to be ferociously peaceful, and I have learned to speak fluently the language of the quest for a noble humanity that is the essence of Peter's songs. Folk music has been my native langue, my way of life, even when nobody was singing, that to the mind, the heart and soul that Peter shared with me. And so, I know Peter Yarrow well, not because we ever met, but because I was his audience, one of the people he tried to reach. He did so with every song he wrote. Those songs told me who he was and who I wanted to be. I have listened to them all over and again, as I always will. I no longer need an electronic medium to hear them. They are me, and I have taught them to everyone I have ever known. Peter has sung with me my entire life and spoken to me in the language of living with purpose. I believe he did that for millions of people. What could be more important than that? Thank you, Peter for being one of my dearest teachers.
- Katherine Scotta
I am 60 years old and grew up on Peter, Paul and Mary's music. We introduced our children, now 26 and 24, to your wonderful music and had the privilege of taking them to see the tribute concert in Sarasota, FL after Mary passed away. We baked sugar cookies stamped with peace doves, and brought them to the concert. As usual, Peter graciously came out after the concert and met with the fans, staying until the last one left. My daughter handed him the gift box of cookies and surprisingly, Peter opened the box, commented on the beautiful peace doves on the cookies, and ate one! We were so touched at his trust and enthusiasm, and my daughter still remembers that moment when she "got to meet Mr. Peter!" Thank you for sharing your beautiful nature and character with the world, Peter. You have impacted the world more than you know. God bless you and your family.
- Sue Willingham
Dear Peter,
We've worked together several times, but I'm especially reminded of two memorable performances: a concert you did for us PP (pre-pandemic) here in Schenectady, that was especially memorable and fu, starting when I picked you up at Albany International Airport. You burst out of the terminal having lost your cellphone, but remarkably weren't worried at all about this. You just called for help and we proceeded to the hotel, talking all the way. You brought so much vibrant energy! Later we went on air at WMHT-fm Public Radio during their fund drive, where you gave away your newly published book on Peter, Paul & Mary to donors. The concert was warm and rich, and as always the music - and you - were magical. Your audiences always came to you like personal friends, as indeed they were - just didn't happen to know you.
The other was in the City (NYC) for SeegerFest, on which I was working with the Seeger family. It was a series of memorial concerts honoring Pete. You were part of a concert - at Lincoln Center Out of Doors, which also featured Harry Belafonte, Holly Near, Paul Winter Consort, a call taken onstage from Leonard Peltier by Tinya (Pete & Toshi's daughter), Judy Collins, Clearwater Sloop Singers, Tom Chapin and a line for tickets that stretched around the block. A capacity house on a beautiful Summer afternoon - an outpouring of love and soaring music, a one-of-a-kind event. You opened your apartment and provided food for Clearwater people, and I stopped up there with Robert Corwin, whom I'd recruited to photograph the concert. You are the soul of generosity and kindness, Peter.
I often think these days of how very lucky we all are to have landed somehow in this particular time, space, generation, community, to be surrounded by all this music with a conscience...the odds seem very much against it. You have been a guiding light, Peter, besides a delight to know a bit and work with. May your time continue to be blessed with family and friends, and thank you for your voice, for your vision, endurance, professional standards and - well, for dedicating your life's work to the real stuff. For being real. Bet you know what I mean.
With much love and admiration,
Margie Rosenkranz, The Eighth Step, Schenectady, NY
As a little kid (3 grades behind Peter) at PS 6, I knew you only by sight and general reputation. I became personally acquainted at an event for Harris Wofford some years ago and more so, after seeing you perform "Don't Laugh at Me," which resonated with the work I am doing at my NGO. Girding up my courage and going through Geri Critchley, I asked you to perform at our annual benefit and was delightfully surprised when you agreed. I was even more thrilled when we chatted and you were down-to-earth and warm. Thanks for being you-the wonderful work you do is inspiring and your way of interacting with others is a model. Stick around for a while. We can't afford to have you travel on.
Love, Phil Lilienthal
To Peter and family,
My fond memories go back along way- to the early
60’s. Actually earlier… I was in 1954 with folk music
playing in our home (Pete Seeger, Woody Guthrie, etc).
Then in the early 60’s my parents took me to a PPM
concert. That was it! I was forever hooked on their
beautiful harmonies! But more importantly,
their courage, compassion and activism in the name of
humanity.
Then in the late 80’s - after I had been songwriting,
singing and performing for a while my group was asked
to sing at a folk concert in Central Park. PPM was
the headlining act! After our set, you, Peter,
came up to me, put your arm on my shoulder
and told me I had a beautiful (tenor) voice, that you
enjoyed my songs and to “keep singing and never
give up!”
Your words of kindness will stay with me forever!
Everytime I watched your concerts on PBS and
your impassioned please for people to contribute
to PBS I had chills running up my arms and down my
spine.
I’ve been doing a folk radio show (The Hootenanny
Cafe Radio Show (now on Wtbq for almost 30
years. We’ve talked in the past about you coming on
but sadly that never happened.
To this day, and beyond, you, Peter Yarrow, will remain
as a true hero and icon in the name of
humanity and folk music! Long live Peter,
Paul and Mary!!!!!
Jon Stein
Hootenanny Cafe Radio Show
Wtbq
Petert, I was privilege rio attend your last California Concert last Spring. These pictures are from Peter and Pauls last California Concert, earlier this year, March 23rd at the Historic Golden State Theater in downtown Monterey. Marquee sign, poster and onstage shot with Steve Seskin signing, "Don't laugh at Me." Please accept my suggestion that the Tribute Page be for the Trio, Dick Kniss and Presto as well. Also, please write to there Kennedy Center Honors to nominate the Trio for inclusion in next years Honorees and there the Kennedy Center Committee do it ASAP and notify Peter in a timely but urgent matter.
Sincerely, Mike Pechner
Our most direct and personal connection with Peter dates to 1977 when Peter took an interest in helping my wife and I with our non-profit organization, The Fret Set, in which we organized free concerts in the L.A. area to nurture fretted instrument performers of every musical genre. We spent many a post-midnight hour seeking Peter’s sage advice on the telephone and exchanging information via his Malibu mailbox, culminating in him volunteering to host our finale concert featuring the Los Angeles Mandolin Orchestra plus four other acts ranging from folk and classical guitarists to a plugged-in blues band (see attached flyer). Peter contributed throughout, from the care and feeding of our needy sound system (which many will recognize as a Peter Yarrow specialty!) to performing a solo song prior to his introduction of each act … then lingering afterward to chat with our volunteers and pose for group photos.
To this I must add to the chorus of Peter’s influence as part of Peter Paul and Mary, whose concerts I never missed. Their music hit the airwaves and college hangout juke boxes just as I graduated from high school in 1962, compelling me to take up a lifelong love affair with 6- and 12-string guitar, with nearly half my repertoire comprised of PPM tunes. But wait, there’s so much more! Just prior to reporting for Air Force active duty in 1969 I played hooky from grad school to take an off-campus folk guitar class in which I met the fingerpicking sweetie that became my wife of 53 years as of this December 18. What brought her to the class? Well, her love of PPM of course! We went on to develop duet arrangements based on those illustrated in the invaluable book “Peter Paul and Mary Guitar”—arrangements which we have instilled in our children and now look forward to passing on to our late-arrival grandchildren, beginning with an upcoming “Puff” performance at their pre-school.
Finally, it happens that my goal for this year is to complete my book focused on the Sixties folk music scene in which I pay a more detailed tribute to PPM’s role in inspiring so many other fabulous folk musicians that have enriched our lives. Many an apple seed has taken root beneath the PPM tree—thank you for the profound way in which you have touched so many lives, Peter!
- Michael Lamb
I've known Peter for many years now, and my many moments with him are the honor of my life! Needless to say, I am sad that he is leaving us, but grateful for his amazing time in this realm, and so fortunate for me that our orbits have crossed so many times. My life is all the richer for those encounters. They include many times at The Kerrville Folk Festival, both in late night song circles and on main stage with Peter as his bass player. Needless to say, what greater thrill could there be than to be playing the iconic "Puff The Magic Dragon" with the legend himself!
But the teaching moment that most sticks in my memory and in my being is in 1981 when I put together a show, for which I'm extremely proud, at The Hollywood Bowl in Los Angeles called "Survival Sunday." It was to get out the message of the dangers of nuclear energy, particularly the further creation of nuclear power plants. My part was to put together a musical lineup that would fill
The Hollywood Bowl to its 18,000 capacity....and that I did. But along with the MUSIC was THE MESSAGE, so that after each act's 20 minute performance time, there would be several speakers, each with a 2 minute limit so that the show could end on time....which after 5 hours, it did! One of the amazing speakers was PETER YARROW. I had heard that Peter tended to talk for a long time (which it turns out is true, but only when it's his show and he has the flexibility to do it). So I, in my authoritative naiveté, went up to him, right before he went on, and dictated that he must keep his talk to 2 minutes or less. Understandably, with my abrupt delivery, Peter was upset and felt discounted (rightfully so in retrospect!)...and he let me know it! As it turned out, and as you might have already guessed, Peter spoke eloquently and succinctly, all within the 2 minute boundary. For a long time, I felt bad about my having discounted him so, but years later at The Kerrville Folk Festival, I recounted that moment from years before, made my amends, and Peter could not have been more gracious in his forgiveness. We became good friends, we've had many beautiful moments together both on stage and off, and he will remain one of my all time musical heroes.
So to YOU, PETER, I say goodbye, sweet journey to wherever it is we go when we pass on, and thank you so very much for your gifts over the years and the honor it has been for my soul to have been touched by your amazing energy, grace, music, and love. You deserve "a standing ovation, a celebration, for a job well done!" Enjoy the journey, my friend!
Peace,
FREEBO
I was raised listening to The Weavers, Pete Seeger, Joan Baez, and of course Peter, Paul and Mary. In my 53 years I have been fortunate to see PP&M live in concert many times; but nothing was more special than introducing my son, Jacob, to Puff the Magic Dragon and Peter Yarrow. In 2007 we (3 generations - my son, myself & my parents) attended an event at our local indie bookstore in Acton, MA for the release of "Puff the Magic Dragon" by Peter Yarrow, Lenny Lipton with paintings by Eric Puybaret. Peter Yarrow sang and engaged the young audience with his energy and enthusiasm. He pulled my then 6 year old son out of the audience and sang a chorus of "Puff the Magic Dragon" with him. The kid in the green shirt holding the plush Puff is Jacob. My mother could not have been more thrilled and from that moment forward insisted that Peter Yarrow had "chosen" her grandson; that Peter saw how clever Jacob was. It is a such a beautiful and special memory shared by all of us, but especially between grandson and grandparents.
A few years after that book store event, he gifted his grandparents his own drawing of "Puff the Magic Dragon" as inspired by that book. A testament to the love of magic dragons that will always live on. My family is just one of the many lives Peter Yarrow has touched with his gifts. We are sending wishes of peace and healing to Peter and his family!
- Rebecca Murphy
I learned to play guitar using PPM songbooks and learned to harmonize my music using them as a model. …but I could never sing Puff the Magic Dragon because it brought me to tears every single time I tried, the words just stuck like a big lump in my throat; such a moving and hopeful song that my heart felt too full, I guess. I saw the trio in concert several times and when Peter invited us all to sing Puff along with him, I could finally let it all out. Even from the audience, it was obvious that he is such a loving person. His music has touched me since I was in elementary school, thought me to love others, shown me how to love the earth, made me aware of injustices, taught me to make a difference, and shown me joy. Thank you, Paul. Peace and love to you!
- Patricia Duffle
My late husband, former Atlanta
Mayor Sam Massell, loved Peter like a brother. They were kindred spirits from way back in the civil rights days. When my husband Sam passed away, Peter got out of the hospital and recorded a video with a beautiful tribute to Sam and sang Where Have All The Flowers Gone. We got together with Peter every time he was in Atlanta, and have precious memories of his staying in our home. After Sam’s passing I spent an evening of dinner at The Leopard At Des Artistes, across the street from Peter’s apartment and reminiscing and toasting Sam. It was a special evening that meant a lot to me. I learned to love Peter through my husband Sam. Peter, I love you and send lots of prayers.
- Sandra Massell
Dear dear Yarrow family, I am a long time fan of Peter, Paul and Mary. My personal experiences with you started at a National Middle School Convention in Baltimore, Md. We teachers were thrilled and emotional that presentation. It was your 'Don't Laugh at Me' Intro. I then had the opportunity to attend and to come backstage with my friend-Jane Rosen who was a dear friend of Mary Travers at your concert at Lake Michigan College in Benton Harbor. We three rode over the next day to your Concert at Jackson Community College and because of Mary's appreciation, we were invited to partake in the wonderful salad you created Peter, though you weren't too happy with the ripeness of the avocado. The fellowship was warm and appreciated.
I live in Berrien Springs and the nearby Acorn Theater in Three Oaks hosted you and Bethany several times-I was in attendance each time. Such warm and wonderful memories because each time you greeted me like a long lost friend. All my love to you dear talented and loving human being and Love and understanding in the next days' journey. Rest and know you are loved and you leave love
Sincerely a retired teacher who loved her life in Education-Sauzette Pelton
Peter, Paul, and Mary were instrumental in helping me heal from my miscarriage. My husband is a pilot, so I was often home alone in my grief and found it hard to sit in silence.
Their music has such depth and genuineness, and was and is a safe and warm place for me. I listened to and sang along with 500 Miles a lot, and it helped heal my heart.
Thank you, Peter, for your beautiful and honest music, and the genuineness that you radiate. You helped soothe this mama’s heart, and I am grateful.
- Rachel Guerin
Dear Peter,
I cannot thank you enough for the grace, love and beauty you brought into my life. As a child of the 60s, I always knew and loved the music of Peter, Paul & Mary -- that is a given for all in my generation. I even remember taking a vinyl record to Germany with me to be able to play your songs while studying for six months abroad while in college.
But the impact of who YOU are in particular came later on two occasions that I can pinpoint to each day, because they were that important to me. On both of these occasions, I joined in with you as you brought your message of peace and love and caring for others to us in small, intimate settings.
The first was at the University of San Diego, where I spent my career, and accepted your invitation to join you and others on stage in the Institute for Peace & Justice to sing along during an education conference being held on 6/26/2002. The sense of community you created was so genuine, and it was certainly a feeling we are all missing now in our world.
The second time was on 10/19/2007 at the Barnes & Noble store in Encinitas, California where you led songs. My husband and I went and stood in the back of the Children’s section to join in with Puff the Magic Dragon. I have missed your visits to Rancho La Puerta with friends who work there, but I know that everyone truly reveres you there also.
Thank you for blessing my life with your music, your activism and all you have stood for. May you find peace.
With love and thanks always,
Linda Scales
Solana Beach, CA
First of all, I'd like to say something special to Peter's children, in particular, Bethany & Christopher.
I'm sorry, sorry that I only recently learned about your dad's passing.
But while nothing that I can say can ever fully take away the pain and grief that you both are going through, there is something uplifting that I'd like to tell both of you, from the bottom of my heart, that I think would have made your dad smile.
You make a difference in the world, and the world is a better place with you in it.
Never forget that, even as you both go through what is an extremely difficult time.
Now, on to my tribute.
I never got to meet your dad, in person.
But when I was 10 years old, I still can remember getting a cassette, a Peter, Paul, and Mary cassette, specifically.
One of the songs,that was on that tape, was, Early Mornin' Rain.
For some reason, I've always especially loved that version,featuring Paul,your dad, and Mary's voices.
In fact, it is at least in part, because of listening to that tape, so many years ago,that I'm the musician that I am these days.
I'm not sure what else that I can possibly say, but this much, I'm sure of. Your dad has left an amazing legacy that will live on, and coming from a totally blind person's perspective, I do believe that to be the most wonderful thing that makes any human unique, the human voice.
No humans voice is like any other, and really, the human voice is absolutely priceless.
I for one, am so happy to know, that your dad has been able to leave that legacy behind.
Personally, I've made an effort, especially after some difficult losses of my own, to try to capture voices, however that I possibly can, so that I can remember them, in the only way that I actually can do so, since pictures really don't help me so well.
Because we never do know, how long that we will have to spend, with any of them.
And each voice, is special.
I'm sure, that a picture may well be worth a thousand words.
But for me, at least, a picture is absolutely nothing,without the voice component.
And if that component is missing,then, I find pictures to be of little to no value, at least in my own life experience as someone who is so much into the auditory world,where sound is everything.
And so, I've specialized more in the audio world naturally, please don't ask me to create a stunning video, it wouldn't come out well!
But audio, that's something else entirely.
God has certainly blessed me with a talent in that area, including music.
As I said, each voice is unique.
There will never be another voice, like your dad's,on this planet.
And you both may be sure, along with Noel, that I will certainly continue to sing, and keep your dad's music alive, that way!
Noel , you make a difference in the world also, I've always wanted to tell you that, by the way.
So even if I can't do so in person, I figured that telling you so here, was the next best thing.
With much love to a one of a kind magic dragon who will never be forgotten, but especially to the rest of you, as well as all who made Peter's life so special, as well as to you two who I originally started out my heartfelt words to,
Keith
My Brother, Peter, I will always remember, carry and share your music and your messages of peace, social justice, respect, care and love. You were a beacon of light that lit up generations. Your music and lyrics has touched and transformed lives around the world. I am so fortunate to have shared part of your journey to build character education in schools around the world in support of a powerful anti-bullying curriculum, (Operation Respect), launched from the song “Don’t Laugh at Me”. I will always remember our first conversation on the phone after meeting you at your “Don’t Laugh at Me”presentation and appeal for support. “You are working with me know my brother.” Peace and love Peter.
- Mark Rice
For Peter
When I was about 11 I heard a strange sound coming from my older brother’s record player. I couldn’t tolerate the sound that I was hearing, like fingers on a chalk board. When I asked my brother who it was he said it was Bob Dylan singing.
Later that year my favorite song on the radio was by a group called Peter Paul and Mary and it was “Blowing in The Wind”. When my brother heard me listening to that song he asked me if I knew who wrote that song and I told him no and he informed me that it was written by the songwriter that I couldn’t stand to listen to, Bob Dylan. At my Bar Mitzvah one of my friends gave me two Peter Paul and Mary albums and I couldn’t stop listening to them. I loved every song on both albums “ In The Wind” and “ Peter Paul and Mary”.
At the young age of 14, I saw that Peter Paul and Mary were performing at Lincoln Center in NYC and I begged my parents to let me go. I would have to travel to Manhattan from Staten Island which is where I lived and they surprisingly said I could go. The concert started with the three of them singing together and then they did a few songs solo and I was struck with how entertaining they were besides the music. After that show I was obsessed with Folk music and once I started to listen to Dylan more, I fell in love with his singing and the way he delivered his own music.
I started playing music myself when I was about 4 years old, went to music school and started writing songs. After High School I started hanging out and performing in Greenwich Village at the church of Folk Music, Folk City. I wanted to perform at the Venue where all my Folk hero’s started and I became very immersed in the mid 70’s to mid 80’s folk revival in the Village. I became the soundman at Folk City and performed there quite often. It was the last great period of music in the Village which sadly is no more.
Fast Forward to 1989 when my wife and I decided to relocate to Los Angeles to try and make it in music in sunny California. Playing at many Los Angeles Venues I met a great songwriter named Sandy Ross who after becoming friends asked me to be her guitar player. She had gotten a spot on a radio show called Malibu Folk on a local FM Public Radio Station, KPFK that was hosted by this amazing man named Bryan May. Bryan was one of the first children to be given the Polio Vaccine and unfortunately he came down with polio and became a quadriplegic. We became instant friends. He lived in this incredible house in Malibu and found out that it was paid for by non other than Peter Yarrow who was a big supporter of his. Peter subsidized Bryan for whatever he needed.
In 1993 UCLA sponsored a 3 day Folk Festival call Troubadours Of Folk which was3 days of every great songwriter imaginable. John Prine, Joni Mitchell, Eric Anderson, Roger Mcguinn, Richie Havens and to end the show would be Peter Paul and Mary. Brian asked me if I wanted to go as his helper and I would get a press pass and be allowed to be backstage for the whole festival. I was in heaven.
The festival unfortunately was not well attended which was very disappointing but Brian was very excited to introduce me to Peter Yarrow as he knew how much I loved Peter Paul and Mary. The third day of the festival I was introduced to Peter and when he found out that I was a songwriter he invited me to come on stage and sing with PP&M on the last song “Day Is Done”. I was in heaven! It was very surreal to be onstage singing with my idols.
A few years later unfortunately my great friend Bryan passed from complications from the polio that took over his life. I received a phone call the next day from Peter Yarrow and he wanted to plan Bryan’s memorial service with me and that’s when I saw what a caring and gentle man Peter was. We did Bryan proud and Peter paid for everything and helped Bryan,s amazing wife Lupe relocate and supported her as he had Bryan for many years. These are things that are rarely written about in the tabloids. The good things that celebrities do.
Later that year I attended the Kerrville Folk Festival in Texas which was started by Peter and I saw him strolling around on Friday and said high. He remembered me from Bryan’s Memorial and our work together and asked me to come up and sing with him when he performed on the last day of the festival. I was blown away and didn’t really know if he was serious. I saw him again on Sunday, the last day of the festival and he told me to sit in the front row when he performed and he would call me up on the last song “ Day Is Done”. I couldn’t believe that I was again singing onstage with this amazing man. It was an experience I will never forget.
In June of 2023 my good friend Hazzan Mike Stein was retiring after 20 years at my Synagogue and a concert was planned in his honor and the headliner was Peter Yarrow. It may have been one of the last full sets of songs that he gave and after the concert we went back to Mikes house and Peter was singing songs in his living room as if it he was back in Greenwich Village in the early 1960’s. It was an incredible treat and I was so lucky to have been there. My daughter was there and had a great conversion with Peter still influencing young people until the end.
It’s hard to except that all the great artists that formed who I am today as a Musician, Songwriter and person are leaving us at an alarming rate. Peter was one of the great ones and his music will live on. Peace and Love will accompany him to Music heaven. I’m sure that he and Mary are making beautiful music together! “ Where Have All The Flowers Gone?”
Jeff Gold, Singer Songwriter, Los Angeles California, 2025
For ten years in the 1990's I and several friends developed the Fillabelly Foundation in Naples, Florida to begin a series of outdoor concerts to feed the hungry. ALL proceeds were donated to charities in the area with the sole purpose to feed those in need. We were able to bring in Peter, Paul, and Mary, Smothers Brothers, John Denver, Righteous Brother, Kingston Trio and others. I was delegated to transport the featured artists to the "after concert" party at a friends house. Peter wanted to change clothes in his hotel romm after a 2+ hour concert. I went up to the room with him. He would not come quickly to the party because he had kids in the Naples area to call. I sat on a bed in the hotel room while Peter got on the phone and called children with cancer. He gave them his support, love, and encouragement. I was in tears listening to these calls. After a number of such calls we went to the after concert party. Nowhere did I see any media mention of Peter's efforts on behalf of sick kids, his tremendous empathy, or his heartfelt sympathy for those little ones going through treatment for cancer. What Peter did he did for the kids No fanfare, no publicity, and no expectations. I wish , and others, could do more to emulate Peter Yarrow .
- Robert Wald
Hello my name is Robin and I am from Atkinson Illinois and I was born in 1962 and my mother loved your music and growing up as did I and I absolutely couldn't get enough of it and the day I heard Peter had died I had just listened to 500 miles as all your songs are in my play list that I listen to daily! I am soooo very sorry for the family and friends during this time in their grief! May God Bless you all and lift you up! I absolutely loved Peter, Paul and Mary and still have the two albums I've had since I was 10 years old! If I had a hammer was also one I did and still do listen to soooo very much! Thank-you Thank-you for giving me your beautiful music that I will carry with me the rest of my life for sure!
- Robin Stage
“Music has always had the ability to comfort and inspire.” – Pete Seeger
As I have been reading the messages of LOVE to Peter on his LIVING TRIBUTE page, three words kept coming to my mind - Love, Spirit, and Delight.
Three Words
The sun's rays break through the cloudy New York City sky.
As friends remember a gentle man with a gleam in his eye.
Peter Yarrow was simply a universal treasure
With gifts many - well beyond measure.
The magnificence of the sunny weather
Reflects the good times friends shared together.
Images of Peter are fresh and bright.
Three words come to mind - love, spirit, and delight.
Love is something Peter gave to all,
To every creature, both great and small.
His numerous acts of kindness and of love
Helped make the Earth happy like the heavens above.
Peter's spirit was evidenced in many a way,
For he brightened up each and every day.
His joie de vivre was profound and real.
Oh, how good he made people feel!
The delight Peter gave was so divine
That it warmed the heart and soothed the mind.
Folks found themselves in a place just right
As they experienced the gift of his delight.
The sun's rays break through the cloudy New York City sky.
As friends remember a gentle man with a gleam in his eye
Images of Peter will remain fresh and bright.
Three words come to mind - love, spirit, and delight.
In remembrance of Peter, the video below features a song from Pete Seeger and Arlo Guthrie’s album, “Precious Friend”.
“Just when I thought
All was lost, you changed my mind.
You gave me hope, (not just the old soft soap)
You showed that we could learn to share in time.
(You and me and Rockefeller)
I’ll keep pluggin’ on,
Your face will shine through all our tears.
And when we sing another little victory song,
Precious friend, you will be there,
Singing in harmony,
Precious friend, you will be there.”
- Pete Seeger
- From Bob Wolpert
When I was in 5th grade, with my close friends we played we were Peter, Paul and Mary.
We loved their music and it encouraged us to learn guitar and sing in harmony. I never imagined that 30 years later, Peter would become a mentor, friend and long-term supporter of our work at EPES (Educación Popular en Salud) in Chile to promote health, justice and dignity. In the mid-1990s, Peter visited EPES and we had an amazing afternoon with him talking with the community health promoters as he intently listening to their stories.
Since then, he and Bethany have generously done many fundraising events for EPES in NY, MN and Portland.Their music always lifts our spirits and gives us hope. Peter guided us in our first efforts and taught us a lot about fundraising. Everyone at EPES is profoundly grateful for his love and support. Peter – we love and admire you! Your spirit, your solidarity, your music, your consecuencia and your generosity are such incredible gifts for so many people and movements. We thank you and we send our love, prayers and healing energy.
Abrazos,
Karen Anderson
In the 60's my Mom surprised my Sister, Brother and I with our first concert - Peter, Paul & Mary - in San Francisco. It was a life changing evening. Your voices, musicianship, and stories kept us mesmorized. Mary hugged my Sister for her birthday. We began following your careers, and embraced your passions. I learned guitar and played gigs locally during high school & college - half the songs PP&M's. Your passion for our military inspired me to begain writing letters to "Any Soldier" in Vietnam - which continued until everyone was home. I'm still in touch with my favorite - almost married him. I owe 2 decades of love, enlightenment, and involvement to you, Mary and Noel. Thank you.
- Kathi Ramirez
As a long time fan, I was honored to be able to serve as your sound guy this past April at the Troubadour Concert Series in Morristown New Jersey. The fact that someone of your stature and experience came to play in our humble but enthusiastic 200 seat venue in my eyes only increased your stature and humanity. It was a pleasure and an honor, and in my 20 something years of doing sound there, I think it was the first time I received a thank you hug for my services. .Peter , you’re a credit to humanity. Be at peace kind sir .
- Larry Flanigan
Hello! Jonathan Moorehead here. A few years back I was on the film crew for a CBS Cares PSA commercial starring the delightful Peter Yarrow. The subject of this public service ad was colonoscopies. It's a very good cause of course, but as you might imagine, the jokes among the crew and production were gloriously ribald. Peter was so very warm, engaged, approachable and kind to everyone. Having worked in both the music and film/television realms, I've seen my share of celebrities, and Peter Yarrow was one of the most down-to-earth, genuine, congenial and affable souls I have ever encountered onstage or on set. After the shoot, we were all having such a good time hanging out and chatting with him, his handlers had to nudge him, to peel him away from us. Attached is the link to the commercial, made with my dear pals at Red Thread Productions.
https://youtu.be/JqvpfrnmJrg?si=HFZG6aSELMmwj75W
- Jonathan Moorehead
I was introduced to PP&M as a kid around 1986 when my mom brought home a cassette tape of 10 Years Together to listen to in the car on our summer road trip. We drove the entire length of the west coast and back and I would not let them change that tape to anything else. I've enjoyed so many of your concerts and a few backstage chats that I will always treasure. I had planned to take my 3 year old to see you in California next year. He's still working on learning it but here's his rendition of Puff so far.
- Sara Johns
I grew up watching and listening to Peter, Paul, and Mary. Beautiful music! I saw them perform many times - in concert and at protest rallies. I did not meet Peter in person until, I believe, in January 2009 when he performed at Busboys & Poets in Washington, DC on the occasion of Barack Obama’s first inauguration. My favorite memory of Peter as a person was in about 2018 or 2019 when he was performing at a protest in Washington DC. I was walking and talking with him as a group of us went out to dinner. I held his arm as he seemed to be struggling to walk. I told him about an experience I had on a bus in August 1963 from the Chicago area to a Jewish summer camp in Oconomowoc, Wisconsin. Someone was strumming a guitar and singing a song: “Blowing in the Wind” - a big hit that summer. I was 16 years old. A girl about my age said: “I know who wrote that song. I went to his Bar Mitzvah in Hibbing, Minnesota: Bobby Zimmerman. In February 2016, I was in a bookstore in Santa Fe, New Mexico. There was a big book with the history of every song written by the recent winner of the Nobel Prize for Literature - Bob Dylan. According to the book, he wrote the song in April 1962, he recorded it in July 1962 and he officially changed his name to Bob Dylan in August 1962. So the girl was right - Bobby Zimmerman wrote that song. As I recounted this to Peter Yarrow he said: “You know Bob Dylan and his girlfriend lived with us in Woodstock during the summer of 1963.” I was in Oconomowoc a few days later when I saw and heard on television- Peter, Paul and Mary singing Blowing in the Wind on August 28, 1963 in front of the Lincoln Memorial during the March on Washington. I wish the best to Peter as he battles his illness. Peace and Love! Stephen Lincoln Spitz - born on February 12 in Chicago.
- Stephen Sptiz
Dear Peter,
Since I was a small child, I have been a devoted fan of Peter, Paul and Mary. From wearing out several VHS tapes of the Holiday and the 25th Anniversary Concerts as I played along as a small child, to learning more about the work of the trio and you in important moments of social change throughout the decades, to say that you have been a great inspiration to me would be an understatement.
Now, as a professional musician and arts administrator I carry my love for your music and profound admiration for your work ethic, which I have recognized in many ways, with me every day.
I have had the opportunity to see you perform many times - most recently in Lexington, Massachusetts on October 1 of 2023 and want you to know how grateful I am for you. I am thinking of you and your family in this time and wanted to express that, even though we never had the opportunity to meet, you have had a profound impact on my life.
Thank you and much love,
Garrett
Your music has been a part of the soundtrack of my life. You have preached the good word of justice and peace and inspired us to continue the work. When I was 9 years old, in 1972, I went to an arts camp, where my counselor played a guitar and taught us songs of peace, love and hope. One of the songs I remember so well is "Day Is Done." In 1993, I attended a concert in Austin with you, Paul and Mary. It is one of the musical highlights of my life, because the words and music you performed still resonate. They still preach and teach in love. Know you have impacted so many lives. You are a blessing.
- Jennifer Hornbuckle
I first experienced PP&M live at Melbourne's Festival Hall in the late 1960s I had bought and resold 203 tickets to university students, all of us trainee teachers in residence. What a night of great music, strong values and messages and a desire for a better world. I was back the next night and after that I never missed a PP&M concert in Melbourne and one in Adelaide!!!!! I often sat front row dead centre to enjoy the magic that was THE folk group of the period. And that was because you all sang (and spoke) of the issues that affected us all and espoused human rights that society at large shunned. At one of those last Melbourne concerts I went with a dear friend who was not as enthusiastic a PP&M fan as I but she thoroughly enjoyed the night, remarking during Peter's solo, 'he's the ultimate committed musician'. Your music and your politics always spoke louder than words. Thank you all for opening our eyes to the need for change and a better world. May the Lord bless you as we thank you for your musicianship and social justice commitments. We are the richer for experiencing you, Noel Paul and Mary.
- John Andrews
We only briefly met at the 50th Anniversary of Bob Sherman’s Woody’s Children celebration. YOUR life is a celebration, as is your profound love for humanity, fairness, kindness, and song. I practiced guitar to your guitar playing, I learned how song can touch the heart and change the world one word at a time. Like so many others, I’ve seen how you’ve achieved total completeness as an artist, husband, father, conveyor of hope and patience, and activist for the common good—seemingly effortlessly. You have already achieved immortality, sir. Celebrate that for yourself now. We, (as they say), will “carry it on” and always be grateful.
- Larry Kaplan
As a young progressive in the 1970s, I was sorely disappointed when my peers had lapsed into the apathetic do-nothingness of the Me generation. With five older siblings who had joined the civil rights and anti-war movements, I was excited to do my part. In the ninth grade, I discovered that my Reform Jewish synagogue had always been and was still passionate about social justice. Your music dominated the soundtrack of their calls to justice, kindness and compassion. In 1982, as I entered rabbinical school, you released "Light One Candle" and reminded me that Peter, Paul and Mary would never ceased agitating for peace, AND that you understood how Judaism's message was consonant with yours. Both have inspired and nudged me through the decades. Thank you for being part of my life's and my rabbinate's soundtrack of decency and integrity.
- Billy Dreskin
Dear Mr. Yarrow,
First of all, let me thank you for all the beautiful music you have given to the world. We are all so much better off because of it. Secondly, I would like to tell you a special story of how one of your songs deeply affected my family (I'm sure you can imagine which one.)
The story starts with my Grandpa, a man named Bruce Heverly who loved the Adirondack mountains and a good folk tune. One of his favorite songs to play was Puff the Magic Dragon. He instilled this same love of music and mountains into my mother and me alike.
He passed away in March of 2023 and around the same time I found out I was going to have a baby. I was able to share the news with him shortly before he passed.
My son, Sammy, was born October 19th 2023. Poor Sammy was a colic baby, crying day and night. Nothing we tried could make it better, until one fateful day in November when he was just about one month old. I was missing my Grandpa and playing some of his favorite songs. Puff the Magic Dragon came on and for the first time ever, something seemed to help Sammy calm down. I wondered if it was just a fluke, but with time we discovered that he was calmed immediately upon hearing that song. It seems impossible that a one month old would have a favorite song, but this was surely the case.
Thank you, Mr. Yarrow, for bringing such peace to our home in a difficult time with your music. Not only did it calm our little one, it will be a link he will always have to his Great Grandpa Heverly.
Your music will live on for generations to come because these connections are what we all live for and need in our lives.
What a beautiful thing for you to leave for us in this world. Bless you, Mr. Yarrow, and may you feel all the peace and love you've given come back to you now.
- Lydia Hazleton
I have so many fond memories of all the shows we did with you Peter. You were always so kind to me and had me feel like part of the family. The greatest experience was traveling to Hong Kong to spend a week there and do shows with you, Noel and Mary. Something I will never forget and cherish the memories. However if I were to recall one experience that defined you it would be a show we were doing in San Antonio with the trio. Noel had missed a connecting flight and it appeared that he may not make the show. It was just a few minutes before doors were to open and we were frantically trying to figure out whether we cancel or postpone. You were insistent on making the show work for the fans. So when we found out that Noel would be about an hour late for the show, you rearranged the set and you and Mary would play some songs and do some solos prior to Noel's arrival. Since everything was delayed you weren't able to do a sound check, and now the auditorium was full. So you calmly walked out on stage by yourself, explained the situation to the audience and said before we start you need to do a sound check. Then you and Mary began the show. The "show must go on" was alive and well. And the audience were treated to a most memorable night!
Much love to you Peter. You have touched so many people with your songs. A true legend.
Terry Burke
Dear Peter,
Twenty-eight years ago today, Herman Philips, a dear friend of my father and member of the NY Choral Society, brought me to a PPM rehearsal for your 1996 holiday concert. I met you, Noel, and Mary that evening, and had the heart-gift of being able to thank you, hug you. "Sweetheart," I remember you saying to me. At the end of the rehearsal, I gathered the nerve to approach you and ask whether I could take a photo with you. I never had such a joyous smile as in that treasured picture. For you had already begun to etch justice and hope, peace and purpose and love, into my heart.
I had grown up watching your early PBS concerts. And since I got my first PPM cassette and CD three years before that winter night in Riverside Church, and ever since, you have been a nearly daily presence in my life. I would love to talk to you now and tell you all about the role so many of your songs have had in my life -- Take the Chance, Sweet Survivor, Light One Candle, the Great Mandala, Don't Laugh at Me, and on, and on, and on. But I know you have countless more tributes to hear. So I will let you go now, soon to melt into the stars and the sea, and join the flow of that River Jordan. You will never leave my heart.
Love & Peace, Forever and Forever,
Eric A. Friedman
Dear Sir,
Thank you for all you have done to inspire us each of us. I was fortunate enough to have seen PP&M back in the early 90's and in that moment I decided to pursue music for a living. Although I have not found success, I continue to write songs in the hopes that my music will touch another's life as yours has done mine.
You blazed a trail, you sang about what you believed in, and the truth you shared as a songwriter and performer will live on in so many of us.
You are loved, you are appreciated......Thank you!!!!!!!
OXOX
Lara
Redding, CT
I was born in 1957, and some of my oldest memories are listening to you, sir, singing with Paul and Mary. Before your dragon became a beloved staple in my musical world, my sister and I hid a transistor radio under the pillows in our shared bed and fell asleep listening to If I Had a Hammer, Lemon Tree, and Where Have All the Flowers Gone. Later, when Puff came along, it made me cry but I loved it nonetheless. It still does, some 60 or so years later.
I learned to hear, and sing, harmony from you, a gift that I have continued to use for life. I saw you perform, in Dallas, and more memorably, at the Kerrville Folk Festival around 1984/85. My husband turned out be a huge Peter, Paul, and Mary fan too. It was our first trip together and, being there was like sitting in a living room with you - intimate and personal. The sing-a-long was truly glorious. It is a most treasured memory.
Currently, I sing with a group, called Credo, a community choir in Dallas. When our director handed us Light One Candle, I almost cried. It has been a favorite for many, many years and I am so honored to finally have the opportunity to sing it onstage.
It’s been decades and I am both saddened, and astonished, that so many of the songs that influenced my life and beliefs are still just as relevant, now, as they were so very long ago, coming out of a tiny transistor radio. I hoped we would be a much different world, by now. But the songs and their message will live on, until we no longer need them. You have been the light, the candle in the darkness, for many years and I hope you will allow us to carry, in some small way, your light forward as we strive to pass it on to future generations. May peace be with you, sir.
- Patti Erickson
I have photographed Peter, Paul and Mary since my early days as a photographer. First, when I was still in the High School of Performing Arts in New York City, where I majored in classical guitar. I was so inspired by the folk musicians to play those beautiful nylon string guitars! So, in 1969, I photographed P,P, & M at Carnegie Hall. When I finally published my first nook, Eye of the Music, I made sure to include one of those photos ... as well as others I shot over the decades of them ... Times Square Ant-War rallies, Peter at San Francisco rallies, The Music Center in LA, The Hollywood Bowl, UCLA (Troubadours of Folk). Their music has been part of the musical fabric of my life. I just found this photo of Peter at The Music Center in 1980, with a reflection in the mirror of me, photographing him! Hope he gets to see this. Thank you Peter, for a lifetime of making the world a better place!
- Sherry Rayn Barnett
I’m in a duo that presents musical lectures about our musical heroes. One of our 20 programs is about the lives and songs of Peter Paul and Mary. Our first CD had the song Puff. I gave the CD to my niece and nephew who played it in the car constantly and it made quite an impression on their two year old, Molly. I’ll also mention that I met Peter a few years ago when Noel gave a solo concert at the NY Historical Society and Peter was seated right in front of me. After Noel’s concert, I chatted with Peter and told him about our musical lecture about PPM (called “Messages in Harmony”) and he hugged me and thanked me for keeping PPM’s music alive.
- Joan Friedenberg
Peter, It has been truly a privilege and pleasure - yes, a joy - to have known you, and most of all to have played autoharp with you so many years at the Kerrville Folk Festival. I think of you often, and of Chris and Bethany, and the clarity you always brought to our performances with you there. You've given your heart to the faith that music can save us all, and that's been part of my own faith which has kept me on my own musical journey for so many years.
And almost every year you've been there, it's been your birthday - with cake, good friends, and good spirits back stage! Lots of good memories.
I send you a GRAND Kerrville hug, and a thank you for your special musical magic and your belief in the best of the human spirit.
- Lindsay Haisley
I don’t remember what year it was exactly but it was in October somewhere in the 1980’s. I had always loved Peter , Paul and Mary ‘s music and I myself did some songwriting and singing while attending college in SUNY New Paltz. In 1970-72. And later in life as well. I still dabble in singing and songwriting for the fun of it.
I was eager to hear Peter , Paul and Mary sing live and
I arrived at their October concert .one year in the 1980’s. But when we walked into the theatre everything was decorated as if it was Christmas Day. The show was being pre taped and was to be aired on TV as a Christmas special . ,We all played along , pretended it was Christmas Day and sang our hearts out . The one song that stood out was always Puff the Magic Dragon, Blowin in the Wind and the song about the boy who wasn’t very good in baseball.
Peter Yarrow.. thank you for making my life better with your music, stories and the hope that if we participate in what we believe in, we can make a change for ourselves and for the future of our children. When I see your picture or hear your voice I smile big!
Thank you for you!
Sincerely ,
Karen Landy
Dear Bethany and Christopher and family: Your father, Peter, is a gem of a human being and musician. He is a national treasure. I was just listening to "Light One Candle," the Hanukah song, the song about light, and hope and peace in the world. It's such a powerful song and the perfect message for today even though it was written in the 1980s. I literally just played it on my guitar (yesterday) for my entire acting class! It is new to them. But see how we are carrying on your father's music and message? Whether with Peter, Paul and Mary, or as Peter Yarrow, he will live forever. Of this I am sure. We love you, Peter! The whole world loves you. We are holding your hand, standing with you, by you, always. We won't let the light go out.
- Wendy Gavis-Lainjo
It was fitting, for me, that your name was the first uttered when speaking of PPM. Fitting for me because of your soaring tenor voice, the one whose range was close to mine, the one I “identified” with. You 3 were my musical heroes back in the day, and heroes you remain. Your music, Peter, was a force, and its impetus pushed me to develop my voice and learn my guitar. The first person I sang and played for was my mother — Blowin’ In The Wind. Yeah, I know Dylan wrote it, but the song was yours. I so enjoyed your voice, I tried my best to learn the French of Mon Vrai Destin — my favorite of your solos. For me, the story of PPM remains fresh and new through the YouTube videos of your live performances. My friend, I know of your situation with cancer and I can relate — I’m Stage IV, prostate cancer. It’s not a fun club we’re in, but one finds so much love and caring through it. I am a person of prayer, and you will be in mine. Thank you for being a part of my life, even though you didn’t know it. I wish God’s peace for you as I send my love.
Skip Wallace
Charles Town, WV
My sister and I grew up with Peter, Paul & Mary - mom would play them in the car on the way to protests against the Iraq War. Peter's voice on Blowin' in the Wind, The Magi, and of course Puff is pure magic and will always be part of my childhood. A Holiday Celebration will always be one of my all-time favorite recordings - the power, heart, and spectrum of emotion on the album are aw-inspiring, always. I got to hang with Peter at Old John's Diner the same week I started my masters degree at Juilliard - multiple dreams coming true at once. I'll never forget my friend Larry Long (who is known as "the Pete Seeger of Minnesota") happening to call, and me being able to pick up and say "Larry, guess who I'm having lunch with right now?!". Peter also invited me to have dinner and hear him sit in with the John Miller band in midtown, and to see the first run of a new opera by Carmen Moore, where I met the incredible Danish vocalist Lotte Arnsbjerg, who was starring. I never doubted that Peter would be a beautiful person from listening to his music, but I was somehow still surprised by just how kind and generous of spirit he is. He so so clearly wanted nothing but the best for me from the moment he hugged me when we met, and he has gone out of his way to connect me with amazing people. Peter - thanks for looking out for me! You're one of the best to ever do it, and you've done it for the right reasons. Your music is the sound of hope, your voice the spirit of kinship and humanity. I will never stop hipping cats to your songs and trying to follow in your footsteps as an artist who inspires change!
- Will Kjeer
Many years ago I was Director of two group homes, and at that we frequently spent time with Peter and Mary Beth at Eagle Lake. Peter had come to the group home to play for girls, and they LOVED that he’d take the time to come and play and spend time with them. Peter also knew we struggled with a budget at the group home which was set by county commissioners, who were tight with funds. So, Peter said, “I’ll do a benefit concert for the group home!”. He helped with all the production details, which were many, but the concert came off smoothly to a full house at the COB (WEAC now), and the girls were SO proud to be at the concert for the group home. I had lunch with Peter the day after the concert, and he asked how we did with raising money. I told him we’d raised X amount of dollars, and he piled out his check book and matched that amount, asking I not share that he’d done that. So, I recently connected with one of the girls who lived at the home at that time, Sandy. She said the best thing she remembered from living at the group home was that Peter had gotten her on stage the night of that concert to join him in singing a song. It STILL impacted her, now that she was 50 years older. Peter had that kind of lasting impact on everyone with whom he came in contact. I’ve been so proud to count Peter as a friend. My best wishes to him, I will always hold his spirit close.
Peace, my friend….
Mike Fischer
My dear sweet Peter, ever since we met in the courtyard between Barb’s house and mine, in 2003, we’ve been friends. From you annually guesting me into Kerrville, to my performing with you several times on the Kerrville stage (once with Katie Marie), to our few times at the private River spot I took you to, I remember the past 21 years with such fondness.
My heart is sad that one of the last times you texted me, you were really wanting to talk on the phone and catch up. “Schmooze” you called it. But life got busy and we texted but I put off calling too long. Then you went from calling yourself “Puff the LUCKY dragon” saying, “as it is with so many people who go through this, the positive aspects of new awareness and understanding that comes from surviving cancer is extraordinary indeed.”
I’ll always cherish our times together and the photos we shared. You texted me the sun setting between the buildings on the well-known NYC street, I sent you old photos taken of us at our beloved music festival we share with so many as a second home. What will Kerrville be without you? You saved it so many times. What will our lives be without OUR Peter?
I’m very grateful for you. I texted you telling you so, many times. I will miss you and your kindness. Thank you for your legacy and thank you most for being my dear sweet friend, Peter Yarrow!
Love, Laran
I met Peter a few times after gigs (he corrected me when I called them shows). The most memorable was in 2019 when he and Chris performed at Fir Colorado. I was working at the local newspaper and had the honor to interview him. But it’s what he did afterwards that showed his humor. Hi olding his jacket he put it on his head and said it was his Yasser Arafat impression. I will always treasure that moment which I am sharing along with the hours I have spent listening to his music. God be with his family. Peter will live forever .
- Becky Ostery
I really wish I had a story to share that just involves Peter but I only knew of him through Peter, Paul and Mary. I was first introduced to the group in the early to mid 1960s by my older sister. She was a university student at the time and those were the pre hippie, pre Beatle days of coffee houses and hootenannies. I loved all the music…..as long as it was musical and I could sing along, I loved it.
Fast forward to my “grown up” days, I never had the chance to see them in concert. But, I loved the PBS specials that were on a few times a year. I made sure I was able to watch every time. And, I know, I watched a few of them more than once. The camaraderie and love that the three showed each other was obvious. They fed off each other's energy.
There are so many songs it's hard to pick a favourite. Day is Done is very high on my list. I know it was written as an anti VietNam war song, but the lyrics are still relevant today, 55 years later. Both the melody and words are haunting.
I'm so saddened to hear that Peter, your Dragon, is not doing well. I hope he is not struggling too much. I wish him peace and comfort. I have yet to read all your updates, I know I will shed a tear. The tears seem to flow much easier the older I get. Many, many thanks for the lifetime of music Peter and his “pals” have provided. There is nothing that compares. To the family (and those like family) I wish comfort and acceptance. Cherish the memories…..I know there are many.
When the time comes, soft journey Peter. You will be remembered, you will be missed.
- Di Brown
I was raised on the music of PP&M and it profoundly shaped my conscience and commitment to social action. I have been involved in the human rights advocacy field for 25 years and I can trace a direct line from this work to the music of my childhood. Back when I was 18, I took a bus from NY to OH to see Peter perform at Oberlin College. I had the chance to greet him afterward and told him that his music and work had made me a dreamer. He gifted me with an enormous hug. It was a very special moment for me and is locked in my memory. It is not often you get a chance to meet people who have shaped your life so profoundly and to find them to be the warm and generous person you hoped they would be. Thank you, Peter, for giving all of us so much joy through your music, and for waking up our discomfort with injustice, and for encouraging us to light one candle against the darkness.
With love and gratitude,
Eileen Campbell
I have loved the group and each member since I was a teen in the early 70's. I wore out the album "10 years together" back then and have seen them dozens of times in concert. For decades I rarely missed a show at Wolf Trap, including the summer after Mary passed away. Seeing and listening to their music gave me such joy - their voices, messages and their presence. Every year on the first day of Chanukah I post the video of Light One Candle on Facebook. It's sad that their messages of peace and equality still have to be so boldly proclaimed but wonderful that they exist to keep passing on to future generations. I have loved every moment of my fandom and hope that this reaches Peter to know how much he has meant to me and countless others.
Love, Beverly
Dear Mr. Yarrow
I hope this day finds you feeling a little better. PUFF THE MAGIC DRAGON is the greatest song ever recorded. Only one other touches my heart in the same way and that is the simple song, JESUS LOVES ME, THIS I KNOW.....I am a 73 year old poet and musician and find those rhyming words paired with the perfect melody resonate with me to the very depths of my being!!
I never did any sort of illegal drugs or anything like that so I don't find any hidden meanings in the words of PUFF. It says to me
that ... "Life goes on and we must go along with it and leave the things of childhood behind." I had to grow old, but I didn't have to grow up because I can return to a LAND CALLED HONALEE every time I hear PUFF THE MAGIC DRAGON.
I am truly sorry that your health is failing you today. But Peter, Paul and Mary will live on in the hearts of every person who ever sang along with those magical verses of PUFF THE MAGIC DRAGON .
May God Bless and Keep You.
Sonny Ashley
Wichita Falls, Texas
I bought my first ever LP when I was twelve in ’62; PPM at The Bitter End. In all my Boomer music years – certainly including the Beatles – no group garnered my love and respect as much as PPM. And forever.
Much later, when my son was about seven, I took him to a PPM concert on the UT campus in Austin. Afterwards, we went to a favorite haunt, the original Kerbey Lane Café for dinner.
Sitting and eating at our table, Rick (my son) said, pointing,” Isn’t that Peter over there?”
We looked, and it was. Peter and a lady friend at a small table about 20 feet away.
Rick excitedly asked, “Can I go talk to him?”
Not wanting to intrude, we told him no just about the moment he jumped up and hurried over to their table.
We could see Peter greet him with the warmest smile and talk to him patiently a few moments. Then he took Rick by the hand and led him back to our table and stood by and talked most pleasantly and graciously with my wife and me a few minutes.
We – and Rick – have never forgot the genuine humanness and grace of him, and Paul, and Mary exemplified in those few moments.
Then, later, Peter worked with my brother, Steve Dodds, on aspects of the Kerrville Music Festival, and he befriended Steve. Through some conversation, Peter autographed and addressed to me personally a copy of the iconic photo of the group performing at the Lincoln Memorial in ’63. It is a treasured object I view every day hanging in my den. A symbol of the times - and of the real, heartfelt justice that Peter, and Paul, and Mary stood for, and sang for, and lived their lives for.
There never was and never ever will be another group so worthy of honor and remembrance.
Paul was wrong about the Beatles – your magic was always greater than theirs.
Hi again Peter,
As promised, here's my story along with some photos which I'll always treasure.
The night you came to Lonesome Traveler in New York for the second time was a night to remember always. Thank you again so much for coming up onstage to do encores with the cast and for your generous gifts of the PPM book, inscribed personally to each of us. Your meeting with us that night along with the stories you told were magical. For a time I regretted that I didn't think to turn on the recorder on my phone. I've thought since then that it was meant to be just for us, a very, very special treat.
You may recall that you asked me to look after your guitar during the show. I saw your set list from another concert taped to the top and immediately thought what an exceptional gift it was to me to be asked to care for this very special instrument for a even a short time. The photos attached are the ones I took that night while you were watching the show.
Karyl Lynn sends her love to you. Her special memory is the night in the rehearsal studio on Martin Luther King Day when you sat in a circle with the cast and told the story of Selma. It was one of many life-changing, inspirational times in your presence. You are and always will be loved, loved, loved...
Jim
Peter,
So sad to hear that you are ill. You and your 2-3 sidekicks have brought generations of smiles, wisdom, activism to our family, as well as many others, I'm sure. We've seen you numerous times going back to the 60s in venues across Ohio, Illinois, Pennsylvania and New York, always leaving with big smiles but more importantly inspired to do good for so many causes. Our only child, Kristen, has shared these passions herself and with our two grandsons (it's generational, man!). For a number of years, I have been a volunteer member of the Advisory Board of our local Salvation Army doing, as we say, The Most Good. You taught us to reach out and support the needy, and we'll never forget those lessons. May God bless you.
Your friend,
John Hayek
Endwell, NY
When my daughter, Kaleigh, who is now 28 years old, was about five years old or so, we took her to her first Peter, Paul, & Mary concert at the Westbury Music Fair in Nassau County, L.I. It is a theater in the round and had a tradition of allowing children to be invited up onto the stage. Often the little ones would give flowers to Mary. My daughter was fortunate to do so at either her first or second concert. Mary was so kind to her and as always all the kids. My daughter fell in love with P, P, & M and listened to their music for many years as she grew older. Several years ago, when she was in her 20’s my daughter in turn bought a set of tickets for the three of us to Peter on his own at the NYC Winery. She loves him, his music, and most of all the kindness in his words and presence. At the show, Peter spent time mingling and talking with members of the audience. My daughter and wife & I got to talk with him and tell him of our family relationship to his music and of course P, P, & M. He was so moved by the reminiscing about the Westbury Music Fair concerts and the children coming onto the stage with flowers for Mary. He was visibly struck by the memories and was so genuinely kind to my daughter, hugging us all. As I write about these memories, I too am deeply moved and so very grateful for Peter, his music, but most importantly for the person he was as an activist and humanitarian. Thank You for all you have given to so many, myself included. And thank you for helping to raise my daughter through the music and all the kindness. Best Regards with much love to you, Peter, and your family. -Brian Burke
I will always be grateful for the many generous gestures Peter extended to our Newtown, CT community, and our Flagpole Radio Cafe show, among other things we did together. I will always cherish the first time he was the guest artist on the Flagpole Radio Cafe and he invited us to play with him. It was the beginning of a great friendship. He hilariously asked the audience if this was the Tadpole Radio Soufflé. We played many concerts in the years to come that I will never forget.
Peter (or Pietro as he called himself) was a hero when the Sandy Hook tragedy happened. He came to Newtown and together we engaged the families to provide support, especially for our cherished friends, Francine and David Wheeler. We created a concert for healing that became a PBS special with me and Peter getting credit for producing the concert. The credit was secondary to my experience that this was Peter showing me how to bring people together, how to organize and respond, how to lead with love. The audience was filled with the grieving families, the first responders, and the school staff. We played the most emotional concert I have ever been a part of, culminating with Peter leading us in We Will Overcome. We stood in line, locking our arms together, and with tears sang for and with all the people.
We were invited, and Peter agreed, to go play and sing for the law enforcement officers who were the first responders. They were hesitant, but eventually, Peter got them singing. It was incredible.
Later, one of the fathers of the Sandy Hook children took his own life and it was an overwhelming event for the community. I called Peter and asked him to come. He said, “Brodskala (as he would call me sometimes in his haimasha way) pick me up at the train station”. Peter and Bethany led our group in song for a couple of hours. I have never felt so whole because of music than that moment.
And lastly, and more personally, I appreciate the private conversations with Peter when my father passed, and when Pete Seeger (for whom I worked for at the Clearwater Festival)passed.
Peter has been a very generous and inspiring figure in my life and within my close friends in Connecticut and at Clearwater.
Peter, Pietro, my Dragon friend I will always have a special place in my heart and a lot of love for you!!
- Rick Brodsky
In the 1980s I lived and worked in New York and had the privilege of singing in the New York Choral Society under Bob DeCormier. In 1987, I was in the chorus for the annual holiday concert at Carnegie Hall with PPM, and one of the songs we sang was “Light One Candle”. It quickly became a favorite of mine and I still remember the alto part to this day. In 2011, Peter and Paul did a concert at the Birch Aquarium in San Diego, and I attended with my husband. Peter sang “Light One Candle” and I sang along with the audience on the alto line. After the concert, I sought out Peter and told him I had sung with them in 1987. He stopped in his tracks and gave me the biggest hug. That was 13 years ago and I remember it like it was yesterday. I’ve loved his voice since I was a kid in the 60s and I will always have a candle lit in his honor in my heart. Thank you, Peter, for your heart, your voice, your compassion, your activism. You will always be one of my heroes. With love, Karen Patterson
Just a short note to give you an idea of how your songs and music have come into my life, and how much they mean to me. My brother, who passed a few years ago, was the musical member of the family. With his guitar, he brought home the music of a number of musicians beginning with the 60's and on into the 20 teens. The music of Peter Paul and Mary initially, followed by your personal albums, became a huge part of my life. Hearing them now brings back not just Ron, but the entire family. They followed me thru my 60's military experience, into the world of 70's rock climbing, and finally into my own married life. They shaped the way I look at and appreciate music and musicians. Thanks you for all you have brought into my life. I cannot tell you how much I appreciate it.
- Susan LaLone
Peter,
I am praying for you that your days will be filled with joy. I have all of the PPM albums, but I play the Holiday Celebration with the New York Choral Society every year as I make Christmas cookies and decorate the tree. Even in my hardest Christmas times this album has lifted me to believe again in the Judeo/Christian hope and love. My highlight I was in the Carnegie Hall audience the last year you performed this concert-and my son, Patrick, was singing tenor with the Choral Society. You have been my hero with your activism, but especially with your heartfelt song writing and singing. Thank you for sharing your life with so many, including me.
- Ellen
Winnipeg Folk Festival. So excited to see Peter Yarrow. I brought a bag of my pamphlets advertising my book -"A Union Of People and Song" this book was a tribute to a friend, and labour union leader who rode the rails in the 30s and struggling finding a living during the Depression. But most of all, it was about the love of people brought together by music. And that was Peter Yarrow - people brought together through music. I met your father as he outstretched his arms and embraced all who came forward to be embraced. Crowds had wandered from the stage but many stayed. Stayed to be with a caring and very real human being who gave us a hug, and he said to me.."Oh, you hippies...you are everywhere."
- Terry Cooke
Dear Peter,
Growing up in the 60's was magical. When PP&M came onto the scene, they quickly became my favorite, and 62 years later, still are. Your music soothed me, your words moved me. Together, they spoke to me, to my heart, to my soul. Your messages, ideals, and actions influenced and inspired me. Memories made many years ago pop up in my mind by association when I hear your songs today. I had the great pleasure to have seen you in concert (as PP&M, Peter & Paul, and Peter solo) many dozens of times at various venues in many states. Throughout the years, I attended the concerts with friends and family, then with my own four children, then with my grandchildren, two of whom you chose, at different concerts, to sing Puff with you onstage. L'dor v'dor. Thank you, Peter, with love, for all you gave to me, personally, and for all you have given to the world. Your legacy will live on through the generations. Your memory will always be for a blessing.
Marilyn Wolf Jordan
Hello Peter
I have heard you have some health problems and am hoping someone can read this to you.
I want to tell you what an inspiration you are, and how I value your friendship. Your songs and the convictions expressed in them had a very real effect on me before we ever met, as part of what made me a conscientious objector in 1972, and that as a singer and songwriter I could make a difference. A year later, in 1973, I opened for you at Max's Kansas City for a week; it was my first real booking, and nervous as I was, I've never forgotten how welcome you made me feel. I didn't know then that's simply who you are! And there’s the time when I didn't show up for Kerrville's songwriter contest, you had me write to Rod Kennedy; the next year he booked me as a paid artist. In Washington DC we were there to sing at a rally and the organizers were blowing off the music; I asked to sing a song and you said "I'll sing it with him" and that settled that. Or the time I had to follow you on Pete Fornatale's Hungerthon; instead of leaving after your set, you stuck around and sang mine with me, unrehearsed, live on the radio. Or the numerous times you asked me to sing with you, at Kerrville, or Oscar Brand's tribute concert, or backstage at the Kravis Center, when you handed me your guitar and said "Play us a song, Rod." You even showed up for my 50th anniversary party online and blew everyone's mind talking about our friendship. Singing with you has always been a fantastic experience, fun, spontaneous and exciting.
I can't say enough about how you have inspired me, first with your--and Noel and Mary's--beautiful music, and when you said to me backstage at the 1988 Greenwich Village Folk Festival that you were inspired by us, carrying on the tradition you had taken up earlier. Through these years I have proudly told people we are friends, and now I want to say to you thank you, for your music, for your wonderful singing, and for being a wonderful friend indeed. God bless you Peter, you have enriched so many lives, both from the stage and in person, and I will always treasure the moments we’ve spent together.
Rod MacDonald
I met Peter not through his music or my being a NY area AM Radio DJ (and huge fan of PP&M) but we were in attendance at the same event during one of the darkest times of my life in NYC. Peter, having overheard me speaking came up to me and casually, with the care and the sincerity he always exuded spoke to me as if he were a big brother. For those moments and many from then on, one candle was lit. But, what I learned is that all it takes to see your way through the darkest forrest is just one candle, and to keep that candle lit. Thank you, Peter for that "miracle on 34th Street" and for all that moment and you have given me throughout my life. May your jouney always be peaceful and may you be rewarded many-fold for all the joy you have brought to countless others, B"H! I hold you near and dear. REFUAH SHLEMA!
- Len Schwartz
“There is only one river. There is only one sea.
And it flows through you, and it flows through me.
There is only one people. We are one and the same.
We are all one spirit. We are all one name.”
- Peter Yarrow (Peter, Paul, and Mary)
“When people sing together, community is created. Together we rejoice, we celebrate, we mourn and we comfort each other. Through music, we reach each others’ hearts and souls. Music allows us to find a connection. - Peter Yarrow
As I write, I am gazing upon a photograph of Peter, Paul & Mary with Pete Seeger at a legendary concert at Carnegie Hall in 2003.
"If you love your country, you'll find ways somehow to speak out to do what you think is right." - Pete Seeger
Peter Yarrow has always had the courage to speak out.
This afternoon, I am remembering a special day in my life.
When I was teaching at Abington Friends School in Pennsylvania, I had the opportunity to spend a brief moment in time with Peter Yarrow.
Peter, Paul, and Mary were performing at the Keswick Theater in the evening, but Peter came over to Abington Friends earlier in the day to spend some time with our students.
The Lower and Middle School students came over to the Mueller Auditorium for an impromptu musical gathering. Peter called up the youngest students on stage and instantaneously a wonderful and jubilant choir was formed.
Peter had been on stage for only a few minutes when his fingers started strumming the melody to “Puff the Magic Dragon” on his guitar. Many of the students weren’t old enough to recognize the legendary folk singer, but they knew his music, particularly the classic song about the mighty dragon and his departed playmate Jackie Paper.
As he played throughout his spontaneous concert, Peter spoke about the ideas of mutual respect and personal responsibility.
“It says it starts with bullying, it starts with pushing ridicule, making fun of someone, and it builds to racism, prejudice, hatred, war, Holocaust. If we want to interrupt the cycle, educators are a critical force in this.” – Peter Yarrow
In 2000, Peter founded Operation Respect, a New York-based non-profit that works to combat childhood bullying.
"I keep reminding people that an editorial in rhyme is not a song. A good song makes you laugh, it makes you cry, it makes you think." - Pete Seeger
Click the link below to experience Peter Yarrow’s beautiful rendition of a good song - “Don’t Laugh at Me”.
- Bob Wolpert
My parents shared the joy of Peter, Paul, and Mary with me when I was just a wee little girl, full of health and joy, and as avid fans, they brought my sister and me to a performance in New Orleans when I was 3 or 4 in 1984 or 1985. I was the biggest fan of Puff the Magic Dragon and could sing it word for word, even as a little kid. I was lucky enough to be invited up on stage as a little kiddo, and I remember Peter singing Puff, and he started singing, "Puff the Magic Dragon, lives by the bed," and in my toddler indignance, I said, "NO NO NO, THAT'S NOT HOW IT GOES!".
The whole audience erupted in laughter, and we sang the song "the right way!" together. This story has been told many times over the years, and it makes me giggle, even now.
As a child who has since grown into a casual musician, these types of interactions with the audience and families are unforgettable and have a lasting impact. I'm so thankful to have had the experience as a child and still listen to their music as an adult over 40 years later. Thank you for inviting us to share our stories. I wish Peter and your family peace and comfort, and let him know we shall be brave and keep the fearless roar going.
- Marian Toro
Dear Peter,
Twenty-eight years ago today, Herman Philips, a dear friend of my father and member of the NY Choral Society, brought me to a PPM rehearsal for your 1996 holiday concert. I met you, Noel, and Mary that evening, and had the heart-gift of being able to thank you, hug you. "Sweetheart," I remember you saying to me. At the end of the rehearsal, I gathered the nerve to approach you and ask whether I could take a photo with you. I never had such a joyous smile as in that treasured picture. For you had already begun to etch justice and hope, peace and purpose and love, into my heart.
I had grown up watching your early PBS concerts. And since I got my first PPM cassette and CD three years before that winter night in Riverside Church, and ever since, you have been a nearly daily presence in my life. I would love to talk to you now and tell you all about the role so many of your songs have had in my life -- Take the Chance, Sweet Survivor, Light One Candle, the Great Mandala, Don't Laugh at Me, and on, and on, and on. But I know you have countless more tributes to hear. So I will let you go now, soon to melt into the stars and the sea, and join the flow of that River Jordan. You will never leave my heart.
Love & Peace, Forever and Forever,
Eric A. Friedman
I have been thinking of Peter lately, just somehow knowing that he is not well. I am writing to send my love and gratitude. Not that long ago, Peter came to my community in Burlington, Vermont to offer a concert to our congregation. Peter’s generosity was extraordinary. We were all very inspired by his warmth, his message, his teaching us through song and story, and his heartfelt music. The concert will forever be a very dear memory. I was a devoted fan from my youth, when I would sit in my room and sing to Peter, Paul and Mary recordings—this was the soundtrack of my youth. Having enjoyed Peter, Paul and Mary concerts and then a solo performance Peter gave in New Jersey years ago, I couldn’t get enough — to this day, I am always singing his songs. When I had the chance to meet Peter through a mutual friend, it was an uplifting, memorable life moment. Two of my adult children were blessed to be with us when Peter came to Burlington. After I picked him up from the airport, he came to my home for lunch, which was also my son’s birthday. We cut the birthday cake and Peter sang a song he made up in that moment, to wish Judah happy birthday. I still open the recording on my phone when I want to be uplifted. That evening, Peter sang at our synagogue and, to say it was glorious barely begins to capture how wonderful it was. The messages in Peter’s songs and the caring he conveyed through story and song were an inspiration and a direction towards the sacred work of repairing the world, spreading love and friendship. Jewish mystical tradition says that in every generation there are 36 uniquely sacred souls—those who rise above the muck of the world and bring us closer to wholeness/holiness. I’d say Peter was one of them.
Peter was also very funny — when I picked him up at the hotel in Burlington, a woman noticed him as he waited for the elevator. After staring for a moment, she proclaimed, “Are you Peter, Paul and Mary?!” Without missing a beat, Peter smiled and said, “Yes, all three.”
- Amy Small
Dear Peter,
I hope these words find you in a peaceful and comfortable moment. I was born in the early sixties and can't remember the first time I heard your music. It was always there in elementary school. I knew the lyrics long before I understood them but somehow elementary school was the perfect place to have your music. In high school most of us were too cool or insecure to sing about Puff. After a first career in the Navy I returned home and followed some friends' suggestion to pick up the guitar and become a teacher. After over 30 years of teaching mostly kindergarten I have just retired. I taught and sang many of your songs and was given praise for how I touched so many hearts. Now I'm even getting paid in retirement to return every week to lead the sing along. But truly it was your songs through me that did it. Especially Puff! I was just channeling the authentic love I felt as I listened and watched your PBS specials. I was fortunate enough to have met you at the Garamendi Ranch in 2016. Your music continues to find new generations of appreciative listeners. I thank you for your continuing contributions to the hungry hearts of the world.
With great appreciation, Michael Bonomo
Peter and I have crossed paths several times over the years, including in 1987 at a demonstration on behalf of Soviet Jewry in DC at the U.S. Capitol Building, where he and Mary Travers performed on stage with Elie Wiesel, and many former Refuseniks.
He performed at the Isla Mujeres Folk Festival in Mexico in the Fall of 1990. While there with Chris, we sang songs together on a three-masted schooner, and enjoyed sailing near sunset.
His songs have been a part of my life since childhood, and I taught his songs to many children, sang them at concerts, rallys, and demonstrations. He is a part of my life, and through the ripples of influence of his spirit and music, will live forever through his music and good works .
- Janice Rubin
I first met Peter within days of my first Kerrville in 1987 and he quickly invited me to play with him. I was so excited as I'd grown up hearing him. I've included a picture from 1988, and enjoyed playing with him so many times. He often celebrated his birthday on the canoe trips I helped run from the festival and I wish I could find the picture of the year he took the rosemary from the smoked salmon (luxury canoe trip, NOT whitewater!) and tucked it behind his years, dancing about like Julius Cesar! And the picture hugging my mother not long before she passed. I was honored to play with him for Kerrville director Rod Kennedy in his last hours, after Rod had waited while Peter called from Israel, NYC and San Antonio to get there in time. Really, Peter is laced through so many important moments in my life. I feel so blessed, and I send such love and prayers now.
- Beth Galiger
I first listened to Peter Paul and Mary when I was a young boy in the early 1960's, in our small apartment in Union City, NJ. My brother, who is ten years older than me, belonged to various record clubs and had records mailed to our home. I would sit on the floor and play them all. I adored the PP&M 10 year Anniversary album. I learned all the songs and played them throughout my life, home, in parking lots and bars. I believe that G-D has given each of us to the world for a reason, to spread, as we Catholics say, His Good News. That is exactly what Peter Yarrow has been doing his whole life. Spreading the Good News of Love, Compassion, Empathy and Peace. A Hero of Civil Rights! May G_D keep Peter in the palm of His hand.
- Brian Murphy
Tears form as I contemplate what I’ve been reading about Peter’s situation… I’m very sad. And my thoughts turn to when I was a student at U.C. Berkeley and got to see Peter, Paul and Mary at the Bear’s Lair; a great thrill!! First I had heard of them, probably about 1963. Very fast forward to meeting Peter much later at Threshold meetings and the privilege of hearing him sing, still so beautifully… And the last time I saw and heard him was also in Berkeley, with a hug and CD gift at intermission. His music has accompanied me for oh so many years…. Much love, care and many blessings to you, Peter, and your whole extended family. Our world has been so much better for your Presence and beautiful voice. You will be greatly missed.
- Joanie Ciardelli
There are many special moments I recall starting with my first trip to the Telluride Film Festival over 2 decades ago to the special evening at the Graves’ with music by Peter and Christopher. BUT the most magical moment was when Peter came with Christopher to visit my husband Mike. Peter’s innate ability to communicate with Mike was so very dear to not only Mike and myself …but his caregiver as well. Bless you Peter for your heart with no borders. Something that our world do desperately lacks at this concerning time. You have impacted so many lives….the most precious thing a person can do….love mo
Dear Peter,
It’s not important that you remember me, but you reached out to help Tim de Christopher, who was a climate activist on trial for buying land in Utah to save it from fossil fuel extraction. You came to Salt Lake City for a fundraise, came to dinner at our home and I drove you to the airport for a very early flight. During this time I learned that you were so much more than the remarkable musician/singer I had known.
You were involved in so many causes, all revealing the active humanitarian that you were/are. And so I want to thank you for your exemplary life, which has touched so many. And I want to share a quote, which , as an artist, I have put in my art and that beautifully defines your life and character :
“This is the true joy in life: Being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one, being a force of nature instead of a feverish, selfish little clod of ailments and grievances, complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy. I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the whole community and as long as I live, it is my privilege to do for it what I can. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got hold of for the moment and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations.”
George Bernard Shaw
- Elise Lazar
I'm a 71-year-old musician who grew up listening to the Weavers, Woody Guthrie, Peter Paul & Mary and all the greats. Now in semi-retirement, I perform a couple of times a week for senior audiences with a focus on Jewish music. At this winter holiday time, I've been singing "Light One Candle" and, as always, I find myself tearing up when I sing the last verse - "this is the burden, and this is the promise, and this is why we will not fail." Now more than ever, I'm grateful to have this song to sing, and to carry the message you so eloquently penned to audiences of all ages. Thank you for writing my favorite Khanike song, and for all the gifts you have shared with the world! - Nina K. Gordon, Great Neck, Long Island NY
Dear Peter,
Thank you for enriching my life along with your enrichment of all humanity. Our dear friend Puff uplifts, inspires, comforts, and enobles all who remain children at heart, as Puff always will do. Peter, you rank among the righteous who in Jewish tradition keep the world going. The Torah refers to our sages as wise hearted. That's you: your combination of musical genius and deep seated humanity with concern for all, especially children, sets an example and provides inspiration propelling us to do our part to make the world a better, more loving place. Due to you and Operation Respect, victims of bullying will take comfort and courage, and would be bullies will refrain and reform. You remain a friend to millions who never met you but will always sing and humm your songs. But, I count myself so fortunate to have you and your friendship, and that of our mutual friend, Trudy, in my life. I rank among a select few who can say they attended High Holy Day Synagogue services where Peter Yarrow led prayer to the tunes of his folk music. Your encouragement of Sophie Gerson Healthy Youth and your performance at our Gala motivates me and us to reach as many young people as possible - that's why we put Puff the Magic Dragon as background music to our official summer camp video. My mother, the best judge of character I know, thought the world of you. She and I have always deeply appreciated and cherished knowing you and calling you, and Puff, friend. Thank you for being you!!! Love, Alan.
Dear Peter,
I started listening to Peter, Paul and Mary as a teen in the 60’s. Until I downsized two years ago, I had 20 PP&M albums plus your Peter album—and I played them often. Your music took me through down times, celebrations and everything in between. Long before there were playlists or Spotify, I made myself tapes of my favorite music each year for what I called my birthday tapes, as a gift to myself. I always had 2-3 of your songs on each tape, because your music touched my heart, and I loved listening to it. Your music was also on the tape I made to listen to when I was going through chemo, and needed the glimmers of light and words of hope that you sang. I was fortunate to be able to listen to you live in a number of the concerts you played in Chicago. And when you played at the Illinois Education Association annual meeting and invited us up on stage, that was a special moment for me.
I want you to know how grateful I am for the evenings on Zoom when you sang and reminisced at the beginning of the pandemic. The isolation of living alone combined with my anxiety about the pandemic made that a very challenging time for me. Your Zoom sessions offered me a sense of connection and something to look forward to—and they were a lifeline at a time that I badly needed one.
Your music has enriched my life and I thank you for the pleasure, support, hope and heartfulness that you have given me for more than 50 years.
Sending Love and Light,
Leah Shepard
My wife Mary Hughes was a elementary music teacher at Toth Elementary in Perrysburg ,Ohio
She directed a very successful faculty/Studenr choir and was asked to perform at a Principals Conference in Columbus in 2001 that was honoring Peter and his “ Don’t laugh at me “ message .Peter was in attendance and his joy in interacting with Mary and the students was priceless ! When I was introduced to Peter he grabbed me around the neck with a hug reserved for long time friends That is what Peter did for this world .He, his music , and his causes brought us to better place as we walk our paths Sending our love
- Dan & Mary Hughes
My story is that of millions of people whose lives were changed by Peter, Paul and Mary. They were the reason I took up music. I wanted to sing like Mary and finger pick like Peter. I was eleven years old. The joy I found in this lifelong skill has led to many many lifetime friendships including with your accompanist, Paul Prestopino, who helped me while I was running sound for the Princeton Folk Music Society, bravery in playing solo out in the world, those wonderful times busking the streets, and quiet nights when I am alone with my dog. Thank you on behalf of myself and all those millions of other players who might well have never picked up a guitar if not for you. Godspeed, my mentor. Much love, Skye
Hello Peter. The Dorsey’s from Eagle Lake are thinking, praying and telling stories about the days of swimming at the tower and the sing alongs at the beach fires. An older memory of mine was when you, along with Mary and Paul were performing at Mall of America. After the concert, friends and family joined for a social on the 4th floor. I was included with this, but as the concert ended, I realized that I had lost track of my parents. You 3 were leaving the stage and knowing that I would not get to the 4th floor on my own, my efforts to call your name, “Peter, Pat Dorsey from Willmar.” You grabbed my arm through the crowd and pulled me towards you and told security “family”. I lobbied for a moment to get the group name changed to Peter Paul Mary and Pat, but it didn’t stick. We then rode up the elevator together and had a great catch up moment since we hadn’t seen each other for several years. You cared where I was teaching and what I was doing. You made me feel that I mattered. I always felt that you were one of the most kind, loving, accepting, inclusive ….. people and you’ve made a huge impact on me and many others by being who you are.
The Dorsey’s -
Dave, DeeAnna, Colleen, Heather, Mike and I send our best well wishes and love to you, Christopher, Bethany, MaryBeth and the rest of your family.
Love the Dorsey’s
The first time I saw PP&M at Wolftrap Peter came out just before the end of intermission to drive the sound booth folks nuts doing a non performing sound check with "testing, testing" and seemingly endless finger snaps. Though a lifelong fan I thought Peter must be the most annoying fussbudget ever. Then Mary came out her solo set and we could immediately tell the difference. The whole second act vocal separation was much improved, crisp and sounded just like the studio recordings. I realized we had witnessed the ultimate in professionalism and learned my lesson in demanding the best of whatever venue in whichI may be playing.
- Michael Wood
1963. Christmas. I was in the 9th grade. I’d played the violin for years, but—having heard “Louie, Louie”— I realized we were not going to be lifelong companions.
Enter my Uncle, a man I barely knew. A man from Out-of-Town.
He came bearing gifts.
His to me was “In the Wind”, by some trio I didn’t know. They played music I also didn’t know.
Enter my Mother. I had been lusting over a guitar I saw in a store—a blue Harmony archtop.
What I GOT was a beat up (!)old Gibson flattop. With a horse head and a cactus decal on the front.
Yoicks!
Enter the Music. You three wonderful people taught me SO MUCH about phrasing and breath work and out-of-the box harmonies!! I cherished each new album and bought the books and
slowly, ever so slowly my beat up box and I grew. I learned to play the guitar listening to you, even though I never could play in those awful keys you chose. I had the Devil’s own time learning the chords to “The Great Mandala! Later, after I took up the string bass, I stole everything I could from Dick Kniss. In turn, I taught my little sister. (Sorry, we always ended up singing Mary’s parts.)
I dragged that old Gibson to family holidays and shared your tunes with all my cousins. All of them have passed your songs to their children.
And on and on, so it still goes.
At 75 I still play, though no longer on gigs. My 4-octave voice has settled into a deep bass, so I have been learning your and Noel’s parts. (Finally.)
This has turned into a book, so I will again sayTHANK YOU for informing my life with so much beauty. I love you.
- Geoff Albertson
Peter: I was not not born until 1967, so I got on to the folk music scene a little late in the game. But, fortunately, my Dad loves folk music, so I grew up listening to folk music, of which PP&M was the best. I was the only teenager cruising El Camino Real in Santa Clara, CA, in the mid 80’s listening to PP&M. I kick myself for never seeing all three of you in concert, but I did get to see you and Paul perform in Redding, CA, several years ago. Thank you for all the great music, and I thank my Dad for introducing me to it.
Tell me why youre smiling my son
Is there a secret you can tell everyone?
Do you know more than men that are wise?
Can you see what we all must disguise through your loving eyes?
And if you take my hand my son
All will be well when the day is done
And if you take my hand my son
All will be well when the day is done
Day is done, day is done, day is done, day is done
- Patrick Hurton
Dear Peter. In 1967 I was eight years old when I first heard a Peter, Paul & Mary record. There was much fighting between my parents and my Mom separated from him in 1965. We lived with my Grandma for a few years. My Dad had visits every two weeks and sometimes he left us with my Aunt Betty and Uncle Jules who would play your records, as well as Joan Baez, and Pete Seeger. It was at their place that I began to understand the concept of injustice, and how to be a kind person. I still live in Edmonton, AB, Canada, where I was born. Thank you for your music and the education. I have been a Quaker for over 30 years, and I will continue to hold you and your family in the light. In loving Friendship, Carmen Loiselle
Dear Peter, you are a significant inspiration in my musical life. I’d often sing your part in campfire sing-a-longs growing up and in the groups that I’ve played in.
When my kids were young, I was the sing-a-long dad at school with guitar and banjo. On the last day of school (end of term and closure of school) we had a last sing-a-long outside in the dappled sun under the shade trees. I asked the kids what song they would like to sing and keep in their hearts. It was unanimous. We sang Puff. I held my tears back until they were off to their parent’s arms. And then I wept. A rich cathartic soul deep weep. It was for all the times I’ve sung Puff and all the times it has been sung with the earnest hope both for our own innocence and for the beloved circle of friends raising their voices: until we meet again. Thank you for so many truly enduring gifts.
- Tom Tower
Dear Peter - I played the organ at the Ocean Grove Auditorium twice for P, P&M performances. The first time, our family was in the audience, enjoying the show, and during your solo spot at the beginning of the 2nd half, you looked up at the pipe organ and said "It sure would be nice to hear this magnificent instrument, if anyone out there knows how to play it". My wife said she leaned over to whisper to me that I should go up, but I was already on the stage! We did a piece together, "We Shall Overcome", I think. At the end of the concert, you asked me to come up again and your trio and I closed with "Blowin' in the Wind" I had been a P,P, & M fan since you first released "If I had a Hammer" (1962, right?) I went to quite a few of your concerts through the years, and got all your albums as soon as they came out. Playing with you all was the thrill of a lifetime. When we stopped at a gas station in Ocean Grove on our way home, someone from the car next to ours came over and asked me for my autograph! When you next performed at Ocean Grove a couple years later, I wrote you and asked if you would like an organist again. You said sure, and invited me to come to your rehearsal the afternoon of your concert. I was in the "green room" with you right before the 2nd half, and I asked you to play your intro to "This Land is Your Land" so I would be sure to come in at the right place. You sang the whole intro for me, a private concert, and I will never forget that either. Another memory I have of you is in the winter of 1964, the 3 of you were performing at the huge auditorium in Cherry Hill, NJ. For one of your solos after intermission, you led the audience in "Rock-a My Soul". I still marvel at how you effortlessly (at least it seemed like it was) taught 3 different sections of the audience their part in the song, and then put it together, and it was masterful, beautiful, and inspirational. My prayers are with you during your illness. May you know and experience the peace that you gave to millions of people through your music.
- Richard Frey
Dear Peter,
You welcomed me as a new friend into a life already filled with so many longtime dear friends. When I became the Senior Rabbi at Leo Baeck Temple, Ken Fritz's synagogue, 22 years ago, you were delighted to find out that the new rabbi was a folk singer/songwriter who had been influenced by you from the time of his childhood. You asked to hear my music, and we even sang together at a program for the temple community during the pandemic. It was a thrill to sing and play with one of my musical heroes... but it was an even greater thrill to get to know you... your kindness, your joyful imagination, your deep care about humanity.
You didn't need new friends... but you made one. For life. I will be among the many proud carriers of your legacy, and I will sing your songs with joy and spirit and hope for tomorrow.
With love and wishes for your peace,
Ken
The video is of PETER'S OWN WORDS, DECEMBER 2024 — Since I've only learned in the past 15 years or so that Peter was aware of my work, I don't have the personal history with him as so many of my fellow artists do. I had no idea that he had been to "The Hill" in Central Park over the years where I've been sharing music and stories and thoughts and feelings for the past 3 decades as "That Guitar Man from Central Park".
But like so many, from the moment I met this powerful yet gentle man in person I've felt like I've known him for a Lifetime. As I now make the transition from a career as a songwriter to the Life of a playwright, he is one of those rare people in music who can leave a tremendous impression on my spirit... just because of his gentle strength.
Just knowing Peter is an honor. But getting to work with him or Create with him is beyond beautiful.
Yes... Peter is all about Love, and Music, and Peace, and Goodness, and Decency, and Humor, and Kindness. But for me, with all of those beautiful words flying around him, if I had to choose one word to land on the man it would be... "Sincere". Even through his monumental physical challenge of the last year and the heartbreak of the last election, he agreed to introduce our "Year End" concert in New York City's Merkin Hall. Even though he couldn't show up in person, I know that his words, the feelings he shared with the audience that night will stay with them... just as his music his lives in so many hearts across the country and around the world.
As Peter would say... "Go well, my Brother. PEACE always."
— David Ippolito
Hi Peter,
Every Thursday afternoon, I bring my guitar to our local nursing home and sing for and with some of the folks there. They especially love to hear Puff. One day, an extra verse came to me:
“The years went by in dreaming
While Puff slept in his den
Then one day the Cherry Lane began to bloom again
Jackie’s little daughter had found their magic friend
For dragons live forever
And Puff’s story has no end.”
Thanks for all the music!
Love,
Sue
I was maybe 16 yrs old (mid-60s) when I saw PP&M perform in Pittsburgh at the Syria Mosque. Afterwards incredibly all 3 came out in the lobby to greet fans. In those days we had programs, and I asked Peter to sign mine. Looking straight into my eyes, he asked my name, and I told him Alison, and he said thats a pretty name... I still have that program... it was a wonderful moment for an awe-struck teen-ager to meet these heroes...blessings on your dad, so grateful for his/their music over the years. These current days are reminding me a lot of the 60s, and I remember well PP&M as anchors for a 16 year old to navigate that troubled world. Thank you Peter... may your journey be full of love and peace.
- Alison Loerke
I grew up from my earliest memories on the music of Peter, Paul and Mary, Pete Seeger, the Weavers, Phil Ochs, and Joan Baez. My parents raised us to fight for peace and justice and the music was such an integral part of it all. Watching so many elders who I learned so much from age and then make their transition to the great mysterious fills me with sadness but also with a deeper commitment to continue fighting to make this world a better place. Thank you, Peter Yarrow for being such an important part of my life and the lives of millions of others. May your days be filled with the knowledge that you have made a deep and profound difference in this world.
- Nancy Alach
I had been a Peter, Paul, and
Mary fan for several years before I finally got to see them live in concert at the outdoor Carter Baron Amphitheater in Washington, DC. It rained. And while we sat mostly drenched in our seats, Peter came out and said, “If you are willing to sit out there in the rain, we are willing to risk our instruments and sing for you. Peter was famously fastidious about sound and his instruments, but he wasn’t going to let the crowd down. What a show they put on and by the end we were all standing and singing and dancing in the rain. Peter, you changed my life for the better. All love and good wishes to you.
- Russ Walsh
Peter has been an inspiration and role model for so many artists through his music and activism; my own long music career started in part because of PP&M. He is an icon, a fierce advocate for all that's good and just, and a superb songwriter, singer and musician. His work and music for children shone a light on the path for my own. He has also been the kindest, most generous artist to me personally, inviting me to sing with him in concerts large and small: at PS 6, his children's former school, at the NY Botanical Gardens in the Bronx, at Barnes & Noble, the Cinema Arts Centre on Long Island, and most recently at the Suffolk Theater in Riverhead with him and Melanie the day after my grandson was born. Oh, the memories!
Stephen and I love you, Peter. I hope I get to go where you are, to sing with you again someday. Huge hugs.
- Patricia Shih
Dearest Peter,
During the early ‘60s, I saw you-all in concert, and again in the 2000s. “Puff” was always my favorite. My life, like Jackie Paper’s went from an innocent little boy on the prairies of Nebraska and my big old horse “Buck” to a career Army aviator flying much combat and classified surveillance missions resulting in a 100% combat disabled 83 year old veteran. If it were a perfect world, I’d ask you to compose and sing a “final verse” of “ Puff.” A verse where Jackie, in his mid-eighties and on his last legs, would once more venture to Honah Lee and Puff’s cave. Puff , in slumber, opens up his giant eye and recognizes Jackie. He gently raises Jackie up to his giant tail. They once more travel majestically on the boat and fade into the autumn mist of Honah Lee and into the “Great Forevermore.”
With Love and Prayers
Mike Blacker MAJ USA (ret)
In 5th grade (1965), my wonderful teacher (Frank Lyman) played a PP&M record in class and on his own guitar - during class! Though I may not have understood all the words' deeper meaning, even as a 11 yr old, the honesty and truth spoke to me and formed my social conscience which is still with me today. At age 11, I purchased two albums and listened to them (Moving, In the Wind) endlessly on my dad's stereo. Peter, your optimism and genuineness was true in1965 to this little kid, and in 2024 as a 68 y.o. retiree who still plays your songs on his guitar. Words cannot express what you, Noel and Mary have given me my entire life. You gave me an awareness and a sense of social justice and responsibility and tolerance for which I am eternally grateful. I was lucky enough to see you at Thalian Hall in Wilmington, North Carolina at a show several years ago where your son was with you playing a one string washtub bass, I think it was! What a joy to see you and shake your hand after the show! I also saw you and Mary perform at Cornell in 1982 or 83. Thank you for your spirit, wisdom, optimism and of course, fabulous music which formed my (and clearly, very many others) liberal outlook. May God hold you in the palm of his hand.
Love, from North Carolina
Richard Weisman
I first joined the NY Choral Society in Septamber 1990, and in February 1991, sang with Peter at one of the P.S. 6 concerts. I did not really know what to expect, but everyone told me it would be FUN! The day of the concert, he looked around the group of us "back-up" singers, greeting each person like an old friend. When he got to me, he stood back (I was the "newbie"), then pulled me in to a great hug, singing "everything is gonna be alright". Over the next few years, there were many concerts with the NY Choral Society and Peter, Paul and Mary, each one exciting, each one special. Fast forward to 2012 - I was with my two children (my husband and I met in the NYCS) in Barnes and Noble, waiting in line to have the new Puff The Magic Dragon book signed by Peter. When it was our turn, Peter looked at my kids, and I said to him - "I sing with the NY Choral Society, as does my husband - and these two are choral society babies!" He grabbed us all in a big hug, again like we were old friends. That day, the line was out the door - Peter came to the door and called out - "everyone will get in - don't worry!" He brought joy and, more joy, to us all.
- Maria Schwab
n February of 2012, Peter played a solo concert in Ephrata, Lancaster County PA. I was (and still am) a correspondent for the weekly papers Ephrata Review and Lititz Record. When I found out about the concert, I begged the editors to let me interview him. To shorten the long story, I spoke to him by phone for an hour and a half. We spoke about Puff, Don't Laugh at Me, segued into autism and other subjects. Towards the end, he told how Mary Travers spent her last days at home surrounded by her family. He said she went peacefully and in comfort. While we all would prefer the dragon live forever, I hope he reaches the end with the same dignity and grace. Thank you, Peter, for the highlight of my part-time career.
- John Crawford
Dear Peter,
Thank you for all your inspirational, uplifting songs. Thank you for your generous LOVE and caring that you easily share with so many people. I hold so many memories of special moments like tagging along to dinners after the concerts, meeting Mary Beth and your son, Christopher, singing along on stage and at the camp fire after rafting down the river, and all your kind words.
Puff the Magic Dragon reminds me to dream. Don't Laugh at Me inspires me to do more volunteer work and give dignity to those in need. Stewball reminds me to be persistent. Leaving on a Jet Plane is like a love letter to my family. Early Morning Rain is just so beautiful. Where have All the Flowers Gone should be sung more often. If I Had a Hammer leads me to do more activism.
I always loved the PP&M folk music the BEST of all that was ever out there. Your group has affected our history and our determination. I will always sing those songs. Please know that you have LOVE flowing to you from SO MANY people. I am sending you hugs and soft kisses on your forehead. I extend my hand of support to help ease you on this final path. Love to You from Valerie.
Peter, I was unbelievably lucky to get to know you when I was in elementary school at PS6, because I was in the same class as your daughter, Bethany. Peter, you gave so generously of your time, talent, and energy, that you came to our school, to our class, every week to sing with us and you were very much a part of the fabric of our lives. I grew up singing (and owning) all the PPM songs and albums and I will love them forever.
Just last week I was visiting my Aunt and "Leavin' on a Jet Plane" came on her car radio and I had that jolt of, this is MY MUSIC, and I harmonized with every Peter descant, from "Go--oh-oh--oh -oh" to "They don't mean a thing" to "I'll wear...your ring"...well, you get it. All of those glorious Peter vocals, I was singing every one.
So - for anyone listening (and Peter, I hope you are) - here is my story of how Peter changed my life - and I was lucky enough to be able to tell him this years ago, but I would love it if he heard it again now. Because he literally changed my life, and I will love him forever.
When Bethany and I were in fifth grade at P.S. 6 in Manhattan, our class took a week-long trip to some place in Connecticut where we stayed in...log cabins? tents? I don't remember. But we had a week at this place where we were sent to experience nature, beyond the boundaries of Central Park.
I don't know why, but somehow it was decided that we would have a talent show towards the end of this experience. I signed up to sing with a friend, who then decided she didn't want to do it. As a Very Shy Girl, with Very Few Friends, i don't know why I decided to do the show anyway. But I did.
I remember standing up in front of a class full of kids that didn't particularly like me, and who had been boisterous (aka obnoxious) through much of the previous content of the evening. And then I started to sing "The Rainbow Connection." And at some point, as I was singing...I realized the room had gone silent. And when I finished the song, there was loud applause. From kids who really, REALLY didn't like me. It was a revelation for me, that the way I could communicate with people was through song, through performing...
And here's the kicker - Peter Yarrow was there that night. He watched the whole show. He heard me sing......He HEARD me. A shy kid, who really needed some validation. And he pulled me aside after the show, and told me that he thought I had a lovely voice, and that if I wanted to pursue a career in singing, I might want to look into starting voice lessons...and...and...
His support, his encouragement, his faith in me led me to do exactly what he suggested. I found great voice teachers. I majored in theatre in college. I toured with musical theatre shows for many years, and am still singing and acting to this day.
I guess above all what I want to say is THANK YOU PETER (or, as we used to call you, in elementary school - "Pillow") - for spending your time with me, for introducing me to your music and for making that music a part of my soul...AND...for giving a shy, unpopular child love, advice, confidence...and for helping her (me) understand that being a unicorn is not so bad after all.
I will remember, honor, and love you forever.
- Terry Kaye
I most clearly remember Peter from rehearsing for the Peter Yarrow Sing-Along PBS special, where he generously invited me (as part of the Walkabout Clearwater Chorus) to join him in his apartment to rehearse. His passion was clearly obvious, and he worked with all of us to sound our best. But I also remember him presenting (with Noel) at a class taught by Mary at the New School in NYC. He spoke of his pride in writing "Light One Candle" as a Hanukkah song to "balance" with some of the Christmas music. As recently as last night, a friend wrote to my wife and me "Thank you both for the love, wisdom and support last night. In a better place today. Singing Peter Yarrow's "Light One Candle" line "Let anger not tear us apart!" Hit home to both (my partner) and me! And we pass it on to the next generation...
- Paul Storfer
Like many other, PETER YARROW is a musical hero of mine.
It was examples set by Peter and Pete Seeger and Harry Chapin that paved the way for less influential folks like myself to follow a course of social and community service with Music
When it was time for Woodsong 600th broadcast, I called Peter up and invited him to be the featured artist. As it happened at the same time, Rhonda Vincent was also available.
Peter & Rhonda for WoodSongs show 600. And Peter agreed immediately he even purchased his own plane ticket to come to Lexington to be on the show.
Just saying it was an epic evening would be an understatement. I say often that "love is the greatest transaction of the arts" and few reflected that love more than Peter Yarrow in his music, his social and community efforts and his writing. 
- Michael Johnathon
I was born in 1958, so my New York City boyhood developed over the couse of the tumultuous 1960s. John, Martin, Bobby, Viet Nam, racial strife, Hard Hats fighting Hippies, Abbie Hoffman, The Chicago Seven . . . and yet, artists like Peter, Paul and Mary kept me believing that there was a functioning love, an imaginative love that endured suffering out there in the world. There were Lemon Trees and Loving Dragons, and Early Morning Rain and they were all Blowing in the Wind. And when you all appeared on television, your words were always inviting people to love one another. It wouldnt be an exaggeration to say I loved you all, your voices, your smiles, your hearts. They were good hearts that I like to think helped “gooden” my own. I am so very grateful Peter, that you were in the world. Your benevolent witness helps me believe even these many decades later that the world is essentially a good place to be alive. I am rich with love and you and your singing friends, Mary and Noel-Paul, Pete and Arlo. John Denver Odette and so many more are some of the reasons why. The life-long friend you didnt know you had , John Ennis.
I have always loved harmony. Harmony in nature, harmony in relationships, harmony in the workplace, and just harmony in the world. Unfortunately, I never had a harmonious voice and so regretted it, as I loved to sing. When I sang, my friends made fun of me. It was enough to melt me into a corner. Then I heard Peter, Paul and Mary. I was enthralled by their harmonies. I thought, “I can find some harmonies somewhere within their ranges. Maybe I can sing! I listened to their music over and over, and over again, and finally found my voice (albeit, not a good one, but a happy one). I finally learned what singing was about.
Pure joy, just pure joy. Thank you, sir. Your music will live on. I sing it with my granddaughters. You are a blessing to this world.
- Judy Evans-Canner
On April 25, 2004 there was a PBS gathering at your apartment. I had flown up to it to be my daughter's guest at the event. I had met you a few years before when you were searching for a source for clear plastic thumbpicks. When you learned that the day was also my birthday, you whistled the crowd to silence and had everyone sing "happy birthday" to me. Later on that night you sang a rousing "old father time" at my request. That was the culmination of a lifetime of pleasure, joy and learning that I received from your work and example, along with Mary's and Noel's. You taught me many things, of life, the guitar and values. You were and are my hero. A good part of what I am today I owe to you. You made such a difference to me and to the world. Carry on, Peter, and may we meet again in another time and place. Thank you, thank you. There is only one river. Peace and Love, John
At the Elizabeth Barrett Browning middle school, conditions were dire. The hallways were chaotic and often dangerous. I was a new teacher and was elated, but concerned when I heard that the assembly was going to be with Peter Yarrow. My students what very short attention spans, and were quite loud. How could Peter, all alone in the school’s huge auditorium be heard? I feared a riot.
Peter spoke straight to the kids with respect. When he began singing the soft, familiar songs from my childhood, I was amazed to see the students relax, soften and one girl started sucking her thumb. Several fell asleep.
They loved Peter and showed that they were still children. It was a wonderful concert.
- Gretchen Loase
I became a dyed in the wool fan of Peter Paul and Mary the instant I heard their Blowing In The Wind on the radio in the early 60s. That has never faded and to this day, when I am traveling, in my head I sing their songs in my head. My favorite is and has always been Puff The Magic Dragon. A few years ago I went to see Peter perform in Raleigh, North Carolina. When he invited folks to come on stage to join him in singing Puff, I was up there in a flash. I was lucky enough to have a seat beside the stage. During intermission, Peter and I crossed paths and I stopped and said, "Peter Yarrow, you represent and express everything that I believe in." At that point he stepped up to me and gave me a huge hug. We spoke during the rest of intermission and again after the show. This experience was and still is one of the most thrilling and delightful experiences of my life. Peter, your voice and beliefs have been a guiding star in my life and will be as long as I breathe. God bless you for the good person you are!
- William Carrington
It was 1972. I was 22 and in the first year of a job I hated - but the pay was great. I would have rather been playing my guitar in Harvard Square. While attending a professional conference in Pittsburgh, I looked out the hotel window and wondered why a small crowd had gathered at Point State Park, where the rivers converged. Curious, I very unprofessionally left the conference to investigate. It was a free concert with Peter Yarrow on stage. When I returned home after the conference, I handed in my resignation, returned to Cambridge and started teaching elementary school, where I could play my guitar and banjo for my students every day.
- Tom Smith
Oh, Peter! I was 12 when Santa brought me my first guitar, a Ward's Airline, because my older sister asked for one! I was also fortunate that her being a teen in the 60's, she went to concerts and brought all the PPM albums for me to listen to!
So, as I told you in Brethren, Michigan last summer, I've been part of the Puff legacy for more than 50 years, playing and singing with family, including nieces and nephews, kids I babysat, church and school friends, at college coffeehouses, schools where I taught, and at parent programs, library story hours, of course with my own kids and now grandkids (who are loving your book you gave us), and even when we're singing favorites - at impromptu jams at a campground or festival or with friends and family - and those loved by our loved ones passing/passed. We hold you in the Light of Love and Peace.
Franny Holly and Rick DeZeeuw
Dear Peter,
I was quite saddened to hear of your illness and I do hope you can regain your strength to fight this thing! I met you in 2007 at Barnes & Noble in Los Angeles when our mutual friend, Sharmagne, invited me to go with her to meet you. When she introduced us, you looked at me with a knowing look. You seemed to have recognized me and asked when we had previously met. Although I had been to a few PP&M concerts in my earlier years, we had never actually met prior to this time. Regardless, you greeted me like an old friend and gave me a warm hug.
It was always a joy to see you perform and to sing your songs throughout my life. Meeting you reaffirmed all my previous feelings about you that you are a genuine mensch! Thank you for your music, your beautiful spirit, and for being an inspiration in these difficult times. And thanks for posing for some wonderful photos.
With love,
Michael Pliskin
You, Paul and Mary were my first concert. I was about 10 years old. It was sometime around 1964 in Norfolk Virginia at the old Center Theater which is now the Harrison Opera House. My Mom made my older sister take me. (I'm sure she was DELIGHTED to have her pesky little sister along.) I thought Mary was a goddess with all her costume changes and that fabulous long, blonde straight hair. Straight hair was in, not my wavy frizzy stuff. I was entranced with the three of you and your beautiful harmonies, and felt so grown up. My parents played your albums along with all the great folk musicians, bluegrass, gospel music and more. But you three, you were the best. Thank you.
- Leslie Henderson-Williams
I'm 76 and I have seen you every time PP&M came to Pittsburgh. The Syria Mosque where you performed was across the street from my college dorm and in my freshman year, my roommate and I risked breaking curfew to stay to the end of your concert. We ran to the back door toward the end, so we'd be ready for a quick exit and then RAN as only college kids can run (can't imagine doing that at our age now!), across the street and collapsed in a heap right inside the door of our dorm as we JUST made it. One of my favorite memories came from a concert some 15 or so years later was when our 3 year old daughter fell asleep in my arms, when we sat in the 3rd or 4th row, and awakened as you sang Puff the Magic Dragon. Mary pointed to her and we were thrilled! Rest well, Peter. You children's project is such a testiment of love for you and for your fans. Peace be with you.
- Cheryl McLaughlin
Peter and I know each other through his Toyota Land Cruisers. My business in Delta, CO repaired and maintained his 2 FJ60s over the years. When Peter stopped being able to travel to Telluride, he sold one of them to me. “Puff” as we call it now serves our family in the same role of trusty steed that it did for Peter, Christopher, family and friends for many years.
Peter and I had the opportunity to talk Land Cruisers several times over the years, but the conversations were never technical for long. He had a way of steering the conversation towards much more inspirational content! We talked about the spirit of these vehicles we both love. He explained that he believed they were sentient beings that could complain, and rejoice, and I agreed with him. We talked about how people should treat each other, and the conversations were always filled with love. They were indeed magical. It’s odd that a simple car can connect people in such a deep and meaningful way, but I will be forever grateful for the relationship and connection I have with Peter because of them.
- Jeremiah Proffitt
Dear Peter,
Decades ago, you and Paul and Mary sang at the Britt Festival in Jacksonville, Oregon.
I volunteered that night, so I got to sit on a blanket right off the stage. During intermission, I gathered my courage and spoke to you in accolades.
You made this young-at-heart old maid feel Loved, when you Kissed me on my left cheek.
I am a storyteller and have told that story countless times over the years.
THANK YOU!
EEhugs and Teddy Bear Love,
Kath.
P.S. I have all the trio’s songs on my IPad and play them constantly.
Dear Peter,
I continue to pray for your dragon strength and to send healing thoughts. I last saw you perform at Pier 26 in Manhattan a couple of years ago, and we had a chance to speak briefly afterward. The time before that was in Rockport, and that's when I learned that you had written a joyful conclusion to Puff the Magic Dragon-- Puff was no longer disconsolate, and I was-- and still am-- so glad! Thank you for your decades of music, activism, good humor, and sheer joy! I pray that, especially at this season of joy and hope, that blessings will surround you and your family!
- Nancy Wright
Dear Dear Peter. I am a 75 year old British person and I have loved your wonderful gift of sensitive musicality and the intensely moving and powerful songs you Mary and Paul brought to us from the early sixties onwards. I also have a deep appreciation of your integrity in standing up for peace and justice through those challenging and turbullent times. You are a true peacemaker and as a Christian I love, honour and respect all that you have stood for so wonderfully and courageously. Offered with my Love and Prayers for you at this time as with your lovely family in support you journey through this illness. Anton Green